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Pretty nervous about this but just looking for a fun girl who likes mild Abdl/mommy/diaper play. I’m a pretty solid guy and have always had women in my life, and a few in the past were into this and introduced me to it.

I’m pretty self deprecating, easy to talk to and enjoy some banter. I was raised right and treat women with respect. I think I’m decently good looking, I’m 6 foot and have blue eyes with light brown hair.

Hey there! Obviously the title is serious, but that is because I want to be clear with my intentions: to never have to post again. That said, I'm not expecting to jump into anything right away but to simply start out chatting and see if we match and there is a connection yada yada. With that cleared up…

Here's me:

I'm a 26 yo Norwegian with lots of love but sadly no-one to give it to (yet). Physically I’m a 6’3" (190 cm) tall, pale, blue-eyed blonde with fairly regular looks. Personality-wise I’m soft, patient, loyal and supporting. I am a Christian and the faith is important to me, but I also lean very much submissive and find myself craving a dominant partner. As such, I’m looking for someone who likes me values both. I know it’s a rare combination, but being an outlier I guess I'm simply just looking for another?

One other thing is, I'm looking for someone who (like me) doesn't drink or do . It's just something I've never been a fan of or been comfortable with. I’m looking for monogamous and long term obviously. This is important to me.

I'm a person who connects with few, but connects deep with those I do. Stable, loyal, honest, in offer of support and I’ll happily hear your rants. I’m extremely loving and caring to those close to me although I do take a while to open up. However I will tell you my actual thoughts on your dress.

I'm the blushy, cute, and cuddly nerdy type… with a dark edge. I have a pretty chill approach to life. I’d describe myself as a quirky introvert, slightly nerdy and into books, board games, puzzles, video games, fantasy and so on. I'm also down for outdoors and playing sports, and like to be active every now and then and play disc golf amongst others. I like to joke, both innocently and more edgy, and it's simply part of the package with me. A note is that with the exception of the gender roles, I do have fairly traditional Christian beliefs.

Our Relationship:

While sharing common values and interests never hurt the most important thing is that we get along. It'd be great if you also have a dominant streak, so bonus points if you like to take a little charge. And if you love cuddles (I'm fan of the sappy stuff, too). I’d describe my ideal Domme as a Mommydomme with a mean streak, but find that kink comes second, and that roles will develop naturally based on how we get along and how we compliment each other. My dream is for you to be fine with and even encourage my softer traits and allow me to be my warm, supportive, clumsy and cuddly, little softie self, rather than an alpha-type handyman. And for you to perhaps be more of the decisive type? Kink-wise Im into a wide array of things from pet play, edging and to heavier ones and very open minded in terms of exploring new things. I also really enjoy the psychological aspect of Femdom and playing around with that.

I'm happy to verify by exchanging pictures once you get in touch and hopefully you are too. Bonus if you send one in your initial message. Even though chemistry is a big part there is no denying that physical attraction still is a factor!

Health:

I didn't initially include this in my post as I feel an obligation to include it so as to not lead someone on falsely.

I’ve been living with Conversion Disorder since I was 18. Briefly explained: my nervous system is a little off, and occasionally has physical reactions from stress and mental strain. This means I lead a semi-calm lifestyle. I still have light symptoms, but they are much rarer and milder than they used to be. I am soft, but I am strong mentally.

I own my own home and I am doing okay financially. I’m completing my master’s degree to achieve my goal of becoming a part-time teacher. My health may prevent me from working full-time, but I will most likely be able to have a part-time job with partial Disability support. I am ready to be your partner and start a family.

Our Future:

I'm currently bound by my nation's borders for another year or two. Although I would highly prefer settling here, I want to make you happy, and so I am open to consider most English-speaking countries (especially the US) in the future should we find each other. As for visiting, we have way more flexibility, and I'm more than happy to make a trip (or more) to meet up as I am rather serious about this.

Anyway, if you've made it this far and you think we could hit it off, be sure to send me a message. I would love it if you also added a paragraph or two about yourself so I can learn about you.

Can't wait to get to know you!

Remember I don't bite, I cuddle. DC dragedreperen

There’s a code blue happening right now where I live. So we gotta group up to stay warm. Am I right? 😉

My Ideal Person: You are a submissive female with an ardent desire to please. You have a bit of masochist in your nature as well and you find joy in serving. You are at peace with yourself and your sexuality.

Every day, you may be a mother, wife, daughter, career girl, student, boss, white-collar exec, blue-collar drone, waitress, butcher, baker, or candlestick maker…. etc. You are emotionally stable, dependable, honest, patient, loyal, considerate, open-minded, supportive, loving, and affectionate, fun-loving, and have a good sense of humor. (You are not a hater, nor are you bitter or negative)

As the titles says I'm looking to build a harem and I'm looking for my partner at the top to help manage and run the harem. The harem will be setup with Me at the top as the Master, you below me as my slave and partly below my wife but also the above the rest of the subs, 2-4 female slaves, and a Sissy slave. There's no judgement here so whatever your kinks please feel free to share.

We will start online but eventually I'd want you to move to be with me. My time frame for you moving would be in 3-6 months, that's after intense conversation and getting to know each other. We would meet in person before that time comes in a neutral location.


What I am looking for in harem unicorns:
An attractive female under the age of 28, white, weight between 110-145lbs depending on height, into my kinks and more, near limitless, masochistic, into ad , able and willing to love everyone in the family, sadistic in all of the right ways, hucow kink is a plus but not required, doesn't want kids for a long time or at all (I have had a vasectomy), can be consistent in their communications with me.

There is already the female slave in the harem already, that is my wife. She is a Mistress in training but that would be the future. She has some special rules she will follow. She will be under me but above you. You would become wives eventually, when you've shown dedication, I expect you to become her best friend and confidant.


My kinks are:
, Degredation, Watersports, hitting, slapping, punching, beastiality hentai, bdsm with ropes and chains, wax play, pet play, cock worship, bimbofication, feminization, ass eating, gooning. I have more kinks but these are the top.

I am 28 6'3" and 190 pounds, I've got a slim, athletic build. I have brown hair and blue eyes, a goatee and some stubble. I'm white with semi pale skin.

Here's the hierarchal structure that I imagine.

Master

Mistress

Switch

Sissy, female slave, female slave

If you've read to here good girl. Send me your kinks, limits and a short description of you when you message

Fun exciting and daring

Hey, Im just a blue collar dude that like a lil bit of everything. Love to please, respectful and clean. I like to meet quickly to see if the vibe is right, it’s not a hook up thing. Questions? just ask.

Single 43 male trying something new and different 56 blonde hair blue eyes looking for couples and women just willing to try anything first time here

Hello I've never tried cybersex and looking for either a female age between19-45 or couples between 19-45 yrs old. I am a single 48 yr old clean straight open minded kinda a guy, i am slim but fit, ice blue eyes and hava a 9inch 3 finger wide dick and I'm always looking for something new in the world of kinkiness....if this interests anyone and are wanting to take my cybersex virginity from me please feel free to message me and we can see where it goes from there!!

Hello Male Master Here Nice to Meet You

Females Only

Name:John

Age: 21

Height: 6f2

Location: Uk

Body Type: Muscular

Eye Colour: Blue Eyes

Looking For a Longterm Girl to be My Pet Or Sub and Submit to Me

About Me: Male GymRat that likes to workout 5 to 6 days a week Love to Humilate and Make Women Submit to Me

Snapchat: gmcd200324

Discord: masterjohn2002

My fetishes

Domination

Petplay

Humilation

Tease and denial

Bondage

Anal

Spanking

Nipple

Pussy

Praise

I know one of your blue collar men could use a body rub with a fun ending. Come to me for all your tension relieving needs 🥰

Bold me

I am a openly passionate Sagittarian, heteroflexible, certainly not perfect, a tiger, sense of humour, love spontaneity, am adventurous, sensualist, lover power play, kinks, fetishes, am arty, creative and a writer .. seeking a special wildflower ..

Seeking friendship from a goddess, princess, or a non binary soul who likes masterly slut play with a genuine gentleman dom daddy. I love inflicting and the feel of sensual and power impact play, ropes, bondage, pegs, wax, spankers, paddles, orgasms and whips sensually striking the body in impact play. Are you ??

Enjoy crossdressing, voyeurism, exhibitionist, switching, subplay
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I have a small toy and bondage play studio in my home to make fetish play more exciting, relaxed, open and creative,, also massage table for making a body talk.

I’m missing that joy of having a bold intimate friend or passionate fun partner, they be an open thinker who loves big bear hugs, kissing, massage, experimenting with fantasies and the joys of sensual touch.

Learning and practising Tantric attitude, awake inner lover, ecstasy, enhancing intimacy, bliss, spontaneity, high sex, pleasure and self pleasure, love my toy studio, so will you??

Vanilla me

Love my vanilla time, retro shirts, words, movies, music, cafes, streaming platforms, walking, country drives, writing a book, secondhand and retro junk stores and my sporty car.

Favourite music ... ALL music - early Tamla Motown, soul & R & B from the late 60's & 70's, American & English pop rock, heavy metal and specially blues bands, deep southern rock & soul.

Hello.
Kinky guy, looking for more than just kink.
Looking for a relationship.
Very active.

Looking for adventure! I’m approaching half a century but am still fit and funny and fairly confident in my looks and ability. I’m 6ft tall 190 pounds with blonde/ white hair blue eyes and ginger pubes (weird I know). I’m new to actual kinks but in my head I’ve done everything taboo, illegal and everything in between. My reality is quite vanilla though so I would like to explore my kinks. Women, couples only. Any age. Must be in the Midwest!

I have blue eyes an blonde hair Im 5'7 average build an would like to talk to New people

I'm looking for a woman who has a level of appreciation for a man who is extremely ORALLY giving and having her to reach her pleasures is his aphrodisiac and is better for him than any pill blue or any other them.

I need some BLUEGRASA AMAZING DOMESTIC *** PUSSY. I WANT TO FUCK AMAZING SEXY LADIES, HELP A BROTHER OUT

Me: Tall (6’2”), Blonde, Blue eyes, Athletic/Body builder build, XL hands, and I’m packing in my pants (9in)

Im into primal, domination, orgasms (multiple, multiple, multiple, cum until the sun comes up), and all sorts of other fetishes/kinks

You: A Canadian slut who wants their every sexual desire and craving fulfilled with All Of Me

Dipping our toes in the water here to see how much enthusiasm there would be for an idea we are playing with.

Hi he, she and theys! and thanks for getting thus far. My name is… let’s call me The Librarian. I’m the happy and well kept male submissive of my Dominant.

My dominant would like to branch out of our relationship into the world of ProDomming, some of which she has tinkered with before. However rather than just hold obscenely pricey hour long sessions where she can just get your bottoms a little stung before a timer dings (which she is frankly bored of!) She has thought of the idea of hosting intimate little weekends away. These would after a time come with a reasonable cost, however we’re going to have a few trial weekends which we would offer at cost (rent, food, toys)

The premise thus far involves a group of a maximum of 6 (Herself, myself, and 4 lucky subs!) holing up in a isolated little cottage somewhere within a reasonable distance of London. We would all follow Her rules, be subject to Her play, and enjoy our kink together.

Although She can be a pretty demanding Boss, the idea is for the weekend to also have elements of luxury and rest - at the end of the day, we’ll all have jobs to get back to bright and early on a Monday morning, and dragging yourself somewhere black and blue with 2 hours sleep across the weekend isn’t beneficial to anyone, no matter how pleased your inner submissive is! Because of this, you’ll be allocated a bed although may share a room, fed good food (my Dominant loves to cook - though we will definitely be washing the dishes and chopping the veggies!), and enjoy themed activities.
Themed activities you ask? My Dominant has quite the imagination and so far she’s thinking Strip-n-spank poker, locals walks to forage your own switch, and is threatening pin-the-clamps-on-the-book-loving-submissive (I’m hoping this is more varied).

My Dominant is set on dipping our toes in the water first with a non-specific weekend away, though in future if there is plenty of interest, we’d look at grouping specific kinks together.

Ideas for a trial weekend from a kink point of view:
Impact play (The Dominants favourite and a non-negotiable! Though levels of severity
potentially are!)
Group play
Bondage
Training to follow basic rules and positions
Gagging
POTENTIAL individual, hands off intimate play. (Being told to make yourself come).

Future ideas (so far):
Schoolhouse weekend
Crossdressing or latex
Beginners weekend
Couples getaway
Pet play
Slaves weekend

You’d be welcome regardless of the kinks you enjoy so long as they’re legal (although obviously we’d only be indulging in the ones Dominant loves!) Our idea is we’d have time to negotiate and talk through likes and dislikes before the weekend, and every decision would be made and stipulated in an individual contract. You would be issued a safe word on arrival and would be ‘free’ to use the word and either walk away, or have a quiet chat with myself as Librarian or Gatekeeper of the place around broken expectations.
Myself being on site was my Dominants idea as quite often it feels overwhelming submitting and expectations not being met. I’m quite funny and a good listener (definitely do not have Dominant standing over me instructing me what to type here!) so you’d have someone on site to discuss scenes or changes you’d like to make and why as a sounding board. Alternatively, don’t talk to me, and live your best, in-the-moment sub life at the feet of the Dominant! Entirely up to you

Now a word to the wise - we do not and will not be ignoring safe words to provide unbearable beatings or other play. We’re not interested in breaking up marriages so if you’re in a relationship WITHOUT permission to play, it’s a no from us. Dominant is happy topping all genders and ages, however we’d need you to be in reasonably good physical fitness to join (aka Dominant doesn’t want any heart attacks at the hands of her strap!), and if you’re a couple you must both be either submissive, or switches and submit to Her for the weekend.

If the above sounds like a (good!) dream for you, please do drop us a short intro into our DMs. We’ll keep details of all approved candidates, and once we have gathered enough interest for a trial weekend, we’ll be in touch with the details.

For your intro, Dominant would like:
A good four of five sentences about you - interests and hobbies outside of kink.
Then, a bit about your experience with kink, including details of any relationships or situations you are currently in.
Explain what excites you about our idea, and what makes you most nervous.
A list of your kinks (favourites, ones you’ve tried, ones you haven’t tried, soft limits, hard limits)

Please say hi even if not interested if you have any ideas or feedback (that would make you interested, or even just to help a fellow sub out!)

Thanks for getting this far. Message if interested!