Female (32) Single
Vanilla Female Led Relationship
I’m interested in a female-led relationship with a pretty, polite, service-oriented guy.
Here’s the thing—sexually speaking, I am vanilla as fuck. My relationships are monogamous. My libido is unexceptional. Group sex turns me off. Not a sadist or interested in ritualized dominance or discipline. I’m not interested in restraints, or pegging/flogging/abusing dudes, or anyone, for that matter. I've been told that I have a masculine energy about me (often intended as an insult by men with very narrow ideas of gender expression) but my appearance is femme.
So why am I even on here? Because a feminine-presenting woman who is confident and aggressive and aloof is consistently read by vanilla society as a subversive hypersexual being. My track record on popular dating apps is abysmal, especially since I live in Texas. I'm viewed by men as either an enemy to patriarchy who must be put in her place OR as one of patriarchy's niche sexual fetishes who wants her feet licked.
