Hi there,

I’m a 20-year-old sub (she/her), soft but spirited, curious and creative, with a wild little heart that craves calm hands and steady presence. I’m looking for an older Daddy Dom (25+), someone emotionally intelligent, secure in himself, and deeply interested in building a long-term connection rooted in mutual trust, care, structure, and slow-burn romance.

💌 About me:
I’m feminine, nurturing, and playful—a mix of soft giggles and deep conversations. I love creative things like junk journaling and makeup artistry, and I’m the kind of girl who wants to sit at your feet while coloring and listening to music while you read or work. I find safety in gentle dominance and melt for patient discipline, consistency, and affectionate authority. Bonus points if you’re a little poetic or philosophical—I like a man who thinks deeply and leads softly but firmly.

🌹 What I’m looking for:
I want a dynamic that feels like home. One where I can submit not out of , but because I choose to give myself to someone earned it. I’m not looking for casual play or a fantasy inbox dom—I want something real. Age difference is part of the appeal, but maturity, emotional availability, and integrity matter more.

You:

35+ (I’m open to older)

Calm, communicative, protective

Able to offer structure and support without being controlling

Looking for a romantic, long-term D/s dynamic

Ideally monogamous or seriously emotionally focused


Me:

Emotionally honest and loyal

Playful, caring, intuitive

Naturally submissive with bratty tendencies when I’m comfy

Looking for structure, consistency, and emotional depth


If this speaks to you, tell me about yourself—not just what you want from a sub, but what you want for a relationship. Let’s co-create something soft, steady, and sensual—one ritual at a time.


Stella

BDSM Play Partner25 to 50 years ● 55km around USA Atlantic Beach

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