Dipping our toes in the water here to see how much enthusiasm there would be for an idea we are playing with.

Hi he, she and theys! and thanks for getting thus far. My name is… let’s call me The Librarian. I’m the happy and well kept male submissive of my Dominant.

My dominant would like to branch out of our relationship into the world of ProDomming, some of which she has tinkered with before. However rather than just hold obscenely pricey hour long sessions where she can just get your bottoms a little stung before a timer dings (which she is frankly bored of!) She has thought of the idea of hosting intimate little weekends away. These would after a time come with a reasonable cost, however we’re going to have a few trial weekends which we would offer at cost (rent, food, toys)

The premise thus far involves a group of a maximum of 6 (Herself, myself, and 4 lucky subs!) holing up in a isolated little cottage somewhere within a reasonable distance of London. We would all follow Her rules, be subject to Her play, and enjoy our kink together.

Although She can be a pretty demanding Boss, the idea is for the weekend to also have elements of luxury and rest - at the end of the day, we’ll all have jobs to get back to bright and early on a Monday morning, and dragging yourself somewhere black and blue with 2 hours sleep across the weekend isn’t beneficial to anyone, no matter how pleased your inner submissive is! Because of this, you’ll be allocated a bed although may share a room, fed good food (my Dominant loves to cook - though we will definitely be washing the dishes and chopping the veggies!), and enjoy themed activities.
Themed activities you ask? My Dominant has quite the imagination and so far she’s thinking Strip-n-spank poker, locals walks to forage your own switch, and is threatening pin-the-clamps-on-the-book-loving-submissive (I’m hoping this is more varied).

My Dominant is set on dipping our toes in the water first with a non-specific weekend away, though in future if there is plenty of interest, we’d look at grouping specific kinks together.

Ideas for a trial weekend from a kink point of view:
Impact play (The Dominants favourite and a non-negotiable! Though levels of severity
potentially are!)
Group play
Bondage
Training to follow basic rules and positions
Gagging
POTENTIAL individual, hands off intimate play. (Being told to make yourself come).

Future ideas (so far):
Schoolhouse weekend
Crossdressing or latex
Beginners weekend
Couples getaway
Pet play
Slaves weekend

You’d be welcome regardless of the kinks you enjoy so long as they’re legal (although obviously we’d only be indulging in the ones Dominant loves!) Our idea is we’d have time to negotiate and talk through likes and dislikes before the weekend, and every decision would be made and stipulated in an individual contract. You would be issued a safe word on arrival and would be ‘free’ to use the word and either walk away, or have a quiet chat with myself as Librarian or Gatekeeper of the place around broken expectations.
Myself being on site was my Dominants idea as quite often it feels overwhelming submitting and expectations not being met. I’m quite funny and a good listener (definitely do not have Dominant standing over me instructing me what to type here!) so you’d have someone on site to discuss scenes or changes you’d like to make and why as a sounding board. Alternatively, don’t talk to me, and live your best, in-the-moment sub life at the feet of the Dominant! Entirely up to you :)

Now a word to the wise - we do not and will not be ignoring safe words to provide unbearable beatings or other play. We’re not interested in breaking up marriages so if you’re in a relationship WITHOUT permission to play, it’s a no from us. Dominant is happy topping all genders and ages, however we’d need you to be in reasonably good physical fitness to join (aka Dominant doesn’t want any heart attacks at the hands of her strap!), and if you’re a couple you must both be either submissive, or switches and submit to Her for the weekend.

If the above sounds like a (good!) dream for you, please do drop us a short intro into our DMs. We’ll keep details of all approved candidates, and once we have gathered enough interest for a trial weekend, we’ll be in touch with the details.

For your intro, Dominant would like:
A good four of five sentences about you - interests and hobbies outside of kink.
Then, a bit about your experience with kink, including details of any relationships or situations you are currently in.
Explain what excites you about our idea, and what makes you most nervous.
A list of your kinks (favourites, ones you’ve tried, ones you haven’t tried, soft limits, hard limits)

Please say hi even if not interested if you have any ideas or feedback (that would make you interested, or even just to help a fellow sub out!)

Thanks for getting this far. Message if interested!

BDSM Play Partner18 to 80 years ● 550km around UK, London one year ago

yes this is long but please read it all I am honestly seeking someone or friendship and play. Super plump male. Been told im handsome though. (Of course it was my mom)Looking for weekly-ish hang. Not interested in intercourse (at first). Looking for real friendship male female or anywhere in between or outside of, who i can also bondage role play and cuddle with. The primary things I'm interested in are being kept as a pet, French maid, d feminization, but if you dominate me which is my preference eventually you could pretty much do what you wanted. I do believe to dominate someone you actually need to have real physical power over them. as a for instance they allow you to bind their hands to start. As this can be a scary and potentially dangerous I would obviously want to start very slowly with just hanging out and casual play. As for my interests. I love horror movies superhero movies I like mystery and drama too. Im massively into horror I guess. I enjoy debating things (who wins predator versus Robocop or could demons really exist and does time actually move) was a comic book fan when I was a kid and some of that had carried over. I love the fantasy world in general. I'm also a huge Bengals fan. I am married but the marriage is open with a don't ask, don't tell, don't get caught policy. As for my kinks I especially enjoy it when someone can pin me on their own and spank to dominate me. I have found there is no bigger turn on than being d to do someone's bidding because you can't stand your ass burning anymore, and you can't stop them either. Of course again for this kind of play even though there's no intercourse you have to be very comfortable with each other. Might eventually lead to some more serious sexual relations down the road. Looking to hang weekly or every 10 days or so I do not have a car, just to warn you. So you would drive. other than that. if you feel like I might be an interesting person to you let's connect, start messaging, and see if things move along. I should also note. while I am ready to explore. I have never done anything sexual with anybody other than a woman, so unless you're a woman you're kind of getting a virgin. One last thing while I have been on top and bottom throughout my life. it's mostly been on top. if I found someone who wanted to own me during our special time together. that might not be so bad, and would eventually come with much more benefits

BDSM Play Partner21 to 70 years ● 150km around USA, Cincinnati one year ago

Similar to pet

A pet is a submissive who enjoys taking on aspects of a domesticated animal. Pets enjoy the freedom of being animal-like. They leave all adult responsibility behind to play like their chosen pet. There are many different levels of pet play. Some pets enjoy dressing up with masks and gloves so that the pet can’t speak or use their hands as humans would. Other’s just like to act like pets without any particular specialist gear. There can be a sexual element to pet play but quite often it is just simply about play and the power dynamic between the Owner and their dearly beloved pet.
An owner enjoys pet play but not by becoming pet-like at all. They are the responsible person who looks after the person playing as a cat, dog, pony or other animal. They are Dominant personalities with a kind, caring side. They take over complete control during pet play. Just as any owner would do with a pet. Owners pair up with pets. They may only ever pick one type of pet, being a dog person or a cat person for example, or they might like the variety of owning different pets. They will perform tasks such as grooming, feeding and putting down water for their pets. They may lock their pet in a cage if it’s appropriate. Dog and Cat Pet play owners will do lots of play and grooming activities with their pets. There may be elements of training, rewarding positive behaviour and punishing bad. An owner may choose to lead their pet around on a lead or have a special collar for them that looks just like that of an animal pet. Pony owners might not focus so much on play. Pony play can come in different forms but will include training the pony to do specific tricks and/or having them pull a carriage of some sort or carry a person on their back. Owners take pride in looking after and showing off their pets. They may own one or more. There is a strong bond between an owner and their pet, but that doesn’t necessarily mean it is a monogamous relationship. There can be a sexual element in an owner and pet’s play but often it is all about the dynamic between the pet and the owner. Owners enjoy taking on the responsibilities so that the pet can lose all human inhibitions and completely become a pet for a period of time.
People who enjoy letting out their inner animal instincts are known as primal. Some primals have a naturally submissive side and so they are known as primal prey. Primal prey enjoy being chased. They won’t necessarily just roll over and let the Dominant have their way though, Prey like to fight back. Prey are primal meaning they enjoy acting on baser instincts. Instead of complying with the rules of polite society they act only on their instincts. Some prey take on specific animal traits. Some become like wolves or foxes. They might be sea creature like or a big cat. They might identify with a gorilla. Other prey take aspects from all different kinds of animals or even just baser human instincts. Although submissive in nature, prey are primal meaning they do a lot of fighting. This is often sexual in nature but can just be about power exchange too. Biting, scratching, hair pulling and all kinds of punching and kicking can be employed by a cornered prey. Primal play has no particular rules and can be very unpredictable. Prey will fight on and on, until they are beaten into submission.

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