Looking for ENM/ poly community, friendships or more with depth, and not here for pure play.
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!! With due respect, will not date people who ascribe to prescriptive hierarchy.
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A poly/ ambiamorous woman seeking emotionally and spiritually stimulating connections and friendships with kind, mature and open minded people. I would like to be able to talk to people in a safe, non judgmental space about everything life (the good, bad and ugly). I love meaningful conversations, psychology, craft beers, bourbon, concerts, dancing, karaoke, food and travel. I am an incorrigible empath, a good listener, and am known to be a dependable friend. Respect and kindness are non-negotiable. I am most attracted to conversational chemistry and emotional intelligence.
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Dating preferences: Solo poly, monogamous or non hierarchical partners seeking serious relationships, friendship or more. I’m also open to a LTR and nesting with someone and/ or going on dates a couple of times a week. I like spontaneity and fun along with emotional depth, consistent physical presence (within defined boundaries) and intimacy so someone who has a lot going on, is emotionally unavailable or is too pressed for time will not be a good fit for me.
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I’m minimalistic and slow, and prefer quality of connections and do not stretch myself too thin or date people who do so as I believe that some level of commitment and focused time to build something solid is important in romantic relationships.
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At this time I am very interested in meeting activity partners to explore the local food, bar/ distillery/ winery, music, movie scene with, travel buddies (if the wavelength matches), ENM/ poly meetups and support groups and so on. I love spontaneous plans as opposed to going by a hard set schedule or by the book. I would like to see where things take me organically with people I meet here, and I do not underestimate the value of platonic friendships.
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A few deal breakers - After care, communication and keeping in touch are essential for me within the boundaries of a relationship. I’m not compatible with emotionally unavailable people. For romantic relationships, if your idea of “casual” is treating partners casually or loosely and you are looking for just a filler or a fling, we are a bad match. I give a lot of love, attention and intimacy to my partners and expect the same, while respecting each other’s space and boundaries. I’m a hopeless romantic and seek deep, almost spiritual intimacy (not just sex). I prefer a consistent and cozy connection and am not interested in one off transactional encounters, or FWB type of equations.
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*Health - Only okay with asymptomatic oral herpes, rest are deal breakers*
P.S. Me and my husband are two best friends married for 15 years , and are exploring ENM and polyamory. I do not intend to change my set up. I am still making sense of this lifestyle and exploring what I’m really seeking in different relationship dynamics. I will provide details when we start talking.
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