I'm a polyamorous brat who started out on the website to learn more about other brats and find people to discuss techniques with. I'm mature and mischievous, and curiosity may have killed the cat, but I like the ending to that sentence better. I am not a sub, and I'm not looking to change that. I _can_ submit, but I am not submissive by nature. Likewise the other way around. I like the power struggle, especially with an equal, and sometimes, I love to come out on top. I like tying someone up as much as I like being tied up. To me, being a brat is about empowerment, and whether I end up on the bottom or on the top, I'll find that empowerment in what I can do to my partner or in what I can make my partner do. That's why my profile says I'm a switch. Mostly here to meet like-minded people and exchange experiences; I come from a very button-up background when it comes to talking about sex, and curiosity is my fatal flaw. Good conversation is always worth it, but don't expect me to respond to your cheesy or well-used pickup lines. I have a partner; I'm not here to fulfill a need, especially not other people's, so if you're trying to get me to fit into your fantasy, I'll disappoint you. I like to break crowns. If you're confident, charming, mysterious, and interested in a challenge, I'll happily steal yours too.

I am mostly a soft-domme who is looking forward to exploring more of the femdom life. I am still fairly new to this, but love a good subby boy that I can tease and experiment with.

Goddess energy only. 👑 Yes, I’m an actual model. I’m here to make friends, explore, and meet interesting people. I love being admired, adored, and worshipped. If you know how to treat a goddess properly, we’ll probably get along. 😉

Sapiosexual | Demiromantic | Alpha Submissive w/ a penchant for service IF the connection is right, so please read everything prior to beginning a conversation with me. _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ I wouldn't continue any further if a TPE "alternative traditional lifestyle" isn't for you, or cannot be provided by you — including marriage and biological ***. Additionally, if you have any addictions (consumption of psychoactive substances, but also including video games or any dysfunctional behaviours) then it's not me you're looking for. Finally, if you have peanut and/or *** allergies then it's a no from me. 🤷 _ I'm on the hunt for what feels like a needle in a hundred haystacks, so please don't waste my time by not reading my -entire- profile. I'm worth the effort, assuming you're anything like me. I will not engage in small talk with you — if that's what I wanted then I'd be speaking to my dogs, cats, and/or plants as opposed to being on here (tbh, I'd find more enjoyment from my conversations with them). 🐈🐕🪴 _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ At my core I am a humanist, intellectual, freethinker, ***-lover, strategist ("big picture/solutions-oriented), and (quite possibly) loyal to a fault. I'm full of curiousity, completely authentic, stoic, conscientious, playful, extremely attentive & thoughtful, reserved (in group settings), passive but assertive when warranted, introspective, able to love unconditionally, as well as having the ability to empathise with even the "worst of the worst". _ ✨ Side-note: My ability to empathise with anybody developed due to significant adverse events that I've experienced from a very young age, and yet I am extremely grateful for each and every one of them. Evidently, I've also become incredibly resilient and genuinely believe I have the ability to get through anything life throws at me. _ I also identify with many of the traits associated with the INTJ-A mbti profile; however, depending on the circumstances I can/will pull-in my feeler-side. _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ Inherent beliefs I live by: At their core, people are innately good, but this doesn't mean that I don't realise that people can't make harmful decisions. Every experience is an opportunity to learn. Doing as little harm (as I possibly can) to other sentient beings/things. Approaching sensitive conversations with curiousity. Prioritising your life partner. Not constantly 'chasing' the newest possessions and/or new experiences, because neither of those things will result in feeling genuine happiness with one's life. Simply put, those things offer fleeting feelings of happiness and then reality sinks back in. 🤐 _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ General interests/hobbies: Horticulture, educational pursuits (podcasts, documentaries, non-fiction books, research), ***s (I feed some of the local wildlife), astronomy, sewing, "Buy It for Life", informal volunteering, walking the dogs, writing notes, relationship psychology, science, entrepreneurship, DIY, hiking, nature, art, health & wellness. _ Kink-wise: This isn't felt as roleplay to me, meaning it is NOT just a bedroom role or a 'hat' I put on and take off; it's who I am and it should be innately who you are, too. _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ What I'm looking for: Somebody who is both emotionally and analytically intelligent, likely in the 45-55 age-range, an innate leader (with quiet confidence), flexible, curious/inquisitive, patient, nurturing & attentive, firm but fair, consistent, respectable, kind, a gentle/calm communicator, loyal, solutions-oriented, a team-player, family-oriented, transparent, that has a growth-mindset, can set + maintain healthy boundaries, and that can remain composed under pressure (I do NOT do well with aggressive behaviour, including raised voices and mannerisms, regardless of it being directed at me or otherwise). I am extremely inquisitive and desire knowing everything about my partner, and I expect them to desire that same level of connection. _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ If you do not have the ability to put somebody else's legitimate needs above your personal desires, then this won't work out. 🤷 If you don't have the time or willingness to put effort into establishing a relationship, well no need to waste either of our time. Additionally, please be self-reflective enough not to set yourself up for failure by setting an expectation that you can't realistically fulfill long-term — participating in "biological mating rituals" isn't a valid excuse, and engaging in it is going to result in a lack of trust (and subsequent implosion of any possible relationship). 🙄 _ If you cannot appreciate/value what I bring to the table, my intrinsic motivation to please in various capacities, well that's going to be your loss ultimately. My happiness is derived from helping others. _____________ |↓| _____________

I'm a 46 yr old curvy, polyamorous, bisexual, demisexual, pansexual babygirl, kitten, submissive, rope kitty (like a rope bunny), little. I am NOT interested in anything long distance or outside of my country. DO NOT WASTE MY TIME! Not interested with anything with ANYONE younger than myself... age range preferences: 40-69. I STILL prefer men/women older than me though. I AM NOT CURRENTLY LOOKING FOR ANYTHING WITH ANYONE RIGHT NOW. MY LIFE IS FULL. I do deal with some mental health issues such as; depression, anxiety, social anxiety, & body dysmorphia. I also have a past of cutting, but i haven't done so since 2010. I have PCOS (diagnosed at 18) & PTFS (potello femoral syndrome. Also known as runners knee) in my right knee (also diagnosed at 18). I have chemical sensitivities to scents. Pls be respectful of that. I am NOT interested in sex with anyone. It's more likely I will NOT have sex with you. I am 100% more sensual than I am sexual. I have to have a deep connection with someone long before sex happens. Don't waste your time if all you want is to fuck someone.

Please read… IG *** 🦌 Fetlife VixinVonKat 🦊 OF *** 🐒 Is sex fun? Yes. Do we all want more of it? Yes. Will it be hot? Of course. But that’s the easy part. So, before you ask, I’ll tell you… 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️I am a newly identifying queer person. with men I’m naturally a sub who loves praise. With women I bring a masculine energy intend to take the lead. I’m creative and patient and enjoy scenarios, role play and sexy dress up. 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 I am attracted to energy. I want to surround myself with caring, genuine people. People who are kind and funny. I want no pressure hangs, and actual friends. Kissing and flirting and butterflies and respected boundaries. Ultimately I’d love to find secure, ongoing connections. If you’ve gotten this far, send me your fav emoji! 🔮🎶🪲💜🖤💚 and please, call me Kat!

hiii! i’m kinda just here to meet some people with similar interest and to navigate/explore new things:) my curiosity and want to explore has definitely dragged me here hehe:) bonus points if you can hold a conversation and be engaging hehe otherwise wellll

New here! Looking to have fun and explore. Interested in meeting people and seeing where things go. Open minded, adventurous and outgoing.

Socially introverted, sexually extroverted ?? *Women only* fun, kinky date night and exploring sensual, curious sides In a couple ❤️‍ He is supportive of my need for friendship and fun with a lady. he wants to watch me spoil and pleasure a lady. wanna play ?? a unicorn to join would be lovely; if you’re looking for that. no rush, connection is most important. If we’ve liked you, but this not what you’re looking for. Please accept our compliments and enjoy the day ☀️

not currently looking! please do not message me.

Im newer to the kink community, looking to learn and have fun I would describe myself as a Soft but torturous domme and Needy sub Harm Reduction and Social work student and nerd I love sending pics and knowing you’re getting off on seeing them

I'm a shy sub that wants to gain confidence on my own and with a kinky partner. i'm not looking for hookups or ons. Have an actual conversation with me. if you start with something sexual I will not respond.

Submissive bottom looking to explore, shibari, BDSM, pet play, impact play, DDlg and more. I am only looking for IRL. Please do not message me if you are more than 150km away.

Just a girl looking to explore the things she finds exciting with someone she can trust. Looking for someone in-person to meet in the Ottawa Area, online doesn't do it for me. Let's grab a couple drinks to see if we vibe first. If your first or second message is to say some weird sexual shit out of the gate I'm ignoring you or blocking you, that's not my style.

Introvert that wants to be pushed outside of her box. But don't that let that confuse you with me being non-adventerous or inexperienced. I'm not one to easily trust or open up. I love to eat, and I am chronically online. if you get *** references, that's the way to get between my legs. spoil me, engage me, harness me and also let me thrive.

Playful blondie with a wild side and dirty mind, I’ve been told I’m pretty funny, adventurous and full of bad ideas. I like keeping things creative and I’m full of surprise. I spend alot of time laughing with good company and flying under the radar. I’m pretty much the girl you won’t wanna miss out on having a ball with

Curious, respectful, and always learning. I'm drawn to authentic connections built on trust, communication, and mutual respect. I crave the right Dom/sub dynamic and the peace that comes from being led by the right person—someone whose dominance is genuine, earned, and instinctive. What captures my attention isn't someone who talks about being dominant—it's someone who simply is. Quiet authority, confidence without arrogance, calm leadership, and a naturally commanding presence will always be more compelling than labels or bravado. The kind of dominance that doesn't need to announce itself is the kind I find impossible to ignore. Don't tell me who you are. Show me. Actions speak louder than words. Impress me accordingly.

short term: looking to build a connection and trust with someone to have fun with long term: looking for a relationship with someone open minded

MJ (female, 20, bisexual) My partner and I are looking to explore together with the right people, reach out if you’re interested😘

Hey guys, im Dréa nice to meet you all 💋 Im a experianced Sub/ Brat/Little/Pet, i have been into the Bdsm lifestyle since i was 20.... i gotta say im a little more experienced online then in person, Since for some reason its hard to find like minded people IRL. im also shy, and have anxiety probably the reason why i have not attended munches yet, or play party's or any bdsm kink related event around me. I downloaded this app to find myself again in the kink comuninity and find myself a Dom/Dynamic/Relationship and maybe possibly a sugar Daddy too, If this sounds good to you, Hit me up 😉 Btw: My voice Kink is up there for sure, 🥺🤭 Ps: My inbox gets overwelming, bare with me 😭😭

I’m a switch shy at first but quite talkative if we match energy caregiving energy will take care of my dom willing to meet up for smoke sesh or drink hit me up if you’re wanting some adventures bi unsure of what I want atm

Pan, solo-poly, aceflux, single mom, adapting to disabilities that aren't going away, sapio, sensual, into literature and choir and art and caring about the planet and each other. Primarily looking for poly and ace community, but open to possibilities if I have the spoons.

couple profile. she's 46, he's 53. looking for folks in the same age group only

Im curious but a little guarded. You would have to be gentle with me. Having said that, I really enjoy spankings. I've had some experience with it, but would like to explore it some more. Maybe even try something new. Its possible that I could be interested in taking on a few men. Something to maybe look into. Im open to learning about and trying something completely new to me.

Goddess energy only. 👑 Yes, I’m an actual model. I’m here to make friends, explore, and meet interesting people. I love being admired, adored, and worshipped. If you know how to treat a goddess properly, we’ll probably get along. 😉

Sapiosexual | Demiromantic | Alpha Submissive w/ a penchant for service IF the connection is right, so please read everything prior to beginning a conversation with me. _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ I wouldn't continue any further if a TPE "alternative traditional lifestyle" isn't for you, or cannot be provided by you — including marriage and biological ***. Additionally, if you have any addictions (consumption of psychoactive substances, but also including video games or any dysfunctional behaviours) then it's not me you're looking for. Finally, if you have peanut and/or *** allergies then it's a no from me. 🤷 _ I'm on the hunt for what feels like a needle in a hundred haystacks, so please don't waste my time by not reading my -entire- profile. I'm worth the effort, assuming you're anything like me. I will not engage in small talk with you — if that's what I wanted then I'd be speaking to my dogs, cats, and/or plants as opposed to being on here (tbh, I'd find more enjoyment from my conversations with them). 🐈🐕🪴 _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ At my core I am a humanist, intellectual, freethinker, ***-lover, strategist ("big picture/solutions-oriented), and (quite possibly) loyal to a fault. I'm full of curiousity, completely authentic, stoic, conscientious, playful, extremely attentive & thoughtful, reserved (in group settings), passive but assertive when warranted, introspective, able to love unconditionally, as well as having the ability to empathise with even the "worst of the worst". _ ✨ Side-note: My ability to empathise with anybody developed due to significant adverse events that I've experienced from a very young age, and yet I am extremely grateful for each and every one of them. Evidently, I've also become incredibly resilient and genuinely believe I have the ability to get through anything life throws at me. _ I also identify with many of the traits associated with the INTJ-A mbti profile; however, depending on the circumstances I can/will pull-in my feeler-side. _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ Inherent beliefs I live by: At their core, people are innately good, but this doesn't mean that I don't realise that people can't make harmful decisions. Every experience is an opportunity to learn. Doing as little harm (as I possibly can) to other sentient beings/things. Approaching sensitive conversations with curiousity. Prioritising your life partner. Not constantly 'chasing' the newest possessions and/or new experiences, because neither of those things will result in feeling genuine happiness with one's life. Simply put, those things offer fleeting feelings of happiness and then reality sinks back in. 🤐 _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ General interests/hobbies: Horticulture, educational pursuits (podcasts, documentaries, non-fiction books, research), ***s (I feed some of the local wildlife), astronomy, sewing, "Buy It for Life", informal volunteering, walking the dogs, writing notes, relationship psychology, science, entrepreneurship, DIY, hiking, nature, art, health & wellness. _ Kink-wise: This isn't felt as roleplay to me, meaning it is NOT just a bedroom role or a 'hat' I put on and take off; it's who I am and it should be innately who you are, too. _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ What I'm looking for: Somebody who is both emotionally and analytically intelligent, likely in the 45-55 age-range, an innate leader (with quiet confidence), flexible, curious/inquisitive, patient, nurturing & attentive, firm but fair, consistent, respectable, kind, a gentle/calm communicator, loyal, solutions-oriented, a team-player, family-oriented, transparent, that has a growth-mindset, can set + maintain healthy boundaries, and that can remain composed under pressure (I do NOT do well with aggressive behaviour, including raised voices and mannerisms, regardless of it being directed at me or otherwise). I am extremely inquisitive and desire knowing everything about my partner, and I expect them to desire that same level of connection. _____________ |↓| _____________ ✨ If you do not have the ability to put somebody else's legitimate needs above your personal desires, then this won't work out. 🤷 If you don't have the time or willingness to put effort into establishing a relationship, well no need to waste either of our time. Additionally, please be self-reflective enough not to set yourself up for failure by setting an expectation that you can't realistically fulfill long-term — participating in "biological mating rituals" isn't a valid excuse, and engaging in it is going to result in a lack of trust (and subsequent implosion of any possible relationship). 🙄 _ If you cannot appreciate/value what I bring to the table, my intrinsic motivation to please in various capacities, well that's going to be your loss ultimately. My happiness is derived from helping others. _____________ |↓| _____________

I am mostly a soft-domme who is looking forward to exploring more of the femdom life. I am still fairly new to this, but love a good subby boy that I can tease and experiment with.

I'm a 46 yr old curvy, polyamorous, bisexual, demisexual, pansexual babygirl, kitten, submissive, rope kitty (like a rope bunny), little. I am NOT interested in anything long distance or outside of my country. DO NOT WASTE MY TIME! Not interested with anything with ANYONE younger than myself... age range preferences: 40-69. I STILL prefer men/women older than me though. I AM NOT CURRENTLY LOOKING FOR ANYTHING WITH ANYONE RIGHT NOW. MY LIFE IS FULL. I do deal with some mental health issues such as; depression, anxiety, social anxiety, & body dysmorphia. I also have a past of cutting, but i haven't done so since 2010. I have PCOS (diagnosed at 18) & PTFS (potello femoral syndrome. Also known as runners knee) in my right knee (also diagnosed at 18). I have chemical sensitivities to scents. Pls be respectful of that. I am NOT interested in sex with anyone. It's more likely I will NOT have sex with you. I am 100% more sensual than I am sexual. I have to have a deep connection with someone long before sex happens. Don't waste your time if all you want is to fuck someone.

I'm a polyamorous brat who started out on the website to learn more about other brats and find people to discuss techniques with. I'm mature and mischievous, and curiosity may have killed the cat, but I like the ending to that sentence better. I am not a sub, and I'm not looking to change that. I _can_ submit, but I am not submissive by nature. Likewise the other way around. I like the power struggle, especially with an equal, and sometimes, I love to come out on top. I like tying someone up as much as I like being tied up. To me, being a brat is about empowerment, and whether I end up on the bottom or on the top, I'll find that empowerment in what I can do to my partner or in what I can make my partner do. That's why my profile says I'm a switch. Mostly here to meet like-minded people and exchange experiences; I come from a very button-up background when it comes to talking about sex, and curiosity is my fatal flaw. Good conversation is always worth it, but don't expect me to respond to your cheesy or well-used pickup lines. I have a partner; I'm not here to fulfill a need, especially not other people's, so if you're trying to get me to fit into your fantasy, I'll disappoint you. I like to break crowns. If you're confident, charming, mysterious, and interested in a challenge, I'll happily steal yours too.

hiii! i’m kinda just here to meet some people with similar interest and to navigate/explore new things:) my curiosity and want to explore has definitely dragged me here hehe:) bonus points if you can hold a conversation and be engaging hehe otherwise wellll

hey! im 20 and abit new to bdsm, dont have much experience but want to have fun, looking for a fwb or nsa fun. im wanting to explore being tied up or cuffed, impact play also intrests me.

I absolutely despise bios but they are useful to an extent - bit about me that isn’t already on my profile, I adore history and architecture, I’m waiting to go back to school for both and I spent 3 years as a cabinet maker🤗 I’m am looking for a Dom that I can connect with and that can help me stop overthinking. I’ve taken care of myself / others the majority of my life - it would be nice to feel spoiled and taken care of, without feeling guilty. I have no preference in type of dom, my tolerance is quite high for any kind of session but I do have sciatic arthritis in which aftercare is very important and often looks like a butt massage

New here! Looking to have fun and explore. Interested in meeting people and seeing where things go. Open minded, adventurous and outgoing.

Just a girl looking to explore the things she finds exciting with someone she can trust. Looking for someone in-person to meet in the Ottawa Area, online doesn't do it for me. Let's grab a couple drinks to see if we vibe first. If your first or second message is to say some weird sexual shit out of the gate I'm ignoring you or blocking you, that's not my style.

Bet you can't match my freak 👀 Likes: teasing, ropeplay, dirty talk, soft doms, cnc ageplay, watersports, good ol' fashioned taboo roleplay...come find out what else I like caregivers 😚

i’m a little shy at first, and need some time to get to know you before i open up. but, once i do.. i promise the wait will be worth it ❌NOT looking to just hookup. trying to form a true relationship with a dom. i will stop responsing to those who can’t grasp this i’m a little space, and am definitely looking to expand on that portion of myself. i love being told what to do in every aspect of my life.. being controlled completely is my goal (with limitations… i still have my own aspirations☺️)

Ever heard of “Lead me but don’t tell me what to do”? That kind of sums me up. I am drawn to gentleness, patience, respect, safety, confidence, communication and unconditional upholding of boundaries. I am looking for a person who naturally empowers their partner and prioritizes pleasure for all participants in a scene. A gentle dom, if you will. Would love to explore/already enjoy wax play, light ***, bondage, cunnilingus/69, sensory deprivation both giving/receiving, praise and more. Not looking for a relationship, happy to do NSA or FWB. I want to have fun safely so STD testing will be required ;) If you think you’ve got what it takes, may the odds be ever in your favour 😌📲

I’m a switch shy at first but quite talkative if we match energy caregiving energy will take care of my dom willing to meet up for smoke sesh or drink hit me up if you’re wanting some adventures bi unsure of what I want atm

I like to be a punished and am definitely a brat. I’m Into spanking, bondage, I like to be controlled but to fight you all the way on it. I’m into ddlg, bdsm, abdl, and a lot of other stuff. my only limits are no vaginal sex.

bi-curious and looking to play…. hopeful for something drama free…easy, NSA, but longer term to build connection and explore deeper

Hey guys, im Dréa nice to meet you all 💋 Im a experianced Sub/ Brat/Little/Pet, i have been into the Bdsm lifestyle since i was 20.... i gotta say im a little more experienced online then in person, Since for some reason its hard to find like minded people IRL. im also shy, and have anxiety probably the reason why i have not attended munches yet, or play party's or any bdsm kink related event around me. I downloaded this app to find myself again in the kink comuninity and find myself a Dom/Dynamic/Relationship and maybe possibly a sugar Daddy too, If this sounds good to you, Hit me up 😉 Btw: My voice Kink is up there for sure, 🥺🤭 Ps: My inbox gets overwelming, bare with me 😭😭

Im newer to the kink community, looking to learn and have fun I would describe myself as a Soft but torturous domme and Needy sub Harm Reduction and Social work student and nerd I love sending pics and knowing you’re getting off on seeing them

Playful blondie with a wild side and dirty mind, I’ve been told I’m pretty funny, adventurous and full of bad ideas. I like keeping things creative and I’m full of surprise. I spend alot of time laughing with good company and flying under the radar. I’m pretty much the girl you won’t wanna miss out on having a ball with

🗝️ 🗝️ ***Cannot host**** 🗝️ 🗝️ ***I’m disabled, I have a permanent ileostomy*** 🗝️ 🗝️ ***Please be a feminist, socialist, atheist, anti-fascist, anti-zionist and opposed to genocide.*** 🗝️ 🗝️ I love being pleased, worshipped and spoiled. I would like to find a long term partner/FLR who can tolerate my bossy side who is also helpful and doting. I’m affectionate, caring, cuddly and nurturing. I am able to correct and be firm when needed. 🗝️ 🗝️ You are slim and attractive. You like to please. You have an insatiable need to provide oral. In general you like a wide variety of music and are interested in arts and culture. 🗝️ 🗝️ 🗝️

Introvert that wants to be pushed outside of her box. But don't that let that confuse you with me being non-adventerous or inexperienced. I'm not one to easily trust or open up. I love to eat, and I am chronically online. if you get *** references, that's the way to get between my legs. spoil me, engage me, harness me and also let me thrive.

Please read… IG *** 🦌 Fetlife VixinVonKat 🦊 OF *** 🐒 Is sex fun? Yes. Do we all want more of it? Yes. Will it be hot? Of course. But that’s the easy part. So, before you ask, I’ll tell you… 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️I am a newly identifying queer person. with men I’m naturally a sub who loves praise. With women I bring a masculine energy intend to take the lead. I’m creative and patient and enjoy scenarios, role play and sexy dress up. 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 I am attracted to energy. I want to surround myself with caring, genuine people. People who are kind and funny. I want no pressure hangs, and actual friends. Kissing and flirting and butterflies and respected boundaries. Ultimately I’d love to find secure, ongoing connections. If you’ve gotten this far, send me your fav emoji! 🔮🎶🪲💜🖤💚 and please, call me Kat!

Please don't take it to heart if I don't respond. I'm learning in my own ways with boundaries set up. I'm usually online for the forms. If by miracle I do reach out or reply I only entertain one conversation at a time. I'm a Brat through and through. I want to learn as much as possible about this and books and research only go so far. I am married but I've hidden this part of myself thinking that it would just go away. I just need to know if this is just a fantasy rather than a lifestyle and then move accordingly. Any guidance or help from an actual Dom or Brat Tamers would be amazing.

hi! inexperienced and curious I’m a lesbian into dominant women 🥰 need to be put in my place I wanna be treated with love and *** 🥹 certified gooner ima. desperate bitch who needs a mommy to tame her please fuck me please I’m 24 7 horny and need it