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Sydney’s pulse runs through my veins inner west grit, harbour-side elegance, and the quiet confidence of a woman who knows this city’s secrets. I command with intention, not impulse. My dominance is a conversation, my control a slow burn. I value thoughtful submission, honest dialogue, and the art of anticipation. If you understand the difference between attention and devotion, we might have something worth exploring.
Female (38) Sydney, New South Wales
Milf, 40s, Black. Size 10-12, fit, athletic/curvy build, healthy C cup with nipples that need attention. Sydney metro. Discreet, can’t host. Fair warning: I have a sharp tongue and not much patience. If you can’t handle direct, we won’t get far. **What I’m Looking For** Casual or semi-regular ANR/ABF sessions with the right person (20-45). I’m currently dry but would love to relactate with someone patient and consistent. **To be clear:** this is about nursing, not more. It’s also not a domme/sub dynamic, nor mummy/son roleplay. Just intimate, adult nursing with the right connection. If you’re looking for something else, keep scrolling. That said, a little edging while sucking never hurt anyone. **What I’m Not Looking For** Hook ups or booty calls Flakes, one-word messages, or anyone who can’t follow through, so if you’re unsure, don’t bother. Discretion is non-negotiable. **If This Speaks to You** Message me with what interests you and your availability. Skip the “hey.”
Female (45) Sydney, New South Wales
I am an experienced, confident, and naturally dominant Femdomme seeking a devoted, obedient submissive or slave for a serious Female Led Relationship (FLR) and long-term dynamic. I thrive on control, structure, and power exchange. In my world, the man’s role is to serve, obey, and worship. Your pleasure is a privilege I control. I am strict when needed, caring when deserved, and always in charge.Need a genuine submissive man who craves being led by a strong woman. You should be loyal, service-oriented, and excited by the idea of putting a woman’s needs above your own. Whether you’re new to the lifestyle or experienced, the right mindset matters most.
Female (35) Sydney, New South Wales
Im a mistress/goddess looking for active tributes from pay pigs/ sugar daddy's to drain there balls and wallets I'm into *** and insulting.
Female (25) Sydney, New South Wales
I'm a single dominant mistress. I have enjoyed this lifestyle ever since my college days. I enjoy this dominant lifestyle and I am willing and ready to pursue this further and having a sissy slave that would HAVE to obey and honor me would make me pleased. I will train you to exhibit all these characteristics with STRICT training and domination, Domination and *** is my aim and owning you as my own personal property, heart, body and soul. I have got a lot of fetish taste ranging from ass worship, role play, ***, ***, using my toys in you and on you and lots more. I want you to know that I practice what I preach in everyday life. I will enjoy bathing you in my *** and making you my pet toy. And at the end, you will always end up saying, "Mistress i am honored to have You." Men are meant to be under the woman, for you to qualify, you have to obey and honor my DOMINANCE.
I'm an extremist in luv With submission , it's power and beauty... With submission, comes power. Confinement brings freedom. *** is pleasure. Submission is a part of me, loooking for a Dom I connect with to train with more and to serve, his pleasure being mine. A submissive with primal instincts, the ultimate fucktoy and highly regarded throat specialist, a cumslut driven by ***, *** and endurance..
Female (48) Sydney, New South Wales
I am a very cheerful and sincere person. Also a beautician and an hairstylist.I like to start each new day with a smile and finish it with a smile too. In life, there are many reasons for sadness and I understand that you cannot always feel happy, but still I think that you need the most positive attitude to life and then everything will be fine. Would you like to have a faithful, kind, bright and energetic lady by your side who knows how to take care of herself and her man.
Female (40) Sydney, New South Wales
For me, dominance is about energy, presence, and control of the mind before the body. I enjoy guiding a submissive into vulnerability and watching them thrive under firm direction. I’m seeking someone open to exploration, growth, and new experiences within a safe and consensual framework. Chemistry matters. Intelligence matters. Respect matters. If you crave surrender and understand that true submission begins in the mind, introduce yourself properly.
Female (38) Sydney, New South Wales
I may seem simple and quiet, but I have a soft touch and a way of making people melt without even trying. If you’re curious how that feels, send me a message
Female (24) Sydney, New South Wales
I am an extremely open, emotional, cheerful and persistent person. I am very sociable, active, tender-hearted, caring and passionate. I live guided with my own principles and I am open to new experiences and new feelings. I am able to love unconditionally and faithfully. I love beauty and don't like monotony. I like style, life rhythm and intelligence. A beautician & hairstylist.
Female (50) Sydney, New South Wales
I like to lead an active lifestyle, do sports, yoga, stretching and love active recreation on quad bikes. I am always open and honest and I appreciate sincerity in relationships. I love to cook and my specialty is pasta with seafood. My energy and passion for life make every day bright and intense, but deep down I dream of finding someone who will share these moments with me. On this dating site I want to meet a man who knows how to enjoy life and who is not interested in the opinion of other people. Also, who is not afraid of a relationship with a young, energetic and hot woman.
Female (43) Sydney, New South Wales
I'm seeking a generous partner who is interested in exploring a power dynamic where I take on a dominant role. Someone who is enthusiastic about embracing their submissive side and is willing to communicate openly about their desires and boundaries. A partner who values and respects my dominant nature and is willing to submit to my leadership and guidance in our relationship. I appreciate someone who is attentive, respectful, and willing to please, and who finds fulfillment in serving and submitting to my desires. It's important to me that we establish clear communication and have a strong foundation of trust and consent in our dynamic. I'm excited to find a partner who shares my interests and is enthusiastic about exploring a loving, consensual, and mutually fulfilling D/s relationship.
Female (36) Sydney, New South Wales
Hello, I go by Neha online, and I’m looking for an experienced Dom/Domme couple who would take pleasure in guiding, shaping, and owning a submissive eager to serve both Master and Mistress. My journey in this lifestyle began years ago online, but now feels like the right time to bring it into the real world. I no longer want my kinks to remain only fantasy—I want to live them with the right people who can help me step fully into the life of slavery I truly desire. BDSM has always been part of me, and over the years my interests have grown toward sadism, ***, and CNC. I’ve tested limits online with Doms/Dommes who pushed me close to having none. Of course I keep my kink life separate from my personal one, so i dont appreciate trying to push past that limit. What I’m missing is the structure and intensity that only real ownership can bring. I am seeking Doms for TPE who will mold me through discipline and day-to-day structure—training my manners, s***ch, posture, and eye contact, until every detail of my life, even my most basic functions like when to ***, shit or orgasm, requires permission. I also long to experience sadistic and sexual expression freely shown on me at my Owners’ will. To me, a slave is only as strong as the training she receives. That’s why I seek not just Owners, but true mentors—serious about instruction, guidance, and shaping me into the most obedient and devoted version of myself. This time, I’m not looking for something limited to online. I do want to meet in person, though I am shy and prefer to build trust and a foundation first. I’m working on pushing past that shyness, so patience is appreciated. I know what I want and I’m not shy about being honest. If our wavelength doesn’t align, I’ll say it directly and respectfully. I value clarity and openness, so please understand that from me you’ll always get straightforward communication before we ever brings things to real world. If you are in Australia and looking for a submissive slave to train, mold, and own, I’d love to hear from you.
Curious and open minded. After a life time in the dark, I'm looking to learn whats possible (in terms of sexuality). **Desires and Fantasies** ***d pleasure
Female (46) Sydney, New South Wales
hello I’m 45 year old woman shy honest and caring love dance very honest wear hair pieces ever since little due to trauma o love dancing and working out from home
Female (45) Sydney, New South Wales
A 29year old thicc Asian woman trying to make up for lost time…. years of Christian/conservative repression and COVID Lockdowns means I’m ready to get out there, meet people and try new things :)
Female (29) Sydney, New South Wales
I’m a bit of a newbie to this…but I’m into letting someone take control and look after me. Not necessarily in a sexual context. Giving myself over to someone, knowing they won’t do anything I can’t handle, knowing they know what’s best for me in that moment. Letting me stay next to them, even just kneeling, and accepting the gift that is my submission to them. I’d love to talk to anyone that has experience in this sort of non-sexual submission on either side, I want to learn more about it all!
Female (24) Sydney, New South Wales
I am a girl(… in theory ) who is in a friends with benefits with my bestie (we are a package deal for now as we settle and learn more.) I love playing with aesthetics, love (and learning to ride) motorbikes,very bookish and hella kinky. I love rope, praise/*** (to a point) I am a switch who is very horny once I’m comfy with a person. (the trauma comedy special I can do is legendary so take that into consideration) you will get lots of laughs tho at the very least and cat photos (the actual one not the euphemism….. unless you’re Lucky and earn it😉
Female (23) Sydney, New South Wales
A well-behaved, devoted sub male who finds purpose in serving, worshipping, and obeying. I want full attention. You’ll be given tasks, rules, and structure. You’ll fold my laundry, do grocery shopping, rub my feet, drive me places, chores and remind me daily why I own you. Your reward? The privilege of existing in my presence… and maybe, if you’ve pleased me, the honour of massaging me. if you’re a good little slave maybe I’ll sit on your face. ✖️✖️ Not interested in young little boys - I make grown men into little boys. ➕➕ And don’t waste my time - I already have a pet. But I could use one more to fight over who gets to pamper me. My pet is a pathetic little cuck so open to potentially letting a dom have his way with me while he watches. BUT dom needs to emasculate him. Taller than 6’1, built, richer would help.
Female (30) Sydney, New South Wales
hello…. I’m in an open relationship and privacy is paramount. if you contact me and you’re the right person then I’ll open up!
femdom No Vanilla student, average Asian, I really didn’t want to post my face here, but I’m tired of people constantly asking me for my photos. it just a face, who cares? I like obedient person. don’t push me. I really hate that.
Female (22) Sydney, New South Wales
Confident, self-aware, and a little bit dangerous in the right hands. I’m someone who knows what I like and isn’t afraid to explore it—with the right energy, the right respect, and the right connection. I’m drawn to intensity over surface-level play. There’s something about trust, control, and sensory experience that really gets my attention. I respond to presence, to someone who can read the room, pick up on the subtle shifts, and meet me there. I value clear communication, mutual respect, and people who understand that the best dynamics are built—not rushed. If you’re thoughtful, grounded, and know how to hold space while still bringing a bit of edge… we’ll get along just fine.
Female (35) Sydney, New South Wales
Looking for a male sub and/or a female queen. I like a man with a moustache and a woman without! Not much into long chats.. more to the point.
Female (47) Sydney, New South Wales

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Sydney’s pulse runs through my veins inner west grit, harbour-side elegance, and the quiet confidence of a woman who knows this city’s secrets. I command with intention, not impulse. My dominance is a conversation, my control a slow burn. I value thoughtful submission, honest dialogue, and the art of anticipation. If you understand the difference between attention and devotion, we might have something worth exploring.
Female (38) Sydney, New South Wales
I am an experienced, confident, and naturally dominant Femdomme seeking a devoted, obedient submissive or slave for a serious Female Led Relationship (FLR) and long-term dynamic. I thrive on control, structure, and power exchange. In my world, the man’s role is to serve, obey, and worship. Your pleasure is a privilege I control. I am strict when needed, caring when deserved, and always in charge.Need a genuine submissive man who craves being led by a strong woman. You should be loyal, service-oriented, and excited by the idea of putting a woman’s needs above your own. Whether you’re new to the lifestyle or experienced, the right mindset matters most.
Female (35) Sydney, New South Wales
I may seem simple and quiet, but I have a soft touch and a way of making people melt without even trying. If you’re curious how that feels, send me a message
Female (24) Sydney, New South Wales
I'm a single dominant mistress. I have enjoyed this lifestyle ever since my college days. I enjoy this dominant lifestyle and I am willing and ready to pursue this further and having a sissy slave that would HAVE to obey and honor me would make me pleased. I will train you to exhibit all these characteristics with STRICT training and domination, Domination and *** is my aim and owning you as my own personal property, heart, body and soul. I have got a lot of fetish taste ranging from ass worship, role play, ***, ***, using my toys in you and on you and lots more. I want you to know that I practice what I preach in everyday life. I will enjoy bathing you in my *** and making you my pet toy. And at the end, you will always end up saying, "Mistress i am honored to have You." Men are meant to be under the woman, for you to qualify, you have to obey and honor my DOMINANCE.
Im a mistress/goddess looking for active tributes from pay pigs/ sugar daddy's to drain there balls and wallets I'm into *** and insulting.
Female (25) Sydney, New South Wales
For me, dominance is about energy, presence, and control of the mind before the body. I enjoy guiding a submissive into vulnerability and watching them thrive under firm direction. I’m seeking someone open to exploration, growth, and new experiences within a safe and consensual framework. Chemistry matters. Intelligence matters. Respect matters. If you crave surrender and understand that true submission begins in the mind, introduce yourself properly.
Female (38) Sydney, New South Wales
Milf, 40s, Black. Size 10-12, fit, athletic/curvy build, healthy C cup with nipples that need attention. Sydney metro. Discreet, can’t host. Fair warning: I have a sharp tongue and not much patience. If you can’t handle direct, we won’t get far. **What I’m Looking For** Casual or semi-regular ANR/ABF sessions with the right person (20-45). I’m currently dry but would love to relactate with someone patient and consistent. **To be clear:** this is about nursing, not more. It’s also not a domme/sub dynamic, nor mummy/son roleplay. Just intimate, adult nursing with the right connection. If you’re looking for something else, keep scrolling. That said, a little edging while sucking never hurt anyone. **What I’m Not Looking For** Hook ups or booty calls Flakes, one-word messages, or anyone who can’t follow through, so if you’re unsure, don’t bother. Discretion is non-negotiable. **If This Speaks to You** Message me with what interests you and your availability. Skip the “hey.”
Female (45) Sydney, New South Wales
I am a very cheerful and sincere person. Also a beautician and an hairstylist.I like to start each new day with a smile and finish it with a smile too. In life, there are many reasons for sadness and I understand that you cannot always feel happy, but still I think that you need the most positive attitude to life and then everything will be fine. Would you like to have a faithful, kind, bright and energetic lady by your side who knows how to take care of herself and her man.
Female (40) Sydney, New South Wales
I like to lead an active lifestyle, do sports, yoga, stretching and love active recreation on quad bikes. I am always open and honest and I appreciate sincerity in relationships. I love to cook and my specialty is pasta with seafood. My energy and passion for life make every day bright and intense, but deep down I dream of finding someone who will share these moments with me. On this dating site I want to meet a man who knows how to enjoy life and who is not interested in the opinion of other people. Also, who is not afraid of a relationship with a young, energetic and hot woman.
Female (43) Sydney, New South Wales
I am an extremely open, emotional, cheerful and persistent person. I am very sociable, active, tender-hearted, caring and passionate. I live guided with my own principles and I am open to new experiences and new feelings. I am able to love unconditionally and faithfully. I love beauty and don't like monotony. I like style, life rhythm and intelligence. A beautician & hairstylist.
Female (50) Sydney, New South Wales
Hello, I go by Neha online, and I’m looking for an experienced Dom/Domme couple who would take pleasure in guiding, shaping, and owning a submissive eager to serve both Master and Mistress. My journey in this lifestyle began years ago online, but now feels like the right time to bring it into the real world. I no longer want my kinks to remain only fantasy—I want to live them with the right people who can help me step fully into the life of slavery I truly desire. BDSM has always been part of me, and over the years my interests have grown toward sadism, ***, and CNC. I’ve tested limits online with Doms/Dommes who pushed me close to having none. Of course I keep my kink life separate from my personal one, so i dont appreciate trying to push past that limit. What I’m missing is the structure and intensity that only real ownership can bring. I am seeking Doms for TPE who will mold me through discipline and day-to-day structure—training my manners, s***ch, posture, and eye contact, until every detail of my life, even my most basic functions like when to ***, shit or orgasm, requires permission. I also long to experience sadistic and sexual expression freely shown on me at my Owners’ will. To me, a slave is only as strong as the training she receives. That’s why I seek not just Owners, but true mentors—serious about instruction, guidance, and shaping me into the most obedient and devoted version of myself. This time, I’m not looking for something limited to online. I do want to meet in person, though I am shy and prefer to build trust and a foundation first. I’m working on pushing past that shyness, so patience is appreciated. I know what I want and I’m not shy about being honest. If our wavelength doesn’t align, I’ll say it directly and respectfully. I value clarity and openness, so please understand that from me you’ll always get straightforward communication before we ever brings things to real world. If you are in Australia and looking for a submissive slave to train, mold, and own, I’d love to hear from you.
I'm seeking a generous partner who is interested in exploring a power dynamic where I take on a dominant role. Someone who is enthusiastic about embracing their submissive side and is willing to communicate openly about their desires and boundaries. A partner who values and respects my dominant nature and is willing to submit to my leadership and guidance in our relationship. I appreciate someone who is attentive, respectful, and willing to please, and who finds fulfillment in serving and submitting to my desires. It's important to me that we establish clear communication and have a strong foundation of trust and consent in our dynamic. I'm excited to find a partner who shares my interests and is enthusiastic about exploring a loving, consensual, and mutually fulfilling D/s relationship.
Female (36) Sydney, New South Wales
Curious and open minded. After a life time in the dark, I'm looking to learn whats possible (in terms of sexuality). **Desires and Fantasies** ***d pleasure
Female (46) Sydney, New South Wales
I'm an extremist in luv With submission , it's power and beauty... With submission, comes power. Confinement brings freedom. *** is pleasure. Submission is a part of me, loooking for a Dom I connect with to train with more and to serve, his pleasure being mine. A submissive with primal instincts, the ultimate fucktoy and highly regarded throat specialist, a cumslut driven by ***, *** and endurance..
Female (48) Sydney, New South Wales
We are a Bi Female 36 and Bi Male 39 couple looking for a bisexual guy or girl for an ongoing situationship/throuple/relationship. We are both career focused professionals, very happy and secure in our relationship. We are both relaxed, very affectionate and caring. We have previously been in an ongoing relationship with a bisexual guy and before that a bisexual girl. We understand and absolutely love the dynamic of being able to grow and build on an amazing journey with another person. We are highly sexual and love all of the fun that we have when it comes to different types of sexual play. We are both fit, attractive, well presented and very big on hygiene. We are real and genuine looking for someone to join us and enjoy our sexual fun, dinners, drinks and falling asleep together all wrapped up in each others arms. If you are real, bisexual, not looking for a hookup, respectful and keen to join an already amazing sexual and friendly dynamic, please send us a message.
Female (35) Sydney, New South Wales
Hi hi! I love exploring new things!! I’m a playful brat if you’re confident enough to handle me, but I can also take the lead if you’re not. I’m open to all genders, as long as we’re both comfortable and having fun. With men, I’ve mostly explored my bratty side so far. With women, I usually prefer being the dominant one, but I’m open-minded and happy to switch things up depending on the chemistry.
Female (20) Sydney, New South Wales
Open to chatting and if all goes well, we will see what happens 😉 I’m married and my husband is fully supportive of me being on this app. I travel a lot so just ask if you want to know how long I’ll be here for. Happy to share photos or give access to private gallery.
Female (27) Sydney, New South Wales
A 29year old thicc Asian woman trying to make up for lost time…. years of Christian/conservative repression and COVID Lockdowns means I’m ready to get out there, meet people and try new things :)
Female (29) Sydney, New South Wales
I’m a lesbian and fairly new to the kink world, currently looking to meet new people, make connections, learn, and hopefully find play partners/friends with good energy and communication. I lean subby and can definitely be a brat at times, but I also have a more dominant side that comes out depending on the dynamic, trust, and connection. ✧ Interests ✧ • Bondage • Violet wand • Impact • Wax play • Sensory play • Edge play Outside of kink, you’ll usually find me at home with family, reading, baking, op shopping, watching TV, or doom scrolling for way too long.
Female (24) Sydney, New South Wales
hi, i’m syd! just looking to explore the honest and true kinkier side to myself ☺️ always while staying safe and having fun! pull my hair and let me smack your face 😈 outside play, online fwb and regular photo exchange are big arousal points.. into more.. just ask…. or beg me to tell you.
Female (26) Sydney, New South Wales
I’m up for a little fun, maybe more then a little but I need someone who can spoil me and take care of me, I can do anything you tell me to or whatever you are into I can do it all, only message me if you are serious about taking care of my needs.
Female (18) Sydney, New South Wales
Confident, self-aware, and a little bit dangerous in the right hands. I’m someone who knows what I like and isn’t afraid to explore it—with the right energy, the right respect, and the right connection. I’m drawn to intensity over surface-level play. There’s something about trust, control, and sensory experience that really gets my attention. I respond to presence, to someone who can read the room, pick up on the subtle shifts, and meet me there. I value clear communication, mutual respect, and people who understand that the best dynamics are built—not rushed. If you’re thoughtful, grounded, and know how to hold space while still bringing a bit of edge… we’ll get along just fine.
Female (35) Sydney, New South Wales
Hello! Wanted to meet new people and get a bigger picture of experimentation and all that entails ☺️. I am definitely a sub, and sometimes (by the right person) line getting put in my place. I’m big on trust and transparency with relationships (of any kind), and i believe having respect for people is very important. I enjoy most forms of media, love to learn, et j'apprends le français 😊.
Female (18) Sydney, New South Wales

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