I am in Raleigh county of Beckley WV. No idea why it keeps saying just Raleigh I am not in the Carolina's.
I find it really ridiculous that so many people say they are Dom but they are not wanting to be in a relationship. You cannot use the word Dom to be a player the lifestyle is about safety if you are meeting a submissive with the intention of controlling her once that is a hookup. a D/s relationship allows you to build over time that bond. you can not bond on hookups and you are not a true Dom. It is just an excuse for hookups or one nighters. Ridiculous go sit in a BDSM club and play Dom. Safety and Trust in D/s is very important
PLEASE DON'T SEND ME YOUR PRIVATE PARTS! THANKS FOR UNDERSTANDING IF I AM INTERESTED (I prefer the element of surprise when we are in person thanks.)
Are you interested in living off grid and stuff that is about self sufficiency. I have an acre now but would like to get at least 10 acres. The more the better but I don't want to have to depend on these corporations. Looking for someone who has same interests. I won't be online here long. looking for a Dom that wants the same long term.
Joined site March 14, 2021 If you're interested please respond because I may just look at profiles. Disclosure: I am always upfront with my partners that I have been blessed with my gift (HSV 1/herpes) for over 20 years. I have never found in the past that this was an issue. Note: With my experience if you are a Dom you speak of your likes and not hide your at***s. you are aggressive in what you want (first contact) you show your face because it is the place I will look into your eyes and wait for gestures.
Prefer someone close or willing to relocate here. I have a 12 year old daughter and she is doing excellent in school so I don't want to uproot her for a long term relationship. Not interested in online sex or hook ups.
Submissive looking for a Dom that will adhere to limits. Had a Dom that was experienced with stimulation and gradually increased thresholds. Looking for someone with experience preferred but may allow a new Dom the chance to broaden his experience. It is hard to trust just anyone no ego driven individuals aftercare is a must. Please don't play with people's safety in this lifestyle.
I have been out of the lifestyle for about 14 years raising a 12 year old. I am looking for a stable trusting Dom. He must understand that to be my Dom you know we have to click. I am giving up full control to you. Eyes wide open and looking straight up for each gesture and non verbal queue.
I am not into knife play or ***.
Mostly experienced with bondage, restraint, cuffs, Saint Andrews Cross, spreader bar, paddles, floggers, whips, canes, swing, n* clamps.etc. No ddlg
Visited with a partner in the past mainly Florida swinger's clubs, private parties, hotel events, restaurant closures, nudist events and hotels, theater play with glory holes, and private homes.
100% Submissive
100% Rope ***
95% Masochist
90% Voyeur
84% Experimentalist
62% Degradee
53% Exhibitionist
52% Brat
50% Slave
32% Primal (Prey)
29% Vanilla
19% Pet
9% Non-monogamist
0% Ageplayer
0% */Girl
0% Switch*
Always welcome to a chat. However I am not interested in cybersex. I have made friends from all over the world. My experience doesn't mean I cannot learn life is full of lessons daily. Come let's have an adult conversation about politics, social issues, your county or mine. You never know I found that the world is actually a ripple that affects all our lives. I have met people who know people that knew me or some family. because eventually our lives are woven in some way.
Also, I can't relocate for at least 6 years. My daughter is doing excellent with school and I don't want to move her from this area. Straight A's for 2 years every report card is not easy to find with a school. Not to mention that she has also gotten awards as well.
Submissive woman looking for a long term relationship with a Dominant male. Don't need a man Financially. Self employed and independent, dominant in my career. Wanting a Dom (Sir, Daddy, Master) that likes control of daily reports of tasks and trips. Choosing daily wear and office attire. Spanking sessions as reminder of who owns me. I only need one Dom not into seeing a variety of Dom's.
Impact play is a plus but not required. Bondage and role playing are a plus but not required. Open to a possible swing partner but once again I am only looking for one Dominant man to fill the role and don't plan on playing once in a while or even weeks between without my Dom's being available and close enough. No online cyber sex at all has to be real in the flesh contact.
Hello, nice to meet you. Just call me Kay. I needed a platform and website to promote my escorting business and expand it as well as a place my clientele could go to as a means to get to know me personally. Looking to pick up new clients along the way 🤪♥️
I’m a God-***ing woman who believes deeply in grace, resilience, and the beauty of life’s quiet moments. Widowed and walking a path shaped by love and loss, I’ve known the ache of goodbye—my only daughter passed during the COVID pandemic—but I carry her memory with strength and tenderness.
I cherish the little things: a warm smile, a kind word, the way the sun feels on your face. Life has taught me to treasure each breath and seek joy in unexpected places. I’m here for adventure, open-hearted and hopeful, ready to meet someone who’s truly down to earth—someone who values honesty, laughter, and the kind of love that grows from shared understanding.
If you’re someone who walks with humility, loves deeply, and believes that healing and happiness can walk hand in hand, I’d love to hear your story.
Open and honest woman, caring and very affectionate I am not bias and treat everyone equally. I am respectful and down to earth... I hope to find someone honest and loving here
I am just getting back into the community. I used to do pro dom work with my past Mistress i would love to work with other Mistress with subs I just recently lost my job
Experienced FemDom and sensual sadist offering a refined blend of control, pleasure, and discipline.
I specialize in power exchange, mental domination, tease & denial, financial domination, and custom content tailored to your kinks.
For the obedient, I’m your reward. For the defiant, I’m your reckoning.
Know your place, and you may just earn my attention.
Hi
I'm a 45 yr old bisexual female.
To b honest a lot of the stuff that's on here and has to do with BDSM is new to me. But I've always loved being spanked. I love to b petted like I would pet it cat or dog. I am more of a submissive than a dom if I'm in a relationship with a man. but if I'm in a relationship with a woman I'm more of a Dom than a submissive. At least that's my opinion or how I feel.
** NO MEN YOU WILL BE BLOCKED! Looking for a beautiful Lesbain/bisexual woman to be my wife/travel partner. I am married to my best friend and he fully supports my Lesbian side. I have been in lesbian relationships in the past and miss the touch and smell of a beautiful woman. He will not be involved in our friendship other than to be your friend and supporter as well (unless we both ask him).
I love live music, travel and nights away to indulge in my lifestyle with you. We have NO drama, jealousy or drug/alcohol *** issues so please be the same. Very 420 friendly so love that lol. I prefer a sexy confidant woman and please be able to have a relationship with me, meaning no significant others wanting to join or watch. This is about you and I only so NO MEN please. I have a beautiful Chalet on acreage on the river here and few neighbors so it is very quiet! No real crime, and if anyone comes around that does not belong...well I have 2 German Shepherds that are very protective of "the family pack" lol. Please have no hard drug or alcohol issues, drinking is fine but no alcoholics please. This is about my and hopefully your life and travel/fun. Hope to hear from you soon! Tasha
Maybe a bit jaded, a little sarcastic, there's just about nothing I haven't at least _seen_, in my time on the internet. Don't be a creep and you'll do fine. If you come at me talking about how you're going to pay all my bills or how much you want to nut on me, I'm probably going to immediately delete the message and go on about my life~
I have experience as a pro dominatrix and a sex-worker, in my early-20s, and you're just not going to surprise me, hon! Got questions? Ask them! I live life pretty freely and enjoy fixing up my old house, when I can do so. I'm not terribly exciting, but I have lived a hell of a life.
Her heart burned with a passion for nature, and she dreamed of becoming a doctor and making this world a better place. This little girl would gaze at the stars and dream of great things... The girl grew up and blossomed into a young woman. Every day, she works on herself, striving to become the best version of herself. Even if she accidentally breaks a heel, she won't be disheartened. Instead of feeling upset, she would transform her shoes into ballet flats and continue her journey with a smile on her face.
Sassy, feisty and very sarcastic and dare I say a little bratty at times submissive bbw . I can be very straight forward and honest so if you dont want my opinion dont ask me then, you might not like what I have to said
DISCLAIMER: Just because I am submissive doesn't mean I an your submissive and give you the right to come at me and be disrespectful. I am not interested in any one who has to anounce he is a Dom/Alpha male actions speak louder than words. You want to talk to me then come at me the right way and if you can do that then who knows what the future holds
**Desires and Fantasies**
I dont really have any secert desires as I am pretty vocal about what I want most of the time . Fantasy well they change all the time so impossible to really express those here
not sure what to put here I'm new to the lifestyle i do have hsv1&2 I would love to find a Dom/master that will work with me and be semi gentle wanna know more ask not into couples
wild, fun, spontaneous, impulsive, unpredictable, and curious about everything life, love, and our imaginations have to offer! I am a brat domme seeking loving patient dom, not interested in dominating u, nor can I be broken- do not botherto try! I need someone to run beside me, not in front of or behind me! .I do have fetlife as well: kynkeekyttyn is my user name there. no games no bullshit I want someone irl that'll come here and claim me properly!
Hello! I’m married for 10 years. Super bored and ready to try something new! I like to be dominated and he’s a little vanilla. I’m a bigger girl who has massive tits and a big ass. Also a squirter 😏
PLEASE READ!!! dont wast my time or yours if you dont live in my area, not willing to travel, Just looking for cyber fun or cyber role playing. im looking for a real dom/ long term relationship if the connection is there.
Hello everyone I’m Jorja (like the state spelled differently) Im an ER Nurse I’m 22 and I love to read dark romance my favorite season is winter and my favorite flower is a tulip I love horror movies and genuine conversations I won’t bite unless you ask if that’s your kinda girl hmu and let’s see where the vibe takes us 😚
I am just me you want to know more just ask! I am married but we decided on an open relationship. Hubby has a girlfriend that he has had for about a 1 year, now I’m looking for my puzzle piece.
Hello! I go by EtherealQueen on here! I'm looking forward to connecting with people as friends, playmates, or maybe more!
I am a sub-leaning switch, but must trust someone implicitly if I am going to sub for them. I have had several bad experiences so unless we really click, you'll be vetted extensively before I sub for you.
I do not enjoy complete domination from most Doms. Once again, it's a level of trust issue. I am also a brat, so expect backtalk and snarkiness.
I am a masochist and prefer most play encounters to involve ***. If I'm not marked up and bruised after a good play session then you're not using your full talents on me. I do have quite a high *** tolerance.
I'm a primal play girly and love good CNC as well. Let's talk scenarios!
I am not open to living certain parts of the lifestyle 24/7. It does not fit with my life currently.
I will not wear kink gear in public or participate in kink in public. It is non-negotiable. If every party cannot consent then it's a no.
As with everyone, I have soft and hard limits and can discuss those in a respectful manner with potential play partners.
Other than that, I'm an open book and will answer most questions if you are respectful. I am open to just having discussions as friends, too.
Do not message me if you are trying to cheat on a partner. Do not message me if you are looking for someone to show you the ropes. Do not message me just to be gross and disrespectful.
Some other important points:
1. I am not skinny.
2. I am HSV2+. I will be on antivirals for any play.
3. I do not entertain men or women who start out disrespectful. If you an immediate creep in my messages, then you don't get a chance.
Can't see likes just message me. Sweet and loving but I def rock the feral gremlin vibes with sourpatch kid tendencies. Hehe. I am an experienced Queen looking to find and train my personal Alpha Sub to be my Beta. I have finally reached a point where I am ready to mold a sub into my ideal subby hubby. I am interested in Alpha Subs that understand FLR and are service/pleasure/provider/protector driven. I am intelligent, direct, kind and motivated. I love music (especially metal), cooking from scratch, skulls and being outdoors. I am southern and still have my southern belle drawl. I am a short girl and a natural redhead as well.
I want true ALPHA Sub. You are driven, successful, devoted, loyal and have a deep sense of being a provider and protector as much rooted into you as you do wanting to kneel at my feet. I am a soft Domme with a strict side. I am very specific about who I will accept as my Beta and ultimately I want to find my best friend wrapped in a delicious flr forever. I have zero interest in Dom men, but I am open to a switch if his devotion side is very prevalent with me. I am a devoted woman and once I have my mind and heart set on someone, I am fully locked. I value a sense of humor, intelligence, smartassery lol, a love for music and sharing it with your person, kindness, devotion and loyalty, and a sense of duty to me as the leader. If you think this is you, permission to approach is granted! Come find me Puppy!
Maybe a bit jaded, a little sarcastic, there's just about nothing I haven't at least _seen_, in my time on the internet. Don't be a creep and you'll do fine. If you come at me talking about how you're going to pay all my bills or how much you want to nut on me, I'm probably going to immediately delete the message and go on about my life~
I have experience as a pro dominatrix and a sex-worker, in my early-20s, and you're just not going to surprise me, hon! Got questions? Ask them! I live life pretty freely and enjoy fixing up my old house, when I can do so. I'm not terribly exciting, but I have lived a hell of a life.
Hello, nice to meet you. Just call me Kay. I needed a platform and website to promote my escorting business and expand it as well as a place my clientele could go to as a means to get to know me personally. Looking to pick up new clients along the way 🤪♥️
I’m a God-***ing woman who believes deeply in grace, resilience, and the beauty of life’s quiet moments. Widowed and walking a path shaped by love and loss, I’ve known the ache of goodbye—my only daughter passed during the COVID pandemic—but I carry her memory with strength and tenderness.
I cherish the little things: a warm smile, a kind word, the way the sun feels on your face. Life has taught me to treasure each breath and seek joy in unexpected places. I’m here for adventure, open-hearted and hopeful, ready to meet someone who’s truly down to earth—someone who values honesty, laughter, and the kind of love that grows from shared understanding.
If you’re someone who walks with humility, loves deeply, and believes that healing and happiness can walk hand in hand, I’d love to hear your story.
Open and honest woman, caring and very affectionate I am not bias and treat everyone equally. I am respectful and down to earth... I hope to find someone honest and loving here
Her heart burned with a passion for nature, and she dreamed of becoming a doctor and making this world a better place. This little girl would gaze at the stars and dream of great things... The girl grew up and blossomed into a young woman. Every day, she works on herself, striving to become the best version of herself. Even if she accidentally breaks a heel, she won't be disheartened. Instead of feeling upset, she would transform her shoes into ballet flats and continue her journey with a smile on her face.
** NO MEN YOU WILL BE BLOCKED! Looking for a beautiful Lesbain/bisexual woman to be my wife/travel partner. I am married to my best friend and he fully supports my Lesbian side. I have been in lesbian relationships in the past and miss the touch and smell of a beautiful woman. He will not be involved in our friendship other than to be your friend and supporter as well (unless we both ask him).
I love live music, travel and nights away to indulge in my lifestyle with you. We have NO drama, jealousy or drug/alcohol *** issues so please be the same. Very 420 friendly so love that lol. I prefer a sexy confidant woman and please be able to have a relationship with me, meaning no significant others wanting to join or watch. This is about you and I only so NO MEN please. I have a beautiful Chalet on acreage on the river here and few neighbors so it is very quiet! No real crime, and if anyone comes around that does not belong...well I have 2 German Shepherds that are very protective of "the family pack" lol. Please have no hard drug or alcohol issues, drinking is fine but no alcoholics please. This is about my and hopefully your life and travel/fun. Hope to hear from you soon! Tasha
I am just getting back into the community. I used to do pro dom work with my past Mistress i would love to work with other Mistress with subs I just recently lost my job
Hi
I'm a 45 yr old bisexual female.
To b honest a lot of the stuff that's on here and has to do with BDSM is new to me. But I've always loved being spanked. I love to b petted like I would pet it cat or dog. I am more of a submissive than a dom if I'm in a relationship with a man. but if I'm in a relationship with a woman I'm more of a Dom than a submissive. At least that's my opinion or how I feel.
Experienced FemDom and sensual sadist offering a refined blend of control, pleasure, and discipline.
I specialize in power exchange, mental domination, tease & denial, financial domination, and custom content tailored to your kinks.
For the obedient, I’m your reward. For the defiant, I’m your reckoning.
Know your place, and you may just earn my attention.
I am in Raleigh county of Beckley WV. No idea why it keeps saying just Raleigh I am not in the Carolina's.
I find it really ridiculous that so many people say they are Dom but they are not wanting to be in a relationship. You cannot use the word Dom to be a player the lifestyle is about safety if you are meeting a submissive with the intention of controlling her once that is a hookup. a D/s relationship allows you to build over time that bond. you can not bond on hookups and you are not a true Dom. It is just an excuse for hookups or one nighters. Ridiculous go sit in a BDSM club and play Dom. Safety and Trust in D/s is very important
PLEASE DON'T SEND ME YOUR PRIVATE PARTS! THANKS FOR UNDERSTANDING IF I AM INTERESTED (I prefer the element of surprise when we are in person thanks.)
Are you interested in living off grid and stuff that is about self sufficiency. I have an acre now but would like to get at least 10 acres. The more the better but I don't want to have to depend on these corporations. Looking for someone who has same interests. I won't be online here long. looking for a Dom that wants the same long term.
Joined site March 14, 2021 If you're interested please respond because I may just look at profiles. Disclosure: I am always upfront with my partners that I have been blessed with my gift (HSV 1/herpes) for over 20 years. I have never found in the past that this was an issue. Note: With my experience if you are a Dom you speak of your likes and not hide your at***s. you are aggressive in what you want (first contact) you show your face because it is the place I will look into your eyes and wait for gestures.
Prefer someone close or willing to relocate here. I have a 12 year old daughter and she is doing excellent in school so I don't want to uproot her for a long term relationship. Not interested in online sex or hook ups.
Submissive looking for a Dom that will adhere to limits. Had a Dom that was experienced with stimulation and gradually increased thresholds. Looking for someone with experience preferred but may allow a new Dom the chance to broaden his experience. It is hard to trust just anyone no ego driven individuals aftercare is a must. Please don't play with people's safety in this lifestyle.
I have been out of the lifestyle for about 14 years raising a 12 year old. I am looking for a stable trusting Dom. He must understand that to be my Dom you know we have to click. I am giving up full control to you. Eyes wide open and looking straight up for each gesture and non verbal queue.
I am not into knife play or ***.
Mostly experienced with bondage, restraint, cuffs, Saint Andrews Cross, spreader bar, paddles, floggers, whips, canes, swing, n* clamps.etc. No ddlg
Visited with a partner in the past mainly Florida swinger's clubs, private parties, hotel events, restaurant closures, nudist events and hotels, theater play with glory holes, and private homes.
100% Submissive
100% Rope ***
95% Masochist
90% Voyeur
84% Experimentalist
62% Degradee
53% Exhibitionist
52% Brat
50% Slave
32% Primal (Prey)
29% Vanilla
19% Pet
9% Non-monogamist
0% Ageplayer
0% */Girl
0% Switch*
Always welcome to a chat. However I am not interested in cybersex. I have made friends from all over the world. My experience doesn't mean I cannot learn life is full of lessons daily. Come let's have an adult conversation about politics, social issues, your county or mine. You never know I found that the world is actually a ripple that affects all our lives. I have met people who know people that knew me or some family. because eventually our lives are woven in some way.
Also, I can't relocate for at least 6 years. My daughter is doing excellent with school and I don't want to move her from this area. Straight A's for 2 years every report card is not easy to find with a school. Not to mention that she has also gotten awards as well.
Submissive woman looking for a long term relationship with a Dominant male. Don't need a man Financially. Self employed and independent, dominant in my career. Wanting a Dom (Sir, Daddy, Master) that likes control of daily reports of tasks and trips. Choosing daily wear and office attire. Spanking sessions as reminder of who owns me. I only need one Dom not into seeing a variety of Dom's.
Impact play is a plus but not required. Bondage and role playing are a plus but not required. Open to a possible swing partner but once again I am only looking for one Dominant man to fill the role and don't plan on playing once in a while or even weeks between without my Dom's being available and close enough. No online cyber sex at all has to be real in the flesh contact.
Sassy, feisty and very sarcastic and dare I say a little bratty at times submissive bbw . I can be very straight forward and honest so if you dont want my opinion dont ask me then, you might not like what I have to said
DISCLAIMER: Just because I am submissive doesn't mean I an your submissive and give you the right to come at me and be disrespectful. I am not interested in any one who has to anounce he is a Dom/Alpha male actions speak louder than words. You want to talk to me then come at me the right way and if you can do that then who knows what the future holds
**Desires and Fantasies**
I dont really have any secert desires as I am pretty vocal about what I want most of the time . Fantasy well they change all the time so impossible to really express those here
Hello! I go by EtherealQueen on here! I'm looking forward to connecting with people as friends, playmates, or maybe more!
I am a sub-leaning switch, but must trust someone implicitly if I am going to sub for them. I have had several bad experiences so unless we really click, you'll be vetted extensively before I sub for you.
I do not enjoy complete domination from most Doms. Once again, it's a level of trust issue. I am also a brat, so expect backtalk and snarkiness.
I am a masochist and prefer most play encounters to involve ***. If I'm not marked up and bruised after a good play session then you're not using your full talents on me. I do have quite a high *** tolerance.
I'm a primal play girly and love good CNC as well. Let's talk scenarios!
I am not open to living certain parts of the lifestyle 24/7. It does not fit with my life currently.
I will not wear kink gear in public or participate in kink in public. It is non-negotiable. If every party cannot consent then it's a no.
As with everyone, I have soft and hard limits and can discuss those in a respectful manner with potential play partners.
Other than that, I'm an open book and will answer most questions if you are respectful. I am open to just having discussions as friends, too.
Do not message me if you are trying to cheat on a partner. Do not message me if you are looking for someone to show you the ropes. Do not message me just to be gross and disrespectful.
Some other important points:
1. I am not skinny.
2. I am HSV2+. I will be on antivirals for any play.
3. I do not entertain men or women who start out disrespectful. If you an immediate creep in my messages, then you don't get a chance.
PLEASE READ!!! dont wast my time or yours if you dont live in my area, not willing to travel, Just looking for cyber fun or cyber role playing. im looking for a real dom/ long term relationship if the connection is there.
I am just me you want to know more just ask! I am married but we decided on an open relationship. Hubby has a girlfriend that he has had for about a 1 year, now I’m looking for my puzzle piece.
Hello everyone I’m Jorja (like the state spelled differently) Im an ER Nurse I’m 22 and I love to read dark romance my favorite season is winter and my favorite flower is a tulip I love horror movies and genuine conversations I won’t bite unless you ask if that’s your kinda girl hmu and let’s see where the vibe takes us 😚
Hello! I’m married for 10 years. Super bored and ready to try something new! I like to be dominated and he’s a little vanilla. I’m a bigger girl who has massive tits and a big ass. Also a squirter 😏
Can't see likes just message me. Sweet and loving but I def rock the feral gremlin vibes with sourpatch kid tendencies. Hehe. I am an experienced Queen looking to find and train my personal Alpha Sub to be my Beta. I have finally reached a point where I am ready to mold a sub into my ideal subby hubby. I am interested in Alpha Subs that understand FLR and are service/pleasure/provider/protector driven. I am intelligent, direct, kind and motivated. I love music (especially metal), cooking from scratch, skulls and being outdoors. I am southern and still have my southern belle drawl. I am a short girl and a natural redhead as well.
I want true ALPHA Sub. You are driven, successful, devoted, loyal and have a deep sense of being a provider and protector as much rooted into you as you do wanting to kneel at my feet. I am a soft Domme with a strict side. I am very specific about who I will accept as my Beta and ultimately I want to find my best friend wrapped in a delicious flr forever. I have zero interest in Dom men, but I am open to a switch if his devotion side is very prevalent with me. I am a devoted woman and once I have my mind and heart set on someone, I am fully locked. I value a sense of humor, intelligence, smartassery lol, a love for music and sharing it with your person, kindness, devotion and loyalty, and a sense of duty to me as the leader. If you think this is you, permission to approach is granted! Come find me Puppy!
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