Kinky women in Brisbane

I'm endlessly fascinated by people who have built impressive lives yet secretly crave the relief of surrendering responsibility for a while. There is something profoundly intimate about earning another person's trust not demanding it. That's where my interest lies. Not in control for its own sake, but in creating a space where confidence, restraint, temptation, and vulnerability coexist without contradiction. The strongest people are rarely the loudest. They're usually the ones confident enough to choose submission without sacrificing their identity. If you're looking for certainty, I can't promise it. If you're looking to be understood, challenged, and remembered, introduce yourself.

I am selective, discreet, and value authenticity. My dominance is psychological first I enjoy control, structure, discipline, and shaping a submissive into their highest potential through guidance and authority. I am seeking a dedicated personal submissive who understands that submission is a privilege, not a performance. Someone emotionally intelligent, consistent, respectful, and genuinely committed to serving a strong woman with ambition and depth. I am not here for endless chatting, time wasters, or fantasy collectors. If you approach me, do so with intention and self-awareness.

I value confidence, self control, and respect. I’m intentional with my words and actions, and I expect the same from others. Clear communication and mutual understanding matter to me more than anything. I’m not here for games, pressure, or assumptions. If you can’t respect boundaries, we won’t get along.

I like a man who listens the first time. Not because he’s weak but because he knows exactly what he wants: my approval! add me on 1nsta G :hearts_around: honeyvaleriax

I’m seeking a Dom/sir who can mold me into his perfect submissive. I enjoy being obedient, following rules and completing tasks. I also like being punished.

Hi 👋🏼 I'm new in Brisbane, just moved up from Sydney, travelled most parts of Australia and looking for friends into rope, shibari, soft BDSM. Would like some female friends or trans/female before meeting men. Not into casual sex I can't use photos because of work privacy.

Hello fellow kinksters! I’m back and dipping my toes into the big bad world of BDSM again after a bit of an absence. While I am new to the Brisbane scene, I am not new to the world of kink/BDSM. I lived in London for 20 years and had a glorious time finding and exploring my kinky side over there. Spent many a night at various fetish clubs and munches with a truly wonderful bunch of kinky friends and playmates. Several longer-term D/s relationships and one ex-husband later I find myself living in Brisbane, hoping to find some similarly perverted IRL friends, play mates or longer-term D/s relationships. In terms of a potential LTR-type connection, if you are looking for a tall, thin, super-fit extrovert who loves hiking, running and going to the gym, I’m probably not the girl for you. If you are looking for a curvy/plus size short arse who is a quirky, curious, experimental, creative dark horse…here I am! For me, the essential aspects in this type of relationship are trust, honesty and having a strong mental connection. The deeper the connection the more I can be challenged. Pushed to my limits. From that starting point, the possibilities are endless... Kinks When I first started exploring the big bad world of BDSM I approached it as a switch, and have experienced most aspects kink as both a Domme and sub. But the more I explored and experienced, the more I realised it is the submissive side of things that truly does it for me. As a sub I always aim to please and be a good girl. I am rarely bratty or disobedient, although I can sometimes be a little cheeky when the mood strikes me. I am also quite masochistic and have been described as a total ***slut on more than one occasion! I enjoy most aspects of BDSM, so it is probably easier to talk about the things I’m not particularly drawn to. While I’ve enjoyed playing with puppies and kittens in Domme mode in the past, I’ve not felt the desire to be the pet myself. Nor have I felt the urge to try the little/adult baby thing. Gags and hoods seem to set off something deeply unpleasant and upsetting, so I tend to avoid them (although blindfolds are fine- go figure!). Kink and sex are deeply connected for me. The way my body reacts sexually to BDSM is quite amazing and intense! But this is not something that is immediately or casually offered. It is, however, immensely enjoyable once trust starts to build and a certain level of comfort is there. A few things to note: - I’m not strictly heterosexual, more heteroflexible. I’m more attracted to personality, intellect and connection rather than sex/gender or outward appearance. - I can be a little socially awkward/shy at first, and am rubbish at small talk, but if we meet and click in real life I may well end up talking your ear off! - If your first message to me is ‘hey,’ ‘how’s your evening’ or something similar I’m unlikely to reply. I’m quite open, honest and direct, and appreciate those who are like-minded in their communication. I think the most interesting bits of life and connection with others lie in our quirks, differences, and vulnerabilities, which often leads to quite deep conversations. So, if that’s not your thing I’m probably not the girl for you! - I am a single mum with an 11 year old. Which is awesome, but it means my time is often taken up doing mum stuff, and I can’t always respond immediately to messages. I also run my own business, which can be a bit feast or famine. When going through a busy patch I may not have time to reply or even check messages on here! - I am a breast cancer survivor (8 years in ‘remission’) and have an auto-immune sleep disorder. This means I experience some fatigue from time-to-time, but I’m determined to not let it stop me living my best kinky life!

Greetings i am not new to the lifestyle but had taken a step back due to a vanilla relationship and relocation from Melbourne. i am starting to step back into the lifestyle now my true calling is as a submissive although I have had domestic submissives in the past.

please don’t bother if you’re not single. I like intellect, wit and smarts. If it doesn’t tickle the brain- it’ll bore me fast.

Hiya! I’m Ivory ✨🏳️‍🌈 I’m 28, New year, same me! I’m just a little more curvier & navigating life as a chronically ill baddie..🙂‍↕️ aim of the game is virtual, if we level up well done✨

hello beautifuls i'm Kel, residing in Ipswich, and I'm excited to dive back into the BDSM lifestyle as a seasoned masochist submissive/brat. Having a few years break, I now seek a dom/sadist with emotional intelligence, who will not only push my limits but also provide a safe space filled with love, aftercare, and the spoiling I deeply adore. 😌 I am a confident, curvy woman, size 16-18, who loves and accepts herself.✨️🦋 I am interested in connecting with older, dominant/sadistic individuals (aged 30-50.) If you're interested, please message me with your thoughts or just a greeting.😊 interested in- Making new freinds 💜 if you're gothic or alt that's a plus! attending BDSM events ✨️LGBTQ friendly 🌈 Not interested in- - // married/couples/ploy. Im bratty and want all the attention on me. 😌 - // ONS/doms/sadists under 30. ------------------------------ location - Brisbane/Ipswich area only. 😊

Hi there, newly separated. I have suppressed myself for a long time and starting to figure out my desires….. In life I have a fast pace, high responsibility job, an active brain and quick witted. Iv a playful side and I am a pleaser. Always a big part of my own enjoyment is that the other person is catered for…This leads to my main desires around submission. Seeking the quiet relief of deep submission behind closed doors. Out of a vanilla marriage and exploring my kink footprint carefully. Trust built and I wish to explore limits via a traffic-light framework. Actually find out what my limits are. Northside Brisbane. Message settings- Verified profiles. Mindful of fake profiles out there. If your profile is verified and you share this mindset, I would love to chat.

femdomme goddess mistress hestara , looking for some living toys to play with i am only into submissive men, which is every man if they were honest with themselves

COUGAR looking for toys. 20-45 years old. Slaves welcome. MEETS ONLY, NOTHING ONLINE. Bi-curious… Not looking for a sub lady Free use Bondage Impact play CBT Role play Pegging Foot worship Water sports Happy to try most things once! Limit ***

I'm a good girl S type looking for a D type who will make me follow through on my daily goals and larger life goals! As a late-diagnosed neurodivergent gal, I struggle with executive function like getting my daily cleaning and self-care tasks done around home, because I'm busy working and studying and caretaking, while I also spend time on hyperfixations/hobbies. I'm looking for a D/s dynamic that is online only - we will not meet up. Please only DM me if you genuinely enjoy using your power/control as a way to help your good little sub get their life back on track. ;) Also recently discovered I like being the pet in pet play dynamics, so that's something fun!

Sapio submissive - I have to be attracted to your personality or intelligence to have a desire to submit/obey.

A mean bitch and I’m ok with it. owner of kinkformation.com I’ve been kinky for over 20 years, so don’t have patience for time wasters. Ethically non-monogamous sapiosexual

Hey there.... recently released from long term m contract, wanting to explore my kinkier side. Fairly limited experience in the heavier side but keen to at least see what's out there. Looking for guidance and exploration.

just a bit of a bunny princess looking for some exploring add my insta ***

new to this, never explored it but curious about being in a continuous arrangement daddy dom/submissive/brat dynamic. not hugely into bdsm - some aspects of it have my interest.

new to the scene - Say hi? I have zero experience , based on my personality I would be a brat

Looking for a Daddy/Dom to take care of my sexual needs. Looking for a legitimate Master, someone who has experience within BDSM culture, has their own Toy’s/equipment/dungeon, shibari, CNC & enjoys *** play! 😈 Only message me if you are legit and experienced & if you live within BRISBANE CITY REGION! xxx

New to the scene and exploring BDSM, enjoying the learning process. Friendly, open-minded, and a bit curious by nature.

♡ BBW ♡ Sapiosexual ♡ Not open to ONS, FWB or NSA ♡ Poly and have a nesting partner ♡ I value intelligence and articulation SFW Me 💕 - Uni student. - *** lover. - Reading enthusiast (I love fantasy and smut). - Fav movies/TV shows: Jurassic Park, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Lord of the Rings/The Hobbit, The Mummy. - Palaeontology & science obsessed - I love learning. - I have lots of little hobbies, some of which are: ***ting, colouring in, crochet, random arts n crafts, video games, drives with music, and I want to try my hand at small woodwork projects as well. - Massive advocate for the planet and wildlife. I love nature and I do my best to protect it in the only ways lil ol' me can. - My favourite colour is greeeen. NSFW Me 💕 My main kinks are: praise, affectionate cruelty, DD/lg, barehanded spanking, CNC/abduction play, face/throat fucking, orgasm control. I have numerous kinks I want to try and certainly more to discover. What I am looking for is not something I can seek out. It has to find me. I ultimately see myself in a DD/lg relationship with a man who is emotionally intelligent and attuned. Intelligent, articulated, kind with a good sense of humour. He does not rush me or push intensity for intensity's sake. He is as curious about how my mind works as I am his, and takes his time in getting to know me. He knows the devotion I offer is just as much a gift as his domination is, and he knows it takes time to prove both parties deserving. He understands aftercare, consent, RACK and SSC. He has taken the time to learn and does not call himself a Daddy or a Dom with only his own pleasures in mind. One day I will meet him :)

I'm endlessly fascinated by people who have built impressive lives yet secretly crave the relief of surrendering responsibility for a while. There is something profoundly intimate about earning another person's trust not demanding it. That's where my interest lies. Not in control for its own sake, but in creating a space where confidence, restraint, temptation, and vulnerability coexist without contradiction. The strongest people are rarely the loudest. They're usually the ones confident enough to choose submission without sacrificing their identity. If you're looking for certainty, I can't promise it. If you're looking to be understood, challenged, and remembered, introduce yourself.

Hi 👋🏼 I'm new in Brisbane, just moved up from Sydney, travelled most parts of Australia and looking for friends into rope, shibari, soft BDSM. Would like some female friends or trans/female before meeting men. Not into casual sex I can't use photos because of work privacy.

I am selective, discreet, and value authenticity. My dominance is psychological first I enjoy control, structure, discipline, and shaping a submissive into their highest potential through guidance and authority. I am seeking a dedicated personal submissive who understands that submission is a privilege, not a performance. Someone emotionally intelligent, consistent, respectful, and genuinely committed to serving a strong woman with ambition and depth. I am not here for endless chatting, time wasters, or fantasy collectors. If you approach me, do so with intention and self-awareness.

I value confidence, self control, and respect. I’m intentional with my words and actions, and I expect the same from others. Clear communication and mutual understanding matter to me more than anything. I’m not here for games, pressure, or assumptions. If you can’t respect boundaries, we won’t get along.

I like a man who listens the first time. Not because he’s weak but because he knows exactly what he wants: my approval! add me on 1nsta G :hearts_around: honeyvaleriax

Hello fellow kinksters! I’m back and dipping my toes into the big bad world of BDSM again after a bit of an absence. While I am new to the Brisbane scene, I am not new to the world of kink/BDSM. I lived in London for 20 years and had a glorious time finding and exploring my kinky side over there. Spent many a night at various fetish clubs and munches with a truly wonderful bunch of kinky friends and playmates. Several longer-term D/s relationships and one ex-husband later I find myself living in Brisbane, hoping to find some similarly perverted IRL friends, play mates or longer-term D/s relationships. In terms of a potential LTR-type connection, if you are looking for a tall, thin, super-fit extrovert who loves hiking, running and going to the gym, I’m probably not the girl for you. If you are looking for a curvy/plus size short arse who is a quirky, curious, experimental, creative dark horse…here I am! For me, the essential aspects in this type of relationship are trust, honesty and having a strong mental connection. The deeper the connection the more I can be challenged. Pushed to my limits. From that starting point, the possibilities are endless... Kinks When I first started exploring the big bad world of BDSM I approached it as a switch, and have experienced most aspects kink as both a Domme and sub. But the more I explored and experienced, the more I realised it is the submissive side of things that truly does it for me. As a sub I always aim to please and be a good girl. I am rarely bratty or disobedient, although I can sometimes be a little cheeky when the mood strikes me. I am also quite masochistic and have been described as a total ***slut on more than one occasion! I enjoy most aspects of BDSM, so it is probably easier to talk about the things I’m not particularly drawn to. While I’ve enjoyed playing with puppies and kittens in Domme mode in the past, I’ve not felt the desire to be the pet myself. Nor have I felt the urge to try the little/adult baby thing. Gags and hoods seem to set off something deeply unpleasant and upsetting, so I tend to avoid them (although blindfolds are fine- go figure!). Kink and sex are deeply connected for me. The way my body reacts sexually to BDSM is quite amazing and intense! But this is not something that is immediately or casually offered. It is, however, immensely enjoyable once trust starts to build and a certain level of comfort is there. A few things to note: - I’m not strictly heterosexual, more heteroflexible. I’m more attracted to personality, intellect and connection rather than sex/gender or outward appearance. - I can be a little socially awkward/shy at first, and am rubbish at small talk, but if we meet and click in real life I may well end up talking your ear off! - If your first message to me is ‘hey,’ ‘how’s your evening’ or something similar I’m unlikely to reply. I’m quite open, honest and direct, and appreciate those who are like-minded in their communication. I think the most interesting bits of life and connection with others lie in our quirks, differences, and vulnerabilities, which often leads to quite deep conversations. So, if that’s not your thing I’m probably not the girl for you! - I am a single mum with an 11 year old. Which is awesome, but it means my time is often taken up doing mum stuff, and I can’t always respond immediately to messages. I also run my own business, which can be a bit feast or famine. When going through a busy patch I may not have time to reply or even check messages on here! - I am a breast cancer survivor (8 years in ‘remission’) and have an auto-immune sleep disorder. This means I experience some fatigue from time-to-time, but I’m determined to not let it stop me living my best kinky life!

please don’t bother if you’re not single. I like intellect, wit and smarts. If it doesn’t tickle the brain- it’ll bore me fast.

Greetings i am not new to the lifestyle but had taken a step back due to a vanilla relationship and relocation from Melbourne. i am starting to step back into the lifestyle now my true calling is as a submissive although I have had domestic submissives in the past.

I’m seeking a Dom/sir who can mold me into his perfect submissive. I enjoy being obedient, following rules and completing tasks. I also like being punished.

Hi there, newly separated. I have suppressed myself for a long time and starting to figure out my desires….. In life I have a fast pace, high responsibility job, an active brain and quick witted. Iv a playful side and I am a pleaser. Always a big part of my own enjoyment is that the other person is catered for…This leads to my main desires around submission. Seeking the quiet relief of deep submission behind closed doors. Out of a vanilla marriage and exploring my kink footprint carefully. Trust built and I wish to explore limits via a traffic-light framework. Actually find out what my limits are. Northside Brisbane. Message settings- Verified profiles. Mindful of fake profiles out there. If your profile is verified and you share this mindset, I would love to chat.

Sapio submissive - I have to be attracted to your personality or intelligence to have a desire to submit/obey.

I'm a good girl S type looking for a D type who will make me follow through on my daily goals and larger life goals! As a late-diagnosed neurodivergent gal, I struggle with executive function like getting my daily cleaning and self-care tasks done around home, because I'm busy working and studying and caretaking, while I also spend time on hyperfixations/hobbies. I'm looking for a D/s dynamic that is online only - we will not meet up. Please only DM me if you genuinely enjoy using your power/control as a way to help your good little sub get their life back on track. ;) Also recently discovered I like being the pet in pet play dynamics, so that's something fun!

Guys...thank you for the attention...make a girl blush! Girls (of all persuasions...that includes you, T’s!) only, please, at least for now. I may consider a couple once weve met, but definitely not solo guys. Thanks for understanding. 💋

♡ BBW ♡ Sapiosexual ♡ Not open to ONS, FWB or NSA ♡ Poly and have a nesting partner ♡ I value intelligence and articulation SFW Me 💕 - Uni student. - *** lover. - Reading enthusiast (I love fantasy and smut). - Fav movies/TV shows: Jurassic Park, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Lord of the Rings/The Hobbit, The Mummy. - Palaeontology & science obsessed - I love learning. - I have lots of little hobbies, some of which are: ***ting, colouring in, crochet, random arts n crafts, video games, drives with music, and I want to try my hand at small woodwork projects as well. - Massive advocate for the planet and wildlife. I love nature and I do my best to protect it in the only ways lil ol' me can. - My favourite colour is greeeen. NSFW Me 💕 My main kinks are: praise, affectionate cruelty, DD/lg, barehanded spanking, CNC/abduction play, face/throat fucking, orgasm control. I have numerous kinks I want to try and certainly more to discover. What I am looking for is not something I can seek out. It has to find me. I ultimately see myself in a DD/lg relationship with a man who is emotionally intelligent and attuned. Intelligent, articulated, kind with a good sense of humour. He does not rush me or push intensity for intensity's sake. He is as curious about how my mind works as I am his, and takes his time in getting to know me. He knows the devotion I offer is just as much a gift as his domination is, and he knows it takes time to prove both parties deserving. He understands aftercare, consent, RACK and SSC. He has taken the time to learn and does not call himself a Daddy or a Dom with only his own pleasures in mind. One day I will meet him :)

Hiya! I’m Ivory ✨🏳️‍🌈 I’m 28, New year, same me! I’m just a little more curvier & navigating life as a chronically ill baddie..🙂‍↕️ aim of the game is virtual, if we level up well done✨

femdomme goddess mistress hestara , looking for some living toys to play with i am only into submissive men, which is every man if they were honest with themselves

hello beautifuls i'm Kel, residing in Ipswich, and I'm excited to dive back into the BDSM lifestyle as a seasoned masochist submissive/brat. Having a few years break, I now seek a dom/sadist with emotional intelligence, who will not only push my limits but also provide a safe space filled with love, aftercare, and the spoiling I deeply adore. 😌 I am a confident, curvy woman, size 16-18, who loves and accepts herself.✨️🦋 I am interested in connecting with older, dominant/sadistic individuals (aged 30-50.) If you're interested, please message me with your thoughts or just a greeting.😊 interested in- Making new freinds 💜 if you're gothic or alt that's a plus! attending BDSM events ✨️LGBTQ friendly 🌈 Not interested in- - // married/couples/ploy. Im bratty and want all the attention on me. 😌 - // ONS/doms/sadists under 30. ------------------------------ location - Brisbane/Ipswich area only. 😊

I'm shy to start with, but once that layer sheds I'm a cheeky brat who loves to see how people respond to "make me" 🤭 I appreciate it when people want to talk to me like a human being to start off with because, well, I am one.. I have too many bdsm interests to list here! They usually depend on my mood, the day, and my emotional state. I'm not keen on vanilla, but I'm also not looking for 24/7 bdsm roles either, unless one particularly strikes my fancy with the right person. I have 2 uncommon fetishes - care to guess? Here are the clues: 1. I can hear it 2. It can feel me

just a bit of a bunny princess looking for some exploring add my insta ***

I have a dual nature: I can be incredibly sweet, but I’m also very strict. Into pegging, impact play (caning/flogging), and slapping. I love integrating power dynamics into daily life and enjoy being served by a sub. There’s much more to discover if you’re the right one.

looking for kisses and cuddles xx whisper dirty things in my ear and make sexy promises for later. xx

Hey there.... recently released from long term m contract, wanting to explore my kinkier side. Fairly limited experience in the heavier side but keen to at least see what's out there. Looking for guidance and exploration.

completely new to this! bf is a cuck and wants me to have no strings attached fun. not looking to date specifically but meet in public preferred

New to the scene and exploring BDSM, enjoying the learning process. Friendly, open-minded, and a bit curious by nature.