Sapiosexual. Sapphic. Intentional. 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️ I’m interested exclusively in experienced Dommes who are leaders in their own lives. Confidence without insecurity. Authority without chaos. Structure backed by self-discipline and emotional maturity. If dominance is a title to you, this won’t work. If it’s a responsibility you already carry, let’s talk.🤌🏽

I’m a Dom drawn to order, authority, and deliberate imbalance. Mid-century domestic aesthetics (house dresses, aprons) paired with negotiated discipline and clear expectations. I explore consensual gender-role and *** fantasies as roleplay only. This is about power, ritual, and control within agreed boundaries… not real-world beliefs. I’m interested in a submissive partner who understands layered dynamics: submissive with me, dominant with women, capable of confidence, discretion, and clear communication. Everyone involved is informed, consenting, and adult. I value patience, vetting, and negotiation. I’m not impulsive. I’m intentional. If you understand the difference between fantasy and reality, and you’re drawn to structured power done thoughtfully, we may align.

I’ve been really getting into chastity play and being my submissive self. Would love to have a dominant woman make fun of my cock while I’m locked up for their pleasure

I'm thomas and I would like to serve and be used by dominant female to satisfy her kinky needs, would love to be her toy and used as requested. If you're genuine female who looking sub toy for use DM me please

Dominant seeking a submissive for consensual BDSM play with communication, negotiation, and aftercare. I’m confident, firm, and focused on building trust and chemistry. Interested in: restraints, discipline, impact, training, protocol (all negotiable). Looking for someone emotionally mature and kink-positive. Message me with your experience, what you’re seeking, and your limits.

I’m new to the scene and really want to explore with someone. I’m more dominant but I think I could easily be submissive for the right person. If you are interested please let me know!

I’m a dominant male from NYC, watching a friend’s cat for a few months while her band tours and I’m looking for kinky people to play with from the Philadelphia area. Respectful of all boundaries and open to expanding mine, but also want to explore the city a bit.

931 I am new to Virginia/DC looking for a female lead relationship. 383 I just go ahead and tell you I have a noticeable southern accent. 9137 I am a virgin.

I'm a Dominant seeking a submissive who is willing and eager to serve and please. I use obedience as a habit tracker and for accountability. I lead with a calm bit swift demeanor. Brats are not my go to partners but I have the head space to tame. I prefer knowledge of the Gorean lifestyle but it is not mandatory.

New to this scene and want to explore my dominant side, looking to learn more and see what's out there, only can't do it alone.

Look for someone to use me like a toy. Tired of being dominant I want to experience being dominated

An ideal playdate for us begins well before we ever meet in person. We value thoughtful pre-date planning with someone who is collaborative, communicative, and respectful. We want to talk through interests, limits, consent frameworks, and logistics together in advance. During planning, we expect mutual input—but once a scene begins, we are looking for someone who is comfortable deferring to me as the dominant partner and final decision-maker. Structure & Energy Clear negotiation beforehand; no assumptions Defined roles, expectations, and boundaries A shared understanding that power exchange is intentional and consensual Comfort engaging with both of us as a couple, not separately During the Scene I take the lead and direct the scene. The ideal partner is someone who: -Is eager to participate within a power structure where I am in control -Is attentive, responsive, and grounded -Can stay present and adaptive while following direction My wife enjoys intense, consensual roleplay centered on submission and captivity themes, which are always negotiated ahead of time. These may include: -Captive or ownership-style dynamics (e.g., caging, collaring, restraint as symbols of control) -Heavy impact play, within agreed limits -Verbal *** and *** that rein***s her femininity (gender-affirming language only; demeaning terms used intentionally and consensually, never dysphoric) -Clear consequences or punishments for disobedience, as discussed in advance Some interests—such as bottom play—require very thorough prior discussion and are never assumed. Care & After Strong attention to aftercare for everyone involved Emotional check-ins and accountability Space to decompress, reconnect, and communicate What Matters Most We are looking for someone who understands that: CNC is a negotiated fantasy, not a license Consent is ongoing and revocable *** is intentional, specific, and affirming—not careless Trust is built through communication, patience, and respect Chemistry matters—but compatibility, emotional intelligence, and respect for our dynamic matter more. Please read our bio before sending me a DM

Looking for Bdsm fun , kinky naughty female sub who like to be dominated to pleasure & pleasure 😈

I want to be tamed by a women i am an obedient pet If u r dominant contact me

Hoping to meet a dominant woman, hopefully between the ages of 18-28, that is willing to have a long term FLR with me, and that her feet and my servitude towards them are at the center of near the center of our relationship

Greetings, I appreciate those patient enough to read my ad fully, as I write this completely sincerely. I sit here in my room, post Christmas celebration with friends and chosen family. I'm sober, not horny, and have a sense of clarity after a deep conversation with a dear friend. I'm 5 years into my transition, 5 years of wild experiences and learning to love every aspect of myself, even the hard to love parts. I'm sick of mulling over and debating the ramifications vs rewards of what I truly want, I have a near-complete understanding of who I am and what I want, and I feel good about taking the next steps into what I want and who I want to be. I crave submission in the aspect of being able to follow someone's instructions and requests to a T. I was recently told, in a completely vanilla snd non-sexual context, to find something nice to wear and show up at an address. It felt natural to follow orders without thinking about it. Partially because I trust the person completely, partially because I find great purpose in serving. So let me serve you. I can cook, clean, create, and run errands. I will learn to please you in all the ways you enjoy, and take notes of what makes you especially happy, whether it be the way you like your coffee or a particular way you like being touched. I'm searching for a Dominant person (or persons if the vibe is right) with a genuine desire for a long-term, subservient submissive. I'm asking that you treat me well, are firm, kind, creative, and stable, and enjoy kink as much as I do. A mentor or guardian role is welcome, but not necessary. I'm not looking for equality here. Kink is something that's becoming more important to me as I consider what I want out of a relationship. I crave the general D/s vibes, but have specifics that I would like to have be aspects of our relationship. These include: Bondage (from tied wrists to full binding suits) Chastity (it simultaneously makes me calmer and hornier) A ruleset and reward//punishment system Clear communication Aftercare for all parties Free Use (within the agreements of the relationship) Uniforms or other clothes/gear marking me in a role Mutual fantasy fulfillment In 2026, I have goals of self-care, self-love, and modifying my body, wardrobe, and lifestyle to match who I am. Help and cheerleading will be more than welcome in my goals, and I hope to give the same to you! If you've gotten this far and are interested, feel free to shoot me a message request. :) Please be open, write with intent, and be clear and sure about what you want and who you are. Thank you for your consideration. 🩷

I'm seeking a Dom who is unafraid of their sexuality, unabashed by who they are and what they desire, and desire deep control over a sub in scene. Once I have a connection with someone, I ADORE it when they tell me when and where to show up, what to bring/wear, and are demanding and commanding in scene. They call the shots, I follow orders, end of story. If that sounds like something you're open to, dm me. I'd love to hear from you!

I am looking for a dominant, well kept, and knowledgeable older male who has a desire to teach their wisdom in the world of kink. I can be shy and my new years goals are to fully come into my body and my senses. Complete exploration of the self. This is not a hook up ad or an offer for a one night stand, I crave a dynamic that gets built through trust and respect. Real, virtuous messages only. Must be queer or at least open to play with individuals who don’t line up with a binary gender performance.

I want to meet an older women who can dominate me, i want a rough fuck

Hi there I’m 6’4 dominant currently living in London. I enjoy reading and teaching girls how to behave. Looking forward to meeting you.

Hi 👋🏻 I’m new here, exploring the app. I’m single, own my own place, and enjoy having emotional connection with my partner. I’m dominant, by default, but am interested in switching, for the right person. Aftercare is important. I’d love to chat and make new connections. Merry Christmas!