PLEASE READ BEFORE MESSAGING ME.
I’m a thick and curvy, playful, pansexual, submissive babygirl, with a big heart and an even bigger appetite for connection. I’m not here for casual flings. I’m looking for my number one Daddy Dom, the kind of partner who shows up consistently, with care, chemistry, and trust.
RULES FOR MESSAGING ME.
Phone/Video Chat Requirement:
I expect a phone chat within 1-2 days of connecting and a video chat within 1 week before we make plans.
Clear Photo:
If we’re going to chat, you must send a recent, clear photo of your face. No excuses about your job, privacy, or “later.” I’m a professional too, and I’m willing to take the same risk by showing you mine. I expect the same respect in return. If you can’t do that, we’re not a match.
No Self-Appointed Titles:
Do not call yourself my “Daddy” (or any title) until we’ve actually discussed it and I’ve given the go-ahead. Same with pet names or possessive language. Calling yourself my Daddy too soon will get you blocked.
Earned Submission, Not Assumed Submission:
Do not assume my submission or obedience. Authority must be built through trust, care, and consistency. If you try to demand, command, or punish without that foundation, you will be blocked.
Local or Able to Meet:
I’m looking for something real-life, not endless online chats. If you’re not local (or can’t realistically travel/meet), it’s not a fit.
Consistency Over Talk:
If you can’t communicate reliably, keep your word, or follow through on plans, don’t waste my time. Actions > words.
Lead With Substance:
Tell me who you are, what you’re seeking, and what kind of dynamic you want to build. “Hey sexy” messages will be ignored.
Curiosity is Mandatory:
If you can’t show genuine curiosity, don’t bother messaging me. I expect you to demonstrate that you’ve read my profile by asking me something real. It can be about my kinks, my interests, or anything that sparks your attention. Lazy intros, laundry lists of your traits, or “if you’re interested, let me know” messages will be ignored. A Dom who can’t ask a thoughtful question isn’t a Dom worth my time.
If you’ve read this far and you’re still intrigued, please read on…..
The kink world has taught me that real intimacy comes from vulnerability, communication, and showing up fully. I crave a power exchange dynamic that blends tenderness with intensity. I love being cared for and cherished, but also need a Daddy who knows how to guide, challenge, and hold me so I can surrender deeper.
I am very submissive, service-oriented, and love to please, but only with the right person. Obedience isn’t automatic; it’s something earned through respect, consistency, and presence. You don’t get to punish me just because you want to. That’s not how this works. Submission is a gift I give when I feel safe, seen, and turned on, not because someone says a few spicy words. If you want authority, you have to show me you’ve earned it. Until then, you’re just playing dress-up, not being a Dom.
If you understand that submission is a gift and you’re ready to be the Daddy who is my sanctuary, my guide, and my number one, then I’d love to chat.
Kinks & Interests:
• D/s, Daddy or Mommy Dom/baby-girl, and stag/vixen (with trust and mutual care).
• Praise, sensual domination, pleasure-led play.
• Bondage, rough play, impact, ***, and limits exploration (with consent + aftercare).
• Erotic energy as a path to self-discovery.
• Playful, intentional connection with space for depth and growth.
Outside of the bedroom, you’ll find me cooking something delicious, making people laugh, vibing to music, or grounding myself in nature. I value emotional depth, good conversation, and people who show up with care and curiosity.
Looking For:
• Local kinksters who are actually interested in meeting.
• A Daddy who’s emotionally mature, consistent, experienced with power exchange, and a natural caregiver. If you think that’s you, tell me what your favourite colour is in your message, so I know you actaully read this.
• Someone who leads with intention, balances structure with tenderness, and values communication and aftercare as much as play.
• Connection that builds over time. Rome wasn’t built in a day.