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I'm a 45 year old, fat girl (I do not think fat is a bad word, it's just a descriptor, I own who I am! People find all different sizes beautiful, so don't think I'm putting myself down. I'm fluffy and I know it😊). I haven't had the chance or the confidence (in the past) to get out there and really explore sex and everything that can be (due to some past relationship trauma, but who doesn't have a little baggage at 45). I'm now in a new head space, loving sharing myself (body and mind) with others and looking to get out there and meet men or couples who want to play and worship my body without monogamous commitment. I'm looking for friends with benefits, or poly relationships, not one night stands, and no one cheating on their significant other. The person or people also need to be able to carry on a conversation with me. I'm looking to experiment a little (a lot) and fulfill some fantasies, but am interested in helping others fulfill their fantasies as well. I am a sapiosexual, so intelligence is important. I am also looking for someone to take the lead and be willing for me to follow, that's not to say that I won't tell you what I want. I'm not a virgin, but I may as well be in some situations. My experience has been limited (Although I've made some fun discoveries the last few years). I'm looking to go on a sexploration adventure. I have a lot of time to make up for!
I'm quite dominant in my every day life but I crave the roll of sub sexually, even if my Domme-self pokes her head out at times, the relinquishing of control and trusting someone else with my body and pleasure is a huge turn on and goal for me. I can be of the bratty persuasion, some would say a princess by day and slut by night. But I think I'm just an Alpha Sub with a Praise Kink at heart. I have learned I prefer a soft Dom or a pleasure Dom, and not a punishment focused Dom. I respond to positive rein***ment very well!
However, what I'm looking for doesn't have to be of the D/s nature. That's not a necessity for me...just something I enjoy and would like to explore more. I also can play Domme and have multiple times, it's just not as fulfilling an experience for me and I'm not looking for a sub...unless I'm in that mood, so a switch could work. Lol
Feel free to DM me only if you are in or around the Fredericton New Brunswick area. (It could also work if you travel here regularly.) I am looking for an ongoing thing, not a one night stand, and definitely not an online relationship (I have little to no interest in carrying on a bunch of chat...for me the chat is to get the important stuff out and leads to an initial meeting in public, where we can assess our sexual compatibility, hormones/looks/gut feelings all play a part and need to be in person for me).
If you msg I'll answer as soon as I can (please be patient). I will require identification/multiple pictures showing that you are a real person. Not nude photos, just you in everyday life.
Please send pictures of your face and body currently, with your initial msg, if you don't have them on your profile. I need to be able to see your eyes, your smile, your teeth...and I'd like to know how tall you are , if you don't mind sharing. I'm willing to provide the same info. (Nudes are not required)
Like everyone else I have aesthetics on humans that I find more attractive. I spent too much of my life not considering what I wanted and always putting the other person first. So this time, I'm making sure that I get what I want mentally, emotionally, and physically...and hopefully that you get what you want out of it too😉. For me that means I'm looking for certain types of men, but I have a wide range that I'm attracted to.
Just to clarify one more time, I am not looking for a full-time relationship, but have not closed the door on that development over time. I am looking for a friend who wants to cuddle , experiment sexually, and maybe watch a movie or have a conversation, but with no strings attached. I'm open to possibilities of growth but realistically I'm more concerned with pursuing the things I've missed out on the last 20+ years. Reminder that I'm also not looking for one offs...the one night stand tends to make me feel shitty about myself. Also no cheaters, I will not be someone's secret. Polyamorous, or open, people or couples are more than welcome!
This might also be a good place to mention that I am fairly certain I am polyamorous. While I haven't had the opportunity to participate in a poly relationship I think it most closely suits my long term goals for my life. Short term...friends with benefits. Long term probably a nice poly relationship with a few like minded people. I just have a hard time believing one person can be everything for me and that I can be everything for one person...in a polyamorous relationship you get different things from different partners so your cup can be full without draining someone else dry. Feel free to ask if you have questions about how I feel about this...I know I didn't explain it the best.
THIS IS IMPORTANT: I am looking for men between 25 and 45. No older please. (I'm a bit of a cougar 🤷 and am not attracted to older men!) I'm also interested in couples in the same age range.
I am what I'd call heteroflexible. I love men and dicks especially, I love how every dick is different, like snowflakes I find them beautiful. But I'm down for play with women as part of a couple. I will say I don't eat pussy, tried it and am just not into it, however I'm happy to use toys and my hands. I am more than happy to have a woman go down on me though. Plus I love making out with women and what goes along with that kind of foreplay.
Foreplay is incredibly important to me! If you can't handle that don't msg me! Kissing is an absolute must!
There is so much more to know about me and I love to learn about other people's preferences and what they enjoy most. I get as much from giving as I do from receiving. So if you have any questions please feel free to msg me and ask. I'm an open book!
