Confident, experienced Dominant seeking an intelligent, self-aware submissive who values trust, communication, and the slow burn of power exchange.

I’m a grounded professional with a calm, controlled demeanour. I lead with clarity, respect, and intent. I’m looking for someone who responds to structure, direction, and the feeling of being genuinely seen. Obedience is exciting β€” but connection, communication, and mutual growth matter even more.

What I offer:
β€’ A Dominant who knows the difference between confidence and ego
β€’ A dynamic built on consent, boundaries, and aftercare
β€’ Mental, emotional, and physical control with purpose
β€’ Clear expectations, firm guidance, and a safe space to let go
β€’ Discretion, maturity, and reliability
β€’ Experience in power dynamics, rituals, and training frameworks

What I’m seeking:
β€’ A submissive who is curious, responsive, and enjoys giving up control to the right person
β€’ Someone who loves structure, rules, and the pleasure of being guided
β€’ Emotional intelligence and a willingness to communicate openly
β€’ Chemistry β€” the kind that makes the dynamic effortless once it’s established

This is about more than kink β€” it’s about energy, trust, and a dynamic that feels natural and compelling for both of us.

If you want a Dominant who leads with confidence and clarity, not chaos, send a message and introduce yourself with three words that describe your submissive side.

BDSM Play Partner ● 30 to 48 years ● 50km around Australia Melbourne

My name is Skit, I'm 19 years old, and I'm planning to move to Melbourne next year with a friend for my studies. I'm mostly interested in non-sexual connections since I am a virgin and have experienced some sexual trauma, which means I need to build complete trust with someone before anything sexual can happen. I'm totally open to discussing our hopes for the future (including what sexual things we want in the future), but I want to clarify that I'm not into sexting or sharing sexual pictures.

I identify as aromantic, which means I don't experience romantic attraction, but that does not mean I can't love you. I am trans female-to-male pre-transition, and I am hoping to get top surgery soon. I value honesty and communication above all else, so if you have any questions, please feel free to ask and I'll do the same!

I'm searching for someone who desires a genuine connection with me. Ideally, I'd like someone close to my age to late 20's, but I can be flexible if you are the one.

I would love to eventually live as a 24/7 baby, although I understand that might not be feasible with my current life situation. I'm looking to gradually ease into this lifestyle and become less and less independent over time. I want to remain fully non-sexual until I feel completely comfortable with you in real life and have been fully introduced to the ABDL community. Once I trust you completely, I'd be open to slowly incorporating some sexual elements into our dynamic. I'm very open-minded, so please be honest if you are looking for something specific. I'd love to sit down and discuss everything before we take any sexual steps forward.

Im looking to have someone take complete control over pretty much anything, and slowly introduce me into this lifestyle and other kinks. I also love the thought of getting "groomed" so going from a friendly stranger to friends then slowly getting more and more intimate.

My limits include , intentional , impact play, any kind of calls, pretty much anything in my mouth (due to *** issues), and likely more that I haven't realised yet. When you reach out to me please share a little about yourself, what you expect/are looking for and any questions you might have

BDSM Play Partner ● 19 to 28 years ● 300km around Australia Melbourne

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