Find kinky women in Vancouver

Hi hi! I have no experience in this lifestyle whatsoever but it’s definitely something I’m interested in. Let me know if you think you could teach me a little about the dom/sub lifestyle!
Female (18) Vancouver, Washington
hii, my name is rylee 💕 im a puppy brained sweetheart with a soft spot for CG/L and petplay dynamics. im relatively new to kink in terms of having much experience, though ive always knew i just couldn’t click with vanilla or traditional style relationships—so i am mainly on here out of a curiosity. :] id love for you to open my mind even more to all the exciting possibilities I haven’t yet explored myself 💕 i am not interested in FWBS, hookups, or joining a poly relationship. i am also demiromantic and demisexual—i value mental connection and stability above all else!!!
Female (19) Vancouver, Washington
Female half of extremely sexual couple. we love to play together or separate. we like playing with singles or couples. interested in threesomes, group sex, or one on one fun. Very interested in exploring more one on one with women. I am open to almost anything, come teach me something 😉 Bonus points if you like to camp, planning out a sexy camping weekend.
Female (43) Vancouver, Washington
I'm submissive with a touch of bratty, just looking for some fun/relationship at the moment. I'm looking for a Daddy Dom/Soft Dom to guide me. I'm open to long distance or across the street. I have a voice kink, so I love talking on the phone and really getting to know someone. My kinks are spanking, light choking, Daddy Doms praising me, deep voice kinks.
Female (30) Vancouver, Washington
How do I describe lil ol me? hmmm.... An infinite omega and yet not... something soft and gentle. I love to be caressed but also love a firm bass hand slap on the ass. I'm a 50/50 girl. Love love yet also love it rough. Love the feeling of the rope being united and you get a slow hot burn. Yet a hand that knows how to be gentle and teeth that can bite with just the right pressure. Open to most things and get excited to try new things. Romance is beautiful but being a vixen can be damn sexy. I'm usually pretty dominant and just go after what I want. Unless you make me shy. Then it takes some work. Love to be dominant with my ladies, especially those that enjoy it. Tendency to be submissive with men at least that's what I enjoy to be but some bring out the lioness. Write me. See where it leads....
Female (43) Vancouver, Washington
New sub looking for an experienced dom. I’m eager, intense, and want to know what makes you tick. Hopefully you’re the same. I require a deep emotional and intellectual connection for the trust required in this dynamic. The right person will be willing to earn my submission and challenge my limits. Hard leftist. Conservative, moderate, and apolitical need not apply. This is a dealbreaker.
Female (37) Vancouver, Washington
the unicorn you both have been looking for. I'm not here to come between yall I'm here to come with yall. I love love... as long as its someone else's. I want to be the bridge inbetween your desire and reality. you take care of me and ill make sure to take care of you both. to be very clear- I'm not trying to join your relationship I'm trying to help you enhance it. think of me as the toy you brought home to spice things up a bit, and babes I promise you ill do just that
Female (34) Vancouver, Washington
I'm a single white female who is open to much. if it's too much I'll tell you, just ask. I like light choking and dominance. I just got out of a marriage and I'm still dealing with that loss. I'm open to friends first, but eventually a no strings, friends with benefits arrangement.
Female (44) Vancouver, Washington
I’ve self funded so far, gotten filler, Botox, lashes, bbl, BA, lipo and rib remolding. Well ideally I’d like an intense tpe relationship where my partner is privately my owner and supports me while telling me how to look, dress, what surgeries to get etc. I’m in school atm so I don’t want to sit around and do nothing but I help with the bills and they cover what it takes to be molded into their dream. I’m open to eventual relocation but for the next couple of years school comes first and is nonnegotiable atm. Like I think it’s really hot for my owner to come up to me be like “ok so you’re getting your hair done at 9:40, then you’ll go the salon, the usual, afterwards you have a laser appointment, make sure you wear the red dress I like and we’re going out for dinner, hope you like the house salad”. Please don’t message me if you wanna give only advice, RP or not take it seriously. Also, I’m looking for someone that we can both fuel our passion, and we can support each other. Not someone to just tell me what to do while I do all the work, pay for everything etc. I want to respect both our times so please don’t play any games. If you’re interested DM me and I hope we can make something work.
Female (28) Vancouver, Washington
100% Brat. Generally very shy by nature & also bit overwhelmed with all the attention on here 😅 Looking for an experienced & caring dom who may also be interested in pursuing a relationship if the vibes are right. Open to being strictly playmates as well but preference is to build a form a relationship if possible. I can be a challenging brat at times, but I’m definitely not a switch! Not looking to be anyone’s mommy, but maybe I can call you Daddy?
Female (27) Vancouver, Washington
I am interested in many sexual things that I would like to explore with Men, Women and Couples. If you are in the SW WA area, that's cool too. It would be great to have some local sexy friends. I have been off and on having some fun times playing solo for the past few years. I need some new adventures. You down?? I am 420 friendly, easygoing, I am a fan of good vibes ;), music, especially 90's genre. I love to travel when I can. I am married and my husband is allowing me to play separate. That is why I cannot host.
Female (49) Vancouver, Washington
Long sensual kisses, deep conversations, and long passionate explorative intense play time. Looking for a partner who knows the difference between intimacy and sex, that passion is power, Kink Friendly, VERY passionate inside and outside the bedroom, has a high sex drive, loves to continually explore new ways to play, is confident and comfortable with their body, values real communication and connection. Intellectual, energetic and physical chemistry is important. I connect best with a partner who knows how to harness and explore shared energies and erotic enlightenment to experience a different level of pleasure 🔥 Im a TALL, loving, fun, VERY passionate, sober, confident, Alpha Sub looking for a Dom who knows how to make their partner feel safe, cherished and eager to explore. Daddy Dom preferred. Random hook ups and Long Distance connections don’t appeal to me, Connection and chemistry and spending time together makes everything better. Monogamy preferred, open to occasional playmates. Straight yet Bi-Curious
Female (57) Vancouver, Washington
I'm truly terrible at these and it will likely evolve as I grow more familiar with this app. Looking for a dominant lady love. I'm super introverted, neurodivergent, and pretty antisocial until I get to know someone. I generally have words associated with me such as vivacious, adorable, curious, cute, and surprisingly dark. I've been out of the lifestyle for a few years now, but I'd like to change that. Hobbies include reading, gaming, plants, and cooking. I'm a bit obsessive with books, mostly dark romance, honestly, so it's a great topic for chatting about. While my favorite color is pink, my favorite shade is black. 🖤
Female (35) Vancouver, Washington
If you want to know what more I have to offer? ask for my sn ap **Desires and Fantasies** being caught in the act of playing with myself, being punished and used for your pleasure and left shaking from my own pleasure. being in a cnc situation where I am sleeping, get tied up and blindfolded, used, and not knowing who or how many people are in the room touching and using me. find me on Reddit for more of my fantasies: https://www.reddit.com/u/kiramosa/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
Female (33) Vancouver, Washington
looking to learn and experience more…I’m a caregiver to the core but I really want to be taken care of, pampered, spoiled, dom/sub dynamic… teach me, I’m fairly new to this!
Female (41) Vancouver, Washington
Eat my ass like a cupcake! I’m a pretty, plus size , thick goddess who needs her ass worshipped. big beautiful woman lovers only… must be local for a reply.
Female (46) Vancouver, Washington
friends first let's see if we get along first. . in the mean time hi message let's chat. . . Ask about today's music 🎶🎶🎶 of choice .. . . due to recent issues with men being a bit too aggressive. if you come at me side ways ....I will block you. if you block me I will return the favor... I do not playing games... FAFO! . . lmao if I answer your question and you don't like my response. I am not going to reword it just to please you. IF you choose to call me a bitch, cunt, whore, slut, or what ever else and threatening my life or what ever I will just laugh at you. and if you ask for my address I will give you the local police department. just understand respect is earned not given in ***. . . if you get my # or get on a chatting app with me.. and you start to harass me. there will be repercussions to your actions. I am not your parent or your Dom. but if I have to put those hats on and put you in time out, this lil old sub will. . . look if you are going to talk to me... then block me. just don't talk to me my god ... smh . . I will protect my peace... let's have a decent time and get to know one another. with out the damn drama . .
Female (47) Vancouver, Washington
I'm into dominant men who are assertive and who are confident in life and I'm the bedroom. I'm also into women, couples, and am open to several situations and social groups. I'm not into drama, flakey people or slow playing. I am all in with anything I do, and I expect the same. if you're a game player, play on, but not with me. If you've got questions ASK ME. I'm very straight forward . very easy going , and really just looking for a good time, with good people.
Female (46) Vancouver, Washington
I’ve always been kinky, and submissive. I love sex, and being used for pleasure. Currently looking for community and someone to explore kink with. I also recognize it’s a process to get there and I need to know I’m respected and can trust the person. Outside of this, I have an active life that lets me get outside, with a regular swim and bike routine. Connecting with nature and finding moments to slow down like watching the leaves blow in the wind is my spiritual practice. Hobbies that bring me joy, home brewed kombucha, gardening and foraging. I have so many other things that pull my attention into learning, growth and curiosity but I will leave it at this for now :)
Female (32) Vancouver, Washington
tentatively curious my fantasy world has been stimulating enough up until now i just want to make someone very happy and very proud take initiative come with a plan convince me to push my limits tell me i'm a good girl IRL Another neurodivergent mom, trying to disrupt the white supremacy and the patriarchy and still get her brains fucked out. 420 friendly a must. Ethical nonmonogamy - my partner is my home base. I plan to keep him happy as much as I please, just want someone to take charge every once in a while so I can escape this end-stage capitalism serfdom.
Female (41) Vancouver, Washington
I am a typical PNW girl looking for friends, adventure buddies, and more. I am bi curious and still growing g in my exploration of kink. I require a connection and friendship before any play. I am in an open relationship with a man. We are seeking a unicorn, but solo play is fine too. I love ***s, walks/hikes, and could really use a workout buddy to get me more consistent. I also like movies and naps, so I am pretty versatile. INFJ Kink friendly and curious
Female (41) Vancouver, Washington
I’m newly separating from my only relationship in my adult life of 10 years and intentionally stepping into the next version of my life. I’m a devoted mom, a natural caretaker, and also a certified baddie. I do home renovations, own a little business, and hold my own very well. I’m sweet and capable. I love thrifting, frugal living, cooking, baking, and my daily coffee ritual. I create comfort wherever I go, and when I choose someone, I spoil them through care, warmth, and consistency. I’m neurodivergent (OCD/ADHD), financially responsible, and deeply intentional with my energy. Did I mention I’m energetic asf? Sexually, I crave aggressive, affectionate, emotionally present energy , the kind of dominance that feels passionate, grounding, and deeply connected. I want intensity in bed- assertive, consuming, and sweet all at once. I love being led, reassured, and desired. I’m shy sexually and definitely need the leader part to shine through in my sexual partners. I’m not looking for a full-time or traditional committed relationship. I am looking for a meaningful, respectful, chemistry heavy connection with someone who understands dominance doesn’t require coldness and softness doesn’t mean weakness. I won’t have an exclusive relationship at this time as it’s my first time as an adult being single. I want to learn my way around life. If you want a woman who can bake you bread, run a household, melt into you when she trusts you, and meet your energy with loyalty and heat while calling her the sweetest babygirl around, we’ll probably get along just fine.
Female (26) Vancouver, Washington
Hi there!! I am looking for a man to top me. I'm not looking for a vanilla partner. I need someone caring but dominant. I want to be taken away from my reality and put in my subbie place. A play partner. I want a man's hands all over me... and in me! I was in a Master/slave relationship for 10 years and we broke up quite a while ago. I'm ready to have fun again. I'm not interested in 24/7. I don't "top from the bottom", or play games with people's hearts. I am honest to a fault and that honesty sometimes hurts, but I will be the first to tell you when I messed up. I have my own issues and I am working on them, I am not perfect, but I am NOT looking for someone to help fix me. Two notes: I'm sorry, but I'm only interested in men BWC who live in Vancouver Washington. And... I'm disabled. So physically I am unable to do certain things anymore.
Female (52) Vancouver, Washington
Let’s skip the small talk, it’s a waste of time. I get turned on by erotica more than porn. Stupidity is a turn-off. Not my helmet. I am saving for a bike tho
Female (27) Vancouver, Washington

New members in Vancouver

Hi hi! I have no experience in this lifestyle whatsoever but it’s definitely something I’m interested in. Let me know if you think you could teach me a little about the dom/sub lifestyle!
Female (18) Vancouver, Washington
hii, my name is rylee 💕 im a puppy brained sweetheart with a soft spot for CG/L and petplay dynamics. im relatively new to kink in terms of having much experience, though ive always knew i just couldn’t click with vanilla or traditional style relationships—so i am mainly on here out of a curiosity. :] id love for you to open my mind even more to all the exciting possibilities I haven’t yet explored myself 💕 i am not interested in FWBS, hookups, or joining a poly relationship. i am also demiromantic and demisexual—i value mental connection and stability above all else!!!
Female (19) Vancouver, Washington
Long sensual kisses, deep conversations, and long passionate explorative intense play time. Looking for a partner who knows the difference between intimacy and sex, that passion is power, Kink Friendly, VERY passionate inside and outside the bedroom, has a high sex drive, loves to continually explore new ways to play, is confident and comfortable with their body, values real communication and connection. Intellectual, energetic and physical chemistry is important. I connect best with a partner who knows how to harness and explore shared energies and erotic enlightenment to experience a different level of pleasure 🔥 Im a TALL, loving, fun, VERY passionate, sober, confident, Alpha Sub looking for a Dom who knows how to make their partner feel safe, cherished and eager to explore. Daddy Dom preferred. Random hook ups and Long Distance connections don’t appeal to me, Connection and chemistry and spending time together makes everything better. Monogamy preferred, open to occasional playmates. Straight yet Bi-Curious
Female (57) Vancouver, Washington
I am interested in many sexual things that I would like to explore with Men, Women and Couples. If you are in the SW WA area, that's cool too. It would be great to have some local sexy friends. I have been off and on having some fun times playing solo for the past few years. I need some new adventures. You down?? I am 420 friendly, easygoing, I am a fan of good vibes ;), music, especially 90's genre. I love to travel when I can. I am married and my husband is allowing me to play separate. That is why I cannot host.
Female (49) Vancouver, Washington
Female half of extremely sexual couple. we love to play together or separate. we like playing with singles or couples. interested in threesomes, group sex, or one on one fun. Very interested in exploring more one on one with women. I am open to almost anything, come teach me something 😉 Bonus points if you like to camp, planning out a sexy camping weekend.
Female (43) Vancouver, Washington
Hi there.. Curious, sensual and sarcastic here
Female (54) Vancouver, Washington
I’ve self funded so far, gotten filler, Botox, lashes, bbl, BA, lipo and rib remolding. Well ideally I’d like an intense tpe relationship where my partner is privately my owner and supports me while telling me how to look, dress, what surgeries to get etc. I’m in school atm so I don’t want to sit around and do nothing but I help with the bills and they cover what it takes to be molded into their dream. I’m open to eventual relocation but for the next couple of years school comes first and is nonnegotiable atm. Like I think it’s really hot for my owner to come up to me be like “ok so you’re getting your hair done at 9:40, then you’ll go the salon, the usual, afterwards you have a laser appointment, make sure you wear the red dress I like and we’re going out for dinner, hope you like the house salad”. Please don’t message me if you wanna give only advice, RP or not take it seriously. Also, I’m looking for someone that we can both fuel our passion, and we can support each other. Not someone to just tell me what to do while I do all the work, pay for everything etc. I want to respect both our times so please don’t play any games. If you’re interested DM me and I hope we can make something work.
Female (28) Vancouver, Washington
Hi there!! I am looking for a man to top me. I'm not looking for a vanilla partner. I need someone caring but dominant. I want to be taken away from my reality and put in my subbie place. A play partner. I want a man's hands all over me... and in me! I was in a Master/slave relationship for 10 years and we broke up quite a while ago. I'm ready to have fun again. I'm not interested in 24/7. I don't "top from the bottom", or play games with people's hearts. I am honest to a fault and that honesty sometimes hurts, but I will be the first to tell you when I messed up. I have my own issues and I am working on them, I am not perfect, but I am NOT looking for someone to help fix me. Two notes: I'm sorry, but I'm only interested in men BWC who live in Vancouver Washington. And... I'm disabled. So physically I am unable to do certain things anymore.
Female (52) Vancouver, Washington
New sub looking for an experienced dom. I’m eager, intense, and want to know what makes you tick. Hopefully you’re the same. I require a deep emotional and intellectual connection for the trust required in this dynamic. The right person will be willing to earn my submission and challenge my limits. Hard leftist. Conservative, moderate, and apolitical need not apply. This is a dealbreaker.
Female (37) Vancouver, Washington
I'm truly terrible at these and it will likely evolve as I grow more familiar with this app. Looking for a dominant lady love. I'm super introverted, neurodivergent, and pretty antisocial until I get to know someone. I generally have words associated with me such as vivacious, adorable, curious, cute, and surprisingly dark. I've been out of the lifestyle for a few years now, but I'd like to change that. Hobbies include reading, gaming, plants, and cooking. I'm a bit obsessive with books, mostly dark romance, honestly, so it's a great topic for chatting about. While my favorite color is pink, my favorite shade is black. 🖤
Female (35) Vancouver, Washington
I’m newly separating from my only relationship in my adult life of 10 years and intentionally stepping into the next version of my life. I’m a devoted mom, a natural caretaker, and also a certified baddie. I do home renovations, own a little business, and hold my own very well. I’m sweet and capable. I love thrifting, frugal living, cooking, baking, and my daily coffee ritual. I create comfort wherever I go, and when I choose someone, I spoil them through care, warmth, and consistency. I’m neurodivergent (OCD/ADHD), financially responsible, and deeply intentional with my energy. Did I mention I’m energetic asf? Sexually, I crave aggressive, affectionate, emotionally present energy , the kind of dominance that feels passionate, grounding, and deeply connected. I want intensity in bed- assertive, consuming, and sweet all at once. I love being led, reassured, and desired. I’m shy sexually and definitely need the leader part to shine through in my sexual partners. I’m not looking for a full-time or traditional committed relationship. I am looking for a meaningful, respectful, chemistry heavy connection with someone who understands dominance doesn’t require coldness and softness doesn’t mean weakness. I won’t have an exclusive relationship at this time as it’s my first time as an adult being single. I want to learn my way around life. If you want a woman who can bake you bread, run a household, melt into you when she trusts you, and meet your energy with loyalty and heat while calling her the sweetest babygirl around, we’ll probably get along just fine.
Female (26) Vancouver, Washington
im looking for a monogamous relationship im sweet shy and loyal I like roses and im a lesbian and i like to sing dance and cook sometimes and Im sweet
Female (28) Vancouver, Washington
Warning: sassy chef alert. When not cooking up a storm, i'm probably plotting my next adventure. Casually looking. honestly just trying to find that spark or just making more friends to go out with
Female (25) Vancouver, Washington
friends first let's see if we get along first. . in the mean time hi message let's chat. . . Ask about today's music 🎶🎶🎶 of choice .. . . due to recent issues with men being a bit too aggressive. if you come at me side ways ....I will block you. if you block me I will return the favor... I do not playing games... FAFO! . . lmao if I answer your question and you don't like my response. I am not going to reword it just to please you. IF you choose to call me a bitch, cunt, whore, slut, or what ever else and threatening my life or what ever I will just laugh at you. and if you ask for my address I will give you the local police department. just understand respect is earned not given in ***. . . if you get my # or get on a chatting app with me.. and you start to harass me. there will be repercussions to your actions. I am not your parent or your Dom. but if I have to put those hats on and put you in time out, this lil old sub will. . . look if you are going to talk to me... then block me. just don't talk to me my god ... smh . . I will protect my peace... let's have a decent time and get to know one another. with out the damn drama . .
Female (47) Vancouver, Washington
How do I describe lil ol me? hmmm.... An infinite omega and yet not... something soft and gentle. I love to be caressed but also love a firm bass hand slap on the ass. I'm a 50/50 girl. Love love yet also love it rough. Love the feeling of the rope being united and you get a slow hot burn. Yet a hand that knows how to be gentle and teeth that can bite with just the right pressure. Open to most things and get excited to try new things. Romance is beautiful but being a vixen can be damn sexy. I'm usually pretty dominant and just go after what I want. Unless you make me shy. Then it takes some work. Love to be dominant with my ladies, especially those that enjoy it. Tendency to be submissive with men at least that's what I enjoy to be but some bring out the lioness. Write me. See where it leads....
Female (43) Vancouver, Washington
I'm just jumping back into life.... 10 years needed to heal, and I did. shy until you get to know me. if I want your attention... you will know it, ì can be a little brattylol. I am very playful when I trust you. I am very honest and loyal.
Female (63) Vancouver, Washington
I am looking for someone to become my Dom/ play partner. I am in a poly relationship that’s my main relationship. I am Demisexual so I prefer to establish some sort of at least friendship. My interests are being restrained, spanking, flogging and paddle, Auralism (turned on by voices/ talking) to name a few. I’m looking for the kind of dom that makes me feel cared about and safe while also doing scenes with me.
Female (33) Vancouver, Washington
I'm a single white female who is open to much. if it's too much I'll tell you, just ask. I like light choking and dominance. I just got out of a marriage and I'm still dealing with that loss. I'm open to friends first, but eventually a no strings, friends with benefits arrangement.
Female (44) Vancouver, Washington
100% Brat. Generally very shy by nature & also bit overwhelmed with all the attention on here 😅 Looking for an experienced & caring dom who may also be interested in pursuing a relationship if the vibes are right. Open to being strictly playmates as well but preference is to build a form a relationship if possible. I can be a challenging brat at times, but I’m definitely not a switch! Not looking to be anyone’s mommy, but maybe I can call you Daddy?
Female (27) Vancouver, Washington
I am 25, single, open to polyamory but tend to prefer monogamy. I am both a pillow and a passenger princess looking to serve and do it well. I do want to get to know you better as I can a bit shy at 1st but a good game of 20 questions tends to get me chattering away.
Female (25) Vancouver, Washington
I like straight men bi women no trans stuff toys lingerie being spoiled spoiling certain *** photography and shopping lol I'm a antiques appraiser and horse trader gypsy and a hippie a hustler and crypto saver a wanna be private pornstar a lady and a slut but only for a very small group and only for a couple months.
Female (49) Vancouver, Washington
I am a typical PNW girl looking for friends, adventure buddies, and more. I am bi curious and still growing g in my exploration of kink. I require a connection and friendship before any play. I am in an open relationship with a man. We are seeking a unicorn, but solo play is fine too. I love ***s, walks/hikes, and could really use a workout buddy to get me more consistent. I also like movies and naps, so I am pretty versatile. INFJ Kink friendly and curious
Female (41) Vancouver, Washington
the unicorn you both have been looking for. I'm not here to come between yall I'm here to come with yall. I love love... as long as its someone else's. I want to be the bridge inbetween your desire and reality. you take care of me and ill make sure to take care of you both. to be very clear- I'm not trying to join your relationship I'm trying to help you enhance it. think of me as the toy you brought home to spice things up a bit, and babes I promise you ill do just that
Female (34) Vancouver, Washington
looking to learn and experience more…I’m a caregiver to the core but I really want to be taken care of, pampered, spoiled, dom/sub dynamic… teach me, I’m fairly new to this!
Female (41) Vancouver, Washington

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