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Hiya, I’m a young female looking for some fun. I am a switch, looking to play with both men and women. I am currently in an open relationship with my long term partner. I would like to find some respectful people who are open to playing occasionally when we can find the time and energy.
Female (28) Newcastle, New South Wales
toxiclila on FetLife Hello & Welcome 🌸 If you’re here, I invite you to read with intention. I value depth and genuine connection; if that isn’t your s***d, we likely won’t align. About Myself 🦂 I am a Scorpio stellium driven by consistency and intentionality. I believe in meeting people with the exact same energy they bring to me. Standards: Low effort approaches and a lack of basic respect are immediate dealbreakers. Relationship Orientation: While I have past experience with what was labeled as non monogamy, it was entirely one sided, I was monogamous while my partner wasn't. While I recognise that isn't what true ENM is supposed to be, the self discovery I've done since then has made one thing very clear: monogamy is home for me. I am intense and crave an all consuming type of love with one person. I do not like sharing, and I do not wish to be shared. I also have a preference for black men. Not as a fetishisation, just my type. Privacy: My "vanilla" life is kept private for safety. If we connect in person, you’ll get to know me naturally, but I do not perform my private life for the internet. Friend Requests: Please do not send a request unless we have met in person. Connections, Intimacy & Boundaries 🏻 Relationship Status and Evolution: Monogamy is home for me; one person is entirely enough. I am a relationship girl at heart, intense, and I crave an all consuming type of love with one partner. Again, I don’t like to share, and I do not wish to be shared. Because I view sex outside of my work as a form of deep intimacy and vulnerability, sexual engagement is completely off the table without a foundational, monogamous emotional connection. Professional Boundaries & Safety: Outside of my professional sex work, I do not sleep with people I am not in a monogamous relationship with. Because health and safety are paramount, I get tested regularly; my last STI test was 15/5/26. If I am ever in a position to be intimate with someone, I expect no less than the same level of accountability. Current Community Focus: In the community, I go by Toxic, Lila, or Toxiclila. Formerly known as missrabbit3010 prior to may 23rd 2026. Having recently exited an unhealthy, intense D/s dynamic, I am NOT looking for a new power exchange. I am currently in a dedicated phase of therapy, self-awareness, and personal growth. My focus right now is: Building authentic, platonic friendships within the community Attending munches and workshops to grow and expand my knowledge Exploring strictly non sexual play (rope, sensation, etc.) with others. Mastering the art of vetting and moving slowly The Kink Side ⛓ My Style: Masochist-leaning submissive, with a switch side reserved strictly for submissive partners. My Dominant headspace is absolute; once I'm in it, I am entirely focused and immovable. The Dynamic: Once trust is established, I can be quite bratty in a play context. However, please don't mistake my "ray of sunshine" social personality for "social brattiness." I value the feeling of being "put in my place" only by those who have earned that authority. The Connection: I find fulfillment in exploring ***, though I remain naturally expressive and talkative throughout. Physicality: Being bubbly and friendly is my nature, not an invitation. Do not touch me without explicit consent. I will always extend that same respect to you. Current Interests & Curiosities ✨ Technical: Rope & Wax, Needle Play Sensation: Heavy Impact, Sensory Deprivation, and Temperature Play Developmental: Edge Play (A long-term goal for when I have the right partner and experience level) Personal: I love deep diving into character psychology and the "why" behind dynamics. If you want to nerd out over character arcs or lore, we’ll get along. Hard Limits 🚫 These are non negotiable and will not be debated. Engaging with these topics will result in an immediate block. *** | Age Play/Regression | Financial Domination Minors | ***s | Race Play Sexualisation of my self-harm scars. Disrespect toward me, sex workers, or sex work in general Strict Warning: Any sexualisation of my scars is a profound boundary ***. There are no second chances; you will be blocked immediately.
Female (22) Newcastle, New South Wales
Primarily HotWife looking for a Bull to fuck me hard while my husband watches & helps clean up. Also looking for MFM & FFM experiences. Will try anything once. Love Bondage. ***d orgasam. Edging. Brat. Slave/Master. Domme/Sub. DDlg. Breath play...obviously. Fun focused only, not looking for a relationship, I already have a Husband.
Female (34) Newcastle, New South Wales
Confident, selective, and impossible to impress with words alone. I’m a pretty face with a sharp attitude and high standards, that’s just who I am. I value effort, generosity, and people who understand that actions speak louder than promises. Bring good energy, consistency, and know how to show appreciation.
Female (27) Newcastle, New South Wales
I'm a short, energetic ginger 🔥 I'm pretty nerdy love to read 📚 ❤️ I've very curious and have or open to try new things. I manage a store, so I'm the power holder at work, i call the shots. & would like to give someone else that power. maybe it could be you 🥰😘

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Hiya, I’m a young female looking for some fun. I am a switch, looking to play with both men and women. I am currently in an open relationship with my long term partner. I would like to find some respectful people who are open to playing occasionally when we can find the time and energy.
Female (28) Newcastle, New South Wales
Confident, selective, and impossible to impress with words alone. I’m a pretty face with a sharp attitude and high standards, that’s just who I am. I value effort, generosity, and people who understand that actions speak louder than promises. Bring good energy, consistency, and know how to show appreciation.
Female (27) Newcastle, New South Wales
toxiclila on FetLife Hello & Welcome 🌸 If you’re here, I invite you to read with intention. I value depth and genuine connection; if that isn’t your s***d, we likely won’t align. About Myself 🦂 I am a Scorpio stellium driven by consistency and intentionality. I believe in meeting people with the exact same energy they bring to me. Standards: Low effort approaches and a lack of basic respect are immediate dealbreakers. Relationship Orientation: While I have past experience with what was labeled as non monogamy, it was entirely one sided, I was monogamous while my partner wasn't. While I recognise that isn't what true ENM is supposed to be, the self discovery I've done since then has made one thing very clear: monogamy is home for me. I am intense and crave an all consuming type of love with one person. I do not like sharing, and I do not wish to be shared. I also have a preference for black men. Not as a fetishisation, just my type. Privacy: My "vanilla" life is kept private for safety. If we connect in person, you’ll get to know me naturally, but I do not perform my private life for the internet. Friend Requests: Please do not send a request unless we have met in person. Connections, Intimacy & Boundaries 🏻 Relationship Status and Evolution: Monogamy is home for me; one person is entirely enough. I am a relationship girl at heart, intense, and I crave an all consuming type of love with one partner. Again, I don’t like to share, and I do not wish to be shared. Because I view sex outside of my work as a form of deep intimacy and vulnerability, sexual engagement is completely off the table without a foundational, monogamous emotional connection. Professional Boundaries & Safety: Outside of my professional sex work, I do not sleep with people I am not in a monogamous relationship with. Because health and safety are paramount, I get tested regularly; my last STI test was 15/5/26. If I am ever in a position to be intimate with someone, I expect no less than the same level of accountability. Current Community Focus: In the community, I go by Toxic, Lila, or Toxiclila. Formerly known as missrabbit3010 prior to may 23rd 2026. Having recently exited an unhealthy, intense D/s dynamic, I am NOT looking for a new power exchange. I am currently in a dedicated phase of therapy, self-awareness, and personal growth. My focus right now is: Building authentic, platonic friendships within the community Attending munches and workshops to grow and expand my knowledge Exploring strictly non sexual play (rope, sensation, etc.) with others. Mastering the art of vetting and moving slowly The Kink Side ⛓ My Style: Masochist-leaning submissive, with a switch side reserved strictly for submissive partners. My Dominant headspace is absolute; once I'm in it, I am entirely focused and immovable. The Dynamic: Once trust is established, I can be quite bratty in a play context. However, please don't mistake my "ray of sunshine" social personality for "social brattiness." I value the feeling of being "put in my place" only by those who have earned that authority. The Connection: I find fulfillment in exploring ***, though I remain naturally expressive and talkative throughout. Physicality: Being bubbly and friendly is my nature, not an invitation. Do not touch me without explicit consent. I will always extend that same respect to you. Current Interests & Curiosities ✨ Technical: Rope & Wax, Needle Play Sensation: Heavy Impact, Sensory Deprivation, and Temperature Play Developmental: Edge Play (A long-term goal for when I have the right partner and experience level) Personal: I love deep diving into character psychology and the "why" behind dynamics. If you want to nerd out over character arcs or lore, we’ll get along. Hard Limits 🚫 These are non negotiable and will not be debated. Engaging with these topics will result in an immediate block. *** | Age Play/Regression | Financial Domination Minors | ***s | Race Play Sexualisation of my self-harm scars. Disrespect toward me, sex workers, or sex work in general Strict Warning: Any sexualisation of my scars is a profound boundary ***. There are no second chances; you will be blocked immediately.
Female (22) Newcastle, New South Wales
Primarily HotWife looking for a Bull to fuck me hard while my husband watches & helps clean up. Also looking for MFM & FFM experiences. Will try anything once. Love Bondage. ***d orgasam. Edging. Brat. Slave/Master. Domme/Sub. DDlg. Breath play...obviously. Fun focused only, not looking for a relationship, I already have a Husband.
Female (34) Newcastle, New South Wales
I'm a short, energetic ginger 🔥 I'm pretty nerdy love to read 📚 ❤️ I've very curious and have or open to try new things. I manage a store, so I'm the power holder at work, i call the shots. & would like to give someone else that power. maybe it could be you 🥰😘

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