Hellooo~ Iβm Amara, a kinky bisexual, British Caribbean Black girl who **loves** cumshots and tributes. Pretty much sums me up, haha! ?
A few things to note:
This is not my rodeo on Fet.
I know what Iβm looking for and what I offer so this is a very lengthy profile. Buckle up!
If you cannot reach the bottom of this profile, I guarantee you will not be able to handle my level of communication in a relationship. β
If you donβt fit within the hard limits, please donβt bother DMing. It will save us both the time!
If youβre within the flexible limit, shoot your shot and letβs see if our personality matches. : )
Letβs start with you and what Iβm hoping youβre like:
- Caucasian (hard limit) - American or Australian (soft limit)
- Ideally around the ages of 38-52~ (soft limit with some wiggle room. My preference is mid to late 40s though!)
- (Anyone under 30 is an automatic hard pass for conversation)
- Single (HARD LIMIT. No married guys and, for now, no ENMs/Polys. Iβm a greedy little gremlin and Iβm not looking to share at the moment! ?).
- Monogamous with the open mindedness for *potentially* opening the bedroom up for one-off play sessions or house parties. This would be with mutually picked partners but in the waaay off future.
- I have a huuuge weakness for men with accents. The Californian accent, the Southern drawl and the Australian twang especially is like an instant boarding pass to inside my panties.
- Not overly muscular nor extremely weighty in build. I do genuinely like a little bit of a dad bod! β₯οΈ
- Smaller physical attributes (hair colour, eye colour etc.) donβt really matter to me though I would prefer a little bit of hair (though not completely bald/shaved). It gives something to grip on to! Not entirely a dealbreaker, however, if there is a great connection.
Due to the nature of Fet, Iβm not planning on sharing a full-on selfie early on but I will reveal it slowly over time with the right person. Plus, semi-anonymous play IS one of my kinks! It really adds to the hotness for me. ?
For now, hereβs a description of me:
- 26 years old, 5β2β.
- Light-skinned, British Caribbean black female.
- Dark brown eyes.
- Curly dark brown hair. Both almost look black unless Iβm in the sun where the true colour shines through.
- 180lbs and declining (thanks to 75Hard!)
- Ample bosom and butt (thanks to genetics!).
- Ears pierced, no tattoos.
- Never married, zero kids.
- UK based
My personality and some things that I enjoy:
**The Vanilla Stuff**
- Demisexual, Sapiosexual, Bisexual.
- Insomniac so Iβm often up at weird hours of the night.
- Video games. I have the majority of all the consoles so letβs play something sometime!
- VERY Amateur Woodworking.
- Woods and forests for strolls, hikes and non-vanilla things.
- Would love to try my hand at cosplay next year and I already have the perfect outfits in mind! 70s Ororo Munroe (X-Men Storm), Teen Titans (Original) Rachel Roth (Raven), Shego from Kim Possible, Tifa Lockhart from Final Fantasy.
- I LOVE asking and receiving questions; and, as you can see from this profile, I adore lengthy messages so please be inquisitive and talkative! Thereβs a lot of conversation starters here to choose from if youβre stuck.
**The Kinkier Stuff**
- β¨ Brat / Submissive / Accidental Occasional Domme / Middle (DDMG) β¨
You donβt have to like all of the same things that I do but having some overlap to talk about would be nice! : )
Hereβs a list of some of my interests and things I want to try:
Spanking and other impact play
Choking and other breath play
Collars and gags
Blindfolds and hoods
Restriction/Pinning/Cuffs
Shibari
DDMG
Age gaps
Interracial / Raceplay
CNC
Cock worship
Fucking machines
Suspension/Suspension fucking
**Light** verbal possessive degradation
Photo exchange
Hot candle wax play
**Some** knife play
Public play
Voyeurism
Rutting and Primal
Casual nudity
Freeuse
Orgasm control
Aaaand forced orgasm. Phew!
Okay, now that the bullet points are out of the wayβ¦ if youβre still here and interested then Iβd like to finish up by expressing what Iβm looking for in a connection and why.
~ Outside of the bedroom |
Iβm hoping that whilst youβre dominant in the bedroom, you have a firm, yet softer, persona outside of the bedroom that allows me to be a bit of a βdominant caregiverβ.
One of my main βlove languagesβ is acts of service and I tend to autonomously ensure everyoneβs needs are met.
Whether itβs making sure youβre fed and your cup is full, keeping up with appointments, upcoming celebrations and gift wrapping to medicine, hot water bottles and head massages when youβre sick.
Now, by no means am I referring to being nothing more than a subservient 1950s housewife stereotype.
I do these things as a show of affectionβ¦ because I want to, when I want to. NOT out of a sense of obligation and βtraditionβ.
Iβm headstrong and will speak my mind. Iβm the dominant in my own life and have to be to have gotten where I am plus where I want to get to.
So, Iβm not looking for anyone who wants a meek, yes-woman who will wait on them hand and footβ¦
Iβm not looking for someone who wants to βtameβ or diminish and pacify the spirit that I have built. But rather I want someone who is looking for their equal.
Someone to gently fan this fire so that we can both be great, together, in our own individual yet harmonious waysβ¦
(Unless, of course, weβre roleplaying then by all means let that misogynistic freak flag fly! ?)
~ Inside the bedroom |
In the bedroom, however, I want you to grab the bull by the horns and put me in my place.
At the end of the day, Iβm tired of having to be the strong dominant for everyone else and just want to find someone who will let me melt completely in their open arms.
At last being able to relinquish the remaining shred of my control, fully knowing that I am safe.
~ Brattiness |
Iβm a βplayfulβ bratty sub.
My form of βdisrespectβ is playful teasing and rebellious defiance.
I like to gently poke the bear and run away when itβs finally riled up.
I expect to face the consequences of my actions but that wonβt stop me from batting my big, brown eyes at you and pleading for forgivenessβ¦ Which youβll give me because Iβm your sweet girlβ¦ Sucker. ?
I like to run until Iβm caught, kick until Iβm pinned and gently nibble until Iβm gagged.
~ Adventurous |
My kink list above is by no means exhaustive, with new things being added to it fairly regularly.
Though the list is long, there is still a *large* part of it that is yet to be physically explored.
Iβm looking for a safe, reliable space in which to do that with an experienced, patient dominant who is happy to show me the (sometimes literal) ropes.
Mentor me in the experiences Iβve yet to try and guide me in perfecting the things you enjoy most.
I want you to turn me into your personal, custom-made toy.
Iβm hoping youβre equally adventurous, wanting to grow and explore new things together.
Toys, outfits, scenes, clubs and hidden gems. Thereβs a whole world of fun out there to be explored and Iβm willing to bet it would be better shared.
~ Relocating |
In regards to long distance and relocating, Iβm up for moving to an entirely different country for the right person.
Not at this current point in time but definitely in the future should things progress and remain steady.
My goal has always been to move to either California or Canada so Iβll eventually be in either USA or CA regardless. Iβm flexible on where exactly within these countries Iβd move to. I could consider Australia for the right person if they were unable to immigrate to the US with me.
But, as an overly ambitious heads-up, should we ever be cohabiting a home together, I fully intend to repurpose a whole room (or basement) into a depraved little playroom, filled with all sorts of devious devices for both to enjoy.
If youβve made it this far then perhaps youβre the person Iβve been looking forβ¦
If you think so then Iβd love to hear from you!
Send me a message, opening with a little bit about yourself like your age, location, SFW interests/hobbies and our NSFW shared interests.
If you made it this far, say: purple cabbages.
Youβll shoot straight to the top of my lookout list. ?