Find kinky women in Rhode Island

Prodomme and event coordinator. Currently poly saturated but always open to new friendships and professional connections. You can find me, in person at Platforms, 165 Poe ST, every Wednesday Night. I'm the trademark owner for KiNK Providence and one of the Dommes as well..Make sure to come say hi, I'll be behind the ropes of the dungeon. I also work the Playground in Providence for their bi monthly Fusion Fridays (combo of kink and swing) and am an event coordinator for kink providences sunday socials. Why am I telling you this? Between being a Prodomme, lifestyle educator, writer and an event coordinator I don't have many spoons for social media left. I teach consent and am passionate about its practice. If you start off with telling me what you want to do to me or vice versa...You'll either be ignored, ridiculed & have lost your chance. Mention blue in your message to me that you've read my profile. Mention blue eyes if you plan on attending one of my events and want an introduction.
Female (41) Providence, Rhode Island
I’m Alexis, I have lived in New England for about 2 years, originally from CO. I Emo girl by design, festival girl by night I like hiking, anime, video games, crafting, and live music No trump supporters, I will tell you lick rocks no judgement but I am not interested in matching with someone who is asexual, as that’s just not for me. I change my hair color a lot, it’s currently a few shades blue and purple
Open-minded, playful, curious... and horny girl here. I love live music and dancing, intelligent and thought-provoking conversation, traveling, getting drinks and eating good food. I could spend everyday, all day on the beach and soaking up the sun. A slut for attention, I crave knowing I’m your good girl when I've earned it, your dirty little whore when you take what you want, or a delightful mixture of both. I love toys and playing dress up to put on a show. I’m a bit obsessed with oil and lube.. I mean what isn’t better wet, right? I'm fit, clean, and take care of myself and attracted to those who do the same. I'm happily married and my husband knows I'm exploring on here. There are limits. My current interest is in dominant, feminine ladies to chat and play with but I'm open and curious. I lead a busy life so don’t be offended if you don’t hear back from me or I’m flaky at times with responding. Let’s chat and see what tickles my pantsy.. I mean, fancy.. 🛼🏻 Oh and guys, as much as I love a good cock.. it’s not sexy TO ME when you lead with that. If you look unkempt/dirty or your background is gross in your pics, I’ll likely ignore your messages.
Female (41) Newport, Rhode Island
Alright couple of rules 1. Dont be weird 2. anyone can message me, but if i feel uncomfortable at all i know what the block button is i will use it. or just not respond. 3. I will never post or show nudes. i am not that kind of person. that is earned not something freely given away. 4. I don't do hook ups nothing like that. dont expect it. Talk to me like a decent person. 5. I am not interested in couples or married men. that goes against every moral code i believe in so please move on. 6. DV and *** kinks ate two separate things. I like *** not being ***d. 7. You come into my inbox being weird and calling yourself "Daddy", I will block immediately. you are not my Daddy or my dom or my owner. I am not your little girl, sub or slave. I dont have patience or disrespect for that shit. Earn it or gtfo I will add more as i see fit. i am a full submissive, been in the lifestyle for going on 9 years. not currently looking for anything besides a sense of community within the other kinky freaks and some friends. i am kind and will talk to pretty much anyone but don't take my kindness for weakness. i will not put up with it. Hard Limits: Feet, Nipple Clamps, CNC (this is scary not sexy)
Female (27) Warwick, Rhode Island
I am looking for a 24/7 laid back dynamic, I am a BRAT, SO I AM LOOKING FOR A BRAT TAMER/DADDY DOM I am hearing impaired, loud and sassy, give me chance or dont, doesnt bother me. Most of my friends would say I have a laid back personality until something makes me anxious. Guilt tends to eat at me, When it comes to physical health, I exercise about 3 times a week, BUT i do work 6 days a week at a coffee shop, i have a love for deep voices, the act of my play partner/dom being possessive towards me (saying im yours, who do you belong to, etc) in scene. I love Fallout 3,4 and new vegas, skyrim, palworld, hogwarts legacy, sims 4, Persona 4
Female (28) Warwick, Rhode Island
wild off-roading master looking for a vocal dominant young stud to *** me and make me call him daddy! jungle drum and bass is my tempo
Female (44) Coventry, Rhode Island
puppygirl (no gear, hmu if you like spoiling girls) if your submissive pls don’t message me, I’m no dom compassionate respectful doms >> I’m not hooking up with just anybody but casual till commitment when we’ve both earned it >>
Female (21) Providence, Rhode Island
Hi! We are looking for someone with a big cock to fulfill our cuck fantasy. I (female) mainly run the page, but my husband is looped in throughout the entire process. We definitely have boundaries, if you're curious just ask. I have a strong preference of Latino/Black men, not interested in other couples/women. Be respectful and maybe we can have some fun 😊
Female (31) Cranston, Rhode Island
*I can't host.* Cheerful menace with a dark aesthetic. If Marilyn Monroe had a vampire's color palette, yes please. I have dry humor, psychological rabbit holes, good conversation, and creating elaborate bits that somehow become inside jokes. Equal parts self-reflection and goblin energy. I’m drawn to people who are artsy, stoner, goth or alt culture adjacent folks. Currently trying to cultivate more merriment, delight, and play. *BDSM - No performative dominance please.* It goes right over my head. Like performatively staring at me to flirt or over dinner just makes me wonder if you're having a stroke.
Female (39) Tiverton, Rhode Island
I'm honest an real, loyal, hopeless romantic, who loves music , poetry, bowling, traveling,going to the movies an horror is my fav, Halloween is my fav holiday..I don't judge cause no body's perfect..I'm older but wiser than most...younger in the bedroom..love younger men..an my age also...great communicator ..humorous an sweet...but also cuning an a bad ass..I have an live with my 27 yr old son who is autistic an ADHD..but very smart.....
Female (58) Lincoln, Rhode Island
I am a little girl that tries to be little when parents aren’t around. I wear diapers so if you have something against that. please don’t click on me. thank you.
Female (28) Newport, Rhode Island
not yours. I bite. crochet and small business owner by day, phone sex operator by night. looking for my Dom(me) 💕
Female (33) Cranston, Rhode Island
Looking for people knowledgeable in kink to hang out with for long term Fwb (or even just platonic friends to go to events with.) NO TRUMP SUPPORTERS, NO ONE NIGHT STANDS. I'm a thick, emo, Latina. I don't drink, smoke occasionally, and work overnights in a group home. I'm into video games, anime, cartoons, art, music, movies (like,,, really into movies,) and travel. I'm an extravert but can get along well with introverts too. My favorite kinks right now are pet play, cnc, and impact play.
📌 READ BEFORE MESSAGING I’m NOT sexually attracted to white men. 🚨Going forward, if you’ve actually taken the time to read my profile and feel like we align, before we spend days talking in circles and wasting each other’s time, ask for my little questionnaire 😌 I’m at a point where I value consistency, communication, effort, chemistry, and genuine connection. I’m not into random energy, surface-level conversations, or people who don’t know what they want. Physical attraction matters, but so does personality, effort, emotional intelligence… and let’s be honest, sexual compatibility too because life is too short for confusing vibes and trash sex 😂🚨 If you’re here, read my profile. It tells you exactly what I’m into, what I’m open to, and how to approach me. Ignoring it is the fastest way to get ignored back. Come correct. Communicate clearly. Confidence is sexy ,being fucking rude is not. ✨ About Me ✨ I’m 5’7 and fat. BBW. Plushie. Full figured. Soft, heavy, thick thighs, full breasts that aren’t perky, and a pillow sized belly feminine in a way that’s warm and real. My body takes up space and I’m comfortable in it. I move through life with intention . I’m grounded, sensual by nature, and selective with my energy. I don’t rush connections or give access easily. I connect best with men who value conversation, emotional awareness, and consistency. I’m a homebody. I don’t enjoy going out or planning dates. I’m most comfortable in my own space and drawn to quiet, calm environments. Loud scenes and constant activity aren’t my thing. 🌹🌹🌹 🖤 Real Life Transparency I am married and emotionally unattached from my marriage, so that’s stated upfront. The situation works for ME. and that’s all that matters. YES, he knows. I’m looking for one man for a discreet, ongoing friends with benefits or companion dynamic. Something intentional, respectful, and consistent. Not rushed. Not chaotic. I need conversation before meeting. FaceTime, Phone calls to see if we align. I become more comfortable and more attracted to a man the more I get to know him and feel secure in his energy. 🌹🌹🌹 🌙 Energy & Presence I’m a Capricorn. Steady, intentional, and quietly intense. I value follow through, clarity, and men who mean what they say. I tend to overthink. I open slowly, but when I do, it’s with depth. I’m drawn to men who are comfortable expressing interest, appreciation, and reassurance without pressure. 🌹🌹🌹 😌 What Draws Me In Calm, grounded masculine energy. Patience. Emotional steadiness. A soothing voice. Tone and presence matter more to me than looks. I’m attracted to leadership that feels protective, not overpowering. Confidence without ego. I notice appearance, but I connect through energy and how a man communicates. 🌹🌹🌹 🍑 Attraction & Appreciation Attractions & Appreciation should feel affirming and natural, never performative or fetish driven. 🌹🌹🌹 🖤 The Kind of Man I Align With ✔️ Emotionally grounded ✔️ Clear, communicative, and consistent ✔️ Comfortable with Black women and full figured bodies ✔️ Confident without entitlement If you know how to admire without reducing a woman, we’ll likely align. 🌹🌹🌹 🚫 Boundaries • I only meet in hotels (Warwick) • No same day meetings • I don’t respond well to pressure or entitlement • I will not call you “daddy” 🚫 Degrading Respect and patience are required. 🌹🌹🌹
Female (43) Providence, Rhode Island
I’m craving more feminine energy in my life with whom I can explore potential friendships, playships, or we-will-see-where-this-leads-ships. In an amazing forever relationship with a man who embraces both my vanilla and exhibitionist/kinky D/s sides and on this site with his consent. Also would enjoy the opportunity to spend a little more time at the hands of an experienced rigger of any gender.…please and ever so much thank you. There’s something beautiful about the trust and artistry of rope. I love to laugh, create and explore. Give me the wild outdoors, a garden, or the aisles of Home Depot (yes, really), and I’m a happy woman. I proudly lean into my inner nerd. Buttoned up, shy and socially awkward in vanilla settings. However, a kinky setting with like minded people, the clothes come off and the exhibitionist in me comes screaming to the forefront ready to perform and comply. Liberal, vaccinated and test frequently. If any of those things aren’t important to you, we won’t be a match.
Female (50) Tiverton, Rhode Island
I'm looking for someone I can have some fun with and maybe form a relationship with depending on the vibes😈 If you are going to get mad that I might take some time to reply don't bother messaging me. I am not dealing with that anymore
Female (19) Coventry, Rhode Island
Looking to connect with others in the community on a platonic level. No fwb but I'm open to a “flirtship” once we both consent. I'm demisexual so bonding takes time. I'm interested in connecting with folks that are putting in the work by being ACTIVELY IN THERAPY. I'm drawn to people with emotional intelligence. I'm a switch leaning sub. I'm creative and like to sing, write and play dress up. I love nature and I'm spiritual. I have a service dog because I'm a spoonie w a chronic illness (look up spoonie if you don't already know).
Use me however you’d like. If you love getting head you’ll love me ;) Super goth if you’re into that, obsessed with the more eccentric and unusual parts of life. I’m a switch and can do both roles well, whatever pleases you. Prefer women but anything goes. Open to sex parties and orgies. I’d love to talk about our kinks 420 friendly lets smoke together
Female (21) Providence, Rhode Island
in RI for the summer down for friends or more. a fling with nice dates, good food, and sex would be preferred not just looking for sex.
LITTLE 🎀 BRAT 😈 if you don’t know what DDLG is then don’t talk to me. 😩 . I’ve never had any of you colored boys 😩 homegirls telling me to switch teams 👀 , show me why we go black and don’t go back. 😚 #TakeMeToWhereAllTheDreadHeadsGo. 🤪🤤
Female (27) Coventry, Rhode Island
Just a sub seeking her master✨I enjoy being under your control, but mind you I am very independent, quite sharp (don’t hold me to it), and above all simply uninhibited. To put it nicely I’m a mega brat, EXTREMELY type B, genuinely a menace, and I will not be disrespected outside of the bedroom or I’ll absolutely ruin you😘. However do me right and I’ll dote on you until you feel smothered. I’m overall a good time but I will admit I don’t know when to stop being a good time so I hope you like to get lit. 420 friendly, drinker, smoker… I love the idea of monogamy but realistically find myself drawn to cucks, and enjoy threesomes. I’m hoping you’re strong minded, established, and most importantly down to try to tame me!
Female (24) Middletown, Rhode Island
Looking for something new , something interesting trying to have some fun see where things go and Vibe 420 Friendly and love the party 😉 ( a big Brat ) (please be in or Near my Area 🥺😖)
Female (25) West Warwick, Rhode Island
New to all this but I’m open and ready to explore what’s out there! you can usually find me reading, with my friends, working out, or cooking.
Female (34) Bristol, Rhode Island
I am a very curious person but in the kinky world I am more or less just a bratty submissive that likes to push buttons but backs off when needed. Hmu with any questions! To be blatantly honest. I’m still kinky, but not as much anymore. I’m Christian, and I am wanting to date. FWB is fine just amuse me for quality time/conversation before intimacy! Right now I really need companionship and just someone to talk with over the phone. Basically a cyber daddy. I miss being held so much and just being able to talk with a daddy/dom. No nudes! Unless a relationship is established! 💞💌 **Desires and Fantasies** Ask!
Female (25) Manville, Rhode Island

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Alright couple of rules 1. Dont be weird 2. anyone can message me, but if i feel uncomfortable at all i know what the block button is i will use it. or just not respond. 3. I will never post or show nudes. i am not that kind of person. that is earned not something freely given away. 4. I don't do hook ups nothing like that. dont expect it. Talk to me like a decent person. 5. I am not interested in couples or married men. that goes against every moral code i believe in so please move on. 6. DV and *** kinks ate two separate things. I like *** not being ***d. 7. You come into my inbox being weird and calling yourself "Daddy", I will block immediately. you are not my Daddy or my dom or my owner. I am not your little girl, sub or slave. I dont have patience or disrespect for that shit. Earn it or gtfo I will add more as i see fit. i am a full submissive, been in the lifestyle for going on 9 years. not currently looking for anything besides a sense of community within the other kinky freaks and some friends. i am kind and will talk to pretty much anyone but don't take my kindness for weakness. i will not put up with it. Hard Limits: Feet, Nipple Clamps, CNC (this is scary not sexy)
Female (27) Warwick, Rhode Island
I’m Alexis, I have lived in New England for about 2 years, originally from CO. I Emo girl by design, festival girl by night I like hiking, anime, video games, crafting, and live music No trump supporters, I will tell you lick rocks no judgement but I am not interested in matching with someone who is asexual, as that’s just not for me. I change my hair color a lot, it’s currently a few shades blue and purple
wild off-roading master looking for a vocal dominant young stud to *** me and make me call him daddy! jungle drum and bass is my tempo
Female (44) Coventry, Rhode Island
Open-minded, playful, curious... and horny girl here. I love live music and dancing, intelligent and thought-provoking conversation, traveling, getting drinks and eating good food. I could spend everyday, all day on the beach and soaking up the sun. A slut for attention, I crave knowing I’m your good girl when I've earned it, your dirty little whore when you take what you want, or a delightful mixture of both. I love toys and playing dress up to put on a show. I’m a bit obsessed with oil and lube.. I mean what isn’t better wet, right? I'm fit, clean, and take care of myself and attracted to those who do the same. I'm happily married and my husband knows I'm exploring on here. There are limits. My current interest is in dominant, feminine ladies to chat and play with but I'm open and curious. I lead a busy life so don’t be offended if you don’t hear back from me or I’m flaky at times with responding. Let’s chat and see what tickles my pantsy.. I mean, fancy.. 🛼🏻 Oh and guys, as much as I love a good cock.. it’s not sexy TO ME when you lead with that. If you look unkempt/dirty or your background is gross in your pics, I’ll likely ignore your messages.
Female (41) Newport, Rhode Island
Prodomme and event coordinator. Currently poly saturated but always open to new friendships and professional connections. You can find me, in person at Platforms, 165 Poe ST, every Wednesday Night. I'm the trademark owner for KiNK Providence and one of the Dommes as well..Make sure to come say hi, I'll be behind the ropes of the dungeon. I also work the Playground in Providence for their bi monthly Fusion Fridays (combo of kink and swing) and am an event coordinator for kink providences sunday socials. Why am I telling you this? Between being a Prodomme, lifestyle educator, writer and an event coordinator I don't have many spoons for social media left. I teach consent and am passionate about its practice. If you start off with telling me what you want to do to me or vice versa...You'll either be ignored, ridiculed & have lost your chance. Mention blue in your message to me that you've read my profile. Mention blue eyes if you plan on attending one of my events and want an introduction.
Female (41) Providence, Rhode Island
I am looking for a 24/7 laid back dynamic, I am a BRAT, SO I AM LOOKING FOR A BRAT TAMER/DADDY DOM I am hearing impaired, loud and sassy, give me chance or dont, doesnt bother me. Most of my friends would say I have a laid back personality until something makes me anxious. Guilt tends to eat at me, When it comes to physical health, I exercise about 3 times a week, BUT i do work 6 days a week at a coffee shop, i have a love for deep voices, the act of my play partner/dom being possessive towards me (saying im yours, who do you belong to, etc) in scene. I love Fallout 3,4 and new vegas, skyrim, palworld, hogwarts legacy, sims 4, Persona 4
Female (28) Warwick, Rhode Island
Psychology student, photographer, gym lover, and always planning my next adventure. I love hiking, camping, tattoos, spooky vibes, and conversations that make you lose track of time. I fall for curious minds, genuine hearts, and people who can make me laugh.
Female (44) Warwick, Rhode Island
not yours. I bite. crochet and small business owner by day, phone sex operator by night. looking for my Dom(me) 💕
Female (33) Cranston, Rhode Island
Discreet because of work. Heavily tattooed and that makes me very identifiable. Happy to send pictures and videos when we connect. Virtual, short term or long term as long as the vibe is there.
Female (30) Westerly, Rhode Island
*I can't host.* Cheerful menace with a dark aesthetic. If Marilyn Monroe had a vampire's color palette, yes please. I have dry humor, psychological rabbit holes, good conversation, and creating elaborate bits that somehow become inside jokes. Equal parts self-reflection and goblin energy. I’m drawn to people who are artsy, stoner, goth or alt culture adjacent folks. Currently trying to cultivate more merriment, delight, and play. *BDSM - No performative dominance please.* It goes right over my head. Like performatively staring at me to flirt or over dinner just makes me wonder if you're having a stroke.
Female (39) Tiverton, Rhode Island
puppygirl (no gear, hmu if you like spoiling girls) if your submissive pls don’t message me, I’m no dom compassionate respectful doms >> I’m not hooking up with just anybody but casual till commitment when we’ve both earned it >>
Female (21) Providence, Rhode Island
I am very out going. love the outdoors. have a boat , fishing hiking, camping. full of tatoos. aexy blackface Indian, Portuguese and Italian. committed, out going and sexual for my one and only
Female (42) Warren, Rhode Island
KiNK Providence is New Englands Only Weekly Fetish Night! Held at Alchemy, 171 Chestnut Street, on Wednesday Nights from 9:30PM-1AM. Pro dom/mes and Service Tops are available to guide you through your fetish desires, such as (but not limited to) IMPACT, ELECTRICAL, & ENERGY play. Wish to play with your own person? Rent-a-stations are available upon request. There is no sex at this event, KiNK Providence is held at a public nightclub so no vetting required.
Female (40) Providence, Rhode Island
I can be submissive, I can be dominant, but mostly I'm a switch. I am an artist and writer by day, but by night (only on a full moon), I turn into a vicious creature. I'm here to make friends with other women and will look forward to love.
Female (22) Warwick, Rhode Island
I am a little girl that tries to be little when parents aren’t around. I wear diapers so if you have something against that. please don’t click on me. thank you.
Female (28) Newport, Rhode Island
love to go outside and do things outdoors. I would love to try things outside with my partner and try not getting caught. I haven’t tried a lot of things. So this may break me out of my shell and help me learn about myself. Also I’m a trauma survivor so slow is always better in my case. if you don’t know, I’d prefer you ask about it. and enthusiastic consent is always needed before trying anything.
Looking for people knowledgeable in kink to hang out with for long term Fwb (or even just platonic friends to go to events with.) NO TRUMP SUPPORTERS, NO ONE NIGHT STANDS. I'm a thick, emo, Latina. I don't drink, smoke occasionally, and work overnights in a group home. I'm into video games, anime, cartoons, art, music, movies (like,,, really into movies,) and travel. I'm an extravert but can get along well with introverts too. My favorite kinks right now are pet play, cnc, and impact play.
💛WE ARE BOTH PLUS SIZED!💜 We are a nerdy married couple looking to explore/experiment in the kink scene. We’re looking for couples to be friends with first and potential fwb/occasional hook-ups. Cyber fun/flirting is fine, but in person sex will take some time! 💛💜
Female (27) Coventry, Rhode Island
Couple looking for female for a fun night tell me what you are open to on a spicy night together with us mainly for the female of the relationship (me)
Female (20) Pawtucket, Rhode Island
🖤 Sweet submissive kitten recovering from heartbreak 🖤 Currently focusing on self-improvement (mind & body) & getting back to practicing mindfulness and gratitude 🖤 Keeping my eye out for an emotionally available Daddy Dom
looking to explore & have some fun 😊 i want more bi friends I love pegging 💘 I love role playing, dressing up, & goddess treatment I like dom & sub men, femme women only I want to experiment with slaves… eat me & serve me 🥰
Female (34) Cranston, Rhode Island
Subby queer femme seeking grounded, intentional dominance and a steady hand. Daddy Dom energy. Emotional safety and respect are non-negotiable. I’m drawn to masculine presence across genders, preferably within the queer community: butch, stone, trans, and nonbinary folks. Connection matters more than the label. Queer community welcome for play, non-play, friendship, and mutual care.
Artist. Audiophile. Model. Avid collector of vintage lingerie. Old soul, almost misanthrope with a tea obsession. Buzz always, bush always- neither will change. Both are lovingly maintained. Loud moaner and very occasional stoner. If I’m not ***ting, I’m cooking. Test frequently, lover of all things sensual. I prefer jazz clubs over raves, Gin over Prosecco, velvet gowns over nylon miniskirts. Looking for another generous conversationalist like myself, who sips and doesn’t gulp. Someone who knows how to savor. My only weakness is sweets.
Single mom going through horrible divorce done a lot of healing. looking to explore. have been a married couples bitch recently. looking for some fun chats and see where things go. I'm not looking to talk about what's going on with my personal life. I'm looking for an escape. Where I don't need to think.
Female (43) Coventry, Rhode Island

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