Welcome to my page, please take the time to read the information I’ve provided to learn more about me and what I’m looking for.
My name is Ashley, I’m from Arizona but a long career within the Air *** has taken me all over the globe before ending my journey in New Jersey. I have since moved to Pennsylvania where I work with horses. My entire career was spent within the medical field and now I do what I love most, which is working with ***s. (If we align in both interest as well as what we are looking for, I will share more about myself.)
I am looking for a Man, not a boy, not a person of the male gender who thinks hes Gods gift to women, a MAN. It’s important that I share I am an Alpha female. That does not mean I’m a feminist. It also doesn’t mean that I feel the need to say, “look at me, look at me! I’m a bad bitch.” I don’t occupy that headspace 24/7 either. I’m just a Dominant female, who has had to work very intellectually challenging roles that required strength, quiet but steady leadership and calmness under pressure. So I understand what it is to be in control, to call the shots, to be responsible. I also prefer to lay that hat down in the presence of my man.
I believe in the traditional sense that a man should run the household. I also believe that he should be the one to make the decisions. That being said I do not believe in a 1950s style relationship. So if that is your jam, kindly dance your way off my page. The 1950s are over and that shits in the past. I believe a woman can take care of her man, serve him, cater to his needs but also hold his respect, affection and love. I am not interested in being a doormat or rolling over and playing bitch. My voice deserves to be heard and considered. This doesn’t mean I see devotion as weakness, it just means I believe it should be mutual. This is not a dictatorship and I am not interested in a do as I say dynamic. So Masters, if you are reading this and you want a pretty slave who does whatever you say and you haven’t earned it, I’m not your girl.
As an Alpha female you have to show me you are worthy of my submission. That I can’t trust that part of me, with you. It is not a part of me that many people get to see. Nor is it something that any man has ever had the privilege of receiving 100%. I am a Scorpio, I’m 37, I’ve lived a lot of life and I’m not an idiot. I am very smart, so much so that I see through most people and have next to no patience or tolerance for bullshit. I am extremely blunt. I am also very honest and out of this world loyal. You may have to work to possess me but once you have shown that I am safe with you. That your intentions are honest and true, there isn’t a thing I wouldn’t do for my man. I can be a slave, I can be a slut, I can be a pretty little submissive and the goodest bad girl you ever owned, but ONLY if I think you are worthy of it.
I need someone who understands what Dominance is. That knows it is calm, quiet, stable and loving leadership. That it is not loud or aggressive. That it carries the most powerful form of respect and care. I need a man who knows a woman is a reflection of her man, not just a possession or something to use up and throw away. I am not interested in casual, short term or meaningless. I am looking for long term. A relationship where we live our roles both in and out of the bedroom. I need open mindedness and someone who can see my inner darkness and star back at it with their own. I crave intellectual conversations and communication that is deep and profound. I want someone who can help me explore my submissive side and aid me in my journey of self discovery.
I believe a person can only truly understand their full potential when they allow all aspects of themselves to be explored. Even the ones that don’t come natural to them. For me that’s submission, but I know I have a submissive side. I want to bring it out and feel safe doing so. It will take me a long time to find the right person for this and that’s ok. The best part of being independent and having your act together is that you don’t need anyone to complete you. You come whole. So I’m looking for a partner, not someone to leach off of or be leached on by. I don’t have the patience for immaturity or games, nor do I play them.
I am a woman, a dark intellectual, a calm introvert and a hilarious bitch. If I sound like someone you may aligin with then send me a message and let’s find out.
Tell me what submission means to you.
Tell me what Dominance means to you.
Tell me what you are hoping to find.
Tell me what you crave in a dynamic.
