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Arousal from BDSM vs normal sex

Cornywall posted a topic in New to BDSM, Kink & Fetish?

The only type of porn that's ever interested me has been BDSM & related. I never really found vanilla/"straightforward" porn intriguing, but usually get great arousal from BDSM content. I should ...

Yesterday at 06:51 PM
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BDSM changed me more than I expected.

MutaGioia posted a topic in BDSM Stories & Kinky Sex Confessions

Four years ago I met my Master online. At first, I thought I was exploring BDSM. Later, I realized I was exploring myself. These four years changed me more than I could have imagined. I discovered ...

Yesterday at 12:26 PM
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My Journey into BDSM

MutaGioia posted a topic in BDSM Stories & Kinky Sex Confessions

I'm still discovering myself in BDSM relationships. I only realized about a year ago that this is something I truly enjoy, and that happened only after my Master and I had been apart for a year. He ...

Yesterday at 02:33 PM
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Brat

A brat is a submissive who tries very hard to be good but their mischievous nature means they often don’t quite hit the mark. Brats are often naughty but in a playful way. They’re not trying to rebel, they just enjoy encouraging their Dom to take them in hand. Brats like having rules but mostly so they can be broken. They don’t seek out serious and strict Doms because in their heart of hearts they know they’ll never be totally tamed. They’re cheeky and mischievous and love to wind up their top. They are submissive with a fiery core. They try really hard to be good but sometimes being naughty is its own reward. Being naughty gives the brat meaning, it is very much the heart of their dynamic. They will take every opportunity to play up, giving their Dom a challenge and providing extra excitement for themselves. They never know how a top will react to their acts of brattishness, also known as bratting, so they’re kept on their toes. Brats are joyful in all they do, loving their Doms and showing respect but always with the odd moment of naughtiness because that’s what they enjoy the most.

Experimentalist

Experimentalists are really eager to try out new things. They are incredibly curious and ask lots and lots of questions. They want to find out all they can about all kinds of kinks and fetishes before having a go themselves. They're always up for trying something different and are going to be interested in what you want to do, as their curiosity and openness mean they’re very rarely judgemental. New ideas are what keep the experimentalist happy. Reading about things and asking questions about certain scenes or activities is where most experimentalists start but once they have a grip on an idea they want to give it a go themselves. It’s very important for an experimentalist to get all the safety information before jumping into trying out an activity themselves. Their eagerness can lead them into dangerous situations for experimentalists need to be reined in sometimes for their own safety.

Switch

Switch is the BDSM term for someone who isn’t always just Dominant or only submissive, they are a combination of the two. They enjoy being the top in a scene sometimes but are equally as comfortable being the bottom at other times. They have a real desire for both but may be more Dominant or more submissive. Switches don’t tend to have a 50/50 split Dom or sub. .embed-container { position: relative; padding-bottom: 56.25%; height: 0; overflow: hidden; max-width: 100%; } .embed-container iframe, .embed-container object, .embed-container embed { position: absolute; top: 0; left: 0; width: 100%; height: 100%; }