In August 2025, my 17-year relationship ended after my ex-husband cheated. It was a very vanilla relationship, so I’m now enjoying the opportunity to discover a side of myself I never really got to explore.
I’m still figuring out exactly where my journey will take me, and honestly... that’s half the fun. I know what I enjoy, I know what I’m curious about, and I’m definitely not afraid to try new things with the right person.
Ultimately, I’m looking for a genuine long-term connection — someone I can build trust with, laugh with, be myself around and get a little mischievous with along the way.
I’m attracted to confidence, honesty, good communication and someone who knows how to take the lead without forgetting that trust goes both ways. I’m naturally submissive, a little bratty, very vocal and I like being pushed out of my comfort zone by someone I trust.
A little about me:
154cm of trouble. 😈
Tattooed, non-smoker, no kids, proud cat mum of two. I love camping, 4WD adventures, being creative, spending time with friends and having a good laugh. I’m affectionate, cheeky and have a high sex drive — so boring probably isn’t going to work for either of us.
What I enjoy:
Hair pulling, choking, spanking, restraint, teasing, nipple play, toy play, oral, anal, squirting, dirty talk and being a brat who occasionally needs reminding who’s in charge.
I love compliments, being told I’m a good girl and feeling desired. I enjoy a partner who isn’t shy about communicating what they want.
I’m also curious about exploring bondage/rope play, role play, pegging and dogging.
Threesomes are something I’d only consider with complete trust and the right dynamic — I’m not looking to tick boxes just for the sake of it.
Who I’m looking for:
A single man, preferably 32–48, 5'10"+, tattooed and a non-smoker. I’m generally attracted to Caucasian men.
But ultimately, character matters more than a checklist.
If you’re confident without being arrogant, dominant without being controlling, communicative, respectful and genuinely interested in getting to know me rather than just ticking off my kink list... we might get along very well.
I’m not looking for someone to rush me. I’m looking for someone who makes me want to submit.
