Find kinky women in Vermont

My first public play party was in 1982. Back then you had to know someone, who knew someone, who knew someone else, in order to be invited to any scene party. But once you were in, you were in! I recall as a child doing a variety of Dommely/sadistic things with the other kids in the neighborhood. As a ***ager, I would 'borrow' my dad's Variations and Forum Magazines. I was mesmerized with the forum letters about the 'kinkier' side of life! Dad was a harmless pervert, may he rest in peace, and I loved his library! Mom on the other hand, was extremely missionary! Although, I always wondered if she bought all those vibrators under her bedside, or dad! In college dating with kinky interests was difficult! I heard many times, "you wanna do what to my what? you're weird!" I thought I was the only one that had this 'twisted nature'. Finally, a couple of years out of college, I replied to ads in the Boston underground papers. Thus, the first BDSM play party. I'll never forget that night! Myself, another woman and seven guys! I was in awe when they were tying each other to suspension pulleys, an examining table, and the first Saint Andrews cross I'd ever seen! The teasing and ***ing by today's standards was quite simple, no ten's units, no 16 plait signal whips, no needles, honestly, just a few vibrators and toys! I remember being scared to death, and incredibly excited the entire night! I felt connected! Finally, I wasn't the only kinky pervert! What a life changing event! My new found comfort carried over to a few short term relationships in the next couple of years. Unfortunately, I finished out the 80s and early 90's in two consecutive vanilla multi-year relationships. Having felt alone with my kinks, at the end of the second vanilla relationship, I vowed to not go into a relationship without BDSM being a common factor. Several short term relationships, the introduction of the internet, spending time in Boston with other like minded kinksters, and my own natural creativity helped me move along the learning curve quite rapidly! Since that time I've lived to my vow. No vanilla partners! I confess that my view of BDSM has changed completely in the past two decades. I remember so clearly when having a new toy felt like it made me kinkier. Yes learning mummification, rope tricks, whip control, needle play, suspension all are great skills. But I don't feel that it's the skills or the toys that make me better. I do, however recognize deep within side me is a control gene. The same one that I had at the age of 9 while tying up the 'boy down the street'. I remember at the end of the first long term vanilla relationship, having a serious conversation with my partner. When I said, quite sincerely that I wanted slaves, I was immediately told I was sick and don't ever let anyone hear me talking that way! I honestly, felt completely at ease with my desire. That was about the eigh***th nail in the coffin of that relationship! I don't self define as a bondage queen, needle nut, cane commando, or *** princess! I can do all of those quite well. But, my single tail prowess is not me entirely. What makes me flourish is being in control. From simple tasks such as appearance, sleep habits, self esteem, to holding the end of the rope that will either release you or tighten you, as I see fit. If you have the need to find the depths of who you are, not just wanting to try, this *** trick or that new latex, then I will certainly love crawling into your being to dig out the truest of you! Is your mind ready for me?
Female (68) Mendon, Vermont
I'm 29. A kitten mostly. Brat, and slave. I've been a part of this community for ten years now. Exploring new aspects in my life now. I do have a partner. collared.
Female (29) Shoreham, Vermont
attractive, educated, fun woman who enjoys adventure. in a committed relationship but we are exploring the possibility of finding a play partner or couple to join us for NSA fun. we both enjoy oral (giving and receiving) and enhancing our play with toys. he has been part of the kink community for a bit now and has experienced munch gatherings and sex parties. I find it very arousing to have sex in places where there is the possibility of being seen and/or heard.
Female (54) Barre, Vermont
I am new to the scene. I am looking for someone who is willing to teach me. Someone who will help me explore my limits safely. I do have a friend who is a Dom and they are doing their best to teach me but they are long distance. They suggested I hop on here and find someone closer to me.
Female (32) Barre, Vermont
NEWSFLASH! I read profiles. You are what you say, so messaging me as a sub when you're listed as a Dom will get you ignored. The same applies for any other orientation, gender or role that I have listed on my profile that I don't want. I am interested in straight, submissive men only and I will go so far as to say that if you would entertain anything other than a dominant, straight biological female, there's nothing for you here. All dominants, switches, couples and females who message me will be blocked. The second you say you have no limits, I block you. It shows me how little you actually know. and you're not a safe person for yourself or for anyone who would play with you. I don't switch, no exceptions ever. My ideal is an experienced, 100% biological male submissive, circumcised and heterosexual. My preference is for married males, age 35 to 55. Not a dominant male looking to explore the sub role, not a switch - I seek a 100% submissive male that is LOCAL or in a neighboring state. NO: Females, dominants, switches, bisexuals, ENM's, sissies, trans, non-binary, gender fluid, furries, or age players. I won't be your "third" and I won't help you train your sub. I'm also not a milf looking for a hook up. 420, alcohol, cigarettes and all other recreational substances are repulsive to me, but I am certain you will find your tribe on here somewhere. I'm not one for mustaches and beards, either. STI/STD free goes without saying, impeccable hygiene is non-negotiable. I'm not in to cybering or camming. I am real and looking to play in person. Expect to be vetted. I expect the same.
Female (37) Brattleboro, Vermont
the name is Holly single mom. I'm 34 soon 35. I'm a Leo. just got my heart broken recently. the whole dom/sub relationship is new to me I have done some things but not enough lol. I'm looking for a real relationship someone who wants a life and family with me. who loves me for me which isn't much I'm a really good person who cares so much. which doesn't seem to be enough bcz I'm juss not good enough looks wise or something
Female (34) Saint Albans, Vermont
I am monogamous - I am not interested in couples or being a play thing. Shy at first Introverted extrovert Not the hookup type, I need an emotional connection Looking for a potential long term relationship. Very interested in D/s dynamic (I am a bratty sub).
Female (29) Rutland, Vermont
36 years old. fairly new to the lifestyle of bdsm, dom/sub. very interested to learn more abd find my daddy/master/dom. I am naturally submissive and thought of being controlled and habdled rough by daddy turns me on. I am recently single. was in a marriage for the last 6 years where exploring new things just wasnt really an option. I cant host as my situation at the moment is complicated and I do not live alone. Am interested in having fun trying new things exploring. interested in being daddies good girl and hopefully he has a male friend who would like to join.
Female (36) Johnson, Vermont
I like reading on my phone and playing video games. As well as watching tv and movies. I also like hanging with friends and family. But I’d really enjoy being with Alpha, if I had an Alpha. I enjoy existing with my Alpha. I’d like to build a nest and be surrounded by my Alpha and my Alpha’s scent. Where I feel safest. I love being called a good girl or a good omega. I love being marked by my Alpha’s teeth and feeling those marks for weeks. So I know who I belong to. Just want to be a good omega for my Alpha.
Female (26) Colchester, Vermont
I put in the effort you put in. I don’t send pictures if you expect pictures then I expect something out of it and I don’t want pictures. They do me no good. Unless you are nearby and can meet face-to-face I don’t wanna talk. I don’t do online communication forever and ever. I don’t do SEXT unless I have a benefit.
Female (33) Chittenden, Vermont
Married, Democrat, Christian, Poly, Bi, Sub, kink, DnD, Buisness Owner, Horses, loves fishing, reading, camping, shooting, hiking, being the backpack on sport bikes (loves s***d and deep fast corners), and I love to wear a real dresses to places i won't be over dressed. I love my apron, and running my own farm. Looking for a someone who likes riding horses and bikes, doesn't hate liberal values in a person, it's ok with clean consenting communicative commited poly relationships. Looking for a strong Dom that is confident, smart, kind, and respects safe words. Should know his way around ropes and floggers, and isnt shy or intimidated by a strong working woman. Knows how to make a woman feel safe enough to shut off her brain with you and feels she can let you make the decisions. Can be trusted with her body and mind to play with but not break. I'm to Christian for some, too much a sinner for others, too tall, too strong or physical, to nerdy, to liberal, or they don't like that i like guns, to dressy, not girly enough. I'm a weird hodgepodge of interests and life styles. I'm normally the one that does the pursuing and building my partners up. I want to be pursued for a change and be the one to feel desired before i give it back 10 fold.
Female (34) Springfield, Vermont
Single BBW. Looking for a kinky friend with benefits with the possibility of that turning into long term. I do not video chat until I get to know you. Cyber fun is alright if it's long distance. I'm sub ish but definitely a brat. Maybe could switch with the right person. Pic exchange is fine. If you have any other questions, ask.
Female (43) East Dummerston, Vermont
Wanna know the difference between me & a mosquito? 😈🤪🤭 Looking for a fun arrangement(s) that is entirely stress and drama free! Happy to host for a sexy snuggle sesh 🤪😈 open to all connections! Hugeeee movie buff who enjoys acting like a feral gremlin when she finds shiny rocks outside 😂😂
Female (25) Sheldon, Vermont
Cute, curvy BBW looking for well-endowed men, preference for black men
Female (42) Winooski, Vermont
let’s have some fun! can’t host but will drive out dom woman looking for sissy sluts to let me *** and have full control over. let’s make it worth it strictly looking to ***
Female (19) Barre, Vermont
Writer ✧ Photographer-in-progress ✧ Cat mom Cozy jeans + hoodies + natural curls. I’m a gentle, creative girl who loves stories, quiet moments, and small adventures — thrift shops, late-night drives, pretty scenery, and comfy nights in. I don’t wear much makeup (still learning), but I like keeping things natural and soft. Looking for someone kind, calm, and genuine. If you’re patient, funny, or a little artsy, we’ll probably get along. Bonus points if you like a fox pup to play with. Trust me the blow jobs are better when Im a pup. Other likes: Choking, gentle nipple play, breeding, praise, doggie style, finger fucking (a lot). Also: Its hard for me to cum, so I last forever and Im insatiable.
Female (35) Bradford, Vermont
I love exploring kink. I have varied interests. I do have a Daddy and I’m his “cutie”. Daddy wants me to continue to explore my sexuality. Open to 1:1 play, MFM, MFF, would also like to connect with other Daddies and have a play date with another little.
Female (46) Elmore, Vermont
A little attention, a little tribute… a lot of satisfaction ;) $5.55 tribute for a response (ask for platform) Soft Dom • Femdom • *** 20 • Leo • Emø Girl
Female (20) Montpelier, Vermont
white female, “looks down between her legs, yep still female” 55, single looking to explore this part of my sexuality. Have had some exploration in kink but pretty innocent. chocking is fun but not to hard, maybe that was to deep too fast. ok how about I like candles dripped on my body. Anyway I’m open to being a Sub. I have been in control of my life for a very long time. To submit to another seems very sexy to me. thank you for your time.
Female (56) Sugarbush Valley, Vermont
Hi. My name is Hanna. I’m 30 years old. No kids. 420 friendly. I love to play videos games, smoke weed, drink and have fun. I’m currently looking for chats, maybe some fun on the side… I have never got to try bondage but it is something I’ve been dying to try for a while. I’d prefer a consistent long-term hookup if it ever leads to anything as such.
Female (30) Burlington, Vermont
I am an older woman who has always known I am submissive but I have never had the nerve to do anything about it. I met a man quite sometime ago who was into flogging and introduced me to that good experience. Unfortunately he went away before he could show me more. I have limits and am firm on safe and sane.
Female (79) Bennington, Vermont
Only looking for BIsexual women who want a 3 way to be a cum slut for me and a boyfriend that's it. one time thing only maybe if I think the vide is right I'll keep. U around my rules only when it comes to 3 ways. Alpha female brat with a dominate brat tamer/ degrader Both interested in BDMS. Absolutely no swingers I Dont want ur ratched ass man and ur not touching mine unless I say so my man my rules
Female (24) Marshfield, Vermont
Looking for someone to hurt me just right. 😘 Real talk, I'm moderately shy and need a sturdy foundation of communication and trust. In my day life I enjoy making art, reading, various games and the same nerdy things most people here like. Let's info dump and see if there's chemistry.
Female (35) Burlington, Vermont
I’m here to explore connection, chemistry, and control. Submission is a gift, not an expectation. I value respect, communication, and mutual curiosity above all else. I’m drawn to those who are self-aware, open-minded, and intrigued by the dynamic of trust and surrender. Whether you’re experienced or just discovering this side of yourself, what matters most is your authenticity and willingness to engage honestly. I’m here to discover what feels natural, exciting, and real. If you’re patient, attentive, and ready to build something intriguing together, you might just earn my attention. Start with respect. Keep my interest with intention.
Female (34) Burlington, Vermont

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My first public play party was in 1982. Back then you had to know someone, who knew someone, who knew someone else, in order to be invited to any scene party. But once you were in, you were in! I recall as a child doing a variety of Dommely/sadistic things with the other kids in the neighborhood. As a ***ager, I would 'borrow' my dad's Variations and Forum Magazines. I was mesmerized with the forum letters about the 'kinkier' side of life! Dad was a harmless pervert, may he rest in peace, and I loved his library! Mom on the other hand, was extremely missionary! Although, I always wondered if she bought all those vibrators under her bedside, or dad! In college dating with kinky interests was difficult! I heard many times, "you wanna do what to my what? you're weird!" I thought I was the only one that had this 'twisted nature'. Finally, a couple of years out of college, I replied to ads in the Boston underground papers. Thus, the first BDSM play party. I'll never forget that night! Myself, another woman and seven guys! I was in awe when they were tying each other to suspension pulleys, an examining table, and the first Saint Andrews cross I'd ever seen! The teasing and ***ing by today's standards was quite simple, no ten's units, no 16 plait signal whips, no needles, honestly, just a few vibrators and toys! I remember being scared to death, and incredibly excited the entire night! I felt connected! Finally, I wasn't the only kinky pervert! What a life changing event! My new found comfort carried over to a few short term relationships in the next couple of years. Unfortunately, I finished out the 80s and early 90's in two consecutive vanilla multi-year relationships. Having felt alone with my kinks, at the end of the second vanilla relationship, I vowed to not go into a relationship without BDSM being a common factor. Several short term relationships, the introduction of the internet, spending time in Boston with other like minded kinksters, and my own natural creativity helped me move along the learning curve quite rapidly! Since that time I've lived to my vow. No vanilla partners! I confess that my view of BDSM has changed completely in the past two decades. I remember so clearly when having a new toy felt like it made me kinkier. Yes learning mummification, rope tricks, whip control, needle play, suspension all are great skills. But I don't feel that it's the skills or the toys that make me better. I do, however recognize deep within side me is a control gene. The same one that I had at the age of 9 while tying up the 'boy down the street'. I remember at the end of the first long term vanilla relationship, having a serious conversation with my partner. When I said, quite sincerely that I wanted slaves, I was immediately told I was sick and don't ever let anyone hear me talking that way! I honestly, felt completely at ease with my desire. That was about the eigh***th nail in the coffin of that relationship! I don't self define as a bondage queen, needle nut, cane commando, or *** princess! I can do all of those quite well. But, my single tail prowess is not me entirely. What makes me flourish is being in control. From simple tasks such as appearance, sleep habits, self esteem, to holding the end of the rope that will either release you or tighten you, as I see fit. If you have the need to find the depths of who you are, not just wanting to try, this *** trick or that new latex, then I will certainly love crawling into your being to dig out the truest of you! Is your mind ready for me?
Female (68) Mendon, Vermont
I'm 29. A kitten mostly. Brat, and slave. I've been a part of this community for ten years now. Exploring new aspects in my life now. I do have a partner. collared.
Female (29) Shoreham, Vermont
attractive, educated, fun woman who enjoys adventure. in a committed relationship but we are exploring the possibility of finding a play partner or couple to join us for NSA fun. we both enjoy oral (giving and receiving) and enhancing our play with toys. he has been part of the kink community for a bit now and has experienced munch gatherings and sex parties. I find it very arousing to have sex in places where there is the possibility of being seen and/or heard.
Female (54) Barre, Vermont
I’m here to explore connection, chemistry, and control. Submission is a gift, not an expectation. I value respect, communication, and mutual curiosity above all else. I’m drawn to those who are self-aware, open-minded, and intrigued by the dynamic of trust and surrender. Whether you’re experienced or just discovering this side of yourself, what matters most is your authenticity and willingness to engage honestly. I’m here to discover what feels natural, exciting, and real. If you’re patient, attentive, and ready to build something intriguing together, you might just earn my attention. Start with respect. Keep my interest with intention.
Female (34) Burlington, Vermont
I put in the effort you put in. I don’t send pictures if you expect pictures then I expect something out of it and I don’t want pictures. They do me no good. Unless you are nearby and can meet face-to-face I don’t wanna talk. I don’t do online communication forever and ever. I don’t do SEXT unless I have a benefit.
Female (33) Chittenden, Vermont
the name is Holly single mom. I'm 34 soon 35. I'm a Leo. just got my heart broken recently. the whole dom/sub relationship is new to me I have done some things but not enough lol. I'm looking for a real relationship someone who wants a life and family with me. who loves me for me which isn't much I'm a really good person who cares so much. which doesn't seem to be enough bcz I'm juss not good enough looks wise or something
Female (34) Saint Albans, Vermont
Looking for someone to hurt me just right. 😘 Real talk, I'm moderately shy and need a sturdy foundation of communication and trust. In my day life I enjoy making art, reading, various games and the same nerdy things most people here like. Let's info dump and see if there's chemistry.
Female (35) Burlington, Vermont
I am new to the scene. I am looking for someone who is willing to teach me. Someone who will help me explore my limits safely. I do have a friend who is a Dom and they are doing their best to teach me but they are long distance. They suggested I hop on here and find someone closer to me.
Female (32) Barre, Vermont
let’s have some fun! can’t host but will drive out dom woman looking for sissy sluts to let me *** and have full control over. let’s make it worth it strictly looking to ***
Female (19) Barre, Vermont
Married, Democrat, Christian, Poly, Bi, Sub, kink, DnD, Buisness Owner, Horses, loves fishing, reading, camping, shooting, hiking, being the backpack on sport bikes (loves s***d and deep fast corners), and I love to wear a real dresses to places i won't be over dressed. I love my apron, and running my own farm. Looking for a someone who likes riding horses and bikes, doesn't hate liberal values in a person, it's ok with clean consenting communicative commited poly relationships. Looking for a strong Dom that is confident, smart, kind, and respects safe words. Should know his way around ropes and floggers, and isnt shy or intimidated by a strong working woman. Knows how to make a woman feel safe enough to shut off her brain with you and feels she can let you make the decisions. Can be trusted with her body and mind to play with but not break. I'm to Christian for some, too much a sinner for others, too tall, too strong or physical, to nerdy, to liberal, or they don't like that i like guns, to dressy, not girly enough. I'm a weird hodgepodge of interests and life styles. I'm normally the one that does the pursuing and building my partners up. I want to be pursued for a change and be the one to feel desired before i give it back 10 fold.
Female (34) Springfield, Vermont
I am an older woman who has always known I am submissive but I have never had the nerve to do anything about it. I met a man quite sometime ago who was into flogging and introduced me to that good experience. Unfortunately he went away before he could show me more. I have limits and am firm on safe and sane.
Female (79) Bennington, Vermont
I like reading on my phone and playing video games. As well as watching tv and movies. I also like hanging with friends and family. But I’d really enjoy being with Alpha, if I had an Alpha. I enjoy existing with my Alpha. I’d like to build a nest and be surrounded by my Alpha and my Alpha’s scent. Where I feel safest. I love being called a good girl or a good omega. I love being marked by my Alpha’s teeth and feeling those marks for weeks. So I know who I belong to. Just want to be a good omega for my Alpha.
Female (26) Colchester, Vermont
Single BBW. Looking for a kinky friend with benefits with the possibility of that turning into long term. I do not video chat until I get to know you. Cyber fun is alright if it's long distance. I'm sub ish but definitely a brat. Maybe could switch with the right person. Pic exchange is fine. If you have any other questions, ask.
Female (43) East Dummerston, Vermont
Hi. My name is Hanna. I’m 30 years old. No kids. 420 friendly. I love to play videos games, smoke weed, drink and have fun. I’m currently looking for chats, maybe some fun on the side… I have never got to try bondage but it is something I’ve been dying to try for a while. I’d prefer a consistent long-term hookup if it ever leads to anything as such.
Female (30) Burlington, Vermont
Writer ✧ Photographer-in-progress ✧ Cat mom Cozy jeans + hoodies + natural curls. I’m a gentle, creative girl who loves stories, quiet moments, and small adventures — thrift shops, late-night drives, pretty scenery, and comfy nights in. I don’t wear much makeup (still learning), but I like keeping things natural and soft. Looking for someone kind, calm, and genuine. If you’re patient, funny, or a little artsy, we’ll probably get along. Bonus points if you like a fox pup to play with. Trust me the blow jobs are better when Im a pup. Other likes: Choking, gentle nipple play, breeding, praise, doggie style, finger fucking (a lot). Also: Its hard for me to cum, so I last forever and Im insatiable.
Female (35) Bradford, Vermont
I love exploring kink. I have varied interests. I do have a Daddy and I’m his “cutie”. Daddy wants me to continue to explore my sexuality. Open to 1:1 play, MFM, MFF, would also like to connect with other Daddies and have a play date with another little.
Female (46) Elmore, Vermont
white female, “looks down between her legs, yep still female” 55, single looking to explore this part of my sexuality. Have had some exploration in kink but pretty innocent. chocking is fun but not to hard, maybe that was to deep too fast. ok how about I like candles dripped on my body. Anyway I’m open to being a Sub. I have been in control of my life for a very long time. To submit to another seems very sexy to me. thank you for your time.
Female (56) Sugarbush Valley, Vermont
A little attention, a little tribute… a lot of satisfaction ;) $5.55 tribute for a response (ask for platform) Soft Dom • Femdom • *** 20 • Leo • Emø Girl
Female (20) Montpelier, Vermont
I am into a lot and willing to explore. I am whatever you would like me to be. Looking for a Dom, or kinky FWB. High sexual drive , need to get fucked. Want pictures! Message me! Take Control!
Female (39) Saint Johnsbury, Vermont
NEWSFLASH! I read profiles. You are what you say, so messaging me as a sub when you're listed as a Dom will get you ignored. The same applies for any other orientation, gender or role that I have listed on my profile that I don't want. I am interested in straight, submissive men only and I will go so far as to say that if you would entertain anything other than a dominant, straight biological female, there's nothing for you here. All dominants, switches, couples and females who message me will be blocked. The second you say you have no limits, I block you. It shows me how little you actually know. and you're not a safe person for yourself or for anyone who would play with you. I don't switch, no exceptions ever. My ideal is an experienced, 100% biological male submissive, circumcised and heterosexual. My preference is for married males, age 35 to 55. Not a dominant male looking to explore the sub role, not a switch - I seek a 100% submissive male that is LOCAL or in a neighboring state. NO: Females, dominants, switches, bisexuals, ENM's, sissies, trans, non-binary, gender fluid, furries, or age players. I won't be your "third" and I won't help you train your sub. I'm also not a milf looking for a hook up. 420, alcohol, cigarettes and all other recreational substances are repulsive to me, but I am certain you will find your tribe on here somewhere. I'm not one for mustaches and beards, either. STI/STD free goes without saying, impeccable hygiene is non-negotiable. I'm not in to cybering or camming. I am real and looking to play in person. Expect to be vetted. I expect the same.
Female (37) Brattleboro, Vermont
I’m super into daddy/daughter/DDLG. (*** little girl) i want to experiment with using diapers, double penetration, being praised & respectfully dominated, not using condoms (safely, I use a diaphragm & spermicide as protection), and especially age play. I’m also new to cnc (consensual non-consent) but would love to experiment more too. I love pretending I’m much younger and don’t have control over what happens :) I promise I’m beautiful but not uploading photos for professional reasons 😘
Female (24) Winooski, Vermont
Wanna know the difference between me & a mosquito? 😈🤪🤭 Looking for a fun arrangement(s) that is entirely stress and drama free! Happy to host for a sexy snuggle sesh 🤪😈 open to all connections! Hugeeee movie buff who enjoys acting like a feral gremlin when she finds shiny rocks outside 😂😂
Female (25) Sheldon, Vermont
Only looking for BIsexual women who want a 3 way to be a cum slut for me and a boyfriend that's it. one time thing only maybe if I think the vide is right I'll keep. U around my rules only when it comes to 3 ways. Alpha female brat with a dominate brat tamer/ degrader Both interested in BDMS. Absolutely no swingers I Dont want ur ratched ass man and ur not touching mine unless I say so my man my rules
Female (24) Marshfield, Vermont
Cute, curvy BBW looking for well-endowed men, preference for black men
Female (42) Winooski, Vermont

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