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I am selective, discreet, and value authenticity. My dominance is psychological first I enjoy control, structure, discipline, and shaping a submissive into their highest potential through guidance and authority. I am seeking a dedicated personal submissive who understands that submission is a privilege, not a performance. Someone emotionally intelligent, consistent, respectful, and genuinely committed to serving a strong woman with ambition and depth. I am not here for endless chatting, time wasters, or fantasy collectors. If you approach me, do so with intention and self-awareness.
Female (30) Brisbane, Queensland
I value confidence, self control, and respect. I’m intentional with my words and actions, and I expect the same from others. Clear communication and mutual understanding matter to me more than anything. I’m not here for games, pressure, or assumptions. If you can’t respect boundaries, we won’t get along.
Female (29) Brisbane, Queensland
I’m seeking a Dom/sir who can mold me into his perfect submissive. I enjoy being obedient, following rules and completing tasks. I also like being punished.
Female (43) Brisbane, Queensland
I like a man who listens the first time. Not because he’s weak but because he knows exactly what he wants: my approval! add me on 1nsta G :hearts_around: honeyvaleriax
Female (19) Brisbane, Queensland
Hi 👋🏼 I'm new in Brisbane, just moved up from Sydney, travelled most parts of Australia and looking for friends into rope, shibari, soft BDSM. Would like some female friends or trans/female before meeting men. Not into casual sex I can't use photos because of work privacy.
Female (45) Brisbane, Queensland
Greetings i am not new to the lifestyle but had taken a step back due to a vanilla relationship and relocation from Melbourne. i am starting to step back into the lifestyle now my true calling is as a submissive although I have had domestic submissives in the past.
Female (64) Brisbane, Queensland
Hello fellow kinksters! I’m back and dipping my toes into the big bad world of BDSM again after a bit of an absence. While I am new to the Brisbane scene, I am not new to the world of kink/BDSM. I lived in London for 20 years and had a glorious time finding and exploring my kinky side over there. Spent many a night at various fetish clubs and munches with a truly wonderful bunch of kinky friends and playmates. Several longer-term D/s relationships and one ex-husband later I find myself living in Brisbane, hoping to find some similarly perverted IRL friends, play mates or longer-term D/s relationships. In terms of a potential LTR-type connection, if you are looking for a tall, thin, super-fit extrovert who loves hiking, running and going to the gym, I’m probably not the girl for you. If you are looking for a curvy/plus size short arse who is a quirky, curious, experimental, creative dark horse…here I am! For me, the essential aspects in this type of relationship are trust, honesty and having a strong mental connection. The deeper the connection the more I can be challenged. Pushed to my limits. From that starting point, the possibilities are endless... Kinks When I first started exploring the big bad world of BDSM I approached it as a switch, and have experienced most aspects kink as both a Domme and sub. But the more I explored and experienced, the more I realised it is the submissive side of things that truly does it for me. As a sub I always aim to please and be a good girl. I am rarely bratty or disobedient, although I can sometimes be a little cheeky when the mood strikes me. I am also quite masochistic and have been described as a total ***slut on more than one occasion! I enjoy most aspects of BDSM, so it is probably easier to talk about the things I’m not particularly drawn to. While I’ve enjoyed playing with puppies and kittens in Domme mode in the past, I’ve not felt the desire to be the pet myself. Nor have I felt the urge to try the little/adult baby thing. Gags and hoods seem to set off something deeply unpleasant and upsetting, so I tend to avoid them (although blindfolds are fine- go figure!). Kink and sex are deeply connected for me. The way my body reacts sexually to BDSM is quite amazing and intense! But this is not something that is immediately or casually offered. It is, however, immensely enjoyable once trust starts to build and a certain level of comfort is there. A few things to note: - I’m not strictly heterosexual, more heteroflexible. I’m more attracted to personality, intellect and connection rather than sex/gender or outward appearance. - I can be a little socially awkward/shy at first, and am rubbish at small talk, but if we meet and click in real life I may well end up talking your ear off! - If your first message to me is ‘hey,’ ‘how’s your evening’ or something similar I’m unlikely to reply. I’m quite open, honest and direct, and appreciate those who are like-minded in their communication. I think the most interesting bits of life and connection with others lie in our quirks, differences, and vulnerabilities, which often leads to quite deep conversations. So, if that’s not your thing I’m probably not the girl for you! - I am a single mum with an 11 year old. Which is awesome, but it means my time is often taken up doing mum stuff, and I can’t always respond immediately to messages. I also run my own business, which can be a bit feast or famine. When going through a busy patch I may not have time to reply or even check messages on here! - I am a breast cancer survivor (8 years in ‘remission’) and have an auto-immune sleep disorder. This means I experience some fatigue from time-to-time, but I’m determined to not let it stop me living my best kinky life!
Female (50) Brisbane, Queensland
please don’t bother if you’re not single. I like intellect, wit and smarts. If it doesn’t tickle the brain- it’ll bore me fast.
Female (42) Brisbane, Queensland
Here, I share not just my physical self, but also 💭 My thoughts 😴 my dreams/kinks 🤫 and the intricacies that make me who I am. You will become a part of a select audience that gets to witness my unfiltered authenticity and engage in genuine conversations. If you’re looking for a space that nurtures connections and encourages open-minded exploration, you’ve found it. totally transparent ask anything I dare ya 😜
Female (46) Brisbane, Queensland
still fairly new as i'm barely on here don’t mind me, just looking to chat only and make friends while exploring the kink scene (: i'm not looking to be 'owned' nor do pic exchanges, please respect my boundaries ai selfies, creepy/rude behaviour = blocked
Female (26) Brisbane, Queensland
A mean bitch and I’m ok with it. I’ve been kinky for over 20 years, so don’t have patience for time wasters. Ethically non-monogamous
Female (44) Brisbane, Queensland
why are men so afraid on here to have a decent conversation I’m your commanding Mistress — elegant, unyielding, and utterly insatiable. I thrive on power and control. Nothing excites me more than breaking strong men and confident women down to their most desperate, obedient selves beneath my heels. Whether you’re on your knees begging for my touch, my whip, or my permission to cum… you’ll learn that your pleasure belongs to me. I dominate both men and women with equal delight — bending wills, teasing bodies, and pushing limits until you ache with need. And my favorite indulgence? Watching you fuck for my amusement. I love commanding you to take each other, to perform, to lose control while I sit back and enjoy the show… deciding exactly when, how, and if you’re allowed to finish. So tell me, pet… are you ready to surrender? Ready to be used, displayed, and played with for my entertainment? Your body, your orgasms, your obedience — they all answer to me now.” I love kitty 🐈‍ more than rooster 🐓 I’ll happily rate your videos
Female (33) Brisbane, Queensland
Hey 😊 I'm still somewhat new to all this, but know I lean more into the submissive side of things. Pretty open-minded, and with the right person willing to try different things.
Female (33) Brisbane, Queensland
new to this, never explored it but curious about being in a continuous arrangement ***/submissive/brat dynamic. not hugely into bdsm - some aspects of it have my interest.
Female (46) Brisbane, Queensland
COUGAR looking for toys. 20-45 years old. Slaves welcome. MEETS ONLY, NOTHING ONLINE. Bi-curious… Not looking for a sub lady Free use Bondage Impact play CBT Role play Pegging Foot worship Water sports Happy to try most things once! Limit ***
Female (45) Brisbane, Queensland
Looking for a Daddy/Dom to take care of my sexual needs. Looking for a legitimate Master, someone who has experience within BDSM culture, has their own Toy’s/equipment/dungeon, shibari, CNC & enjoys *** play! 😈 Only message me if you are legit and experienced & if you live within BRISBANE CITY REGION! xxx
Female (26) East Brisbane, Queensland
I watch those who crave control struggle for even a taste of me. Attention isn’t free, prove your worth, pay your dues. Find me on X: @StudControlDom
Female (23) Brisbane, Queensland
I’m a little brat with big life goals and an even bigger mouth. I am monogamous and interested in dating the right person (but not looking for a husband/long term relationship). I am INTENSE. Proceed with caution. Kinks: - Consistency and Communication - Breathplay - Bratting - CnC - Slapping - Biting - Ropes - Lifestyle power exchange - Spitting (in mouth/genitals)
Female (34) Brisbane, Queensland
I’m in a happy, committed relationship (not open and not looking to change that), but we’d love to meet some like-minded kinky friends or other couples to have fun with. I’m into gardening, gaming, D&D, animation, and getting lost in a good book. I can be a little shy at first, but once you get me talking, I don’t shut up 😌 If you’re interested, message me first… I promise I’m worth the effort 💋 Bonus points if you can lift double my weight — I’ll be very impressed 😉 Also, I do have a spicy page if that’s something you’re interested in
Female (21) Brisbane, Queensland
New to the scene and exploring BDSM, enjoying the learning process. Friendly, open-minded, and a bit curious by nature.
Female (28) Brisbane, Queensland
Looking for someone who wants to be the BDSM and swinging Unicorns real partner. Horror, history and nature nerd looking for another weirdo to share cool stuff with. weirdly, I like watching guys *** I enjoy unusual cinema and TV, as well as reading (especially speculative and horror fiction, or about history, science and nature). Also love going for walks, gardening and trying new recipes. Happy to celebrate Halloween year round! When it comes to intimacy I prefer partners I share interests with- not looking for hookups. I'm a bit of a tomboy Brat who enjoys playing a little rough and dirty. Not into being a princess as I'm more of a goblin 😜 Been out of the scene for a while but looking to reconnect with my old kinky self.
Female (43) Brisbane, Queensland
completely new to this! bf is a cuck and wants me to have no strings attached fun. not looking to date specifically but meet in public preferred
Female (30) Brisbane, Queensland
exploring potential opportunities to have fun with a third person for me and my boyfriend girls only please
Female (21) Brisbane, Queensland
26 y/o female. Experienced submissive and masochist. Accepting and welcoming of all kinks. Polyamorous and happily married. I take my submission seriously and am seeking a dominant looking for a long term arrangement, who is willing to do the work to make a dynamic that is mutually fulfilling. Pansexual. Can switch for the right person.
Female (28) Brisbane, Queensland

New members in Brisbane

Hi 👋🏼 I'm new in Brisbane, just moved up from Sydney, travelled most parts of Australia and looking for friends into rope, shibari, soft BDSM. Would like some female friends or trans/female before meeting men. Not into casual sex I can't use photos because of work privacy.
Female (45) Brisbane, Queensland
I am selective, discreet, and value authenticity. My dominance is psychological first I enjoy control, structure, discipline, and shaping a submissive into their highest potential through guidance and authority. I am seeking a dedicated personal submissive who understands that submission is a privilege, not a performance. Someone emotionally intelligent, consistent, respectful, and genuinely committed to serving a strong woman with ambition and depth. I am not here for endless chatting, time wasters, or fantasy collectors. If you approach me, do so with intention and self-awareness.
Female (30) Brisbane, Queensland
I value confidence, self control, and respect. I’m intentional with my words and actions, and I expect the same from others. Clear communication and mutual understanding matter to me more than anything. I’m not here for games, pressure, or assumptions. If you can’t respect boundaries, we won’t get along.
Female (29) Brisbane, Queensland
I like a man who listens the first time. Not because he’s weak but because he knows exactly what he wants: my approval! add me on 1nsta G :hearts_around: honeyvaleriax
Female (19) Brisbane, Queensland
Hello fellow kinksters! I’m back and dipping my toes into the big bad world of BDSM again after a bit of an absence. While I am new to the Brisbane scene, I am not new to the world of kink/BDSM. I lived in London for 20 years and had a glorious time finding and exploring my kinky side over there. Spent many a night at various fetish clubs and munches with a truly wonderful bunch of kinky friends and playmates. Several longer-term D/s relationships and one ex-husband later I find myself living in Brisbane, hoping to find some similarly perverted IRL friends, play mates or longer-term D/s relationships. In terms of a potential LTR-type connection, if you are looking for a tall, thin, super-fit extrovert who loves hiking, running and going to the gym, I’m probably not the girl for you. If you are looking for a curvy/plus size short arse who is a quirky, curious, experimental, creative dark horse…here I am! For me, the essential aspects in this type of relationship are trust, honesty and having a strong mental connection. The deeper the connection the more I can be challenged. Pushed to my limits. From that starting point, the possibilities are endless... Kinks When I first started exploring the big bad world of BDSM I approached it as a switch, and have experienced most aspects kink as both a Domme and sub. But the more I explored and experienced, the more I realised it is the submissive side of things that truly does it for me. As a sub I always aim to please and be a good girl. I am rarely bratty or disobedient, although I can sometimes be a little cheeky when the mood strikes me. I am also quite masochistic and have been described as a total ***slut on more than one occasion! I enjoy most aspects of BDSM, so it is probably easier to talk about the things I’m not particularly drawn to. While I’ve enjoyed playing with puppies and kittens in Domme mode in the past, I’ve not felt the desire to be the pet myself. Nor have I felt the urge to try the little/adult baby thing. Gags and hoods seem to set off something deeply unpleasant and upsetting, so I tend to avoid them (although blindfolds are fine- go figure!). Kink and sex are deeply connected for me. The way my body reacts sexually to BDSM is quite amazing and intense! But this is not something that is immediately or casually offered. It is, however, immensely enjoyable once trust starts to build and a certain level of comfort is there. A few things to note: - I’m not strictly heterosexual, more heteroflexible. I’m more attracted to personality, intellect and connection rather than sex/gender or outward appearance. - I can be a little socially awkward/shy at first, and am rubbish at small talk, but if we meet and click in real life I may well end up talking your ear off! - If your first message to me is ‘hey,’ ‘how’s your evening’ or something similar I’m unlikely to reply. I’m quite open, honest and direct, and appreciate those who are like-minded in their communication. I think the most interesting bits of life and connection with others lie in our quirks, differences, and vulnerabilities, which often leads to quite deep conversations. So, if that’s not your thing I’m probably not the girl for you! - I am a single mum with an 11 year old. Which is awesome, but it means my time is often taken up doing mum stuff, and I can’t always respond immediately to messages. I also run my own business, which can be a bit feast or famine. When going through a busy patch I may not have time to reply or even check messages on here! - I am a breast cancer survivor (8 years in ‘remission’) and have an auto-immune sleep disorder. This means I experience some fatigue from time-to-time, but I’m determined to not let it stop me living my best kinky life!
Female (50) Brisbane, Queensland
please don’t bother if you’re not single. I like intellect, wit and smarts. If it doesn’t tickle the brain- it’ll bore me fast.
Female (42) Brisbane, Queensland
Greetings i am not new to the lifestyle but had taken a step back due to a vanilla relationship and relocation from Melbourne. i am starting to step back into the lifestyle now my true calling is as a submissive although I have had domestic submissives in the past.
Female (64) Brisbane, Queensland
I’m seeking a Dom/sir who can mold me into his perfect submissive. I enjoy being obedient, following rules and completing tasks. I also like being punished.
Female (43) Brisbane, Queensland
why are men so afraid on here to have a decent conversation I’m your commanding Mistress — elegant, unyielding, and utterly insatiable. I thrive on power and control. Nothing excites me more than breaking strong men and confident women down to their most desperate, obedient selves beneath my heels. Whether you’re on your knees begging for my touch, my whip, or my permission to cum… you’ll learn that your pleasure belongs to me. I dominate both men and women with equal delight — bending wills, teasing bodies, and pushing limits until you ache with need. And my favorite indulgence? Watching you fuck for my amusement. I love commanding you to take each other, to perform, to lose control while I sit back and enjoy the show… deciding exactly when, how, and if you’re allowed to finish. So tell me, pet… are you ready to surrender? Ready to be used, displayed, and played with for my entertainment? Your body, your orgasms, your obedience — they all answer to me now.” I love kitty 🐈‍ more than rooster 🐓 I’ll happily rate your videos
Female (33) Brisbane, Queensland
I watch those who crave control struggle for even a taste of me. Attention isn’t free, prove your worth, pay your dues. Find me on X: @StudControlDom
Female (23) Brisbane, Queensland
I have a dual nature: I can be incredibly sweet, but I’m also very strict. Into pegging, impact play (caning/flogging), and slapping. I love integrating power dynamics into daily life and enjoy being served by a sub. There’s much more to discover if you’re the right one.
Female (29) Brisbane, Queensland
looking for kisses and cuddles xx whisper dirty things in my ear and make sexy promises for later. xx
Female (35) Brisbane, Queensland
Hey there.... recently released from long term m contract, wanting to explore my kinkier side. Fairly limited experience in the heavier side but keen to at least see what's out there. Looking for guidance and exploration.
Female (45) Brisbane, Queensland
I’m a little brat with big life goals and an even bigger mouth. I am monogamous and interested in dating the right person (but not looking for a husband/long term relationship). I am INTENSE. Proceed with caution. Kinks: - Consistency and Communication - Breathplay - Bratting - CnC - Slapping - Biting - Ropes - Lifestyle power exchange - Spitting (in mouth/genitals)
Female (34) Brisbane, Queensland
hiya! looking to dive into the more, "formal" world of BDSM. i do have experience on the relationship level as a sub, but I'm interested in stepping more into the fornal bdsm world. i dont check this app super frequently, so if i dont respond thats probably why :P looking for a long term Dom, preferably as a romantic partner as well. I value trust, honesty, openness, adventure and light hearted fun. NOT looking for short term/ONS/NSA. 100% brat, but if you can tame me you'll see just how good I can be. Lover of pet play, punishments, training and worship. i want to be adored and cherished, and if I am, ill return that affection 100% safewords and after-care non negotiable
Female (23) Brisbane, Queensland
completely new to this! bf is a cuck and wants me to have no strings attached fun. not looking to date specifically but meet in public preferred
Female (30) Brisbane, Queensland
New to the scene and exploring BDSM, enjoying the learning process. Friendly, open-minded, and a bit curious by nature.
Female (28) Brisbane, Queensland
exploring potential opportunities to have fun with a third person for me and my boyfriend girls only please
Female (21) Brisbane, Queensland
I’m a sassy gal (punk princess) with a softer, sweet side (Disney queen). I believe in good banter, spontaneous adventures, and making memories wherever I go.
Female (29) Brisbane, Queensland
I want to be fucked by 10+ guys at once, if you can make that happen message me xx I want to be used for hours, maybe even days 👀 I want to be dripping cum from all my holes, I need to be filled by several men. do what ever you want to me, *** me to do what you desire, I’m a slut that needs discipline, desperately need to be shown all I’m good for is being fucked and used
Female (26) Brisbane, Queensland
I am an active and dynamic woman with a neutral character. I enjoy everything good in my life. I feel strong, stable and self-realized. I am satisfied with my life and I feel that today I am ready for the next serious step in my life.
Female (44) Brisbane, Queensland
I’m in a happy, committed relationship (not open and not looking to change that), but we’d love to meet some like-minded kinky friends or other couples to have fun with. I’m into gardening, gaming, D&D, animation, and getting lost in a good book. I can be a little shy at first, but once you get me talking, I don’t shut up 😌 If you’re interested, message me first… I promise I’m worth the effort 💋 Bonus points if you can lift double my weight — I’ll be very impressed 😉 Also, I do have a spicy page if that’s something you’re interested in
Female (21) Brisbane, Queensland
Looking for someone who wants to be the BDSM and swinging Unicorns real partner. Horror, history and nature nerd looking for another weirdo to share cool stuff with. weirdly, I like watching guys *** I enjoy unusual cinema and TV, as well as reading (especially speculative and horror fiction, or about history, science and nature). Also love going for walks, gardening and trying new recipes. Happy to celebrate Halloween year round! When it comes to intimacy I prefer partners I share interests with- not looking for hookups. I'm a bit of a tomboy Brat who enjoys playing a little rough and dirty. Not into being a princess as I'm more of a goblin 😜 Been out of the scene for a while but looking to reconnect with my old kinky self.
Female (43) Brisbane, Queensland
Here, I share not just my physical self, but also 💭 My thoughts 😴 my dreams/kinks 🤫 and the intricacies that make me who I am. You will become a part of a select audience that gets to witness my unfiltered authenticity and engage in genuine conversations. If you’re looking for a space that nurtures connections and encourages open-minded exploration, you’ve found it. totally transparent ask anything I dare ya 😜
Female (46) Brisbane, Queensland

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