VANILLA:
I am a mature, independent woman, and before I consider another into my life, they must first understand, respect, and accept that first and foremost. Some have noted that I don't do anything half-assed. Therefore, if the thought of my fully committing to the arrangement scares you, then I'm probably not the droid you're seeking.
A few times I have allowed a "Dom" to get close, only to discover they checked out at the first sign of a challenge, or because they weren’t “feeling up to it” that day. It's ok to simply say you're into kinky stuff and let that be it. Therefore, if you're not able to follow through, then don't. Just don't.
I sometimes tend to overthink things, so please be patient if I ask a lot of questions. I'm also an intellectual when it comes to learning about life, people, and what makes us all tick. Life is full of learning opportunities, and we're never too old to learn something new.
KINKY:
D/s resonates with me because of the deep connection it creates between a Dominant and submissive - especially the trust, open communication, and shared vulnerability it requires. In my everyday life, I’m confident, capable, and independent; my submission comes from a genuine, intentional place. It’s about wanting to support my Dom, to make His life a little easier, and to bring Him happiness in meaningful ways.
For me, submission isn’t about losing myself or giving up control - it’s not about being passive or dependent. I’ll always think for myself and stand in my own strength. At its heart, my submission is about choosing to act with care, purpose, and devotion in a way that brings joy to someone I deeply value.
I’m a friendly person who values meaningful connections with people who challenge my thinking and encourage growth. I don’t respond to generic messages, and I’m especially turned off by anything disrespectful or messages that project someone else’s fantasies onto me.
I prefer to take things slowly and allow connections to develop naturally and authentically. Also, I’m still discovering new and exciting parts of the BDSM world, so please don’t quickly dismiss what I say here without at first saying “hello” and giving it a shot. You never know.
I want to be:
Seen, not scanned.
Chosen, not handled.
Led, not hurried.
And loved.
I need to feel and express love. Hugs and kisses are important. Knowing that Daddy wants and appreciates these things too is vital. I am into intense basorexia.
Fetishes:
Aftercare
Anal Sex
Ass Play
Bare Bottom Spanking
Being called a good girl
Being Overpowered
Blindfolds
Bondage
Butt Plugs
Cocksucking
Collars
Creampie
Daddy/babygirl
Discipline
Doggy Style
Domination
Kissing
Obedience Training
Oral Sex
Restraints
Collar and Lead/Leash
CNC Play
Deep Throating
Hair Pulling
Multiple Orgasms
Polyamory
Predator/prey
Primal
Rough Sex
Spreader
I have a feeling there will be more to add at a later date.
