BDSM test results at bottom of bio .....
****Updated July 2025****
Thanks for checking out my profile.
Let’s get this out of the way first:
📌 I am straight and have absolutely zero interest in couples or women.
📌 Blank profiles or ones full of nothing but explicit content? Pass.
📌 Married men please just don’t. I’m not interested in being your secret or side fantasy.
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I’ve been into the lifestyle for over five years, and what I’m looking for has definitely evolved. These days, I’m not looking for casual anything. If you’re not interested in building something real genuine connection, emotional intimacy, actual presence then I’m not your girl.
As a demisexual, attraction doesn’t happen for me without a solid mental and emotional bond. That might be a foreign concept to some, but I promise it makes the right connection that much better. If you’re here rushing to scratch an itch, I’m not the one.
If you’re newly kinky and trying to make up for lost time, looking for someone to test-drive your fantasies I wish you well, but it’s not going to be me.
I’m not a bucket-list item.
I’m not a “make-a-wish” moment.
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✨ What am I looking for?
A partner. A teammate. A lover. A best friend. Someone kind, intelligent, self-aware, emotionally available, and driven but also knows how to make me laugh and make me feel.
Bonus points if you're a seasoned Daddy Dom, but it's not a deal-breaker. What is non-negotiable?
I’m a submissive. Always. I’ll never be the dominant one in a relationship.
I’m open to slowly building something deeply fulfilling with trust, communication, and (yes) shared kink. But it has to start with something meaningful. That’s the only way any of it works for me.
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🧠 More about me:
• Politically, I lean very left. If you’re offended by the idea that housing is a human right or you idolize billionaires like Elon, we won’t get along.
• If you're anti-vax, don’t waste either of our time.
• I'm 420-friendly, don’t smoke cigarettes, and drink only on rare occasions.
• I’m 5'11", and while I prefer men my height or taller, connection trumps height. Ideal age range: 34–46.
• I run a small handmade business (lots of anime-inspired items) and was a makeup artist before having kids.
• Very neurodivergent, very creative, and I connect best with people who get that.
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🎧 What makes me happy:
• Music (Halsey, Doechii, Taylor Swift, to name a few)
• Cozy nights in with The Sims 4, *** Crossing, Outlander, Lost, Dexter, or The Crown or whatever Im streaming at the moment
• Reading historical both fiction and non fiction, watching old movies, and nerding out over history (any time period I can hyper focus on)
• Crafting, cooking, laughing with my kids, and just being home
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👩👧👦 My kids are my world and my top priority. They all live with me and are younger than ***age years. If that’s a deal-breaker, it’s better we figure that out now. I keep my kids and my romantic life separate so there won't be cross over unless it progressed seriously long term
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If you’ve read this far, that probably means something. So here’s your gold ⭐ and a 🍪.
Message me if you're someone who values real connection, craves depth over surface, and is open to exploring the beautiful space where love, kink, and trust overlap.
== Results from bdsmtest.org: ==
100% Submissive
86% Rope bunny
85% Masochist
82% Degradee
62% Primal (Prey)
61% Brat
53% Voyeur
51% Experimentalist
48% Vanilla
48% Exhibitionist
