BDSM Dating in Chesapeake

I just want someone to spoil and adore and have the same given back to me. Someone who gives me attention without me begging, talks to me, doesn’t just vanish for hours without letting me know. I’m an overthinker and I am extremely open. I say what I feel and want and if that’s too much oh well. I just want to be seen for me, accepted for me, and I want to feel safe with the person I care for. The kinky stuff is fun and all but it’s never going to be the thing that makes or breaks it for me.