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My first public play party was in 1982. Back then you had to know someone, who knew someone, who knew someone else, in order to be invited to any scene party. But once you were in, you were in! I recall as a child doing a variety of Dommely/sadistic things with the other kids in the neighborhood. As a ***ager, I would 'borrow' my dad's Variations and Forum Magazines. I was mesmerized with the forum letters about the 'kinkier' side of life! Dad was a harmless pervert, may he rest in peace, and I loved his library! Mom on the other hand, was extremely missionary! Although, I always wondered if she bought all those vibrators under her bedside, or dad! In college dating with kinky interests was difficult! I heard many times, "you wanna do what to my what? you're weird!" I thought I was the only one that had this 'twisted nature'. Finally, a couple of years out of college, I replied to ads in the Boston underground papers. Thus, the first BDSM play party. I'll never forget that night! Myself, another woman and seven guys! I was in awe when they were tying each other to suspension pulleys, an examining table, and the first Saint Andrews cross I'd ever seen! The teasing and ***ing by today's standards was quite simple, no ten's units, no 16 plait signal whips, no needles, honestly, just a few vibrators and toys! I remember being scared to death, and incredibly excited the entire night! I felt connected! Finally, I wasn't the only kinky pervert! What a life changing event! My new found comfort carried over to a few short term relationships in the next couple of years. Unfortunately, I finished out the 80s and early 90's in two consecutive vanilla multi-year relationships. Having felt alone with my kinks, at the end of the second vanilla relationship, I vowed to not go into a relationship without BDSM being a common factor. Several short term relationships, the introduction of the internet, spending time in Boston with other like minded kinksters, and my own natural creativity helped me move along the learning curve quite rapidly! Since that time I've lived to my vow. No vanilla partners! I confess that my view of BDSM has changed completely in the past two decades. I remember so clearly when having a new toy felt like it made me kinkier. Yes learning mummification, rope tricks, whip control, needle play, suspension all are great skills. But I don't feel that it's the skills or the toys that make me better. I do, however recognize deep within side me is a control gene. The same one that I had at the age of 9 while tying up the 'boy down the street'. I remember at the end of the first long term vanilla relationship, having a serious conversation with my partner. When I said, quite sincerely that I wanted slaves, I was immediately told I was sick and don't ever let anyone hear me talking that way! I honestly, felt completely at ease with my desire. That was about the eigh***th nail in the coffin of that relationship! I don't self define as a bondage queen, needle nut, cane commando, or *** princess! I can do all of those quite well. But, my single tail prowess is not me entirely. What makes me flourish is being in control. From simple tasks such as appearance, sleep habits, self esteem, to holding the end of the rope that will either release you or tighten you, as I see fit. If you have the need to find the depths of who you are, not just wanting to try, this *** trick or that new latex, then I will certainly love crawling into your being to dig out the truest of you! Is your mind ready for me?
Female (68) Mendon, Vermont
would love to have fun tonight!!!! I am new to all this but I am really enjoying what I have experienced. I am more submissive. I really enjoy being dominated. someone that takes charge. I may push back at times just to see how you will put me in my place. there are some other things I would like to try but you will have to ask me
Female (37) Grand Isle, Vermont
I am calm, cheerful and friendly. I love silence, nature, sincere conversations and people with a kind heart. I constantly study, read, work on myself, it is important for me to grow not only externally, but also internally. Discipline and self-development are part of my character, as is the love for comfort and order in life.
Female (32) Burlington, Vermont
I'm 29. A kitten mostly. Brat, and slave. Ive been apart of this community for ten years now. Exploring new aspects in my life now. I do have a partner.
Female (29) Shoreham, Vermont
Before you go any further I'm not interested in cybering at all. it's boring af to me. interested in in person hookups atm I would love to find myself becoming someone's pet someday. I'm trans but I transitioned a decade ago. no surgery yet :/ I'm very interested in being put in extreme bondage, humiliated and used for your pleasure.
Female (38) Addison, Vermont
Married, Democrat, Christian, Poly, Bi, Sub, kink, DnD, Buisness Owner, Horses, loves fishing, reading, camping, shooting, hiking, being the backpack on sport bikes (loves s***d and deep fast corners), and I love to wear a real dresses to places i won't be over dressed. I love my apron, and running my own farm. Looking for a someone who likes riding horses and bikes, doesn't hate liberal values in a person, it's ok with clean consenting communicative commited poly relationships. Looking for a strong Dom that is confident, smart, kind, and respects safe words. Should know his way around ropes and floggers, and isnt shy or intimidated by a strong working woman. Knows how to make a woman feel safe enough to shut off her brain with you and feels she can let you make the decisions. Can be trusted with her body and mind to play with but not break. I'm to Christian for some, too much a sinner for others, too tall, too strong or physical, to nerdy, to liberal, or they don't like that i like guns, to dressy, not girly enough. I'm a weird hodgepodge of interests and life styles. I'm normally the one that does the pursuing and building my partners up. I want to be pursued for a change and be the one to feel desired before i give it back 10 fold.
Female (34) Springfield, Vermont
36 years old. fairly new to the lifestyle of bdsm, dom/sub. very interested to learn more abd find my daddy/master/dom. I am naturally submissive and thought of being controlled and habdled rough by daddy turns me on. I am recently single. was in a marriage for the last 6 years where exploring new things just wasnt really an option. I cant host as my situation at the moment is complicated and I do not live alone. Am interested in having fun trying new things exploring. interested in being daddies good girl and hopefully he has a male friend who would like to join.
Female (36) Johnson, Vermont
I am an older woman who has always known I am submissive but I have never had the nerve to do anything about it. I met a man quite sometime ago who was into flogging and introduced me to that good experience. Unfortunately he went away before he could show me more. I have limits and am firm on safe and sane.
Female (79) Bennington, Vermont
I am monogamous - I am not interested in couples or being a play thing. Shy at first Introverted extrovert Not the hookup type, I need an emotional connection Looking for a potential long term relationship or strictly a online flirtationship. Very interested in D/s dynamic (I am a bratty sub).
Female (28) Chittenden, Vermont
Writer ✧ Photographer-in-progress ✧ Cat mom Cozy jeans + hoodies + natural curls. I’m a gentle, creative girl who loves stories, quiet moments, and small adventures — thrift shops, late-night drives, pretty scenery, and comfy nights in. I don’t wear much makeup (still learning), but I like keeping things natural and soft. Looking for someone kind, calm, and genuine. If you’re patient, funny, or a little artsy, we’ll probably get along. Bonus points if you like a fox pup to play with. Trust me the blow jobs are better when Im a pup. Other likes: Choking, gentle nipple play, breeding, praise, doggie style, finger fucking (a lot). Also: Its hard for me to cum, so I last forever and Im insatiable.
Female (35) Bradford, Vermont
white female, “looks down between her legs, yep still female” 55, single looking to explore this part of my sexuality. Have had some exploration in kink but pretty innocent. chocking is fun but not to hard, maybe that was to deep too fast. ok how about I like candles dripped on my body. Anyway I’m open to being a Sub. I have been in control of my life for a very long time. To submit to another seems very sexy to me. thank you for your time.
Female (55) Sugarbush Valley, Vermont
looking for men with big cocks 7 inches or bigger if that isnt you then the only way to talk to me is by donation otherwise I’m good I’m a good little slut with a tight pussy looking to get split in half
Wanna know the difference between me & a mosquito? 😈🤪🤭 Looking for a fun arrangement(s) that is entirely stress and drama free! Happy to host for a sexy snuggle sesh 🤪😈 open to all connections! Hugeeee movie buff who enjoys acting like a feral gremlin when she finds shiny rocks outside 😂😂
Female (25) Milton, Vermont
Looking for a slut that needs to be punished. I like to provide a little *** with pleasure. Of course my pleasure comes first. Naughty girls get what they deserve, good girls get rewarded.
Female (38) Andover, Vermont
Hi. My name is Hanna. I’m 30 years old. No kids. 420 friendly. I love to play videos games, smoke weed, drink and have fun. I’m currently looking for chats, maybe some fun on the side… I have never got to try bondage but it is something I’ve been dying to try for a while. I’d prefer a consistent long-term hookup if it ever leads to anything as such.
Female (30) Burlington, Vermont
I'm new to Vermont and I want pretty girls to be friends with and also have some sexy fun. I am a bigger girl who's confident in her curves. if you don't vibe with that, please move on. I've never had a girl on girl experience and desperately want to change that!
Female (24) Wilder, Vermont
kind of submissive, big praise kink
Female (37) Lyndonville, Vermont
Writer, crafter, amature photographer, audiophile. Follow me for spicy short stories and poetry. Etsy shop SecretTreasuresByJae In sta JaeArdenCreates X Jae_Arden Currently looking for LTR with a Dom or switch. Open to monogamous MF or poly MMF or MFM. Not interested one night hookups or long distance please. Pronouns: Good Girl/Eldritch Horror
Female (42) Windsor, Vermont
I like reading on my phone and playing video games. As well as watching tv and movies. I also like hanging with friends and family. But I’d really enjoy being with Alpha, if I had an Alpha. I enjoy existing with my Alpha. I’d like to build a nest and be surrounded by my Alpha and my Alpha’s scent. Where I feel safest. I love being called a good girl or a good omega. I love being marked by my Alpha’s teeth and feeling those marks for weeks. So I know who I belong to. Just want to be a good omega for my Alpha.
Female (26) Colchester, Vermont
Only looking for BIsexual women who want a 3 way to be a cum slut for me and a boyfriend that's it. one time thing only maybe if I think the vide is right I'll keep. U around my rules only when it comes to 3 ways. Alpha female brat with a dominate brat tamer/ degrader Both interested in BDMS. Absolutely no swingers I Dont want ur ratched ass man and ur not touching mine unless I say so my man my rules
Female (24) Lyndon, Vermont
hi! I’m here because it’s very hard to find like minded people where I am and I need people who understand and love kink like I do - plus size queen - mostly wanting online fun - I’m big on proper kink negotiation please friend request me I can’t see likes :)
Female (18) Burlington, Vermont
Hello! I’m a newer sub with about a year of experience i’m quite mouthy but also a sweetheart once you get to know me! I like to talk, and have many kinks I’m ready to explore! I’m heavily into masks, i’m also a dark romance reader. you wont ever see me on my pfp, so feel to message and ask to see what i look like! have a good day
Female (18) Lyndonville, Vermont
I am into a lot and willing to explore. I am whatever you would like me to be. Looking for a Dom, or kinky FWB. High sexual drive , need to get fucked. Want pictures! Message me! Take Control!
Female (39) Saint Johnsbury, Vermont
I’m super into daddy/daughter/DDLG. (daddy dom little girl) i want to experiment with using diapers, double penetration, being praised & respectfully dominated, not using condoms (safely, I use a diaphragm & spermicide as protection), and especially age play. I’m also new to cnc (consensual non-consent) but would love to experiment more too. I love pretending I’m much younger and don’t have control over what happens :) I promise I’m beautiful but not uploading photos for professional reasons 😘
Female (24) Winooski, Vermont

New members in Vermont

would love to have fun tonight!!!! I am new to all this but I am really enjoying what I have experienced. I am more submissive. I really enjoy being dominated. someone that takes charge. I may push back at times just to see how you will put me in my place. there are some other things I would like to try but you will have to ask me
Female (37) Grand Isle, Vermont
I am calm, cheerful and friendly. I love silence, nature, sincere conversations and people with a kind heart. I constantly study, read, work on myself, it is important for me to grow not only externally, but also internally. Discipline and self-development are part of my character, as is the love for comfort and order in life.
Female (32) Burlington, Vermont
My first public play party was in 1982. Back then you had to know someone, who knew someone, who knew someone else, in order to be invited to any scene party. But once you were in, you were in! I recall as a child doing a variety of Dommely/sadistic things with the other kids in the neighborhood. As a ***ager, I would 'borrow' my dad's Variations and Forum Magazines. I was mesmerized with the forum letters about the 'kinkier' side of life! Dad was a harmless pervert, may he rest in peace, and I loved his library! Mom on the other hand, was extremely missionary! Although, I always wondered if she bought all those vibrators under her bedside, or dad! In college dating with kinky interests was difficult! I heard many times, "you wanna do what to my what? you're weird!" I thought I was the only one that had this 'twisted nature'. Finally, a couple of years out of college, I replied to ads in the Boston underground papers. Thus, the first BDSM play party. I'll never forget that night! Myself, another woman and seven guys! I was in awe when they were tying each other to suspension pulleys, an examining table, and the first Saint Andrews cross I'd ever seen! The teasing and ***ing by today's standards was quite simple, no ten's units, no 16 plait signal whips, no needles, honestly, just a few vibrators and toys! I remember being scared to death, and incredibly excited the entire night! I felt connected! Finally, I wasn't the only kinky pervert! What a life changing event! My new found comfort carried over to a few short term relationships in the next couple of years. Unfortunately, I finished out the 80s and early 90's in two consecutive vanilla multi-year relationships. Having felt alone with my kinks, at the end of the second vanilla relationship, I vowed to not go into a relationship without BDSM being a common factor. Several short term relationships, the introduction of the internet, spending time in Boston with other like minded kinksters, and my own natural creativity helped me move along the learning curve quite rapidly! Since that time I've lived to my vow. No vanilla partners! I confess that my view of BDSM has changed completely in the past two decades. I remember so clearly when having a new toy felt like it made me kinkier. Yes learning mummification, rope tricks, whip control, needle play, suspension all are great skills. But I don't feel that it's the skills or the toys that make me better. I do, however recognize deep within side me is a control gene. The same one that I had at the age of 9 while tying up the 'boy down the street'. I remember at the end of the first long term vanilla relationship, having a serious conversation with my partner. When I said, quite sincerely that I wanted slaves, I was immediately told I was sick and don't ever let anyone hear me talking that way! I honestly, felt completely at ease with my desire. That was about the eigh***th nail in the coffin of that relationship! I don't self define as a bondage queen, needle nut, cane commando, or *** princess! I can do all of those quite well. But, my single tail prowess is not me entirely. What makes me flourish is being in control. From simple tasks such as appearance, sleep habits, self esteem, to holding the end of the rope that will either release you or tighten you, as I see fit. If you have the need to find the depths of who you are, not just wanting to try, this *** trick or that new latex, then I will certainly love crawling into your being to dig out the truest of you! Is your mind ready for me?
Female (68) Mendon, Vermont
I'm 29. A kitten mostly. Brat, and slave. Ive been apart of this community for ten years now. Exploring new aspects in my life now. I do have a partner.
Female (29) Shoreham, Vermont
Married, Democrat, Christian, Poly, Bi, Sub, kink, DnD, Buisness Owner, Horses, loves fishing, reading, camping, shooting, hiking, being the backpack on sport bikes (loves s***d and deep fast corners), and I love to wear a real dresses to places i won't be over dressed. I love my apron, and running my own farm. Looking for a someone who likes riding horses and bikes, doesn't hate liberal values in a person, it's ok with clean consenting communicative commited poly relationships. Looking for a strong Dom that is confident, smart, kind, and respects safe words. Should know his way around ropes and floggers, and isnt shy or intimidated by a strong working woman. Knows how to make a woman feel safe enough to shut off her brain with you and feels she can let you make the decisions. Can be trusted with her body and mind to play with but not break. I'm to Christian for some, too much a sinner for others, too tall, too strong or physical, to nerdy, to liberal, or they don't like that i like guns, to dressy, not girly enough. I'm a weird hodgepodge of interests and life styles. I'm normally the one that does the pursuing and building my partners up. I want to be pursued for a change and be the one to feel desired before i give it back 10 fold.
Female (34) Springfield, Vermont
I am an older woman who has always known I am submissive but I have never had the nerve to do anything about it. I met a man quite sometime ago who was into flogging and introduced me to that good experience. Unfortunately he went away before he could show me more. I have limits and am firm on safe and sane.
Female (79) Bennington, Vermont
I like reading on my phone and playing video games. As well as watching tv and movies. I also like hanging with friends and family. But I’d really enjoy being with Alpha, if I had an Alpha. I enjoy existing with my Alpha. I’d like to build a nest and be surrounded by my Alpha and my Alpha’s scent. Where I feel safest. I love being called a good girl or a good omega. I love being marked by my Alpha’s teeth and feeling those marks for weeks. So I know who I belong to. Just want to be a good omega for my Alpha.
Female (26) Colchester, Vermont
Hi. My name is Hanna. I’m 30 years old. No kids. 420 friendly. I love to play videos games, smoke weed, drink and have fun. I’m currently looking for chats, maybe some fun on the side… I have never got to try bondage but it is something I’ve been dying to try for a while. I’d prefer a consistent long-term hookup if it ever leads to anything as such.
Female (30) Burlington, Vermont
Writer ✧ Photographer-in-progress ✧ Cat mom Cozy jeans + hoodies + natural curls. I’m a gentle, creative girl who loves stories, quiet moments, and small adventures — thrift shops, late-night drives, pretty scenery, and comfy nights in. I don’t wear much makeup (still learning), but I like keeping things natural and soft. Looking for someone kind, calm, and genuine. If you’re patient, funny, or a little artsy, we’ll probably get along. Bonus points if you like a fox pup to play with. Trust me the blow jobs are better when Im a pup. Other likes: Choking, gentle nipple play, breeding, praise, doggie style, finger fucking (a lot). Also: Its hard for me to cum, so I last forever and Im insatiable.
Female (35) Bradford, Vermont
white female, “looks down between her legs, yep still female” 55, single looking to explore this part of my sexuality. Have had some exploration in kink but pretty innocent. chocking is fun but not to hard, maybe that was to deep too fast. ok how about I like candles dripped on my body. Anyway I’m open to being a Sub. I have been in control of my life for a very long time. To submit to another seems very sexy to me. thank you for your time.
Female (55) Sugarbush Valley, Vermont
Hello! I’m a newer sub with about a year of experience i’m quite mouthy but also a sweetheart once you get to know me! I like to talk, and have many kinks I’m ready to explore! I’m heavily into masks, i’m also a dark romance reader. you wont ever see me on my pfp, so feel to message and ask to see what i look like! have a good day
Female (18) Lyndonville, Vermont
kind of submissive, big praise kink
Female (37) Lyndonville, Vermont
Looking for a slut that needs to be punished. I like to provide a little *** with pleasure. Of course my pleasure comes first. Naughty girls get what they deserve, good girls get rewarded.
Female (38) Andover, Vermont
looking for men with big cocks 7 inches or bigger if that isnt you then the only way to talk to me is by donation otherwise I’m good I’m a good little slut with a tight pussy looking to get split in half
I am into a lot and willing to explore. I am whatever you would like me to be. Looking for a Dom, or kinky FWB. High sexual drive , need to get fucked. Want pictures! Message me! Take Control!
Female (39) Saint Johnsbury, Vermont
hi! I’m here because it’s very hard to find like minded people where I am and I need people who understand and love kink like I do - plus size queen - mostly wanting online fun - I’m big on proper kink negotiation please friend request me I can’t see likes :)
Female (18) Burlington, Vermont
I’m super into daddy/daughter/DDLG. (daddy dom little girl) i want to experiment with using diapers, double penetration, being praised & respectfully dominated, not using condoms (safely, I use a diaphragm & spermicide as protection), and especially age play. I’m also new to cnc (consensual non-consent) but would love to experiment more too. I love pretending I’m much younger and don’t have control over what happens :) I promise I’m beautiful but not uploading photos for professional reasons 😘
Female (24) Winooski, Vermont
Wanna know the difference between me & a mosquito? 😈🤪🤭 Looking for a fun arrangement(s) that is entirely stress and drama free! Happy to host for a sexy snuggle sesh 🤪😈 open to all connections! Hugeeee movie buff who enjoys acting like a feral gremlin when she finds shiny rocks outside 😂😂
Female (25) Milton, Vermont
Before you go any further I'm not interested in cybering at all. it's boring af to me. interested in in person hookups atm I would love to find myself becoming someone's pet someday. I'm trans but I transitioned a decade ago. no surgery yet :/ I'm very interested in being put in extreme bondage, humiliated and used for your pleasure.
Female (38) Addison, Vermont
Only looking for BIsexual women who want a 3 way to be a cum slut for me and a boyfriend that's it. one time thing only maybe if I think the vide is right I'll keep. U around my rules only when it comes to 3 ways. Alpha female brat with a dominate brat tamer/ degrader Both interested in BDMS. Absolutely no swingers I Dont want ur ratched ass man and ur not touching mine unless I say so my man my rules
Female (24) Lyndon, Vermont
I'm new to Vermont and I want pretty girls to be friends with and also have some sexy fun. I am a bigger girl who's confident in her curves. if you don't vibe with that, please move on. I've never had a girl on girl experience and desperately want to change that!
Female (24) Wilder, Vermont
I am monogamous - I am not interested in couples or being a play thing. Shy at first Introverted extrovert Not the hookup type, I need an emotional connection Looking for a potential long term relationship or strictly a online flirtationship. Very interested in D/s dynamic (I am a bratty sub).
Female (28) Chittenden, Vermont
36 years old. fairly new to the lifestyle of bdsm, dom/sub. very interested to learn more abd find my daddy/master/dom. I am naturally submissive and thought of being controlled and habdled rough by daddy turns me on. I am recently single. was in a marriage for the last 6 years where exploring new things just wasnt really an option. I cant host as my situation at the moment is complicated and I do not live alone. Am interested in having fun trying new things exploring. interested in being daddies good girl and hopefully he has a male friend who would like to join.
Female (36) Johnson, Vermont
Writer, crafter, amature photographer, audiophile. Follow me for spicy short stories and poetry. Etsy shop SecretTreasuresByJae In sta JaeArdenCreates X Jae_Arden Currently looking for LTR with a Dom or switch. Open to monogamous MF or poly MMF or MFM. Not interested one night hookups or long distance please. Pronouns: Good Girl/Eldritch Horror
Female (42) Windsor, Vermont

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