Hi hi! My name is Laney. I'm a 19 year old girl looking for an older man (ideally 30–55) with a calm, steady presence who enjoys giving structured, comforting spankings in a gentle, authoritative way.
I'm quite shy and soft-spoken, and it makes me a bit nervous, but I am looking for someone who can help guide me through exploring this as it's something I've wanted to do for a long time. I’m not looking for harsh punishment or sexual exchange. For me, this is about feeling safe, taken care of, and gently led. I’d like to meet with someone who knows how to be in control but not aggressively, rather someone who is confident and in control, as well as very kind and gentle. I want to feel guided through the experience: given instructions, corrected, lightly scolded, but also reassured and praised throughout. I’d like an OTK scene with clothing fully off, starting with your hand and building up to a paddle or hairbrush. I have a pretty low tolerance, so I’d want it to stay at a manageable level, but still a bit ful. A safe-word would definitely be important. Praise is something I respond to deeply, so I'd like to receive that throughout. I'd also be open to some sexual touch after a scene, but only very small, tame things like fingering, if there’s comfort and trust. But I want to be clear that I'm not looking for penetrative sex or reciprocal contact. Another thing- I’m not going to post photos of myself publicly because I really am nervous about privacy, but if we talk a bit and build some comfort, I’d be okay sharing pictures or short videos privately. I would like to meet somebody in person- ideally for a dinner or coffee or something beforehand to feel more comfortable, and then go to a hotel or other private space together for the scene. I won’t be in Bellingham over the summer, but I’d love to talk for a while and get to know you slowly, and hopefully meet up in the fall once I’m back at school. Thank you for reading! :)

BDSM Play Partner ● 30 to 55 years ● 10km around USA Bellingham

Don't be obsessed with looks it's shallow.

Please don't reach out, meet-up, lead me on, than ghost and block for no reason. It's not mature, or necessary we are both adults so let's handle it like ones. Don't like me? That's completely fine but literally tell me! Seriously...

Okay anyway hi!! Hope i didn't scare you off...

I’m brand new to the BDSM and DD/lg world, but I’m already hooked on the idea of having a Dom who’s strong, steady, and knows exactly how to take care of meβ€”physically, mentally, and emotionally.

I’ll admit, I’m a little shy as I step into this new world, but the excitement of exploring it with the right Dom makes my heart race. I’m eager, curious, and ready to let someone take the leadβ€”gently guiding me as I learn, but always with care and attention. The thought of being spoiled and cherished while learning the ropes of this lifestyle makes me feel both nervous and thrilled all at once.

I’m 4'11, 130lbs, but I’m not skinny or "slender" I am curvy, soft, feminine, and unapologetically confident in my own skin. I know my body isn’t everyone’s ideal, and that’s fine with me. I take my health seriously, weigh myself daily, and take pride in being strong, healthy, and comfortable with the way I look.
I’m sweet, playful, and love a Dom who’s not afraid to set rules, offer affection, and hold space for me to grow. I’m drawn to structure and love being spoiled with attention, praise, and a little discipline when it’s earned.

Please be honest with me about who you are and what you’re really looking for. I get attached easily, and my heart is softβ€”I’m not built for games or mixed signals. I want something real and safe, with someone who’s just as eager to build something deep and lasting as I am.

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 58 years ● 320km around USA Bellingham

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