Dipping our toes in the water here to see how much enthusiasm there would be for an idea we are playing with.

Hi he, she and theys! and thanks for getting thus far. My name is… let’s call me The Librarian. I’m the happy and well kept male submissive of my Dominant.

My dominant would like to branch out of our relationship into the world of ProDomming, some of which she has tinkered with before. However rather than just hold obscenely pricey hour long sessions where she can just get your bottoms a little stung before a timer dings (which she is frankly bored of!) She has thought of the idea of hosting intimate little weekends away. These would after a time come with a reasonable cost, however we’re going to have a few trial weekends which we would offer at cost (rent, food, toys)

The premise thus far involves a group of a maximum of 6 (Herself, myself, and 4 lucky subs!) holing up in a isolated little cottage somewhere within a reasonable distance of London. We would all follow Her rules, be subject to Her play, and enjoy our kink together.

Although She can be a pretty demanding Boss, the idea is for the weekend to also have elements of luxury and rest - at the end of the day, we’ll all have jobs to get back to bright and early on a Monday morning, and dragging yourself somewhere black and blue with 2 hours sleep across the weekend isn’t beneficial to anyone, no matter how pleased your inner submissive is! Because of this, you’ll be allocated a bed although may share a room, fed good food (my Dominant loves to cook - though we will definitely be washing the dishes and chopping the veggies!), and enjoy themed activities.
Themed activities you ask? My Dominant has quite the imagination and so far she’s thinking Strip-n-spank poker, locals walks to forage your own switch, and is threatening pin-the-clamps-on-the-book-loving-submissive (I’m hoping this is more varied).

My Dominant is set on dipping our toes in the water first with a non-specific weekend away, though in future if there is plenty of interest, we’d look at grouping specific kinks together.

Ideas for a trial weekend from a kink point of view:
Impact play (The Dominants favourite and a non-negotiable! Though levels of severity
potentially are!)
Group play
Bondage
Training to follow basic rules and positions
Gagging
POTENTIAL individual, hands off intimate play. (Being told to make yourself come).

Future ideas (so far):
Schoolhouse weekend
Crossdressing or latex
Beginners weekend
Couples getaway
Pet play
Slaves weekend

You’d be welcome regardless of the kinks you enjoy so long as they’re legal (although obviously we’d only be indulging in the ones Dominant loves!) Our idea is we’d have time to negotiate and talk through likes and dislikes before the weekend, and every decision would be made and stipulated in an individual contract. You would be issued a safe word on arrival and would be ‘free’ to use the word and either walk away, or have a quiet chat with myself as Librarian or Gatekeeper of the place around broken expectations.
Myself being on site was my Dominants idea as quite often it feels overwhelming submitting and expectations not being met. I’m quite funny and a good listener (definitely do not have Dominant standing over me instructing me what to type here!) so you’d have someone on site to discuss scenes or changes you’d like to make and why as a sounding board. Alternatively, don’t talk to me, and live your best, in-the-moment sub life at the feet of the Dominant! Entirely up to you :)

Now a word to the wise - we do not and will not be ignoring safe words to provide unbearable beatings or other play. We’re not interested in breaking up marriages so if you’re in a relationship WITHOUT permission to play, it’s a no from us. Dominant is happy topping all genders and ages, however we’d need you to be in reasonably good physical fitness to join (aka Dominant doesn’t want any heart attacks at the hands of her strap!), and if you’re a couple you must both be either submissive, or switches and submit to Her for the weekend.

If the above sounds like a (good!) dream for you, please do drop us a short intro into our DMs. We’ll keep details of all approved candidates, and once we have gathered enough interest for a trial weekend, we’ll be in touch with the details.

For your intro, Dominant would like:
A good four of five sentences about you - interests and hobbies outside of kink.
Then, a bit about your experience with kink, including details of any relationships or situations you are currently in.
Explain what excites you about our idea, and what makes you most nervous.
A list of your kinks (favourites, ones you’ve tried, ones you haven’t tried, soft limits, hard limits)

Please say hi even if not interested if you have any ideas or feedback (that would make you interested, or even just to help a fellow sub out!)

Thanks for getting this far. Message if interested!

BDSM Play Partner18 to 80 years ● 550km around UK, London one year ago

I am seeking a female friend of kinky tendencies to help me explore the dominant and submissive sides of myself and have some fun doing it. There are many things that I wish to try from latex to caged/equipment fun and even general experimenting. The perks of a friendly relationship here is we could just as easily while away the time eating pizza and watching a movie before retiring to the bedroom for kinky fun.

A little bit about me

I'm 22 years old with a tall average frame, neither chubby nor thin, short curly brown hair and blue eyes. I have a lot of interests from movies to books and many a nerdy exploit and other cultural commodities, I'm currently attending university full time in London and am looking for a friend to have some semi-regular fun.

I live with family who are unaware of my intersts on here, I keep all communication through the site, Kim or via a dummy email, the majority of the clothes, toys and accommodation the partner would have to provide. As much as I would like to spend my days walking around my house in nothing but leather and lace living with family makes that kind of hard.

kinks

Kinks and Fetishes include: Crossdressing, Feminization/Sissyfication, Roleplay, latex, long flowing and constrictive clothing, body worship, Domination/submission, light punishment, , chastity, toys, bondage, sensory dep and watersports.

limits

Limits are within the usual suspects, Scat,
, anything illegal, extreme and the like, but also anything to do with public displays or , I highly value my privacy and would like to keep this on the down low with maximum discrssion.

Sexual Expiriances

Minimal

BDSM Play Partner21 to 45 years ● 10km around UK, London 2 years ago

I love wearing warn panties and leotards of my lover, and the fact thsat I'm a larger guy only helps things, the tighter the better ;)

at the moment, my perfect ide of a date would be as follows:

'I have this nice little tight light blue thonged leotard, never worn. just sitting in my draw waiting to be slipped on some beautiful, curvacious ladies body. It would be so sexy with just a short, black skirt and a nice body huging white top, something simple but sexy and elegent.

For our date, we go out for lunch, get to know each other have a chat and a giggle, lunch is light but tasty. Afterward we start of to explore london, and it's many hidden nooks and crannies ;)
whilst wandering around the many back streets we find a little secluded alleyway, an idea pops into our mind's, we make eye contact with a little glint, we're on the same page. We both dart down the alley way, I press you against the wall, we embace, we kiss, our hearts race. As we heat up, i start to feel you body, caress your body. I put my hand on your thigh and stroke up, going up your skirt, I grab your purt butt cheek, hope no one sees us. Then my hand makes it's way to your sweet vagina, I start rubbing through the leotard and you are getting wet, and moaning. as you get into it, I move the the leotard to one side and get my fingers inside you and play with you. we keep kissing, I find your clitoris, you go slightly weak at the knees. I speed up, you enjoy me, the risk thrills you, your breathing speeds up, my other hand is feeling your breasts, i'm all over you. the closeness the danger and the speed brings you to climax. I hold you breifly while you recover. we re-arrange ourselves, makesure the cost is clear and get on our way.

we then get to our next point of interest. We grab ourselves a coffee and wander into Greenwich park still talking, getting to know each other. I take you to the southern corner of the park and we see an area of trees and bushes, we find a path through them and come across the dear enclosure, it's sweet and all, but its not whats on our mind. we sneak back into the trees and find a secluded spot, we start kissing again, and i start feeling all over you, my hands can't get enough of you. you lean against a tree, I then drop to my knees start kissing your thighs, I gradually pull up your skirt and kiss up your thighs, until I come across your beautiful vagina. once again your wet and and tasting sweet, I move the leotard to the side and let myself get to your engorged clit. as i tounge It I start to insurt my finger and search for yous G spot. the exitment gets to you and thrills you once again. i place my other hand on your bum to ensure that you can't get away from my soft relentless tongue. my finger on your Gspot my tongue on your clit no where to go, finally you manage to climax again.

from there we have another wander, we enjoy each others company, eventually make our way to our hotel room, where we crack open something nice to drink. we then both start taking each others clothes off, you get down to your leotard, you look perfect then i take it off to reveal your beautiful breast. i then strech the leoatard over my body, as it the small tight leotard clamps my large body i can feel your Wetness still on the crotch, this, and your beaty arouse me. then I lay you down on the bed face down, i start caressting your lovely body, and i kiss you amazing butt cheeks. I then seperate them, and start tonging you tight little bum hole, I can taste that you've been wallking all day, it's great. i then find your clit again and you love it, my face in your arse and me on your clit, i'm there for a while keeping you engrosed in pleasure. i finally turn you over move the leotard I am now wearing to one side letting my engorged cock drop out. Finally I enter you, i slowly slip into you and its been worth the wait. I bend forward to kiss you and play with your beautiful breasts. as i slowly thrust away I'm playing with your clitoris again. I then let you take control. you ride me, you ride your hands over my leotard clad body. you then come off ad let me cum over your body the relief is glorious.

After we then lay there together in the afterglow, me in the leotard that we both have worn, you in your nude beauty. we buy snacks and chill, every now and then we might fuck and you can sit on my face, we just settle in some kind of obscure kinky sex pit, it's glorious.'

Idealy I would like to meet someone who is willing to explore, but go at a steady pace. hopefully i can find people willing to let me explore my odd kinks. I am happy to explore and go into other peoples addities and twisted kinks, I'm happy to lend myself if you are

Kinky Date18 to 35 years ● 5km around UK, London 5 years ago

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