Find kinky women in Brisbane

I am a confident, sensual, and strict Femdomme looking for a genuine submissive man who craves structure, control, and purpose under a dominant woman. I believe in Female Led Relationships built on trust, obedience, and deep devotion. Daily rules, chastity, rituals, service, and progressive control are part of my dynamic. I reward good boys and correct bad ones. If you are serious, loyal, single, and ready to surrender control to a firm but caring Queen, send me a proper introduction. Tell me about yourself and why you feel you’d be a good fit. Begin your message with: “I’m ready to submit, Goddess.” Only serious inquiries. Time-wasters will be ignored.
Female (36) Brisbane, Queensland
I’m seeking a Dom/sir who can mold me into his perfect submissive. I enjoy being obedient, following rules and completing tasks. I also like being punished.
Female (43) Brisbane, Queensland
I am selective, discreet, and value authenticity. My dominance is psychological first I enjoy control, structure, discipline, and shaping a submissive into their highest potential through guidance and authority. I am seeking a dedicated personal submissive who understands that submission is a privilege, not a performance. Someone emotionally intelligent, consistent, respectful, and genuinely committed to serving a strong woman with ambition and depth. I am not here for endless chatting, time wasters, or fantasy collectors. If you approach me, do so with intention and self-awareness.
Female (30) Brisbane, Queensland
I value confidence, self control, and respect. I’m intentional with my words and actions, and I expect the same from others. Clear communication and mutual understanding matter to me more than anything. I’m not here for games, pressure, or assumptions. If you can’t respect boundaries, we won’t get along.
Female (29) Brisbane, Queensland
I like a man who listens the first time. Not because he’s weak but because he knows exactly what he wants: my approval! add me on 1nsta G :hearts_around: honeyvaleriax
Female (19) Brisbane, Queensland
Greetings i am not new to the lifestyle but had taken a step back due to a vanilla relationship and relocation from Melbourne. i am starting to step back into the lifestyle now my true calling is as a submissive although I have had domestic submissives in the past.
Female (65) Brisbane, Queensland
please don’t bother if you’re not single. I like intellect, wit and smarts. If it doesn’t tickle the brain- it’ll bore me fast.
Female (42) Brisbane, Queensland
Hello fellow kinksters! I’m back and dipping my toes into the big bad world of BDSM again after a bit of an absence. While I am new to the Brisbane scene, I am not new to the world of kink/BDSM. I lived in London for 20 years and had a glorious time finding and exploring my kinky side over there. Spent many a night at various fetish clubs and munches with a truly wonderful bunch of kinky friends and playmates. Several longer-term D/s relationships and one ex-husband later I find myself living in Brisbane, hoping to find some similarly perverted IRL friends, play mates or longer-term D/s relationships. In terms of a potential LTR-type connection, if you are looking for a tall, thin, super-fit extrovert who loves hiking, running and going to the gym, I’m probably not the girl for you. If you are looking for a curvy/plus size short arse who is a quirky, curious, experimental, creative dark horse…here I am! For me, the essential aspects in this type of relationship are trust, honesty and having a strong mental connection. The deeper the connection the more I can be challenged. Pushed to my limits. From that starting point, the possibilities are endless... Kinks When I first started exploring the big bad world of BDSM I approached it as a switch, and have experienced most aspects kink as both a Domme and sub. But the more I explored and experienced, the more I realised it is the submissive side of things that truly does it for me. As a sub I always aim to please and be a good girl. I am rarely bratty or disobedient, although I can sometimes be a little cheeky when the mood strikes me. I am also quite masochistic and have been described as a total ***slut on more than one occasion! I enjoy most aspects of BDSM, so it is probably easier to talk about the things I’m not particularly drawn to. While I’ve enjoyed playing with puppies and kittens in Domme mode in the past, I’ve not felt the desire to be the pet myself. Nor have I felt the urge to try the little/adult baby thing. Gags and hoods seem to set off something deeply unpleasant and upsetting, so I tend to avoid them (although blindfolds are fine- go figure!). Kink and sex are deeply connected for me. The way my body reacts sexually to BDSM is quite amazing and intense! But this is not something that is immediately or casually offered. It is, however, immensely enjoyable once trust starts to build and a certain level of comfort is there. A few things to note: - I’m not strictly heterosexual, more heteroflexible. I’m more attracted to personality, intellect and connection rather than sex/gender or outward appearance. - I can be a little socially awkward/shy at first, and am rubbish at small talk, but if we meet and click in real life I may well end up talking your ear off! - If your first message to me is ‘hey,’ ‘how’s your evening’ or something similar I’m unlikely to reply. I’m quite open, honest and direct, and appreciate those who are like-minded in their communication. I think the most interesting bits of life and connection with others lie in our quirks, differences, and vulnerabilities, which often leads to quite deep conversations. So, if that’s not your thing I’m probably not the girl for you! - I am a single mum with an 11 year old. Which is awesome, but it means my time is often taken up doing mum stuff, and I can’t always respond immediately to messages. I also run my own business, which can be a bit feast or famine. When going through a busy patch I may not have time to reply or even check messages on here! - I am a breast cancer survivor (8 years in ‘remission’) and have an auto-immune sleep disorder. This means I experience some fatigue from time-to-time, but I’m determined to not let it stop me living my best kinky life!
Female (51) Brisbane, Queensland
Hi 👋🏼 I'm new in Brisbane, just moved up from Sydney, travelled most parts of Australia and looking for friends into rope, shibari, soft BDSM. Would like some female friends or trans/female before meeting men. Not into casual sex I can't use photos because of work privacy.
Female (45) Brisbane, Queensland
new to the scene - Say hi? I have zero experience , based on my personality I would be a brat
Female (25) Brisbane, Queensland
hello beautifuls i'm Kel, residing in Ipswich, and I'm excited to dive back into the BDSM lifestyle as a seasoned masochist submissive/brat. Having a few years break, I now seek a dom/sadist with emotional intelligence, who will not only push my limits but also provide a safe space filled with love, aftercare, and the spoiling I deeply adore. 😌 I am a confident, curvy woman, size 16-18, who loves and accepts herself.✨️🦋 I am interested in connecting with older, dominant/sadistic individuals (aged 30-50.) If you're interested, please message me with your thoughts or just a greeting.😊 interested in- Making new freinds 💜 if you're gothic or alt that's a plus! attending BDSM events ✨️LGBTQ friendly 🌈 Not interested in- - // married/couples/ploy. Im bratty and want all the attention on me. 😌 - // ONS/doms/sadists under 30. ------------------------------ location - Brisbane/Ipswich area only. 😊
Female (33) Brisbane, Queensland
A curated digital muse experience — intimate, aesthetic, and private. Access is limited. Respect and intention required.
Female (19) Brisbane, Queensland
just a bit of a bunny princess looking for some exploring add my insta @dumb_bitch.com.au
Female (23) Brisbane, Queensland
COUGAR looking for toys. 20-45 years old. Slaves welcome. MEETS ONLY, NOTHING ONLINE. Bi-curious… Not looking for a sub lady Free use Bondage Impact play CBT Role play Pegging Foot worship Water sports Happy to try most things once! Limit ***
Female (45) Brisbane, Queensland
PLAY I am not currently seeking any play partners as I have a Top that I'm exploring with FRIENDSHIP I love meeting people and hearing their stories so I will chat to anyone who messages me. My only non-negotiables are that you are polite, and your message is engaging. If you don't feel the need to put any effort into your message, don't expect me to.
Female (51) Brisbane, Queensland
Need me a woman who can pin me down and put me in my place 😔 WHERE ARE ALL THE DOMS AT??? Come here to mostly have a nice and spicy chat to settle the day ;3
Female (20) Brisbane, Queensland
New to the scene and exploring BDSM, enjoying the learning process. Friendly, open-minded, and a bit curious by nature.
Female (28) Brisbane, Queensland
I am an active and dynamic woman with a neutral character. I enjoy everything good in my life. I feel strong, stable and self-realized. I am satisfied with my life and I feel that today I am ready for the next serious step in my life.
Female (44) Brisbane, Queensland
couples acc 👩🏼‍❤️‍💋‍👨🏽 nothing makes us happier than boobs (we’re both bi!) ❤️ love cooking, dancing, and of course our down time 😜
Female (20) Brisbane, Queensland
Hey there.... recently released from long term m contract, wanting to explore my kinkier side. Fairly limited experience in the heavier side but keen to at least see what's out there. Looking for guidance and exploration.
Female (46) Brisbane, Queensland
don’t mind me, just looking to chat only and make friends while exploring the kink scene (: i'm not looking to be 'owned' nor do pic exchanges, please respect my boundaries ai selfies, creepy/rude behaviour = blocked
Female (26) Brisbane, Queensland
A mean bitch and I’m ok with it. owner of kinkformation.com I’ve been kinky for over 20 years, so don’t have patience for time wasters. Ethically non-monogamous sapiosexual
Female (44) Brisbane, Queensland
new to this, never explored it but curious about being in a continuous arrangement daddy dom/submissive/brat dynamic. not hugely into bdsm - some aspects of it have my interest.
Female (46) Brisbane, Queensland
completely new to this! bf is a cuck and wants me to have no strings attached fun. not looking to date specifically but meet in public preferred
Female (30) Brisbane, Queensland

New members in Brisbane

I am a confident, sensual, and strict Femdomme looking for a genuine submissive man who craves structure, control, and purpose under a dominant woman. I believe in Female Led Relationships built on trust, obedience, and deep devotion. Daily rules, chastity, rituals, service, and progressive control are part of my dynamic. I reward good boys and correct bad ones. If you are serious, loyal, single, and ready to surrender control to a firm but caring Queen, send me a proper introduction. Tell me about yourself and why you feel you’d be a good fit. Begin your message with: “I’m ready to submit, Goddess.” Only serious inquiries. Time-wasters will be ignored.
Female (36) Brisbane, Queensland
Hi 👋🏼 I'm new in Brisbane, just moved up from Sydney, travelled most parts of Australia and looking for friends into rope, shibari, soft BDSM. Would like some female friends or trans/female before meeting men. Not into casual sex I can't use photos because of work privacy.
Female (45) Brisbane, Queensland
I am selective, discreet, and value authenticity. My dominance is psychological first I enjoy control, structure, discipline, and shaping a submissive into their highest potential through guidance and authority. I am seeking a dedicated personal submissive who understands that submission is a privilege, not a performance. Someone emotionally intelligent, consistent, respectful, and genuinely committed to serving a strong woman with ambition and depth. I am not here for endless chatting, time wasters, or fantasy collectors. If you approach me, do so with intention and self-awareness.
Female (30) Brisbane, Queensland
I value confidence, self control, and respect. I’m intentional with my words and actions, and I expect the same from others. Clear communication and mutual understanding matter to me more than anything. I’m not here for games, pressure, or assumptions. If you can’t respect boundaries, we won’t get along.
Female (29) Brisbane, Queensland
I like a man who listens the first time. Not because he’s weak but because he knows exactly what he wants: my approval! add me on 1nsta G :hearts_around: honeyvaleriax
Female (19) Brisbane, Queensland
Hello fellow kinksters! I’m back and dipping my toes into the big bad world of BDSM again after a bit of an absence. While I am new to the Brisbane scene, I am not new to the world of kink/BDSM. I lived in London for 20 years and had a glorious time finding and exploring my kinky side over there. Spent many a night at various fetish clubs and munches with a truly wonderful bunch of kinky friends and playmates. Several longer-term D/s relationships and one ex-husband later I find myself living in Brisbane, hoping to find some similarly perverted IRL friends, play mates or longer-term D/s relationships. In terms of a potential LTR-type connection, if you are looking for a tall, thin, super-fit extrovert who loves hiking, running and going to the gym, I’m probably not the girl for you. If you are looking for a curvy/plus size short arse who is a quirky, curious, experimental, creative dark horse…here I am! For me, the essential aspects in this type of relationship are trust, honesty and having a strong mental connection. The deeper the connection the more I can be challenged. Pushed to my limits. From that starting point, the possibilities are endless... Kinks When I first started exploring the big bad world of BDSM I approached it as a switch, and have experienced most aspects kink as both a Domme and sub. But the more I explored and experienced, the more I realised it is the submissive side of things that truly does it for me. As a sub I always aim to please and be a good girl. I am rarely bratty or disobedient, although I can sometimes be a little cheeky when the mood strikes me. I am also quite masochistic and have been described as a total ***slut on more than one occasion! I enjoy most aspects of BDSM, so it is probably easier to talk about the things I’m not particularly drawn to. While I’ve enjoyed playing with puppies and kittens in Domme mode in the past, I’ve not felt the desire to be the pet myself. Nor have I felt the urge to try the little/adult baby thing. Gags and hoods seem to set off something deeply unpleasant and upsetting, so I tend to avoid them (although blindfolds are fine- go figure!). Kink and sex are deeply connected for me. The way my body reacts sexually to BDSM is quite amazing and intense! But this is not something that is immediately or casually offered. It is, however, immensely enjoyable once trust starts to build and a certain level of comfort is there. A few things to note: - I’m not strictly heterosexual, more heteroflexible. I’m more attracted to personality, intellect and connection rather than sex/gender or outward appearance. - I can be a little socially awkward/shy at first, and am rubbish at small talk, but if we meet and click in real life I may well end up talking your ear off! - If your first message to me is ‘hey,’ ‘how’s your evening’ or something similar I’m unlikely to reply. I’m quite open, honest and direct, and appreciate those who are like-minded in their communication. I think the most interesting bits of life and connection with others lie in our quirks, differences, and vulnerabilities, which often leads to quite deep conversations. So, if that’s not your thing I’m probably not the girl for you! - I am a single mum with an 11 year old. Which is awesome, but it means my time is often taken up doing mum stuff, and I can’t always respond immediately to messages. I also run my own business, which can be a bit feast or famine. When going through a busy patch I may not have time to reply or even check messages on here! - I am a breast cancer survivor (8 years in ‘remission’) and have an auto-immune sleep disorder. This means I experience some fatigue from time-to-time, but I’m determined to not let it stop me living my best kinky life!
Female (51) Brisbane, Queensland
please don’t bother if you’re not single. I like intellect, wit and smarts. If it doesn’t tickle the brain- it’ll bore me fast.
Female (42) Brisbane, Queensland
Greetings i am not new to the lifestyle but had taken a step back due to a vanilla relationship and relocation from Melbourne. i am starting to step back into the lifestyle now my true calling is as a submissive although I have had domestic submissives in the past.
Female (65) Brisbane, Queensland
I’m seeking a Dom/sir who can mold me into his perfect submissive. I enjoy being obedient, following rules and completing tasks. I also like being punished.
Female (43) Brisbane, Queensland
A curated digital muse experience — intimate, aesthetic, and private. Access is limited. Respect and intention required.
Female (19) Brisbane, Queensland
hello beautifuls i'm Kel, residing in Ipswich, and I'm excited to dive back into the BDSM lifestyle as a seasoned masochist submissive/brat. Having a few years break, I now seek a dom/sadist with emotional intelligence, who will not only push my limits but also provide a safe space filled with love, aftercare, and the spoiling I deeply adore. 😌 I am a confident, curvy woman, size 16-18, who loves and accepts herself.✨️🦋 I am interested in connecting with older, dominant/sadistic individuals (aged 30-50.) If you're interested, please message me with your thoughts or just a greeting.😊 interested in- Making new freinds 💜 if you're gothic or alt that's a plus! attending BDSM events ✨️LGBTQ friendly 🌈 Not interested in- - // married/couples/ploy. Im bratty and want all the attention on me. 😌 - // ONS/doms/sadists under 30. ------------------------------ location - Brisbane/Ipswich area only. 😊
Female (33) Brisbane, Queensland
I'm shy to start with, but once that layer sheds I'm a cheeky brat who loves to see how people respond to "make me" 🤭 I appreciate it when people want to talk to me like a human being to start off with because, well, I am one.. I have too many bdsm interests to list here! They usually depend on my mood, the day, and my emotional state. I'm not keen on vanilla, but I'm also not looking for 24/7 bdsm roles either, unless one particularly strikes my fancy with the right person. I have 2 uncommon fetishes - care to guess? Here are the clues: 1. I can hear it 2. It can feel me
Female (31) Brisbane, Queensland
just a bit of a bunny princess looking for some exploring add my insta @dumb_bitch.com.au
Female (23) Brisbane, Queensland
I have a dual nature: I can be incredibly sweet, but I’m also very strict. Into pegging, impact play (caning/flogging), and slapping. I love integrating power dynamics into daily life and enjoy being served by a sub. There’s much more to discover if you’re the right one.
Female (29) Brisbane, Queensland
looking for kisses and cuddles xx whisper dirty things in my ear and make sexy promises for later. xx
Female (35) Brisbane, Queensland
Hey there.... recently released from long term m contract, wanting to explore my kinkier side. Fairly limited experience in the heavier side but keen to at least see what's out there. Looking for guidance and exploration.
Female (46) Brisbane, Queensland
completely new to this! bf is a cuck and wants me to have no strings attached fun. not looking to date specifically but meet in public preferred
Female (30) Brisbane, Queensland
New to the scene and exploring BDSM, enjoying the learning process. Friendly, open-minded, and a bit curious by nature.
Female (28) Brisbane, Queensland
exploring potential opportunities to have fun with a third person for me and my boyfriend girls only please
Female (21) Brisbane, Queensland
I’m a sassy gal (punk princess) with a softer, sweet side (Disney queen). I believe in good banter, spontaneous adventures, and making memories wherever I go.
Female (29) Brisbane, Queensland
I want to be used for hours, maybe even days 👀 I want to be dripping cum from all my holes, I need to be filled by several men. do what ever you want to me, *** me to do what you desire, I’m a slut that needs discipline, desperately need to be shown all I’m good for is being fucked and used
Female (26) Brisbane, Queensland
I am an active and dynamic woman with a neutral character. I enjoy everything good in my life. I feel strong, stable and self-realized. I am satisfied with my life and I feel that today I am ready for the next serious step in my life.
Female (44) Brisbane, Queensland
I’m in a happy, committed relationship (not open and not looking to change that), but we’d love to meet some like-minded kinky friends or other couples to have fun with. I’m into gardening, gaming, D&D, animation, and getting lost in a good book. I can be a little shy at first, but once you get me talking, I don’t shut up 😌 If you’re interested, message me first… I promise I’m worth the effort 💋 Bonus points if you can lift double my weight — I’ll be very impressed 😉 Also, I do have a spicy page if that’s something you’re interested in
Female (21) Brisbane, Queensland
Looking for someone who wants to be the BDSM and swinging Unicorns real partner. Horror, history and nature nerd looking for another weirdo to share cool stuff with. weirdly, I like watching guys *** I enjoy unusual cinema and TV, as well as reading (especially speculative and horror fiction, or about history, science and nature). Also love going for walks, gardening and trying new recipes. Happy to celebrate Halloween year round! When it comes to intimacy I prefer partners I share interests with- not looking for hookups. I'm a bit of a tomboy Brat who enjoys playing a little rough and dirty. Not into being a princess as I'm more of a goblin 😜 Been out of the scene for a while but looking to reconnect with my old kinky self.
Female (43) Brisbane, Queensland

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