Hi there, thanks for reading my ad.
The title already says a lot. The primary things I'm looking for are:
A smart ass who likes discussing ideas as much as I do and
A Godess who complements my desire for worship.

For the first point:

I'm a huge nerd (1,91m to be exact) who gets a lot of energy from exploring ideas. I have a wide range of interests, ranging from philosophy to science to plans for world domination. I occasionally stumble across women with a similar mindset, but I haven't had the luck of dating one long-term yet. It would be great if I could meet someone with a strong sense of curiosity for dating, friendship, or networking through this ad.

For the second point:
After doing a bit of soul-searching in the BDSM scene, I feel like the label "worshipper" resonates most with what I desire. Basically, I want to spoil you and make you comfortable while you act like a sadistic diva.

I suppose my username already betrays my main kink. I've had a major facesitting fetish for as long as I remember. I came to Fetish.com to meet a girl with the same kink. From what I've seen on this website, there's a pretty major oversupply for guys like me. I would like to address the main complaints I've been reading about.

1: I'm not just here to "scratch my itch". I've already had my first experiences with my kink, and I don't see you as a kink-dispenser. I'd love to focus on your kinks as well as my own.
2: While I'm new, I'm no coward. It sounds like many men on here are just living their fantasies online. If we are compatible, I intend to meet in real life. I've already done so before.
"Stupid risks make life worth living."
3: I don't mind taking it slow. You set the pace for how quickly you want to move the conversation towards the sexual/kinky. I'll respect your boundaries.

For the unsaid points

As for the rest of my kinky mind, I'm open to trying a lot. I'd like to put my potential play partner's wishes above my own, so it's hard to define exactly what else I want. This may be a bit vague, but I consider myself very flexible, as few things are set in stone for me. I do have some limits, which are listed in my bio. Feel free to ask me for a more detailed account.

Do you recognize yourself in either point? Please get in touch, and let's see where things go.
Do you recognize yourself in both points? Please spit out whatever you were drinking, drop everything you're doing, and send me a frenzied DM as soon as possible ;-)

I'm able to host.
Ook beschikbaar in Nederlands.
FL account: RelaxedDevotion

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