Someone unique and up to trying new things. Maybe some experience in lifestyles. Ddlg or parlay :) maybe bdsm

Looking for a lady that is into sexting or just random nasty chats about BDSM or CNC roleplay. I wanna hear your fantasy and tell you mine, I also like reading sex stories out loud and things like that.

Disfruto tomar el control en el juego, especialmente cuando se trata de pies—sí, me apasionan, y me encanta explorar ese placer. Si eres alguien que comparte esa debilidad y disfruta de la dinámica de dominación y sumisión, podemos crear algo increíble juntos.

I'm looking to get into bdsm as a sub I have an idea of what I'd like but haven't had the chance to experience it yet, only available on weekends or Friday nights as I work a lot. I look forward to hearing from you :)

Bdsm

Bdsm style spanking, breast, play okay with being slapped, ***d, gagged, grouped, ***, we can also discuss do’s and don’t if you have a preference and will provide tlc after care and treated with respect after.

Hi, I’m a laidback 51 year old male. I’m new to the scene, but I feel like I’m definitely leaning towards being a submissive. I’m in a sexless marriage, and my wife is very vanilla. For about the last ten years my wife’s libido had been slowly dwindling from, sex once a week, to once a month, now we are to the point of where I’m lucky if we have sex once a year. I love my wife, and I don’t want to leave her but I also want to have that physical intimacy and closeness with another human being. Masturbation is fine for stress release and relieving sexual frustration but I still crave the physical presence and an intimate connection with another person. I love giving someone else the gift of an orgasm. It pleases me to know that I can give someone else that pleasure. Pure and simple. I also would really like to know what it feels like to be pegged. So if you’re into pegging or would also like to try pegging, then that would be an added bonus. I also like going for hikes on trails with my two dogs, I enjoy listening to podcasts and I enjoy having intelligent and interesting conversations. My top ten favourite music artists are: - The Beatles - Rage Against the Machine - Bon Iver - Mumford and Son - Fiest - Chris Stapleton - Ed Sheeran - Simon and Garfunkel - Fatboy Slim - Beastie Boys My favourite artists are: - Salvador Dali - Vincent Van Gogh - and my younger *** Food. I would say I’m an ok cook. I can follow a recipe well enough and on an occasion if I’m feeling especially adventurous and confident, I might even deviate from the recipe a little bit to make it my own. But I love flavourful and spicy foods. Some of my favourite types of foods are Thai, Indian, Mediterranean or Middle Eastern and authentic Mexican. I looking for someone who likes to have a positive outlook on life. Someone who is gentle yet firm. I find all forms of the female body to be incredibly attractive and erotic. If you’re interested in finding out more about me, feel free to reach out to me on Kik @ sean.E.sean == My BDSM Test from Fetish.com == 83% Submissive 43% Dominant == My roles == 83% Slave 43% Master/Mistress 40% Masochist 35% Sadist 28% Pet 25% Caregiver 13% Rigger 13% Rope Bunny 13% Little 0% Degrader 0% Degradee 0% Brat Tamer 0% Brat 0% Hunter 0% Prey 0% Pet Owner https://www.fetish.com/result/eZhwubYk/

Looking for dommes on Long Island to worship and be there slave. Into BDSM, impact play, whipping, strapon play, worshipping, feet play… the list comtinues… I’m very responsive so please reach out as the app doesn’t allow me to message first since I’m not subscribed!

Someone who can ease me into the whole bdsm thing. I know I’m a sub for sure☺️ bit of a brat too.

Anyone looking for a regular?

SUGGESTIONS IF YOU'RE NEW TO THE COMMUNITY: PRIVACY & PERSONAL SAFETY: Many things we do can be used against us. People have Lost Friends, Spouses, Jobs & even Custody of their Kids. In rare cases, people have lost their Freedom & put in Jail simply because they were a bit Kinky. We have made some strides in the “Vanilla World” to become a little more accepted, but Don’t Take Unnecessary Risks! Keep Personal Information Private! Better Safe Than Sorry. Down the road, if you have a 'falling out' with someone, you don't want them to have any private info to use against you. You never know who is listening or what their real intent is. KEEP YOUR PRIVATE MATTERS & INFO TO YOURSELF: ie… your Real Name, Address, Phone #, Employer, Finances, or anything about your Family. (If you do talk on the phone, USE # BLOCKING) Double-check any Accounts You Use & Make Sure Your LAST NAME IS NOT INCLUDED Anywhere, & it can not be traced back to you! NEVER! GIVE ANYONE ACCESS TO YOUR FINANCIAL INFORMATION, Credit Cards, Checks etc!!! NEVER LOAN ANYONE ***!!! EVER!!! USE A SCENE NAME. It could be your middle name, nickname, internet “handle,” or any other name you want to be called. Sometimes, a scene name indicates whether you are Top or bottom, etc.(Sir Noble, Master Savage, or subbie-girl) If you Do use your Real 1st name, NEVER USE YOUR LAST NAME! KEEP ALL YOUR KINK MATTERS SEPARATE FROM YOUR PERSONAL ACCOUNTS ON YOUR COMPUTER BY GETTING A Yahoo, Hotmail, etc. *** Account using that New Scene Name. This will help keep Personal Information Private. START WITH A LOCAL MUNCH!!! What is a Munch? A MUNCH is a Discrete, Informal, Meeting at a Safe Public Place, (usually a restaurant). It is for people who just happen to Share a similar Interest, in BDSM & other Alternate Lifestyles. We get together in a NON-threatening manner & get to know one another. We have a few laughs, discuss whatever topics might come up, & in general, have a good time. It’s a great place to start Meeting people in your local Kinky Community, sharing ideas, & Giving & Get Support from people who Understand! Very Friendly, Very Casual! Most Munches even have a website you can go to, so you can chat & get to know people before you even get there. To find a Munch near you, please tell me what part of Atlanta you live in, and I'll let you know a few munches that might be interesting. Why start there? It’s MUNCH SAFER since it is in Public, and you have Witnesses who actually Understand what’s going on. Usually, people know each other and can tell you who to trust or stay away from. A BDSM Community creates Accountability for the group since anyone who repeatedly Disrespects or Endangers others is Chastised or Shut down. Some Munches have Optional Private "PLAY PARTIES" or "DUNGEONS" afterward. There should be NO PRESSURE TO ACTUALLY PLAY. You can visit with people further, or enjoy watching some of the action. What kind of action? All sorts of kinky things go on. It depends on the Rules of the Dungeon. In Atlanta, the Rumors pop-up dungeon doesn't allow actual intercourse, but the A51 Group pop-up dungeon does allow intercourse. There will probably be lots of kneeling, crawling, pinching, clamping, bondage & spanking. In some cases, there is also probing and pricking, among other things. There are plenty of people around, so Safety shouldn't be so much of an issue. Go slow and get to know a group one person at a time. BEFORE MEETING SOMEONE FOR THE FIRST TIME: LISTEN TO YOUR INSTINCTS! If they seem crazy, they probably are. Think twice! USE COMMON SENSE! Think with your Head, NOT Your Emotions or Libido. Be realistic. Keep your wits about you and AVOID TAKING ANY UNNECESSARY RISKS. GO SLOW! GET TO KNOW THEM! Take lots of TIME to Ask lots of QUESTIONS! Don’t be afraid to ask. If they are unwilling to answer, Beware! Listen for any suspicious answers or excuses. WATCH FOR LACK OF KNOWLEDGE or EXPERIENCE on the subject. If they don’t know much about BDSM, even if they mean well, they MAY ACCIDENTALLY HURT YOU (in a Bad way) because they don’t know any better! Don’t be their guinea pig! Let them learn at a Local Dungeon, Club, or Play Party where they can be Monitored & Mentored. Also, it is a sign that this May Be A WAY OF GETTING YOU ALONE or INTO THEIR BED. There are many creeps online who have figured out that presenting themselves as a Top is a quick, easy doorway to getting a lot of attention from women who are eager to fulfill their fantasies & desires. WATCH FOR LACK OF RESPECT, CARE, or CONCERN! A GOOD TOP TAKES CARE OF HIS “TOYS” & Wants them to be safe! If they seem Not to Respect Your Health, Safety, Comfort, Or Limits, or if they constantly TRY TO PRESSURE, RUSH, or GUILT you (Verbally, Mentally, Or Physically), then STAY AWAY! If they GET ANGRY at your Cautiousness or Questions, too bad! Better to have them angry than you are Battered, Sexually Violated, or Dead! DON’T BE PRESSURED (BULLIED, GUILTED, TRICKED or RUSHED). DON’T FALL FOR EXCUSES, LIES, MANIPULATION, OR B.S.! Predatory Tops/Doms often use these strategies to take advantage of naïve & desperate bottoms/subs. Be Careful of the EGO RESUME’, ie. "I've been doing this for 10 years, so I know what I'm doing". Maybe they have, but older is NOT always wiser! Experience does not excuse them from respecting your need for safety & comfort! Watch out for Guilt & Manipulations such as: “If You Were A TRUE Submissive/Slave, Then You Would Do It.“ There is NO such thing as a TRUE anything! People are not Robots! Everyone is Different! Your Personal Skills, Needs, & Limitations WILL be Different from others. That does NOT make you a lousy sub! Submission is a very special & potentially a DANGEROUS gift to give so freely. Please do NOT Give it away Frivolously! Be very careful who you give it to! It could SAVE your LIFE! ASK FOR REFERENCES! & ACTUALLY CHECK THEM OUT! Some people figure you won’t actually call and give you a fake name or Number as a reference. If they can't give you any references, beware! ACTUALLY MEETING SOMEONE FOR THE FIRST TIME: ON THE FIRST TIME: ALWAYS MEET IN PUBLIC & STAY IN PUBLIC. If possible, meet at a Local Munch, Play Party, BDSM Event or Club. Otherwise, meet in a WELL-POPULATED PUBLIC AREA like a restaurant or coffee shop, and NEVER anywhere Secluded like a park or parking lot. STAY IN PUBLIC. Do Not go anywhere private on the 1st meeting Ever! Meet Publicly Several times until you completely trust them. GO SLOW! You can always do more next time. If there’s no next time, you just saved yourself Headache, Heartache, & maybe your LIFE! Don’t be afraid to call a halt if you are uncomfortable in any way. HAVE HIM COME TO YOUR TERRITORY FIRST! If a male player wants to meet you. Once you get on the plane & you're far from all your resources, you are completely *** to what may happen. That’s Sexist! - Yep! That’s reality! Males are generally bigger, stronger & more aggressive than girls. Play the odds! HAVE A 'SAFE PERSON'. A Safe Person is someone you trust to be reliable in a crisis. It is best if it is a friend from the scene or at least knows about the Lifestyle. If you don’t want to tell someone about your kink, tell them it is a Blind Date from the internet or something. A] GIVE THE SAFE PERSON AS MUCH INFORMATION AS POSSIBLE: at least His Name, Address & Phone Number – VERIFY IT by directly reading it off his driver’s license BEFORE leaving the safety of a public place. Then add CAR TAGS, descriptions, etc. Verify the address when you get there. B] HAVE A SAFE CALL. Tell the safe person that you will call them at regular intervals & when you are safely home. If they do not receive the call, have them call you or even drop in wherever you meet. Make it clear to your friend that if you do not call & do not answer when they call, you Really Want Them To CALL THE POLICE IMMEDIATELY & explain that you asked them to do so. If there is some mistake, the police will no doubt give you a hard time, but it is much better than the alternative of not getting help. Always have a safe call, even if you are meeting this person locally. If they tell you you don't need one, then RUN! ... because they have something more up their sleeve. C] HAVE A pre-determined SECRET WORD or Phrase that Signals that they need to Call The Police! Pick something Common that you won’t say accidentally. Such as mentioning going shopping at a particular store the next day or feeding a dog when they know you don’t have one. Maybe you think this is overkill, & you won’t need it. However, simply having it in place is a great deterrent, & it gives you the confidence to deal with things if difficulty arises. After all, what kind of idiot would try anything non-consensual if you warn them a friend will pass their details to the police if you have not heard from them soon? D] Also, HAVE A PRE-EXISTING EXCUSE TO LEAVE if you do not get along. Tell the new prospect at the beginning of the evening that you have to visit a relative later or check in on a friend. If things are going wonderfully, you can always appear to make a quick phone call to cancel. DO NOT PLAY OR GO ANYWHERE PRIVATE THE FIRST TIME!! If it's your first meeting TAKE IT SLOW. You can always do more next time, You Can NEVER GO BACK & DO LESS! BEFORE PLAYING WITH SOMEONE FOR THE FIRST TIME: 1) KNOW & SHARE YOUR DESIRES & FANTASIES WITH YOUR LIMITS, CONCERNS & HEALTH ISSUES! TOPS ARE NOT MIND-READERS! Do not fall for the myth “If they are a true Top, then they’ll just Know what to do!” Every person is different! What may make one girl Melt? It may send you to therapy! 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'Do they ever play non-sexually?' If they WANT *** or FINANCIAL INFORMATION. RUN! NEVER, EVER, Give Anyone Access To Your Financial Info, Credit Cards, Checks etc!!! NEVER LOAN ANYONE ***!!! EVER!!! If your potential partner SAYS ANY OF THE FOLLOWING, RUN!: • “IF YOU WERE A TRUE SUBMISSIVE/SLAVE THEN YOU WOULD DO THIS. “ • “DON’T EVER QUESTION ME! I've been doing this for 10 years. I know what I'm doing, “ • “I DON'T WANT YOU TO TALK TO ANYONE ELSE ABOUT ME. You Have NO RIGHT TO ASK OTHER PEOPLE ABOUT ME“ • “IF I find out YOU TALKED TO OTHERS ABOUT ME, I'LL NEVER have anything to do WITH YOU AGAIN “ • “You Should ONLY TRUST WHAT I TELL YOU & NOT LISTEN TO ANYONE ELSE. EVERYTHING OTHER PEOPLE SAID ABOUT ME IS A LIE” • “YES, WHAT THEY TOLD YOU WAS TRUE, BUT I AM A DIFFERENT PERSON NOW “ • If there's a PICTURE OF THEIR GENITALS, BUT NOT THEIR FACE in their profile. This was diligently compiled & lovingly plagiarized by Sting-ATL from every source I could find.

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