BDSM Dating in Seattle

NSA unless there is a connection then we can see where it goes, but must be able to take 9" hard. This is a deal breaker because stopping myself not all the way is extremely frustrating. Local preferably but I travel alot for work so my area is pretty wide. Love to go out for drinks or dinners or live music and can hold a conversation because foreplay starts in the mind and should be an day build up. My place, your place, hotels are always great to change the scenery as long as we keep it fun for the both of us!