NOTICE: If you are looking for a bombshell, move on! As my info below states, I am 52, 5’2”, 265 lbs (recent surgery and meds don’t help this) & I don’t wear makeup! Don’t come on here messaging me then blocking me! Tired ass bullshit! I am looking for like minded people to connect with! If it goes somewhere, great, if not, hopefully I have a new friend!
Hello. About myself. I am going to just l lay it out there! Full disclosure, brutal honesty! So here it goes.
I am 52, BBW, divorced, single mom of 3. Two grown and one almost grown. Prior to my divorce, I was ashamed of what I desired. After my divorce, I had a mini mid-life melt down where I caught myself thinking ,” I’ll get it right next time!”, only to immediately realize there isn’t a next time! In the process of grieving my divorce and the loss of myself, I had a moment of clarity! The first half of my life belonged to other people! THIS HALF, belongs to ME! No more being afraid or ashamed! I know some of the things I like & I am sure there is more. So, I am new to discovering my kink side! I’ve tested the waters some. There is more I am interested in. So all I can do is put it out there!
I like men and women, but I DO NOT like for a Penis to be entered into any orifice on my body! Sorry, it LITERALLY kills everything for me! (Under the right circumstances, this might could change! would have to see how things go.) As far as men go, I like the feel of a good stubbled beard, hands, tongue, mouth, everything but the penis. This is something I do not mind discussing when it is needed, but not here. Dildos are fine, as long as I am not operating it. Toys, no issues. Things that interest me are electro, (not 100% sure on that name) light bondage. More than one person, yes please! More hands there are the merrier we’ll be. Anal, never done it, have sometimes thought a plug might be ok. The sex machines! 👍(I do have a few things of my own!). In actually sitting down and looking through the different kind of descriptions, sub, dom, top, bottom, etc., I discovered I am a little in the sub side for what I am looking for! . I’ve only ever had one orgasm! (Not from da 🍆). Yes, I know, pathetic! Ordinary vanilla does not & never has worked for me. And I am so ready to explore my own sexuality!
I am not looking for a relationship in the traditional sense of the word. Friends that come with benefits. Not looking for one nighters! I’m looking for someone, or a group of people. I have 32 years of pent up sexual frustration I need released!
That is as bare and raw as I can put it! I will answer any questions you may have.
