Kinky women in Brisbane

I like a man who listens the first time. Not because he’s weak but because he knows exactly what he wants: my approval! add me on 1nsta G :hearts_around: honeyvaleriax

I value confidence, self control, and respect. I’m intentional with my words and actions, and I expect the same from others. Clear communication and mutual understanding matter to me more than anything. I’m not here for games, pressure, or assumptions. If you can’t respect boundaries, we won’t get along.

I am selective, discreet, and value authenticity. My dominance is psychological first I enjoy control, structure, discipline, and shaping a submissive into their highest potential through guidance and authority. I am seeking a dedicated personal submissive who understands that submission is a privilege, not a performance. Someone emotionally intelligent, consistent, respectful, and genuinely committed to serving a strong woman with ambition and depth. I am not here for endless chatting, time wasters, or fantasy collectors. If you approach me, do so with intention and self-awareness.

I’m seeking a Dom/sir who can mold me into his perfect submissive. I enjoy being obedient, following rules and completing tasks. I also like being punished.

please don’t bother if you’re not single. I like intellect, wit and smarts. If it doesn’t tickle the brain- it’ll bore me fast.

Hello fellow kinksters! I’m back and dipping my toes into the big bad world of BDSM again after a bit of an absence. While I am new to the Brisbane scene, I am not new to the world of kink/BDSM. I lived in London for 20 years and had a glorious time finding and exploring my kinky side over there. Spent many a night at various fetish clubs and munches with a truly wonderful bunch of kinky friends and playmates. Several longer-term D/s relationships and one ex-husband later I find myself living in Brisbane, hoping to find some similarly perverted IRL friends, play mates or longer-term D/s relationships. In terms of a potential LTR-type connection, if you are looking for a tall, thin, super-fit extrovert who loves hiking, running and going to the gym, I’m probably not the girl for you. If you are looking for a curvy/plus size short arse who is a quirky, curious, experimental, creative dark horse…here I am! For me, the essential aspects in this type of relationship are trust, honesty and having a strong mental connection. The deeper the connection the more I can be challenged. Pushed to my limits. From that starting point, the possibilities are endless... Kinks When I first started exploring the big bad world of BDSM I approached it as a switch, and have experienced most aspects kink as both a Domme and sub. But the more I explored and experienced, the more I realised it is the submissive side of things that truly does it for me. As a sub I always aim to please and be a good girl. I am rarely bratty or disobedient, although I can sometimes be a little cheeky when the mood strikes me. I am also quite masochistic and have been described as a total ***slut on more than one occasion! I enjoy most aspects of BDSM, so it is probably easier to talk about the things I’m not particularly drawn to. While I’ve enjoyed playing with puppies and kittens in Domme mode in the past, I’ve not felt the desire to be the pet myself. Nor have I felt the urge to try the little/adult baby thing. Gags and hoods seem to set off something deeply unpleasant and upsetting, so I tend to avoid them (although blindfolds are fine- go figure!). Kink and sex are deeply connected for me. The way my body reacts sexually to BDSM is quite amazing and intense! But this is not something that is immediately or casually offered. It is, however, immensely enjoyable once trust starts to build and a certain level of comfort is there. A few things to note: - I’m not strictly heterosexual, more heteroflexible. I’m more attracted to personality, intellect and connection rather than sex/gender or outward appearance. - I can be a little socially awkward/shy at first, and am rubbish at small talk, but if we meet and click in real life I may well end up talking your ear off! - If your first message to me is ‘hey,’ ‘how’s your evening’ or something similar I’m unlikely to reply. I’m quite open, honest and direct, and appreciate those who are like-minded in their communication. I think the most interesting bits of life and connection with others lie in our quirks, differences, and vulnerabilities, which often leads to quite deep conversations. So, if that’s not your thing I’m probably not the girl for you! - I am a single mum with an 11 year old. Which is awesome, but it means my time is often taken up doing mum stuff, and I can’t always respond immediately to messages. I also run my own business, which can be a bit feast or famine. When going through a busy patch I may not have time to reply or even check messages on here! - I am a breast cancer survivor (8 years in ‘remission’) and have an auto-immune sleep disorder. This means I experience some fatigue from time-to-time, but I’m determined to not let it stop me living my best kinky life!

Hi 👋🏼 I'm new in Brisbane, just moved up from Sydney, travelled most parts of Australia and looking for friends into rope, shibari, soft BDSM. Would like some female friends or trans/female before meeting men. Not into casual sex I can't use photos because of work privacy.

Hi there, newly separated. I have suppressed myself for a long time and starting to figure out my desires….. In life I have a fast pace, high responsibility job, an active brain and quick witted. Iv a playful side and I am a pleaser. Always a big part of my own enjoyment is that the other person is catered for…This leads to my main desires around submission. Seeking the quiet relief of deep submission behind closed doors. Out of a vanilla marriage and exploring my kink footprint carefully. Trust built and I wish to explore limits via a traffic-light framework. Actually find out what my limits are. Northside Brisbane. Message settings- Verified profiles. Mindful of fake profiles out there. If your profile is verified and you share this mindset, I would love to chat.

hello beautifuls i'm Kel, residing in Ipswich, and I'm excited to dive back into the BDSM lifestyle as a seasoned masochist submissive/brat. Having a few years break, I now seek a dom/sadist with emotional intelligence, who will not only push my limits but also provide a safe space filled with love, aftercare, and the spoiling I deeply adore. 😌 I am a confident, curvy woman, size 16-18, who loves and accepts herself.✨️🦋 I am interested in connecting with older, dominant/sadistic individuals (aged 30-50.) If you're interested, please message me with your thoughts or just a greeting.😊 interested in- Making new freinds 💜 if you're gothic or alt that's a plus! attending BDSM events ✨️LGBTQ friendly 🌈 Not interested in- - // married/couples/ploy. Im bratty and want all the attention on me. 😌 - // ONS/doms/sadists under 30. ------------------------------ location - Brisbane/Ipswich area only. 😊

new to the scene - Say hi? I have zero experience , based on my personality I would be a brat

Looking for someone who wants to be the BDSM and swinging Unicorns real partner. Horror, history and nature nerd looking for another weirdo to share cool stuff with. weirdly, I like watching guys *** I enjoy unusual cinema and TV, as well as reading (especially speculative and horror fiction, or about history, science and nature). Also love going for walks, gardening and trying new recipes. Happy to celebrate Halloween year round! When it comes to intimacy I prefer partners I share interests with- not looking for hookups. I'm a bit of a tomboy Brat who enjoys playing a little rough and dirty. Not into being a princess as I'm more of a goblin 😜 Been out of the scene for a while but looking to reconnect with my old kinky self.

♡ BBW ♡ Not open to ONS, FWB or NSA ♡ Poly and have a nesting partner ♡ I value intelligence and articulation ♡ Hoping to happen across a man with Daddy energy that is emotionally available ♡ Hard no on *** for me I'm a uni student in a STEM degree, an *** lover, a reading enthusiast, lover of learning, advocate for the planet and wildlife, and a kinky girl with a lot of nerd. 😊

Hiya! I’m Ivory, I’m 28 ✨🏳️‍🌈🇦🇺 New year, same me! I’m just a little more curvier & navigating life as a chronically ill baddie..🙂‍↕️ aim of the game is friends, not looking for much else. HM💖

Bored corporate girly who needs some excitement in her life and loves attention FYI- I don’t live in Brisbane. i just don’t want to disclose my location.

don’t mind me, just looking to chat only and make friends while exploring the kink scene (: i'm not looking to be 'owned' nor do pic exchanges, please respect my boundaries ai selfies, creepy/rude behaviour = blocked

A mean bitch and I’m ok with it. owner of kinkformation.com I’ve been kinky for over 20 years, so don’t have patience for time wasters. Ethically non-monogamous sapiosexual

I’m in a happy, committed relationship (not open and not looking to change that), but we’d love to meet some like-minded kinky friends or other couples to have fun with. I’m into gardening, gaming, D&D, animation, and getting lost in a good book. I can be a little shy at first, but once you get me talking, I don’t shut up 😌 If you’re interested, message me first… I promise I’m worth the effort 💋 Bonus points if you can lift double my weight — I’ll be very impressed 😉 Also, I do have a spicy page if that’s something you’re interested in

Hello beautiful creatures, we hold conscious kink events around Australia and we would love to invite you to come along 🍒 Find us here: https://www.boundandbeloved.com Our next event is Saturday, Sept 5th in in Tweed Heads, are you coming?! We hope to see you there 😈 Mistress Wolf xx BOUND & BELOVED

I am an active and dynamic woman with a neutral character. I enjoy everything good in my life. I feel strong, stable and self-realized. I am satisfied with my life and I feel that today I am ready for the next serious step in my life.

just a bit of a bunny princess looking for some exploring add my insta ***

I'm a good girl S type looking for a D type who will make me follow through on my daily goals and larger life goals! As a late-diagnosed neurodivergent gal, I struggle with executive function like getting my daily cleaning and self-care tasks done around home, because I'm busy working and studying and caretaking, while I also spend time on hyperfixations/hobbies. I'm looking for a D/s dynamic that is online only - we will not meet up. Please only DM me if you genuinely enjoy using your power/control as a way to help your good little sub get their life back on track. ;) Also recently discovered I like being the pet in pet play dynamics, so that's something fun!

I’m someone who enjoys good conversations, genuine connections, and finding joy in the little things. I’m excited by new experiences, great food, laughter, and meeting someone who can make an ordinary day feel special. I’m here to explore something real getting to know each other, sharing experiences, and seeing where the connection takes us.

Lesbian = women only switch, heavy sub leaning new to this app, have some experience with kink. I just want to explore x if you are a man, the only interest I have is being a ***me no face pics due to work but happy to send some once we match

Lookinb to explore bdsm, maybe my sub side a bit more. I have a bit of experience as a domme. I like to tie and be tied. I have always been into girls but have slowly developed liking men. So looking to explore the man side of bi. Also girls, I love to see you naked, I haven’t been let down in the past. spoil me, tease me, fuck me.

Hi 👋🏼 I'm new in Brisbane, just moved up from Sydney, travelled most parts of Australia and looking for friends into rope, shibari, soft BDSM. Would like some female friends or trans/female before meeting men. Not into casual sex I can't use photos because of work privacy.

I am selective, discreet, and value authenticity. My dominance is psychological first I enjoy control, structure, discipline, and shaping a submissive into their highest potential through guidance and authority. I am seeking a dedicated personal submissive who understands that submission is a privilege, not a performance. Someone emotionally intelligent, consistent, respectful, and genuinely committed to serving a strong woman with ambition and depth. I am not here for endless chatting, time wasters, or fantasy collectors. If you approach me, do so with intention and self-awareness.

I value confidence, self control, and respect. I’m intentional with my words and actions, and I expect the same from others. Clear communication and mutual understanding matter to me more than anything. I’m not here for games, pressure, or assumptions. If you can’t respect boundaries, we won’t get along.

I like a man who listens the first time. Not because he’s weak but because he knows exactly what he wants: my approval! add me on 1nsta G :hearts_around: honeyvaleriax

Hello fellow kinksters! I’m back and dipping my toes into the big bad world of BDSM again after a bit of an absence. While I am new to the Brisbane scene, I am not new to the world of kink/BDSM. I lived in London for 20 years and had a glorious time finding and exploring my kinky side over there. Spent many a night at various fetish clubs and munches with a truly wonderful bunch of kinky friends and playmates. Several longer-term D/s relationships and one ex-husband later I find myself living in Brisbane, hoping to find some similarly perverted IRL friends, play mates or longer-term D/s relationships. In terms of a potential LTR-type connection, if you are looking for a tall, thin, super-fit extrovert who loves hiking, running and going to the gym, I’m probably not the girl for you. If you are looking for a curvy/plus size short arse who is a quirky, curious, experimental, creative dark horse…here I am! For me, the essential aspects in this type of relationship are trust, honesty and having a strong mental connection. The deeper the connection the more I can be challenged. Pushed to my limits. From that starting point, the possibilities are endless... Kinks When I first started exploring the big bad world of BDSM I approached it as a switch, and have experienced most aspects kink as both a Domme and sub. But the more I explored and experienced, the more I realised it is the submissive side of things that truly does it for me. As a sub I always aim to please and be a good girl. I am rarely bratty or disobedient, although I can sometimes be a little cheeky when the mood strikes me. I am also quite masochistic and have been described as a total ***slut on more than one occasion! I enjoy most aspects of BDSM, so it is probably easier to talk about the things I’m not particularly drawn to. While I’ve enjoyed playing with puppies and kittens in Domme mode in the past, I’ve not felt the desire to be the pet myself. Nor have I felt the urge to try the little/adult baby thing. Gags and hoods seem to set off something deeply unpleasant and upsetting, so I tend to avoid them (although blindfolds are fine- go figure!). Kink and sex are deeply connected for me. The way my body reacts sexually to BDSM is quite amazing and intense! But this is not something that is immediately or casually offered. It is, however, immensely enjoyable once trust starts to build and a certain level of comfort is there. A few things to note: - I’m not strictly heterosexual, more heteroflexible. I’m more attracted to personality, intellect and connection rather than sex/gender or outward appearance. - I can be a little socially awkward/shy at first, and am rubbish at small talk, but if we meet and click in real life I may well end up talking your ear off! - If your first message to me is ‘hey,’ ‘how’s your evening’ or something similar I’m unlikely to reply. I’m quite open, honest and direct, and appreciate those who are like-minded in their communication. I think the most interesting bits of life and connection with others lie in our quirks, differences, and vulnerabilities, which often leads to quite deep conversations. So, if that’s not your thing I’m probably not the girl for you! - I am a single mum with an 11 year old. Which is awesome, but it means my time is often taken up doing mum stuff, and I can’t always respond immediately to messages. I also run my own business, which can be a bit feast or famine. When going through a busy patch I may not have time to reply or even check messages on here! - I am a breast cancer survivor (8 years in ‘remission’) and have an auto-immune sleep disorder. This means I experience some fatigue from time-to-time, but I’m determined to not let it stop me living my best kinky life!

please don’t bother if you’re not single. I like intellect, wit and smarts. If it doesn’t tickle the brain- it’ll bore me fast.

I’m seeking a Dom/sir who can mold me into his perfect submissive. I enjoy being obedient, following rules and completing tasks. I also like being punished.

Lookinb to explore bdsm, maybe my sub side a bit more. I have a bit of experience as a domme. I like to tie and be tied. I have always been into girls but have slowly developed liking men. So looking to explore the man side of bi. Also girls, I love to see you naked, I haven’t been let down in the past. spoil me, tease me, fuck me.

I’m someone who enjoys good conversations, genuine connections, and finding joy in the little things. I’m excited by new experiences, great food, laughter, and meeting someone who can make an ordinary day feel special. I’m here to explore something real getting to know each other, sharing experiences, and seeing where the connection takes us.

Bored corporate girly who needs some excitement in her life and loves attention FYI- I don’t live in Brisbane. i just don’t want to disclose my location.

im 38, have always had these desires that have never been fulfilled. full disclosure my partner is no longer interested in sex but we are together for the kids. I have never cum during sex before and after years of trying to gently instruct my partner on what I like, he wasnt interested. I want to be dominated by someone with experience. I want to be whipped. fucked, worshipped. ive never felt comfortable receiving head (ive had bad experiences in the past and i cant seem to get out of my head) but I love worshiping a mans cock.. I want to be used and fucked in the most delicious way possible. ive always had a desire to visit a sex club, not necessarily to do anything but to get a feel of the dynamics and see where things go from there however trust and getting to know each other first is a must. I need a mutual and clear communication on what we both want. and I have snap. if you think you are what im looking for please send me a message. please dont start the chat with explicit content. im looking for a dom sub dynamic built on mutual trust and understanding. connection is key

Hi there, newly separated. I have suppressed myself for a long time and starting to figure out my desires….. In life I have a fast pace, high responsibility job, an active brain and quick witted. Iv a playful side and I am a pleaser. Always a big part of my own enjoyment is that the other person is catered for…This leads to my main desires around submission. Seeking the quiet relief of deep submission behind closed doors. Out of a vanilla marriage and exploring my kink footprint carefully. Trust built and I wish to explore limits via a traffic-light framework. Actually find out what my limits are. Northside Brisbane. Message settings- Verified profiles. Mindful of fake profiles out there. If your profile is verified and you share this mindset, I would love to chat.

Sapio submissive - I have to be attracted to your personality or intelligence to have a desire to submit/obey.

I'm a good girl S type looking for a D type who will make me follow through on my daily goals and larger life goals! As a late-diagnosed neurodivergent gal, I struggle with executive function like getting my daily cleaning and self-care tasks done around home, because I'm busy working and studying and caretaking, while I also spend time on hyperfixations/hobbies. I'm looking for a D/s dynamic that is online only - we will not meet up. Please only DM me if you genuinely enjoy using your power/control as a way to help your good little sub get their life back on track. ;) Also recently discovered I like being the pet in pet play dynamics, so that's something fun!

Guys...thank you for the attention...make a girl blush! Girls (of all persuasions...that includes you, T’s!) only, please, at least for now. I may consider a couple once weve met, but definitely not solo guys. Thanks for understanding. 💋

♡ BBW ♡ Not open to ONS, FWB or NSA ♡ Poly and have a nesting partner ♡ I value intelligence and articulation ♡ Hoping to happen across a man with Daddy energy that is emotionally available ♡ Hard no on *** for me I'm a uni student in a STEM degree, an *** lover, a reading enthusiast, lover of learning, advocate for the planet and wildlife, and a kinky girl with a lot of nerd. 😊

Hiya! I’m Ivory, I’m 28 ✨🏳️‍🌈🇦🇺 New year, same me! I’m just a little more curvier & navigating life as a chronically ill baddie..🙂‍↕️ aim of the game is friends, not looking for much else. HM💖

femdomme goddess mistress hestara , looking for some living toys to play with i am only into submissive men, which is every man if they were honest with themselves

hello beautifuls i'm Kel, residing in Ipswich, and I'm excited to dive back into the BDSM lifestyle as a seasoned masochist submissive/brat. Having a few years break, I now seek a dom/sadist with emotional intelligence, who will not only push my limits but also provide a safe space filled with love, aftercare, and the spoiling I deeply adore. 😌 I am a confident, curvy woman, size 16-18, who loves and accepts herself.✨️🦋 I am interested in connecting with older, dominant/sadistic individuals (aged 30-50.) If you're interested, please message me with your thoughts or just a greeting.😊 interested in- Making new freinds 💜 if you're gothic or alt that's a plus! attending BDSM events ✨️LGBTQ friendly 🌈 Not interested in- - // married/couples/ploy. Im bratty and want all the attention on me. 😌 - // ONS/doms/sadists under 30. ------------------------------ location - Brisbane/Ipswich area only. 😊

I'm shy to start with, but once that layer sheds I'm a cheeky brat who loves to see how people respond to "make me" 🤭 I appreciate it when people want to talk to me like a human being to start off with because, well, I am one.. I have too many bdsm interests to list here! They usually depend on my mood, the day, and my emotional state. I'm not keen on vanilla, but I'm also not looking for 24/7 bdsm roles either, unless one particularly strikes my fancy with the right person. I have 2 uncommon fetishes - care to guess? Here are the clues: 1. I can hear it 2. It can feel me

just a bit of a bunny princess looking for some exploring add my insta ***

I have a dual nature: I can be incredibly sweet, but I’m also very strict. Into pegging, impact play (caning/flogging), and slapping. I love integrating power dynamics into daily life and enjoy being served by a sub. There’s much more to discover if you’re the right one.

looking for kisses and cuddles xx whisper dirty things in my ear and make sexy promises for later. xx

Hey there.... recently released from long term m contract, wanting to explore my kinkier side. Fairly limited experience in the heavier side but keen to at least see what's out there. Looking for guidance and exploration.