BDSM Dating in El Paso

I am looking for someone to teach me the in and outs of Bdsm. I dabble a little in self chastity and anal but would like to explore more. I'm really into feet and dressing up. Not into degrading or , really. Hard no on *** urine or anything of the sort. I am really looking to join the community, but it is hard to find the right people. Please help