Find kinky women in South Dakota

If you message me instantly wanting in my pants… I probably won’t message back. I’m not a quick easy time, I choose to only have one Dom (I’m single rn) and I like my men possessive. other than that, Hi!! 💜 I’m Kate, I love dark romance, reading, cooking, and cuddling up in a fuzzy blanket on the couch on my off days. I live at the gym early in the morning trying to better myself. Don’t be afraid to say hi
Female (33) Box Elder, South Dakota
I’m someone who believes life’s best moments are even better when shared with the right person, whether we’re exploring new places, tackling goals together, or just enjoying a quiet night in. I’m all about mutual respect, honesty, and supporting each other in every aspect of life — emotionally, mentally, and physically. If you’re someone who wants both adventure and stability, who enjoys good conversation and can appreciate the small things, let’s see where this could go.
Female (45) Rapid City, South Dakota
I command with a smile and break you with kindness. I want a submissive who doesn’t just serve, but inspires—who lets go with grace and trusts with wild devotion.
Female (21) Sioux Falls, South Dakota
I travel for work so my location changes often want a nice Dd/lg hook up while in your area not in to endless chats lets connect… if you are over 70 to the front of the line…
Female (57) Rapid City, South Dakota
Wandering the path with a leash in her mouth, she is a dog without an owner—content in her own right, yet seeking the one hand meant to hold it. She walks wiser now, a free pup full of life, seeking shelter not in the closest form, but in a kindred soul. She looks for an Owner who is strong enough to lead, yet kind enough to listen; a dynamic where she can kneel in devotion, yet stand as an equal in truth. She dreams of a home filled with the scent of meals prepared with care, where she is spoiled with affection and kept safe. She seeks an Owner who navigates the full spectrum of the storm—from the softest, tenderest praise to the high-intensity rush of total surrender. In return for his guidance, she offers absolute devotion. She is a pet who finds her peace in service—taking pride in keeping his sanctuary pristine, anticipating his needs, and living to please. Her loyalty is unshakeable, her obedience a gift given freely to the one who earns it. She brings a heart that wants to serve, to make life softer, to be the peace at the end of a long day. Until she finds Him—the one whose strength is steady, whose kindness is instinct, and whose love is honest—she walks her path with pride. Happy, hopeful, and saving her submission for the one who deserves it.
Female (31) Sioux Falls, South Dakota
✨ I am a proud, clingy, emotional submissive or Dominant depending on if I will submit to you. i love being obsessed with my partner as much as he is with me ?✨ praise and affection make this sluts heart melt.
Female (28) Stickney, South Dakota
Hi I’m Maddie. I’m 19 years old. It’s nice to meet you. I’ve never been in a BDSM relationship. I want to try it out. ❤️
Female (19) Sioux Falls, South Dakota
Im a feral wife not a gf. Not married but I do wife shit. I do my own handyman work my own mechanical work on my car. I pay my own bills. Im not here for hook ups. I will ignore you for it too. Im not into drama or being lied to. I recently found our I have a heart condition. Won't reply to bs. Im a sinlge mom of a 17 yr old son! Im crazy too. So, play if you want to!! You gotta be stalker crazy for me baby.
Female (36) Brandon, South Dakota
I am a single female who has a kind, caring heart who doesn't judge anyone. I am looking for another female to come have some fun and maybe get to know each other and possibly get a little wild and hot. Must have a good heart and an open mind and cannot be judgmental. Also looking for another female to join me for a 3some with me, her and my hot man (who is black like I said CANNOT BE JUDGEMENTAL and have an OPEN MIND.
Female (49) Sioux Falls, South Dakota
Open minded and an open book, always willing to try new things and enjoy when my partner tries new things too. Also don’t be afraid to sit on my face ;)
Female (23) Sioux Falls, South Dakota
Hey there! My name is Cat I’ve never been married, nor do I have any human *** (I do have an 8yo fur child). Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, FB dating? Tried them all and it’s always the same. Truthfully, I’m looking for a steady friend with benefits when I have really stressful days at work.
Female (29) Rapid City, South Dakota
hi im bi and a sub! I’m looking for a girl or couple to play with me and my husband I/ we love watching iykyk. we are very open minded as a couple! it doesn’t have to be both of us, but it can be if you want always willing to just be friends too! 😌
Female (23) Brandon, South Dakota
1. I care about authenticity. 2. Conversations first… sexy talk second… 3. I will always reply to you. 4. My Traits… I’m primarily a submissive with a bratty side. 5. Why Am I Here? - Boredom - Book Research (Ask me) - Experiences if we decide to meet up. - Friends (no sexiness) - FWB
approach correctly. for the love of god do not hit me up saying “hey” or “how’s your day” i will not respond. be mf original only looking for locals to work w. free task- be a good girl and follow & engage w my x @sendtomolly training grown men to be good girls >
Female (22) Brookings, South Dakota
I enjoy going hiking camping during the summer and during winter I like to stay in watch movies cuddles.I like to watch paranormal movies/shows. I am happily married to my husband for 10 years and we are just find someone who is willing to join our relationship or even just find friends
Female (35) Sioux Falls, South Dakota
Hey, I'm becks. I'm fairly new to the kink world, but I know vanilla doesn't interest me. I am a bratty demisexual agoraphobic submissive. I try to join my local kink community when I can, I would like to have a partner in crime to enjoy those events with. Please refrain from using any honorifics (baby, baby girl ect). I haven't earned the right to be called them, and you haven't earned the right to call me them.
Female (36) Sioux Falls, South Dakota
I'm a sub, switch, brat, curious person. Looking for a strong but caring and compassionate Dom (in and out of the bedroom) ultimately for a ltr; I've done a poly situation....as the third I was the low hanging fruit when life got difficult, so not looking to repeat that. Definitely not looking for an intimate partner off the bat cause I need to build a quality connection without the false attachment that sex creates (for me)....but free to platonically date, conversate, affection, and/or friend with people. I'm a curious, smart-ish, sarcastically funny girl who is pragmatic, ethical, and an old soul. I like lots of different topics and life experiences and I bring value to the table, but am just a human bean at the end of the day...with all that entails. I hope to find a mutually caretaking and fun partner. :) And in spite of the vast amount of 20-somethings shooting their shots, it's just not going to work with me...I feel the ick. But I wish you luck out there! Diagnosed with breast cancer in January 2025. Good outlook, completed treatments and surgeries in 25 and big reconstruction surgery scheduled in mid 2026. As such, please spare me the shallow shenanigans, definitely not interested and don't have the energy to navigate false intentions. ;) "Real" connections only pretty please.
Female (44) Rapid City, South Dakota
I am a big girl who is looking for something on the serious sides. I am a family girl, I love my family and friends so if you dont get along with them then itll be a tough sell. I have 2 dogs and I love reading and gaming.
Female (28) Sioux Falls, South Dakota
BDSM novice, but definitely curious! Love it when you tell me I'm a good girl....love it more when you spank me for being bad 😏
Female (36) Rapid City, South Dakota
hey! kinky girl looking for an fwb to have some fun with. I’m open to almost anything and I’m down to fulfill fantasies if you promise to fulfill some for me too 💞💞 goth baddie when I get ready
Female (18) Tea, South Dakota
I’m a new MILF, Hotwife, and Vixen. love the lifestyle and love to have fun and make friends.
Female (30) Rapid City, South Dakota
I’m a playful, bratty little sub with an obedient heart and a soft, mischievous energy. I love teasing just enough to earn attention, but I always settle into my place when I’m met with steady, confident dominance. I’m currently in a committed D/s relationship, and with full transparency and consent, we’re looking for an additional partner who fits well with our dynamic. I thrive with someone who enjoys playful brattiness, gentle structure, and a little who responds to warmth, patience, and a firm hand when needed. I give my best when I feel safe, understood, and guided — beneath the sass, I’m loyal, affectionate, and eager to make the right person feel valued and respected.
🌑🦄 The Dark Unicorn 🦄🌑 I’m new to the lifestyle — still learning what I like, who I am here, and how my chaos fits into this world. A tall, plus-sized country girl with roots in dirt roads and bass-heavy nights, carrying fire, glitter, and menace in equal measure. ✨ Who I Am: Witchy, bratty, Leo fire wrapped in sparkle & storm A mother, a fighter, a healer, and unholy chaos incarnate Big, bold, curvy, and unapologetically powerful Brat enough to push buttons — but I can be calmed with blunts, tacos, and coffee/Red Bull Country roots + dark unicorn soul = sweet tea spiked with gasoline 🔥 What I Bring: Curiosity of a newbie, power of a storm Sass, laughter, claws, and cuddles — sometimes all at once Loyalty and fire for those who honor my limits Glitter skulls, wicked humor, and dangerous sweetness 🖤 What I Want: Patience & guidance as I explore this path Playmates and partners who respect limits and crave depth, not just quick thrills A space to grow, misbehave, and wield my dark sparkly chaos without apology ✨ Final Word: I am tall, curvy, loud, shiny, and unholy. A dark unicorn who laughs in the storm and burns brighter than ***. Handle me right, and maybe you’ll earn the privilege of taming me with blunts, tacos and Red Bull. 🦄⚡🔥
Female (38) Sturgis, South Dakota
easy to get along with but if you *** me off you'll make other enemy very quickly I love the harder than everybody and I believe in freedom of expression that you should do as you please whenever you want
Female (34) Sioux Falls, South Dakota

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I’m someone who believes life’s best moments are even better when shared with the right person, whether we’re exploring new places, tackling goals together, or just enjoying a quiet night in. I’m all about mutual respect, honesty, and supporting each other in every aspect of life — emotionally, mentally, and physically. If you’re someone who wants both adventure and stability, who enjoys good conversation and can appreciate the small things, let’s see where this could go.
Female (45) Rapid City, South Dakota
I command with a smile and break you with kindness. I want a submissive who doesn’t just serve, but inspires—who lets go with grace and trusts with wild devotion.
Female (21) Sioux Falls, South Dakota
If you message me instantly wanting in my pants… I probably won’t message back. I’m not a quick easy time, I choose to only have one Dom (I’m single rn) and I like my men possessive. other than that, Hi!! 💜 I’m Kate, I love dark romance, reading, cooking, and cuddling up in a fuzzy blanket on the couch on my off days. I live at the gym early in the morning trying to better myself. Don’t be afraid to say hi
Female (33) Box Elder, South Dakota
I travel for work so my location changes often want a nice Dd/lg hook up while in your area not in to endless chats lets connect… if you are over 70 to the front of the line…
Female (57) Rapid City, South Dakota
Wandering the path with a leash in her mouth, she is a dog without an owner—content in her own right, yet seeking the one hand meant to hold it. She walks wiser now, a free pup full of life, seeking shelter not in the closest form, but in a kindred soul. She looks for an Owner who is strong enough to lead, yet kind enough to listen; a dynamic where she can kneel in devotion, yet stand as an equal in truth. She dreams of a home filled with the scent of meals prepared with care, where she is spoiled with affection and kept safe. She seeks an Owner who navigates the full spectrum of the storm—from the softest, tenderest praise to the high-intensity rush of total surrender. In return for his guidance, she offers absolute devotion. She is a pet who finds her peace in service—taking pride in keeping his sanctuary pristine, anticipating his needs, and living to please. Her loyalty is unshakeable, her obedience a gift given freely to the one who earns it. She brings a heart that wants to serve, to make life softer, to be the peace at the end of a long day. Until she finds Him—the one whose strength is steady, whose kindness is instinct, and whose love is honest—she walks her path with pride. Happy, hopeful, and saving her submission for the one who deserves it.
Female (31) Sioux Falls, South Dakota
Hi I’m Maddie. I’m 19 years old. It’s nice to meet you. I’ve never been in a BDSM relationship. I want to try it out. ❤️
Female (19) Sioux Falls, South Dakota
Hey there! My name is Cat I’ve never been married, nor do I have any human *** (I do have an 8yo fur child). Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, FB dating? Tried them all and it’s always the same. Truthfully, I’m looking for a steady friend with benefits when I have really stressful days at work.
Female (29) Rapid City, South Dakota
I am a 40+ years old disabled female. I have been married for 13 years but health will keep us seperated perminately sadly. I am looking to make new friends and relearn myself and things that interest me as ive been celibate for over 15 years so everything is fairly new to me. I am naturally submissive so I am looking more for a caring d/s dynamic. I am ONLY looking for local as i need an actual connection. I am a bit of an introvert and can be fairly shy and nervous at first, other times my anxiety makes me a chatterbox. I have been out of the lifestyle since 2009. I also love squishmellows especially foxes. I have a very low *** tolerance, so I am not good with *** as well as being fairly ticklish which I hate lol. I am a bbw though slowly in the process of losing weight im currently down over 70 pounds. I want to slowly come back into the lifestyle and make new friends and hopefully find that perfect dynamic in-person.
hi im bi and a sub! I’m looking for a girl or couple to play with me and my husband I/ we love watching iykyk. we are very open minded as a couple! it doesn’t have to be both of us, but it can be if you want always willing to just be friends too! 😌
Female (23) Brandon, South Dakota
I enjoy going hiking camping during the summer and during winter I like to stay in watch movies cuddles.I like to watch paranormal movies/shows. I am happily married to my husband for 10 years and we are just find someone who is willing to join our relationship or even just find friends
Female (35) Sioux Falls, South Dakota
Im a feral wife not a gf. Not married but I do wife shit. I do my own handyman work my own mechanical work on my car. I pay my own bills. Im not here for hook ups. I will ignore you for it too. Im not into drama or being lied to. I recently found our I have a heart condition. Won't reply to bs. Im a sinlge mom of a 17 yr old son! Im crazy too. So, play if you want to!! You gotta be stalker crazy for me baby.
Female (36) Brandon, South Dakota
I’m a playful, bratty little sub with an obedient heart and a soft, mischievous energy. I love teasing just enough to earn attention, but I always settle into my place when I’m met with steady, confident dominance. I’m currently in a committed D/s relationship, and with full transparency and consent, we’re looking for an additional partner who fits well with our dynamic. I thrive with someone who enjoys playful brattiness, gentle structure, and a little who responds to warmth, patience, and a firm hand when needed. I give my best when I feel safe, understood, and guided — beneath the sass, I’m loyal, affectionate, and eager to make the right person feel valued and respected.
Hello, I’m just a nerdy blue haired girl checking things out. I am polyamorous. I already have partners and am mostly looking for friends right now, we will see about further down the line. I am Demisexual. If I don’t get to know you and feel that click with you I will not be interested in “playing” anything at all. approach me to get to know me and not as a conquest and things will flow more naturally. I am Pansexual. I do not care about sex/gender/identity if we click we click
Female (34) Loomis, South Dakota
hey! kinky girl looking for an fwb to have some fun with. I’m open to almost anything and I’m down to fulfill fantasies if you promise to fulfill some for me too 💞💞 goth baddie when I get ready
Female (18) Tea, South Dakota
I am a very open person I'm here for a good time not a long time 💋 I'm also new to the dating app world just figured I give it a try so yeaa❤️
Female (24) South Shore, South Dakota
I am a big girl who is looking for something on the serious sides. I am a family girl, I love my family and friends so if you dont get along with them then itll be a tough sell. I have 2 dogs and I love reading and gaming.
Female (28) Sioux Falls, South Dakota
Hey, I'm becks. I'm fairly new to the kink world, but I know vanilla doesn't interest me. I am a bratty demisexual agoraphobic submissive. I try to join my local kink community when I can, I would like to have a partner in crime to enjoy those events with. Please refrain from using any honorifics (baby, baby girl ect). I haven't earned the right to be called them, and you haven't earned the right to call me them.
Female (36) Sioux Falls, South Dakota
I’ve been in various dynamics before. Looking forward to bossing around some men. I’m excited to meet new people and friends.
Female (33) Brandon, South Dakota
1. I care about authenticity. 2. Conversations first… sexy talk second… 3. I will always reply to you. 4. My Traits… I’m primarily a submissive with a bratty side. 5. Why Am I Here? - Boredom - Book Research (Ask me) - Experiences if we decide to meet up. - Friends (no sexiness) - FWB
BDSM novice, but definitely curious! Love it when you tell me I'm a good girl....love it more when you spank me for being bad 😏
Female (36) Rapid City, South Dakota
I am a single female who has a kind, caring heart who doesn't judge anyone. I am looking for another female to come have some fun and maybe get to know each other and possibly get a little wild and hot. Must have a good heart and an open mind and cannot be judgmental. Also looking for another female to join me for a 3some with me, her and my hot man (who is black like I said CANNOT BE JUDGEMENTAL and have an OPEN MIND.
Female (49) Sioux Falls, South Dakota
Open minded and an open book, always willing to try new things and enjoy when my partner tries new things too. Also don’t be afraid to sit on my face ;)
Female (23) Sioux Falls, South Dakota
I’m Shyann. My husband and I are looking for a Dom/Master. We want to try a threesome. My husband would like to be fucked also. We have done light bdsm play but would maybe like to do more. We switch from submissive to Dom. We’re looking for bisexual dominant male between age 21 to 32.
Female (23) Keldron, South Dakota
🌑🦄 The Dark Unicorn 🦄🌑 I’m new to the lifestyle — still learning what I like, who I am here, and how my chaos fits into this world. A tall, plus-sized country girl with roots in dirt roads and bass-heavy nights, carrying fire, glitter, and menace in equal measure. ✨ Who I Am: Witchy, bratty, Leo fire wrapped in sparkle & storm A mother, a fighter, a healer, and unholy chaos incarnate Big, bold, curvy, and unapologetically powerful Brat enough to push buttons — but I can be calmed with blunts, tacos, and coffee/Red Bull Country roots + dark unicorn soul = sweet tea spiked with gasoline 🔥 What I Bring: Curiosity of a newbie, power of a storm Sass, laughter, claws, and cuddles — sometimes all at once Loyalty and fire for those who honor my limits Glitter skulls, wicked humor, and dangerous sweetness 🖤 What I Want: Patience & guidance as I explore this path Playmates and partners who respect limits and crave depth, not just quick thrills A space to grow, misbehave, and wield my dark sparkly chaos without apology ✨ Final Word: I am tall, curvy, loud, shiny, and unholy. A dark unicorn who laughs in the storm and burns brighter than ***. Handle me right, and maybe you’ll earn the privilege of taming me with blunts, tacos and Red Bull. 🦄⚡🔥
Female (38) Sturgis, South Dakota

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