About me:
Retired, 65, out of Cookeville. Married 35 years. Still married, but we’re separating with full honesty and no secrets — that’s non-negotiable for me. She knows I’m here and knows why: she doesn’t share my foot kink, and she’s given me permission to explore it as long as there’s full disclosure, no intimacy beyond feet, and no lies. If you need monogamy or secrecy, I’m not your guy. If you value upfront truth, keep reading.

Off Fetlife, I’m a backpacker with 35 years in Big South Fork and the Smokies. I map trails for fun and draw when I find the time. I can talk USGS topo lines or highly detailed tiger drawing. I'm a sole man — pun intended. Feet are my thing. Always have been.

What I’m looking for:
Women who genuinely enjoy foot worship, massage, pampering, teasing — you know if you do. I’m not here to “convert” anyone. If you love having your feet touched, admired, rubbed, massaged, you’ll be in good hands. 36 years of marriage taught me how to give a slow, sensual massage.

First meet:
Public, always. Coffee or wine + dinner in Cookeville, Sparta, Crossville, Livingston — your call. If we click, a first-rate foot massage is my opening move. Will give a full body massage if you like my touch. No pressure for more. “No intimacy, just foot sex” is the boundary my wife and I agreed on, and I keep my word.

Must know:

  1. DDF & clean — I am and expect the same. Health first.
  2. Discreet & respectful — Small town. We’re both adults, we handle this like adults.
  3. Prefer younger women. I’m 65, retired, stable, married. You be you.
  4. Not into: Financial stuff, fakes, time wasters, **, anyone who wants me to lie to my wife. That’s the one line I won’t cross.

    Last thing:* I’m a real man with a real life. I hike, I make art, I am married and my wife approves as long as there is no romantic relationship. If that + feet sounds good to you, say hi. Tell me what you like. If it’s not a fit, all good — Thanks for reading!

Kinky Date21 to 45 years ● 100km around USA Cookeville

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