Seeking a sub girlfriend (cis gendered women plz). I’d match well with a generous, thoughtful and affectionate woman. Put on something pretty and spend time with me. I want to buy you flowers, go out with you, pour you a glass of wine and laugh with you while we watch movies. Sex is not required.
I am poly and only have one partner (not looking for a third, I want to date you separately). If you’re interested in getting to know me, send me a message. It’s ok if you don’t have a lot of experience with women, as long as you’re genuine and honest.
I don’t chase or beg; reciprocated effort is a must.
I am not interested in one night stands or f*** buddies.
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For those seeking a BDSM dynamic, I invite you to embrace the joys that come with being nurtured by a playful and confident woman. Once we establish our dynamic, you’re going to enjoy giving me the control.
Subs who are eager, love praise and are imaginative are an ideal match for me. The more you communicate, the better your experience.
I love service subs (show your devotion with acts of service, taking good care of yourself and seeking my approval). If you can prove that you’re devoted to our dynamic, I’ll consider a 24/7 arrangement with you.
I will honor your vulnerability by being attentive, patient and gentle. We’re going to ease into our dynamic. I love non sexual playtime, especially when it comes to building our bond (asexuals and demisexuals love me).
Everything starts with several deep conversations. We’re going to get to know each other, identify our goals, concerns, limits and desires. Enthusiastic consent is required for every interaction.
I don’t deal out overly violent punishment or treatment so if you’re looking to be roughed up, I’m not a good match. Consequences for naughty behavior will be agreed upon together.
If you want to get physical, there has to be chemistry and trust. While I’m not going to have sex with you, (that’s reserved for my committed romantic partners) I can guide you into euphoria if our bond reaches that level. All the same, safe sex practices, regular testing and great hygiene are non negotiable. You’ll need to bring your own toys if you want me to use them on you.
If you can’t accept meeting in public, pretty hotels or rentals until we’ve established a high level of comfort between us, we won’t go far.
If you want me to be your domme, I expect you to be able to verbalize your goals and desires in detail. I’m a demisexual so you must stimulate my mind. I will have questions, you will have answers. If your responses are low substance and your personality lacks luster, your request for a dynamic will be denied.
I’m here to get more experience pleasuring women from a top perspective (practice makes perfect).
