BDSM Dating in Richmond

hi there everyone! i know this may be a longshot and im not sure if this is the app for this but i’m looking for a dom/cg primarily. i’m demisexual so once i have a relationship with you the intimacy comes with it but i have a lot of mental illnesses that dont let me work, need help in keeping up with things, etc. i’m poly and nonbinary so if you want to have other partners that’s fine as well but i have bpd and my fp was my last caregiver so i’m kind of freaking out a little. i would prefer somebody close (obviously) as i live in richmond but if you’re willing to come to me after a while that’s fine too! if you read to here/are interested we can chat or leave a comment and ill try to get to you !