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BITTE, NUR ENGLISH 💬
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Leider ist mein Deutsch noch nicht gut genug für die Kommunikation.
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🚫 NO READ -> NO REPLY 🚫
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Hey there, welcome to my profile! =)
Please, get to know me before you send a message.
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I'm really sorry, it's not my intention to be rude or patronizing, but unfortunately all these guidelines are necessary on this platform.
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Thanks for understanding and Happy Reading!
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📸 Private Gallery - Only after I know you!
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My Profile pic is as recent as possible. All others are from moments and experiences throughout the years.
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🚧 I WON'T REPLY IF:
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📌 Your message doesn't have the passcode.
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*(meaning: you are not interested in reading enough for us to establish a common understanding)*
📌 You don't have any face pictures.
📌 Your message is a one-liner.
📌 You make demands or lack respect.
🚧 I'll stop replying if:
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📌 You’re just looking for ons/easy/hard sex.
📌 Your only subjects are sex related.
📌 You are a push-over.
📌 Our conversation doesn't flow.
📌 We are not a match and you insist.
📌 You act like you already know all about me. 🔮
📌 For any reason I feel you are a red flag. 🚩
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✒️ I try to politely reply to all my messages, but sometimes it takes me a while to do so.
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If I have to block you it means you were way out of the line or way too insistent.
I hate blocking people — Please don't make me do it!
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❇️ Important Notes:
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🖐️ Unsolicited dick pics are NOT welcome!
🪧 My dating interests:
➖ Age range ⏳ 30ish to 45ish.
➖ Distance range 🗺️ up to 500ish km.
🪧 I’m here for genuine connections
➖ I don't go on dates before getting to know you.
🪧 I'm a submissive and I'm 0% switch!
➖ Please don't insist!
🪧 I'm a sub, not a plastic sex doll!
➖ If that's all you want, it's not what I'm looking for.
🪧 We won't match if your dom style consists in:
➖ “Hardcore sex”.
➖ Maybe some bare hand spanking.
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☺️ About me 😉
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I'm a Brazilian🇧🇷 girl who just moved to Berlin🇩🇪 and wants to get in touch with the scene here and connect with like-minded people.
I moved here to pursue a master’s degree that blends STEM and politics—two fields that fascinate me deeply. My academic journey is my way of trying to make a difference before the world inevitably ends due to climate change 🥶🥵 or our governants' stupidity 😒.
I have an endless tendency to adopt cats and dogs. I love dearly my all pets 🥰, sadly they had to stay with my family in Brazil. I miss them a lot 🥺 and, if I decide to stay here, I plan to bring them to live with me.
You’ll most likely find me knitting on my rocking chair, like any old crazy cat lady would 🧶😸. And, unless you need company to watch an engaging movie or documentary, you won’t catch me in front of the big screen — honestly, I don’t even own a TV.
You might think I'm an old soul, but don’t be mistaken; my personality and mind are pretty much in the present, with my progressive values guiding me forward. I'm a feminist♀️💜 at heart and I politically identify myself as a leftist ✊❤️🔥.
Lately, my main focus (besides studies, of course) has been on taking better care of my 🤸 physical and mental health🧘. I've been pretty sedentary since the pandemic and, to be honest, I'm currently carrying a lot more weight than I'd like to, which has started to impact my daily life. So, I’m making a real effort to build better habits — eating more consciously 🍎, moving my body more 🏃, and just generally trying to treat myself with the care I deserve 🌸. It’s a work in progress, but hey, so is everything else in life!
I definitely think too much 💭 and one of my greatest pleasures is having 🗨️ meaningful conversations and getting lost in random deep dives about the world. I find joy in exploring new ideas and perspectives, and I value intellectual connection above all.
🍦Since you’ve got this far, you’ve probably already noticed that mutual respect and good communication are very important to me and honestly, if you are still reading, it's probably important for you too. So, in case you decide to write me, just add *vanilla check-in* on the top — Orelse I’ll assume you either didn’t bother reading or have no sense of humor, and I likely won’t reply.
👉 Before you decide, take a moment to keep reading so you can evaluate if our kink values and preferences align. I look forward to talking people who also value respect in this community. 🤗
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💠 About BDSM 💠
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❇️ Ground Rules:
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✨ Communication Matters – A good conversation is the best way to connect. If you enjoy thoughtful discussions and mutual understanding, we’ll get along just fine.
✨ Respect First – Before anything else, I’m a person. Kindness and respect go both ways and are always appreciated.
✨ No Entitlement – Submission, for me, is something special, not something given freely to just anyone. If we haven’t built trust or established a D/s dynamic, please don’t expect submission from me.
✨ BDSM is Particular to each one – Everyone experiences BDSM differently, and I respect that. I only ask for the same in return.
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🤔 What I'm looking for:
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I'm looking for a satisfying BDSM dynamic, which of course could mean many different things for different people 🤷. For me it means finding people who I can bond and develop with.
I would love to find the right company to explore Berlin's kink scene 😈, go out, meet new people and learn. I'm especially curious about Shibari Clubs and Munches — of course there are other clubs and bars I would enjoy.
I'm open to couples 👥 and singles 👤 with whom we can develop a friendship, with benefits or not. But I'm also looking for a male partner that has willingness and availability to develop a BDSM dynamic.
I want to further explore my kinks and scratch the limits of what I'm able to 🌱. For that I need people with whom I can build trust, partnership, intimacy and friendship. It's essentially to me to be with someone I can easily talk to, about BDSM, about our dynamic, and perhaps life and other things.
As, I guess, like everyone here I also have my unique set of sexual needs I look to fulfill 😏. Please read my profile carefully to understand them.
Since my studies take up most of my time during the week I can't promise anything 😅, but in an ideal world it would be nice if we could meet on certain frequency, — I do have a little messed up libido 🤭 — perhaps a mix of structured sessions, play dates and sex encounters.
💡 Surely we can figure out a dynamic that works — in case our needs and likings match!
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🤫 My Style and Preferences:
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I’ve been practicing it for some time and have known I was submissive for even longer. While I wouldn’t call myself highly experienced, I know most things I enjoy 😋 and what I definitely don’t 😣. Yet, I’m open to exploring and growing in unexpected ways.
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As I assume you know, BDSM stands for: *Bondage & Discipline* (BD); *Dominance & Submission* (DS); and *Sadism & Masochism* (SM).
I’m drawn to the Submission and Bondage side of it. Although I don’t consider myself to be a full masochist, I do appreciate *** as a way to submit.
For me, submission should feel natural 🌿 — light, simple, and fun, not something ***d or overly rigid. I enjoy structured sessions, but with room for balance ⚖️. I don't care much about which structure you use nor I need to know it upfront, yet it will make me very uncomfortable whenever you seem unsure of your own plans.
Generally, I’m quite obedient 😇, but I do have a playful side that from time to time enjoys some sassy remarks. If I’m being bratty or way too talkative, something is probably wrong, and it’s time to stop and reassess 🚩.
Regarding style, mine leans toward PPE (Partial Power Exchange) — so, being submissive, to me, goes a little outside the bedroom walls. And, besides being mostly strong minded and independent, my Kitty😺/Little🧸 side likes to be taken care of and be appreciated.
I *personally* don't enjoy having multiple play partners at once. But that's MY preference, it doesn't have anything to do with you or your preferences. Meaning: I truly don't mind whatever you do in your personal time as long as it doesn't affect me 😬.
During a session I enjoy the intensity of being dominated, I like to feel like my body as tool and that my brain stopped working 🤤, unfortunately that's not something I can do on will. Sometimes it happens, sometimes it doesn't, it has a lot to do with dominance styles.
😖 My huge turn-off is being in control, which mostly happens either if I don't "feel it" or if something "feels off" — It could happen that the way you dominate is just not the way that works for me or it that I don't feel comfortable enough to just can't let go of control
🛑 I strongly trust my instincts and if I can't let go when I'm with you, that's a huge red flag for me. 🛑
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🚨 SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual):
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Trust, consent, and responsibility are at the heart of BDSM. I value partners who prioritize safety just as much as I do.
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Protection is always a must! - Please don't even question about it.
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My Mental and Physical health will always be a priority!
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❌ Hard Limits:
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(Not negotiable)
🔻 Branding
🔻 Scaring
🔻 Podolatry
🔻 *** play
🔻 Fire play
🔻 *** play
🔻 Roleplay
🔻 Golden/Silver/Brown showers
🔻 ***
🔻 Tickling
🔻 Fisting
🔻 Psychological ***/***
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⚠️ Soft Limits:
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(Only with deep trust and discussion)
🔸 CNC
🔸 Creampie
🔸 Public Games
🔸 MFM / FFM / etc
🔸 Needle play
🔸 Knife play
🔸 Breath play
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✅ Practices I Enjoy:
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(What I already tested and liked)
🪢*Bondage & Restraints*
🔹 Rope bondage (Shibari)
🔹 Handcuffs & metal restraints
🔹 Leather cuffs & straps
🔹 Gags (ball gag, bit gag, etc.)
🔹 Blindfolds
🔹 Partial mummification
🔹 Collars & leashes
💥 *Spanking & Impact Play*
🔹 Bare-hand spanking
🔹 Paddle spanking (wood, leather, etc.)
🔹 Flogging (soft & thuddy or sharp & stingy)
🔹 Riding crop play
🔹 Belt spanking
🔹 Bastinado
🔹 Thigh or inner thigh spanking
⚡ **** Play*
🔹 *** deprivation/stimulation
🔹 Wax play
🔹 Ice play
🔹 Electro-stimulation
🔹 Biting
🔹 Choking
🔥 *Sexual Play*
🔹Breast ***/stimulation
🔹 Nipple play
🔹 Vaginal/anal stimulation
🔹 Clit or G-spot stimul,ation
🔹 Giving Oral sex/other practices related
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☕ Not my Cup of Tea:
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(I know I don't like it, but might make exceptions)
🔸 Face slaps
🔸 Facial cumshots
🔸 Latex
🔸 Full-face masks
🔸 Rimming
🔸 Receiving Oral sex
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