Are you a strong, mature, and masculine men who dreams of submitting to the power of a confident woman?

I’m a mature, self-aware Dominant woman who values depth, presence, honesty, emotional intelligence. I seek a deep emotional, intellectual, and physical connection with my man. Not interested in surface-level play or fantasy-only dynamics.
For me, D/s is an emotional practice: clarity, honesty, and willingness to grow. My style is calm, grounded dominance, not theatrics. I'm very warm and loving, but strict.
You'll feel my control in your body, in your mind, in the way you start structuring your day around pleasing me. That's not discipline, that's devotion.

I'm not looking for a boy to play with — I'm looking for a man who knows the joy of serving a woman, not because he is weak, but because he is strong and aware. The best suitable men's age for me is 35-45.
I love order, attention to detail, a taste for rituals, and the ability to anticipate without words.
If the word “service” sounds like art to you, maybe we should talk.

I'm a Counsellor. I understand power dynamics deeply, both professionally and personally. In my private life, I'm looking for a man for a long-term D/s relationship. I lead a healthy lifestyle, like art, theatre, and live music.

If this resonates, write to me. I'd like to know:
– Who are you?
– What do you do?
– Where you live and what your life looks like
– What pulls you toward submission
– What you're looking for in a D/s relationship
– How you imagine serving, and what you hope to receive in return

If you're that man, don't wait. Thoughtful answers matter more than fast ones.
I choose carefully, but when I choose, I invest deeply.

BDSM Play Partner31 to 47 years ● 50km around UK London

I am a compassionate and experienced individual looking for a sweet, respectful little to cherish and guide. My style is centered on creating a safe and loving space where you can feel free to be yourself, knowing you are protected and adored.

I offer firm guidance and gentle correction, finding immense joy in helping my partner grow and thrive. My days are filled with purpose, but my evenings are quiet, and I'd love to share them with someone special.

What I offer:
Plenty of fun activities, from coloring and board games to theme park trips.
Patience and understanding, even on grumpy days.
Lots of praise, and a hand to hold.
Plenty of time for cuddles and stories before bed.
Structure and routines to help you with self-care and daily habits.
Praise, encouragement, and a safe space to be completely yourself.

Seeking a partner who is:
Honest and communicative.
Eager to please and be a good partner.
Someone who appreciates quiet evenings and quality time.
Emotionally available for a genuine and lasting connection.
Playful, kind, and lighthearted.

About me (the vanilla): When I'm not in my playful role, I'm a huge fan of board games. I enjoy exploring new restaurants and have a soft spot for animated movies. I'm an avid home cook, On weekends, I love to spend time in nature, whether it's hiking a trail or simply sitting by the lake with a good book. I believe laughter is the best medicine and would love to share a life full of giggles and fun with my special companion.
If you're a companion looking for a partner with a big heart and an even bigger sense of humor, let's chat!

BDSM/Fetish Family18 to 46 years ● 10km around UK Erewash

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