I'm FUN, safe (D&D and drama-free), sane, and discreet, and I have 30+ years of experience in BDSM and D/s. I'm a 59-year-old male, a Dominant male, 5-9, and in shape mentally, physically, and spiritually. I'm a suit-wearing business professional who understands both the mental and physical aspects of both D/s and BDSM dynamics to his core and can provide you with what you may seek, what you may want, and what you may desire.

What I seek is connected, chemistry-filled, enduring, ongoing, and trust-based real-time exploration. Nothing beats real exploration and time together face-to-face.

What I crave, what I ultimately aspire to enjoy with you, is for us to feel that spark, that connection. Where control is taken and gladly ceded, where we can touch our spirit, our minds, and our bodies. Those connections that are felt with chemistry, connection, and time develop trust. I love doing those things, whether in vanilla or a BDSM context, that exercises the body, mind, and spirit.

I would sum myself up as a Dominant mentor and teacher who brings a deeper awareness of the very connected mental, physical, and spiritual context for D/s and BDSM to capture your mind, your spirit, and your body.

Regarding specific elements of the D/s dynamic, I adore, yes, love and even crave the tactile nature, the sensory feel, and the amazing mental/spiritual dynamic that only a connected D/s relationship can bring to the heart and soul.

If my words resonate with you, I look forward to hearing from you. I would enjoy learning what interests you about this dynamic, your experiences with it, what you wish to explore, and what else you would like to know about me. I look forward to exploring all this can and should be together.

BDSM Play Partner20 to 50 years ● 100km around USA, Mason Neck one week ago

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