BDSM Dating in Newport News

Looking for a long-term, monogamous pet-play relationship where we can switch roles.
I’m in Virginia and looking for something that includes pet play, affection, and cute dates 🙂. I’d ideally like someone with a somewhat active lifestyle who also enjoys staying in sometimes.
I’m not looking for a perfect checklist match. Chemistry, communication, and finding a dynamic that works for both of us matter more.