Looking for strings, or preferably chains. Rumor around town is that I am a terrible sub. I dont think thats the case, but its not the subs opinion that matters. Thousands of dollars of equipment and it gets such little use.
It is time for a major rewrite on here. I have been around the lifestyle for a long time. When I started exploring fetish, the Academy Men videos were VHS, the M4M chatrooms on AOL, you logged into recon based on defferent fetishes, there were great magazines around that taught so many things. I have been in a number of dynamics, ranging in lengths from single sessions to dynamics lasting several years.
I am listing my profile as 50/50 again because I feel that even though my eventual goal is a relationship where I find someone who wants a sub for a TPE relationship; that I have toys and equipment, and a fair bit of knowledge and could use that to be of service to newbees and lonely sexy nuns (or lonely subs).
I am shy (sometimes ***fully so). I have a lot of anxeity that does fade with time. I have been on a bit of a weight loss journey. I am down 91 lbs and would like to continue to improve my health .
So for the sub (slave, gimp, boy, pup) side. I like to feel needed,I like taking care of things (*), I like being called a good boy for being a good boy. I need to feel cherished (as a possession is fine.) I want sir (boss, master) to be proud of me. I want to feel needed and useful. Communication is important to me; I feel both the dom and sub should communicate because they want to, not because they are expected to (*). Even when I was in vanilla relationships, I enjoyed when my partner was proud of me.
I will start with current limits
***
(Lots of) ***
Women/Feminzation
Underage or ABDL
***s
I am open to nearly everything else, so
chances are good, Ill say yes. I get into the best headspace when bound or restricted, with several senses taken away. I originally signed up on recon under hoods and masks.
My top three fetishes are (in no particular order): leather (and boots), rubber (with boots) and uniforms (with boots). I love it when the dom dresses for the occasion.
I am HIV negative & as of my last tests STI free. I am tested every three months and am on PREP and Doxy PEP since 2017. If you have questions about STI testing or PREP, feel free to ask and I can point you in the right direction.
Now back to the sexy nuns. I am trying to view domming as service. I have alot that i can share with kink curious folks; toys ,experience, equipment. I will even lend a helping hand to fellow subs who are experiencing the dom desert.
Please have an.idea of what it is you want to experience. I have equipment for: butt play, inversion, spanking, CBT, electro and milking. I am not very into role play, I find it inauthentic. I find dirty talk hot, but its not something Im great at-remember more of a sub here. There are looks that I find particularly sexy for my guests: uniforms, leather, rubber, gymwear and other sportsgear, convict.
I can be found on other sites as tankR47. Telegram, Fetlife, Scruff, GROWLr, Bluesky, X & ***.
Lets discuss vanilla interests and kinks in more depth. As much as it ***s me to get rid of the lists, its probably best to discuss in conversation.
Interesting fact: the sound of chains often make me very horny.
If its not here & it's an interest of yours, lets talk...
Probably more one-on-one minded, but will try uncomplicated poly situations.
420 & poppers friendly.
