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:fire: :fire: **Not here for quick scenes, pen pals, or long-distance power trips. If you’re real, local, age-appropriate(ish), and ready for more, read on.** :fire: :fire: In my everyday life, I’m the one in charge. I lead and direct people, manage chaos, and take care of everyone else’s needs. But when the door closes and the lights glow red, I want to be undone, tied up tight, pushed around, and owned without mercy. Under the sheets I don’t want soft suggestions or sweet talk. I want a man whose voice drips authority and whose grip burns into my skin, reminding me exactly who I belong to. Someone grounded, commanding, and emotionally present, strong enough to hold the weight of me but rough enough to leave a hand free to spank my ass when I get mouthy. Which I likely will. (Sorry, not sorry…yet). :speak_no_evil: I’m soft. Curvy. Service-driven. Dripping with warmth and sexual appetite. Explicitly telling and showing me _exactly_ how I can be useful to you is a fast-track to getting me worked up. And when the connection is deep and the control is real, I crave even more intensity. Free use, an impactful swat or pinch that lights up every inch of my skin, and being used hard while I’m praised for being your good little whore… or punished for being your bad one. I like being pushed to the edge. I like being messy. But I also like knowing that after you ruin me, you’ll hold me while I catch my breath. I want to know that when I give you everything of me, you won’t disappear. My mind frequently wanders to fantasies of being owned so completely that handing over the key to my apartment toes the line between safety and consequence. I want you to know when to show up without asking, how to slip in quietly while I sleep, and that it’s fair game to take what’s rightfully yours when you want and need it. I’m searching for the rare breed who doesn’t ask permission but takes what he wants with raw power. Someone who’ll pull me down hard, talk dirty to remind me I’m his plaything, and push me beyond the limits I thought I had, always respecting the delicate line between desire and real damage. I want that level of surrender with someone who sees me, holds me, and never forgets there’s a human being behind the filthy mind and mouth that longs to be objectified. And I need to be able to trust that you will never cross that line into harm. I’ve done the “good girl” thing and have been the fantasy and the perfect submissive. I’ve been promised devotion only to be ghosted after the high wore off. I’m no weekend kink dispensary or dirty secret. I’m a whole woman with a full, normal and mostly well-functioning life who also happens to get incredibly turned on by the idea of being used like a filthy toy by someone who actually gives a damn. Outside the bedroom, I’m ambitious, independent, and probably doing too much…so naturally, once in a while, I could really use a man who orders me to lie down, spread my legs, and behave. I sometimes unintentionally test, intentionally tease, and check to see if you’ll rise to meet me where I’m at… and I know the right partner will. He’ll challenge me, cherish me, and claim me without ever letting me forget who’s really in charge. Because I’m primarily after a serious, committed and monogamous long-term relationship, I connect best with local, emotionally available, dominant men close to my age (give or take about 8 years). If you want casual play, no strings, or quick scenes, I’m not your match. But if you lead with strength, stay with care, and want to build something real, let’s talk. == Results from bdsmtest.org: == 100% Degradee 100% Rope *** 96% Submissive 92% Voyeur 91% Exhibitionist 83% Masochist 75% Pet 73% Experimentalist 66% Brat 53% Slave 22% Non-monogamist 20% Rigger 19% Primal (Prey) 18% Vanilla 12% Master/Mistress 12% Sadist 10% Dominant 9% Owner 7% Switch 6% Brat tamer 4% Daddy/Mommy 2% Primal (Hunter) 2% Degrader 0% Ageplayer 0% Little
Female (46) Alexandria, Virginia
I'm looking for a long term sweet relationship! My ideal partner is fun, energetic, and attentive! But I'm open to other possibilities! Anything is possible!😊
Female (36) Alexandria, Virginia
I can tell you a lot about myself, but everything you need to know about me you can see in the depths of my eyes. I don't want long conversations, I want a real relationship.
Female (38) Alexandria, Virginia
5ft5in 201lbs Caramel skin, thick, top heavy, love swimming, love dressing sexy. Reddish brown hair to my shoulders. Searching* Did hard core bdsm sessions for 15 years, now I jus wanna be desired worshipped adored! AND SERVED I'm looking for friends or Subs! Maybe a sweet daddy, but that would be more longterm. Not into submitting but have had to be domestic as a wife n mom and I hate it. I'm here to be Me to feel free, to feel anything again. Learning what the new me likes date by date. Can you convince me ur worth my time? I used to have a foot fetish, but I need to re evaluate what turns me on! Besides a really good pressureless Maasage! But more than anything a long-term commitment if those exist in this lifestyle. Trust at my age with kids is not easy to come by!
Female (29) Alexandria, Virginia
I love being watched while I play with myself. I’m really into the kinky stuff and pleasing others. I love making custom videos for those who like watching, but I love going live and being told what to do for a large group of people. Makes me drip. I’m working up to doing in person live parties but whoa that might be a future thing lol ☀️ OF Sinchip❤️ I’m a ***al loving camgirl so you know I’m not scared of kinks. Let’s have a conversation about your wet dreams, what gets you going and how I can get you going.
Female (20) Alexandria, Virginia
howdy! I’m a single gal tired of trying to drag vanilla dudes into kinky situations. put together professional in a field that lets me be as kooky as I want to be. in my down time, I like to work on fiber art projects, bake, practice archery, listen to new wave/post-punk, and chill with my 1001 cats.
Female (34) Alexandria, Virginia
Looking to live out some CNC/Public Groping fantasies that I cant seem to shake! New to this, so would want to ramp up.
Female (33) Alexandria, Virginia
I'm just curious about this app and the people in it. I consider myself to lean sub, but I'm open to being switch, maybe with another woman. I'm not too experienced or into hard stuff.
Female (25) Alexandria, Virginia
hey lovers! I'm kimmie 💋 I am very in tune with my spirituality and sexuality and I'm open to exploring more. my time is the most precious thing to me so let's not waste it drifting and let's float in the clouds together instead 💕
Female (36) Alexandria, Virginia
First thing you need to understand I'm NOT a Dom/ Mistressif that is what you are looking for keep stepping. I'm not a slave and I say NO also if you are here just to fuck keep stepping. I'm looking for a Dom/Daddy not a fuck boy. If you have answered correctly so far then keep reading. I'm a brat that likes to top from the bottom sometimes, I just want a good spanking sometimes. I'm looking for a man, please no boys. I need a wolf looking for their ***. Growling, required. I love sucking cock. I also love it when you read to me, I am not a slave so if that is what you are looking for, keep stepping. LTR ONLY PLEASE. I'm not looking for just a hook up. FYI : I bit, not hard enough to cut skin just a nibble
Female (55) Alexandria, Virginia
Looking for something casual and fun. I am a busy woman and don’t have the mental capacity to date. Fighting urge every day not to be a bitch to men so don’t give me an excuse. I want to get laid but the window of that need comes and goes.
Female (27) Alexandria, Virginia
Trilingual, biracial, bicultural, pansexual, sapiosexual, non-monogamous, sex positive, leftist, neurodivergent, do-gooder. HSV positive but no outbreaks in years. vaxxed and tested 2/2025. Prefer my kink to come with emotional and physical intimacy, security, and safety. Looking for a primary partner and/or friends. A sub who is into BDSM, touching, 1:1, and group play. In the right scenario, would welcome a gang bang (still on my bucket list). Emotionally available pleasure Doms to the front of the line! Don’t enjoy: right wing, trump lovers, LGBTQ phobes, oligarchs. My soul is much younger than my years.
Female (58) Alexandria, Virginia
dark humor. book reader. bourbon enthusiast. relatively intelligent. solid emotional intelligence. mostly good at emotional regulation. fun. boring. travel/adventure. staycation.
Female (38) Alexandria, Virginia
I enjoy all things outdoors but I have extra love for being at the water (ocean, river, lake). I’m looking for friends (some with benefits to share with male friend) that want to go on adventures and enjoy life.
Female (50) Alexandria, Virginia
I am not looking for a hook-up or a ONS. If this is what you are looking for, please keep moving. I am a Sapoisexual and a Demiromantic, if you don't connect with me on a deeper level, you will never get in my pants. If you are going to send me a message, please say more than hi! I am an alpha submissive looking for my exclusive Pleasure/Daddy Dom. If you fit this description and are interested in seeing if we can make a deeper connection, please tell me about yourself.
Female (40) Alexandria, Virginia
Sub who is looking for someone to control my orgasms. I love being denied for long periods of time and just pleasing my Master/Mistress. My biggest kinks are breeding, *** play, and long-term orgasm denial :)
Female (25) Alexandria, Virginia

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I'm looking for a long term sweet relationship! My ideal partner is fun, energetic, and attentive! But I'm open to other possibilities! Anything is possible!😊
Female (36) Alexandria, Virginia
I can tell you a lot about myself, but everything you need to know about me you can see in the depths of my eyes. I don't want long conversations, I want a real relationship.
Female (38) Alexandria, Virginia
5ft5in 201lbs Caramel skin, thick, top heavy, love swimming, love dressing sexy. Reddish brown hair to my shoulders. Searching* Did hard core bdsm sessions for 15 years, now I jus wanna be desired worshipped adored! AND SERVED I'm looking for friends or Subs! Maybe a sweet daddy, but that would be more longterm. Not into submitting but have had to be domestic as a wife n mom and I hate it. I'm here to be Me to feel free, to feel anything again. Learning what the new me likes date by date. Can you convince me ur worth my time? I used to have a foot fetish, but I need to re evaluate what turns me on! Besides a really good pressureless Maasage! But more than anything a long-term commitment if those exist in this lifestyle. Trust at my age with kids is not easy to come by!
Female (29) Alexandria, Virginia
:fire: :fire: **Not here for quick scenes, pen pals, or long-distance power trips. If you’re real, local, age-appropriate(ish), and ready for more, read on.** :fire: :fire: In my everyday life, I’m the one in charge. I lead and direct people, manage chaos, and take care of everyone else’s needs. But when the door closes and the lights glow red, I want to be undone, tied up tight, pushed around, and owned without mercy. Under the sheets I don’t want soft suggestions or sweet talk. I want a man whose voice drips authority and whose grip burns into my skin, reminding me exactly who I belong to. Someone grounded, commanding, and emotionally present, strong enough to hold the weight of me but rough enough to leave a hand free to spank my ass when I get mouthy. Which I likely will. (Sorry, not sorry…yet). :speak_no_evil: I’m soft. Curvy. Service-driven. Dripping with warmth and sexual appetite. Explicitly telling and showing me _exactly_ how I can be useful to you is a fast-track to getting me worked up. And when the connection is deep and the control is real, I crave even more intensity. Free use, an impactful swat or pinch that lights up every inch of my skin, and being used hard while I’m praised for being your good little whore… or punished for being your bad one. I like being pushed to the edge. I like being messy. But I also like knowing that after you ruin me, you’ll hold me while I catch my breath. I want to know that when I give you everything of me, you won’t disappear. My mind frequently wanders to fantasies of being owned so completely that handing over the key to my apartment toes the line between safety and consequence. I want you to know when to show up without asking, how to slip in quietly while I sleep, and that it’s fair game to take what’s rightfully yours when you want and need it. I’m searching for the rare breed who doesn’t ask permission but takes what he wants with raw power. Someone who’ll pull me down hard, talk dirty to remind me I’m his plaything, and push me beyond the limits I thought I had, always respecting the delicate line between desire and real damage. I want that level of surrender with someone who sees me, holds me, and never forgets there’s a human being behind the filthy mind and mouth that longs to be objectified. And I need to be able to trust that you will never cross that line into harm. I’ve done the “good girl” thing and have been the fantasy and the perfect submissive. I’ve been promised devotion only to be ghosted after the high wore off. I’m no weekend kink dispensary or dirty secret. I’m a whole woman with a full, normal and mostly well-functioning life who also happens to get incredibly turned on by the idea of being used like a filthy toy by someone who actually gives a damn. Outside the bedroom, I’m ambitious, independent, and probably doing too much…so naturally, once in a while, I could really use a man who orders me to lie down, spread my legs, and behave. I sometimes unintentionally test, intentionally tease, and check to see if you’ll rise to meet me where I’m at… and I know the right partner will. He’ll challenge me, cherish me, and claim me without ever letting me forget who’s really in charge. Because I’m primarily after a serious, committed and monogamous long-term relationship, I connect best with local, emotionally available, dominant men close to my age (give or take about 8 years). If you want casual play, no strings, or quick scenes, I’m not your match. But if you lead with strength, stay with care, and want to build something real, let’s talk. == Results from bdsmtest.org: == 100% Degradee 100% Rope *** 96% Submissive 92% Voyeur 91% Exhibitionist 83% Masochist 75% Pet 73% Experimentalist 66% Brat 53% Slave 22% Non-monogamist 20% Rigger 19% Primal (Prey) 18% Vanilla 12% Master/Mistress 12% Sadist 10% Dominant 9% Owner 7% Switch 6% Brat tamer 4% Daddy/Mommy 2% Primal (Hunter) 2% Degrader 0% Ageplayer 0% Little
Female (46) Alexandria, Virginia
Looking for something casual and fun. I am a busy woman and don’t have the mental capacity to date. Fighting urge every day not to be a bitch to men so don’t give me an excuse. I want to get laid but the window of that need comes and goes.
Female (27) Alexandria, Virginia
Looking to live out some CNC/Public Groping fantasies that I cant seem to shake! New to this, so would want to ramp up.
Female (33) Alexandria, Virginia
hey lovers! I'm kimmie 💋 I am very in tune with my spirituality and sexuality and I'm open to exploring more. my time is the most precious thing to me so let's not waste it drifting and let's float in the clouds together instead 💕
Female (36) Alexandria, Virginia
I love being watched while I play with myself. I’m really into the kinky stuff and pleasing others. I love making custom videos for those who like watching, but I love going live and being told what to do for a large group of people. Makes me drip. I’m working up to doing in person live parties but whoa that might be a future thing lol ☀️ OF Sinchip❤️ I’m a ***al loving camgirl so you know I’m not scared of kinks. Let’s have a conversation about your wet dreams, what gets you going and how I can get you going.
Female (20) Alexandria, Virginia
I'm just curious about this app and the people in it. I consider myself to lean sub, but I'm open to being switch, maybe with another woman. I'm not too experienced or into hard stuff.
Female (25) Alexandria, Virginia
dark humor. book reader. bourbon enthusiast. relatively intelligent. solid emotional intelligence. mostly good at emotional regulation. fun. boring. travel/adventure. staycation.
Female (38) Alexandria, Virginia
Trilingual, biracial, bicultural, pansexual, sapiosexual, non-monogamous, sex positive, leftist, neurodivergent, do-gooder. HSV positive but no outbreaks in years. vaxxed and tested 2/2025. Prefer my kink to come with emotional and physical intimacy, security, and safety. Looking for a primary partner and/or friends. A sub who is into BDSM, touching, 1:1, and group play. In the right scenario, would welcome a gang bang (still on my bucket list). Emotionally available pleasure Doms to the front of the line! Don’t enjoy: right wing, trump lovers, LGBTQ phobes, oligarchs. My soul is much younger than my years.
Female (58) Alexandria, Virginia
howdy! I’m a single gal tired of trying to drag vanilla dudes into kinky situations. put together professional in a field that lets me be as kooky as I want to be. in my down time, I like to work on fiber art projects, bake, practice archery, listen to new wave/post-punk, and chill with my 1001 cats.
Female (34) Alexandria, Virginia
I am not looking for a hook-up or a ONS. If this is what you are looking for, please keep moving. I am a Sapoisexual and a Demiromantic, if you don't connect with me on a deeper level, you will never get in my pants. If you are going to send me a message, please say more than hi! I am an alpha submissive looking for my exclusive Pleasure/Daddy Dom. If you fit this description and are interested in seeing if we can make a deeper connection, please tell me about yourself.
Female (40) Alexandria, Virginia
First thing you need to understand I'm NOT a Dom/ Mistressif that is what you are looking for keep stepping. I'm not a slave and I say NO also if you are here just to fuck keep stepping. I'm looking for a Dom/Daddy not a fuck boy. If you have answered correctly so far then keep reading. I'm a brat that likes to top from the bottom sometimes, I just want a good spanking sometimes. I'm looking for a man, please no boys. I need a wolf looking for their ***. Growling, required. I love sucking cock. I also love it when you read to me, I am not a slave so if that is what you are looking for, keep stepping. LTR ONLY PLEASE. I'm not looking for just a hook up. FYI : I bit, not hard enough to cut skin just a nibble
Female (55) Alexandria, Virginia
I enjoy all things outdoors but I have extra love for being at the water (ocean, river, lake). I’m looking for friends (some with benefits to share with male friend) that want to go on adventures and enjoy life.
Female (50) Alexandria, Virginia
Sub who is looking for someone to control my orgasms. I love being denied for long periods of time and just pleasing my Master/Mistress. My biggest kinks are breeding, *** play, and long-term orgasm denial :)
Female (25) Alexandria, Virginia

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