only looking for irl stuff like dates/hookups i wont send🚫 (didn’t know i couldn’t change my username when i made this) will show my face once we start talking

queer, fat, feminist, body positive, sub, brat HEADS UP. I’m only subby in the bedroom or an established D/s dynamic. If you’re looking for someone who’s not going to challenge you, keep looking. I recently ended a long term relationship to work on and reconnect with myself, and kink is part of that. I’m not new to kink, but I am sort of new to seeking play partners - in the past I’ve mainly played with romantic partners and IRL friends. What I’m currently looking for: a masc-of-center Dom to play with IRL. I’d love to be friends outside of play, but I’m not looking for a serious romantic relationship. I can be a brat or a good girl depending on my partner and my mood, but in an ideal connection I get to be a bit of both. I like to serve and to challenge. I like to play. I like to make people feel good, physically and otherwise. In return, I want someone to offer me the safety to let go. The list of what I’m into is long, but I’m not expecting anyone to be into -all- of the same things as me: First off, consent and communication. If you don’t think consent is sexy, we are not compatible. Full stop. Move along. If you’re still here - I like the stoplight system, as well as agreeing on nonverbal communication (ex. one tap for “I’m good”, two taps for “pause”) because I do tend to go nonverbal in subspace. That said, I’m open to a partner’s preferences on how exactly consent is communicated, as long as we -are- communicating. Explicitly knowing that my partner is into what’s happening, and them wanting to know that I am into what’s happening, is genuinely a huge turn on for me. power exchange, gentle doms, teasing and being teased, impact play, sensuality, being a brat and getting put in my place, nipple play, anal, discipline, primal play, multiple orgasms, your hand around my throat, getting spanked… there’s more but I’m tired of typing at the moment.

queer, fat, feminist, body positive, sub, brat HEADS UP. I’m only subby in the bedroom or an established D/s dynamic. If you’re looking for someone who’s not going to challenge you, keep looking. I recently ended a long term relationship to work on and reconnect with myself, and kink is part of that. I’m not new to kink, but I am sort of new to seeking play partners - in the past I’ve mainly played with romantic partners and IRL friends. What I’m currently looking for: a masc-of-center Dom to play with IRL. I’d love to be friends outside of play, but I’m not looking for a serious romantic relationship. I can be a brat or a good girl depending on my partner and my mood, but in an ideal connection I get to be a bit of both. I like to serve and to challenge. I like to play. I like to make people feel good, physically and otherwise. In return, I want someone to offer me the safety to let go. The list of what I’m into is long, but I’m not expecting anyone to be into -all- of the same things as me: First off, consent and communication. If you don’t think consent is sexy, we are not compatible. Full stop. Move along. If you’re still here - I like the stoplight system, as well as agreeing on nonverbal communication (ex. one tap for “I’m good”, two taps for “pause”) because I do tend to go nonverbal in subspace. That said, I’m open to a partner’s preferences on how exactly consent is communicated, as long as we -are- communicating. Explicitly knowing that my partner is into what’s happening, and them wanting to know that I am into what’s happening, is genuinely a huge turn on for me. power exchange, gentle doms, teasing and being teased, impact play, sensuality, being a brat and getting put in my place, nipple play, anal, discipline, primal play, multiple orgasms, your hand around my throat, getting spanked… there’s more but I’m tired of typing at the moment.

only looking for irl stuff like dates/hookups i wont send🚫 (didn’t know i couldn’t change my username when i made this) will show my face once we start talking