BDSM Dating in Suffolk

Would love to meet a young SWM, Tall, Impeccable hygiene, and ATHLETIC to hang out with for the weekend. Prefer ages 27 - 32. Just vanilla, not willing to try BDSM with someone I don’t know. If you are not comfortable or confident enough to be seen with an older black woman do not waste your time talking to me. Must do a FT before we meet to ensure there is no cat fishing.
NOT into dadbods, overweight, or men that like other men (my choice).