Kinky women in Vancouver

Hi hi! I have no experience in this lifestyle whatsoever but it’s definitely something I’m interested in. Let me know if you think you could teach me a little about the dom/sub lifestyle!

casual isn’t my thing. don’t message me if you’re looking for fwbs or to hookup right away. demisexual, but i can feel things out quickly if you spark my interest. super shy. patience, compassion, and a charitable character is my biggest turn on c: i prefer doms who are older and are more of a Daddy/Mommy type. ddlg/abdl and pet play dynamics have my heart, im only interested in pursuing those relationships. (:

I’m going to be so honest, I thought this was Fetish Finder.🤦🏼‍♀️🤣 My main goal is to build a portfolio as a Mistress but I’m currently creating content involving food, balloons, and really whatever tickles my fancy (and other parts). I want to make tasteful art that happens to be sexy.😈😇 I’m not looking to date; I’m looking for specific, meaningful exchanges with people who know what they want. Send me ideas/inspiration/fantasies and we can discuss pricing. Hell, if I really like the idea, or you, I’ll do it for free! 💋*The weirder, the better!*💋

Female half of extremely sexual couple. we love to play together or separate. we like playing with singles or couples. interested in threesomes, group sex, or one on one fun. Very interested in exploring more one on one with women. I am open to almost anything, come teach me something 😉 Bonus points if you like to camp, planning out a sexy camping weekend. Please don’t request access to my private gallery until we have messaged and then ask me directly instead of just request. ☺️

I'm here to meet new people and hopefully make some friends. it's been hard to meet people so here I am . who knows if this will actually work but I figure it's worth a try. I wanna meet more people in the lifestyle , more people with similar interests and see where things take us . come say hi , who knows what might happen

CIS WOMEN ONLY👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩 I’m ENM (solo) looking to explore the other side of my sexuality with a cis woman. I love anything nature related. Hiking, pottery (it’s clay after all), or even just going to the farmers market and having a picnic. 🌳🏕️ I tend to overshare, so shut me up with a kiss 😉 Bratty and goofy all in one 🙈

Single, looking for a longterm monogamous relationship with a kinky, fun, D/s aspect. I’ve been active in the local kink community for over 20 years. I enjoy going to munches and clubs with other kinky people. I’m seriously just looking for a D/s romantic forever relationship. I want to find someone who fully embraces the idea of a traditional relationship where you’re in charge but not in a micromanaging way. Overly educated empty nester with a full and happy life and a successful career. I have a bunch of diy projects and hobbies going all the time. I like thrift shopping, gardening, cooking, all kinds of girly things. I’m NOT looking for someone to support me and I won’t quit my job. I love what I do and it makes a real difference in the world. Very much NOT interested in poly, ENM, or anything other than LTR. You can find me on Fetlife under the same user name.

I’m looking for a kinky boyfriend! Interested in the position? Feel free to enquire about seasonal work as a FWB. Sorry for the novel. To save us all time, I’ve had to keep adding things as I meet people here to be clear on what I’m seeking. I’m looking for someone who’s located within a 25ish mile radius of Vancouver WA. I can’t really host except a couple hours a week. I have my kid full time. She attends online school and aside from school holidays or when she’s at a couple of *** nights on Tuesday and Wednesday evenings, she’s home with me. That said, if you’re good I’ll eventually let you come over😉. My life is pretty busy but my feral 40s have kicked in and my needs often sneak up on me and demand to be met so accessibility is a huge priority. If I have to go to you (because my kid is underfoot) I can’t be driving for ages. I appreciate offers to travel to me but if I’m going to entertain that, know that you’re paying for the hotel room and you have to video chat with me at least a couple times first. I’m looking for in person fun only. I’m not interested in the virtual kinky conversations with anyone who’s not local. Please note I am a sapiosexual. If you want to get in my pants you’re gonna have to actually hold a conversation with me. I’m a curvy girl whose primary love language is physical touch and acts of service (ie I’m looking for someone nurturing). If you’re not very affectionate or snuggly do us both a favor and hit up someone else because neither of us would be happy together. I’m empathetic, intelligent, ambiverted & creative. I am currently obsessed with making pottery, and I enjoy reading smutty Romantacy. Im AuDHD, a homebody who wants snuggles in bed, and Saturday trips to farmers markets with a coffee in one hand and you in the other. Let’s go find food 🍱 🥩, get a ☕️ 🍸🥃, walk by/play in water🌊, enjoy music 🎼 , 💃 dancing, comedy 🎭 , a museum 🖼️, or the ballet 🩰 . —- Things that could be DEALBREAKERS for YOU: I’m a single mom with full time custody of a 14yr old who is 🏳️‍⚧️ 🏳️‍⚧️ 🏳️‍⚧️. I’m almost 5’ 9” and prefer you’re my height or taller. For those of you with bad allergies, I have 2 🐈‍ cats. Not open to cyber sex, *** 3 ways, or group activities of any kind.

** kinda lost interest in dating/vetting for now, so I’m really just here for the forums, and the random occasional mood to chat ** I’m naturally attracted to men who allow me to explore my submissive side, preferably with someone comfortable or familiar with the D/s dynamic , and wanting a committed monogamous relationship.

the unicorn you both have been looking for. I'm not here to come between yall I'm here to come with yall. I love love... as long as its someone else's. I want to be the bridge inbetween your desire and reality. you take care of me and ill make sure to take care of you both. to be very clear- I'm not trying to join your relationship I'm trying to help you enhance it. think of me as the toy you brought home to spice things up a bit, and babes I promise you ill do just that

looking to learn and experience more…I’m a caregiver to the core but I really want to be taken care of, pampered, spoiled, dom/sub dynamic… teach me, I’m fairly new to this!

I’ve self funded so far, gotten filler, Botox, lashes, bbl, BA, lipo and rib remolding. Well ideally I’d like an intense tpe relationship where my partner is privately my owner and supports me while telling me how to look, dress, what surgeries to get etc. I’m in school atm so I don’t want to sit around and do nothing but I help with the bills and they cover what it takes to be molded into their dream. I’m open to eventual relocation but for the next couple of years school comes first and is nonnegotiable atm. Like I think it’s really hot for my owner to come up to me be like “ok so you’re getting your hair done at 9:40, then you’ll go the salon, the usual, afterwards you have a laser appointment, make sure you wear the red dress I like and we’re going out for dinner, hope you like the house salad”. Please don’t message me if you wanna give only advice, RP or not take it seriously. Also, I’m looking for someone that we can both fuel our passion, and we can support each other. Not someone to just tell me what to do while I do all the work, pay for everything etc. I want to respect both our times so please don’t play any games. If you’re interested DM me and I hope we can make something work.

I’ve always been kinky, and submissive. I love sex, and being used for pleasure. Currently looking for community and someone to explore kink with. I also recognize it’s a process to get there and I need to know I’m respected and can trust the person. Outside of this, I have an active life that lets me get outside, with a regular swim and bike routine. Connecting with nature and finding moments to slow down like watching the leaves blow in the wind is my spiritual practice. Hobbies that bring me joy, home brewed kombucha, gardening and foraging. I have so many other things that pull my attention into learning, growth and curiosity but I will leave it at this for now :)

How do I describe lil ol me? hmmm.... An infinite omega and yet not... something soft and gentle. I love to be caressed but also love a firm bass hand slap on the ass. I'm a 50/50 girl. Love love yet also love it rough. Love the feeling of the rope being united and you get a slow hot burn. Yet a hand that knows how to be gentle and teeth that can bite with just the right pressure. Open to most things and get excited to try new things. Romance is beautiful but being a vixen can be damn sexy. I'm usually pretty dominant and just go after what I want. Unless you make me shy. Then it takes some work. Love to be dominant with my ladies, especially those that enjoy it. Tendency to be submissive with men at least that's what I enjoy to be but some bring out the lioness. Write me. See where it leads....

I like straight men bi women no trans stuff toys lingerie being spoiled spoiling certain *** photography and shopping lol I'm a antiques appraiser and horse trader gypsy and a hippie a hustler and crypto saver a wanna be private pornstar a lady and a slut but only for a very small group and only for a couple months.

Poly/ENM. Drawn to women, tempted by anyone who can connect emotionally and physically tho. If you crave spark, presence, and tension you can taste… come here. Date separate or together no drama let’s talk and figure out dynamic out. Always communicate

I'm a single white female who is open to much. if it's too much I'll tell you, just ask. I like light choking and dominance. I just got out of a marriage and I'm still dealing with that loss. I'm open to friends first, but eventually a no strings, friends with benefits arrangement.

100% Brat. Generally very shy by nature & also bit overwhelmed with all the attention on here 😅 Looking for an experienced & caring dom who may also be interested in pursuing a relationship if the vibes are right. Open to being strictly playmates as well but preference is to build a form a relationship if possible. I can be a challenging brat at times, but I’m definitely not a switch! Not looking to be anyone’s mommy, but maybe I can call you Daddy?

I'm just jumping back into life.... 10 years needed to heal, and I did. shy until you get to know me. if I want your attention... you will know it, ì can be a little brattylol. I am very playful when I trust you. I am very honest and loyal.

Eat my ass like a cupcake! I’m a pretty, plus size , thick goddess who needs her ass worshipped. big beautiful woman lovers only… must be local for a reply.

I'm submissive with a touch of bratty, just looking for some fun/relationship at the moment. I'm looking for a Daddy Dom/Soft Dom to guide me. I'm open to long distance or across the street. I have a voice kink, so I love talking on the phone and really getting to know someone. My kinks are spanking, light choking, Daddy Doms praising me, deep voice kinks.

i tease Becsusr I want to be commanded resist because I want to be broke open I hesitate nexus I'm learning but I'll lean in because I want to follow. I want things most wouldn't and crave things I shouldn't... i sweet with sassy attitude and like to challenge s good girl with a smart ass think you can handle??

I’m newly separating from my only relationship in my adult life of 10 years and intentionally stepping into the next version of my life. I’m a devoted mom, a natural caretaker, and also a certified baddie. I do home renovations, own a little business, and hold my own very well. I’m sweet and capable. I love thrifting, frugal living, cooking, baking, and my daily coffee ritual. I create comfort wherever I go, and when I choose someone, I spoil them through care, warmth, and consistency. I’m neurodivergent (OCD/ADHD), financially responsible, and deeply intentional with my energy. Did I mention I’m energetic asf? Sexually, I crave aggressive, affectionate, emotionally present energy , the kind of dominance that feels passionate, grounding, and deeply connected. I want intensity in bed- assertive, consuming, and sweet all at once. I love being led, reassured, and desired. I’m shy sexually and definitely need the leader part to shine through in my sexual partners. I’m not looking for a full-time or traditional committed relationship. I am looking for a meaningful, respectful, chemistry heavy connection with someone who understands dominance doesn’t require coldness and softness doesn’t mean weakness. I won’t have an exclusive relationship at this time as it’s my first time as an adult being single. I want to learn my way around life. If you want a woman who can bake you bread, run a household, melt into you when she trusts you, and meet your energy with loyalty and heat while calling her the sweetest babygirl around, we’ll probably get along just fine.

tentatively curious my fantasy world has been stimulating enough up until now i just want to make someone very happy and very proud take initiative come with a plan convince me to push my limits tell me i'm a good girl IRL Another neurodivergent mom, trying to disrupt the white supremacy and the patriarchy and still get her brains fucked out. 420 friendly a must. Ethical nonmonogamy - my partner is my home base. I plan to keep him happy as much as I please, just want someone to take charge every once in a while so I can escape this end-stage capitalism serfdom.

Hi hi! I have no experience in this lifestyle whatsoever but it’s definitely something I’m interested in. Let me know if you think you could teach me a little about the dom/sub lifestyle!

I’m going to be so honest, I thought this was Fetish Finder.🤦🏼‍♀️🤣 My main goal is to build a portfolio as a Mistress but I’m currently creating content involving food, balloons, and really whatever tickles my fancy (and other parts). I want to make tasteful art that happens to be sexy.😈😇 I’m not looking to date; I’m looking for specific, meaningful exchanges with people who know what they want. Send me ideas/inspiration/fantasies and we can discuss pricing. Hell, if I really like the idea, or you, I’ll do it for free! 💋*The weirder, the better!*💋

I'm here to meet new people and hopefully make some friends. it's been hard to meet people so here I am . who knows if this will actually work but I figure it's worth a try. I wanna meet more people in the lifestyle , more people with similar interests and see where things take us . come say hi , who knows what might happen

CIS WOMEN ONLY👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩 I’m ENM (solo) looking to explore the other side of my sexuality with a cis woman. I love anything nature related. Hiking, pottery (it’s clay after all), or even just going to the farmers market and having a picnic. 🌳🏕️ I tend to overshare, so shut me up with a kiss 😉 Bratty and goofy all in one 🙈

Single, looking for a longterm monogamous relationship with a kinky, fun, D/s aspect. I’ve been active in the local kink community for over 20 years. I enjoy going to munches and clubs with other kinky people. I’m seriously just looking for a D/s romantic forever relationship. I want to find someone who fully embraces the idea of a traditional relationship where you’re in charge but not in a micromanaging way. Overly educated empty nester with a full and happy life and a successful career. I have a bunch of diy projects and hobbies going all the time. I like thrift shopping, gardening, cooking, all kinds of girly things. I’m NOT looking for someone to support me and I won’t quit my job. I love what I do and it makes a real difference in the world. Very much NOT interested in poly, ENM, or anything other than LTR. You can find me on Fetlife under the same user name.

I am poly with a partner (we date separately). I am looking for another partner where I can have a deep connected relationship that does not just focus on sex but what makes a relationship work. I have 4 kids, and the last was an urgent c-section about 5 months ago and am dealing with complications after it. I am not looking for a hook up or friends with benefits.

casual isn’t my thing. don’t message me if you’re looking for fwbs or to hookup right away. demisexual, but i can feel things out quickly if you spark my interest. super shy. patience, compassion, and a charitable character is my biggest turn on c: i prefer doms who are older and are more of a Daddy/Mommy type. ddlg/abdl and pet play dynamics have my heart, im only interested in pursuing those relationships. (:

Female half of extremely sexual couple. we love to play together or separate. we like playing with singles or couples. interested in threesomes, group sex, or one on one fun. Very interested in exploring more one on one with women. I am open to almost anything, come teach me something 😉 Bonus points if you like to camp, planning out a sexy camping weekend. Please don’t request access to my private gallery until we have messaged and then ask me directly instead of just request. ☺️

Hi there.. Curious, sensual and sarcastic here

I’ve self funded so far, gotten filler, Botox, lashes, bbl, BA, lipo and rib remolding. Well ideally I’d like an intense tpe relationship where my partner is privately my owner and supports me while telling me how to look, dress, what surgeries to get etc. I’m in school atm so I don’t want to sit around and do nothing but I help with the bills and they cover what it takes to be molded into their dream. I’m open to eventual relocation but for the next couple of years school comes first and is nonnegotiable atm. Like I think it’s really hot for my owner to come up to me be like “ok so you’re getting your hair done at 9:40, then you’ll go the salon, the usual, afterwards you have a laser appointment, make sure you wear the red dress I like and we’re going out for dinner, hope you like the house salad”. Please don’t message me if you wanna give only advice, RP or not take it seriously. Also, I’m looking for someone that we can both fuel our passion, and we can support each other. Not someone to just tell me what to do while I do all the work, pay for everything etc. I want to respect both our times so please don’t play any games. If you’re interested DM me and I hope we can make something work.

Hi there!! I am looking for a man to top me. I'm not looking for a vanilla partner. I need someone caring but dominant. I want to be taken away from my reality and put in my subbie place. A play partner. I want a man's hands all over me... and in me! I was in a Master/slave relationship for 10 years and we broke up quite a while ago. I'm ready to have fun again. I'm not interested in 24/7. I don't "top from the bottom", or play games with people's hearts. I am honest to a fault and that honesty sometimes hurts, but I will be the first to tell you when I messed up. I have my own issues and I am working on them, I am not perfect, but I am NOT looking for someone to help fix me. Two notes: I'm sorry, but I'm only interested in men BWC who live in Vancouver Washington. And... I'm disabled. So physically I am unable to do certain things anymore.

Poly/ENM. Drawn to women, tempted by anyone who can connect emotionally and physically tho. If you crave spark, presence, and tension you can taste… come here. Date separate or together no drama let’s talk and figure out dynamic out. Always communicate

** kinda lost interest in dating/vetting for now, so I’m really just here for the forums, and the random occasional mood to chat ** I’m naturally attracted to men who allow me to explore my submissive side, preferably with someone comfortable or familiar with the D/s dynamic , and wanting a committed monogamous relationship.

I’m newly separating from my only relationship in my adult life of 10 years and intentionally stepping into the next version of my life. I’m a devoted mom, a natural caretaker, and also a certified baddie. I do home renovations, own a little business, and hold my own very well. I’m sweet and capable. I love thrifting, frugal living, cooking, baking, and my daily coffee ritual. I create comfort wherever I go, and when I choose someone, I spoil them through care, warmth, and consistency. I’m neurodivergent (OCD/ADHD), financially responsible, and deeply intentional with my energy. Did I mention I’m energetic asf? Sexually, I crave aggressive, affectionate, emotionally present energy , the kind of dominance that feels passionate, grounding, and deeply connected. I want intensity in bed- assertive, consuming, and sweet all at once. I love being led, reassured, and desired. I’m shy sexually and definitely need the leader part to shine through in my sexual partners. I’m not looking for a full-time or traditional committed relationship. I am looking for a meaningful, respectful, chemistry heavy connection with someone who understands dominance doesn’t require coldness and softness doesn’t mean weakness. I won’t have an exclusive relationship at this time as it’s my first time as an adult being single. I want to learn my way around life. If you want a woman who can bake you bread, run a household, melt into you when she trusts you, and meet your energy with loyalty and heat while calling her the sweetest babygirl around, we’ll probably get along just fine.

im looking for a monogamous relationship im sweet shy and loyal I like roses and im a lesbian and i like to sing dance and cook sometimes and Im sweet

How do I describe lil ol me? hmmm.... An infinite omega and yet not... something soft and gentle. I love to be caressed but also love a firm bass hand slap on the ass. I'm a 50/50 girl. Love love yet also love it rough. Love the feeling of the rope being united and you get a slow hot burn. Yet a hand that knows how to be gentle and teeth that can bite with just the right pressure. Open to most things and get excited to try new things. Romance is beautiful but being a vixen can be damn sexy. I'm usually pretty dominant and just go after what I want. Unless you make me shy. Then it takes some work. Love to be dominant with my ladies, especially those that enjoy it. Tendency to be submissive with men at least that's what I enjoy to be but some bring out the lioness. Write me. See where it leads....

I'm just jumping back into life.... 10 years needed to heal, and I did. shy until you get to know me. if I want your attention... you will know it, ì can be a little brattylol. I am very playful when I trust you. I am very honest and loyal.

I'm a single white female who is open to much. if it's too much I'll tell you, just ask. I like light choking and dominance. I just got out of a marriage and I'm still dealing with that loss. I'm open to friends first, but eventually a no strings, friends with benefits arrangement.

100% Brat. Generally very shy by nature & also bit overwhelmed with all the attention on here 😅 Looking for an experienced & caring dom who may also be interested in pursuing a relationship if the vibes are right. Open to being strictly playmates as well but preference is to build a form a relationship if possible. I can be a challenging brat at times, but I’m definitely not a switch! Not looking to be anyone’s mommy, but maybe I can call you Daddy?

I like straight men bi women no trans stuff toys lingerie being spoiled spoiling certain *** photography and shopping lol I'm a antiques appraiser and horse trader gypsy and a hippie a hustler and crypto saver a wanna be private pornstar a lady and a slut but only for a very small group and only for a couple months.

the unicorn you both have been looking for. I'm not here to come between yall I'm here to come with yall. I love love... as long as its someone else's. I want to be the bridge inbetween your desire and reality. you take care of me and ill make sure to take care of you both. to be very clear- I'm not trying to join your relationship I'm trying to help you enhance it. think of me as the toy you brought home to spice things up a bit, and babes I promise you ill do just that

looking to learn and experience more…I’m a caregiver to the core but I really want to be taken care of, pampered, spoiled, dom/sub dynamic… teach me, I’m fairly new to this!

i tease Becsusr I want to be commanded resist because I want to be broke open I hesitate nexus I'm learning but I'll lean in because I want to follow. I want things most wouldn't and crave things I shouldn't... i sweet with sassy attitude and like to challenge s good girl with a smart ass think you can handle??

Eat my ass like a cupcake! I’m a pretty, plus size , thick goddess who needs her ass worshipped. big beautiful woman lovers only… must be local for a reply.