I lead with purpose and expect the same in return. My approach is deliberate—psychological depth, structured discipline, and the art of shaping a submissive’s growth through guidance and authority. I value authenticity, emotional intelligence, and a genuine commitment to service. Submission is not a role to play; it’s a responsibility to embrace. If you seek a dynamic with a strong, ambitious woman who demands respect and intention, approach me with clarity and self-awareness. I have no patience for games, half-hearted efforts, or those who mistake submission for weakness.
I may look bright on the outside, but what I truly value is inner calm. I'm not looking for drama; I want a man who brings warmth to quiet evenings, where silence feels better than words. I love a man who's strong without showing off, confident without the noise and who can look at me in a way that makes everything else fade away.
I'm happily married, and I'm not looking to replace, compete with, or disrupt that. Think of yourself as the dessert, not the main course. If ethical non-monogamy isn't your thing, we're probably not a match.
I'm here for intelligent conversation, genuine chemistry, and someone who can engage my brain before anything else. Wit is ridiculously attractive. Curiosity is even better.
A quick public service announcement: If your opening line is asking whether I can "handle" your "huge" 19-year-old cock... save us both the time. Confidence is sexy. Delusion is less so. I promise you're aiming at the wrong audience.
I'm curvy. Very happily so. If curves aren't your thing, that's completely okay. Attraction is personal, and we all have preferences. Mine just happens to include tall men with quick minds, a sense of humour, and enough self-awareness to know that the most interesting thing about them isn't what's in their pants.
I absolutely have a submissive side. I can be a very good girl... for the right person. But "because I said so" isn't a personality. Earn my trust, engage my mind, make me feel safe enough to surrender, and you'll discover I don't need to be told twice.
Make me laugh. Challenge me intellectually. Be quietly confident. The rest tends to take care of itself.
Looking for irl meetups - not necessarily sexual either- but please stop messaging me if you’re not even in Australia.
Exploring kink finally after years of other priorities :)
Bi girl looking to spice things up, with a guy. Not looking for any ongoing situations, just some extra fun times.
Have recently split from my F partner and moved back to Canberra again from Wagga.
Keen to meet up up with some cool people and share some experiences.
Hi Mary here, currently in an open long term relationship in which we both play separately and together. Looking for some extra no strings, drama free, one off events with like minded people. send me a message if you are interested in knowing more.
Hoping to meet up with someone in the next couple of weeks, if you are interested let me know and we can go from there.
Looking to be your favourite regret…
I’m a submissive through and through and want to explore the kinkier side of myself.
The more hardcore the better.
Hoping there’s a daddy out there to spoil me..
If respectful, caring and discreet yet assertive and dominant describes you; Maybe, just maybe we'll get along.
I love my indoor plants and gardening but can never seem to keep any plant alive for longer than a fortnight.
I like the outdoors, however, the outdoors does not like me. I'll give hiking up the mountain a go but I'm much more a stroll along the paved path kinda gal!
I'm quiet, yet bonkers once you really know me. I often keep to myself and can count my true friends on one hand. They are my family!
I'm a sucker for a pot-luck or hosting family dinner. Throw in boardgames and/or a movie.. what more could you want?
I'll give (almost) anything a go once.
If you're up for a chat.. reach out 😊
im 6ft tall so please im only wanting someone taller then 6ft
(sorry to all the guys that are under 6ft i just for once wanna wear heels or have someone grab me from behind who is taller)
I am a mother of yes 8 babies but not living with me atm..
I have my license and drive manual....
im here to see if it is possible to enjoy sex in any way as it was always a chour and I had to do everything I never until my FWB had someone else take control... its hard to explain im almost 36 and only just played with my first toy or squirted so I want more I want to try everything
I lead with purpose and expect the same in return. My approach is deliberate—psychological depth, structured discipline, and the art of shaping a submissive’s growth through guidance and authority. I value authenticity, emotional intelligence, and a genuine commitment to service. Submission is not a role to play; it’s a responsibility to embrace. If you seek a dynamic with a strong, ambitious woman who demands respect and intention, approach me with clarity and self-awareness. I have no patience for games, half-hearted efforts, or those who mistake submission for weakness.
I may look bright on the outside, but what I truly value is inner calm. I'm not looking for drama; I want a man who brings warmth to quiet evenings, where silence feels better than words. I love a man who's strong without showing off, confident without the noise and who can look at me in a way that makes everything else fade away.
Looking for irl meetups - not necessarily sexual either- but please stop messaging me if you’re not even in Australia.
Exploring kink finally after years of other priorities :)
I'm happily married, and I'm not looking to replace, compete with, or disrupt that. Think of yourself as the dessert, not the main course. If ethical non-monogamy isn't your thing, we're probably not a match.
I'm here for intelligent conversation, genuine chemistry, and someone who can engage my brain before anything else. Wit is ridiculously attractive. Curiosity is even better.
A quick public service announcement: If your opening line is asking whether I can "handle" your "huge" 19-year-old cock... save us both the time. Confidence is sexy. Delusion is less so. I promise you're aiming at the wrong audience.
I'm curvy. Very happily so. If curves aren't your thing, that's completely okay. Attraction is personal, and we all have preferences. Mine just happens to include tall men with quick minds, a sense of humour, and enough self-awareness to know that the most interesting thing about them isn't what's in their pants.
I absolutely have a submissive side. I can be a very good girl... for the right person. But "because I said so" isn't a personality. Earn my trust, engage my mind, make me feel safe enough to surrender, and you'll discover I don't need to be told twice.
Make me laugh. Challenge me intellectually. Be quietly confident. The rest tends to take care of itself.
Looking to be your favourite regret…
I’m a submissive through and through and want to explore the kinkier side of myself.
The more hardcore the better.
Hoping there’s a daddy out there to spoil me..
im 6ft tall so please im only wanting someone taller then 6ft
(sorry to all the guys that are under 6ft i just for once wanna wear heels or have someone grab me from behind who is taller)
I am a mother of yes 8 babies but not living with me atm..
I have my license and drive manual....
im here to see if it is possible to enjoy sex in any way as it was always a chour and I had to do everything I never until my FWB had someone else take control... its hard to explain im almost 36 and only just played with my first toy or squirted so I want more I want to try everything
If respectful, caring and discreet yet assertive and dominant describes you; Maybe, just maybe we'll get along.
I love my indoor plants and gardening but can never seem to keep any plant alive for longer than a fortnight.
I like the outdoors, however, the outdoors does not like me. I'll give hiking up the mountain a go but I'm much more a stroll along the paved path kinda gal!
I'm quiet, yet bonkers once you really know me. I often keep to myself and can count my true friends on one hand. They are my family!
I'm a sucker for a pot-luck or hosting family dinner. Throw in boardgames and/or a movie.. what more could you want?
I'll give (almost) anything a go once.
If you're up for a chat.. reach out 😊
Hi Mary here, currently in an open long term relationship in which we both play separately and together. Looking for some extra no strings, drama free, one off events with like minded people. send me a message if you are interested in knowing more.
Hoping to meet up with someone in the next couple of weeks, if you are interested let me know and we can go from there.
Bi girl looking to spice things up, with a guy. Not looking for any ongoing situations, just some extra fun times.
Have recently split from my F partner and moved back to Canberra again from Wagga.
Keen to meet up up with some cool people and share some experiences.
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