Jan 2026
I am in Mexico 🎉 WARM weather and wonderful people!
Looking for kinky friends and a non-sexual service sub and sharing ideas!
Open to coffee dates with anyone 😊

I will not respond to you if you are: not local to me, send a dick pic or looking for cyber.
Seeking service oriented subs for real life service in Pickering Ontario. Also looking for other service sub in Mérida Mexico during winter. . No cybersex. No meet and beat. Long term service only. Suitable for those that feel fulfilled giving service without measuring what they will get in return.

As I seek non sexual interactions with my sub, I am open to male and female subs. Its the control and service that excites me... NOT what is between your legs.

If I get distracted, please do not take offense ... just keep messaging to keep my attention. I never try to ghost. If I am not interested, I will tell you directly. So it's your responsibility to keep in contact. With multiple businesses and in and out of the country, things get hectic lol

I enjoy getting to know you and adapt my service requirements according to your abilities and desires.

In Canada I require my pet to serve in my home, warehouse, computer work, etc. Please read my profile. Available hours are critical. Weekday afternoons only, ex: noon to 5. Suits shift worker, self employed or retired. Typically from noon to five during the week...1 to 2 times a month. You must be 35 years old or older. Not 20, not 28, 34, not 34 3/4 lol

In Mexico, Seeking an English speaking service oriented sub.
Helping me with my Spanish, serving as a translator, shopping, helping me with whatever service I require. In my garden, in my home, foot massages, etc. I am open to any age, as long as mature. I know it's a smaller community here 😊

Not into Mommy or AB play.

For my dedicated personal subs, this is not meet and beat. You must feed me to get time with me... simple. A cookie or fancy dinner lol. My rule since I was young vanilla lol. We go on multiple dates getting to know each other BEFORE any play or service occurs. Be prepared to fill out and slowly discuss a bdsm checklist.
I enjoy CFnm, collar/leash, sensual to medium intensity bdsm play. Optional interests are violet wand, chastity and going to local events... those we can discuss and compromise.
Not looking for sexual service, long distance or sexting.
I am married to a kinkster and I am looking for a casual play partner only. You will not submit to or in the presence of my husband.
Are you seeking a long term play partner, submission to a mature realistic Domme, friendship and serving a Mistress... Message me.

BDSM Play Partner50km around Mexico Mérida

Black Male Dominant seeking Submissive Female for eventual Long Term Relationship / living together as a D/S couple.

I have a high sex drive and stamina, and am seeking a genuine female who is similarly highly sexed and kinky. Your colour is irrelevant to me.

One-night-stands and No-strings encounters are great and I'm more than happy to partake, however, I find that the sex and the kink always get much better the longer you get to know and crucially, LEARN about them. Hence the interest in getting into a long-term relationship.

I'm stockily built and weigh in at approx 14st 7lbs.

Although I'm 59, I do not look it - no wrinkles - this is both a blessing and a curse depending on the scenario I happen to be in. Like the saying goes, "Black Don't Crack" LOL.

I do not switch, and I have no interest in doing things with other men apart from sharing a woman who has agreed to CONSENSUAL (CNC) of herself - MFM.

I can travel or accommodate.

I do not have a face profile, but happy to send my face pictures to anyone I engage with.

I'm also happy to converse over video mediums such as WhatsApp, Skype, Zoom, etc, etc. This way, YOU can see that I'm real and I can see that YOU are too.

After a couple of virtual meets though, I would prefer to meet in real life, obviously, once the female feels comfortable to do so after our video conversations. It is only then, after we've physically met a few times, that we can really determine if there will be any long term future, or whether for us, it's just short term fun.

I will not participate in endless
s and chats, as the goal is to actually meet, and if I feel that's the route our fledgling relationship is taking, I will terminate it.

Unfortunately, there are too many fantasists, fakers and pros masquerading as real kinksters, and it takes time to weed out other genuine souls like myself.


There is more to being a Dom than just whack-and-go!

Genuine females, please feel free to ask any questions.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 62 years ● 100km around UK Wolverhampton

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Non-monogamists break with the societal tradition of having just one partner at a time. They will prefer to be in an open relationship. They can be called polyamorous. They don’t see sex or kink as something to keep between themselves and just one other person. They can have several partners at once, these can be just for play or more serious relationships. Every non-monogamist will have different approaches to non-monogamy. Polyamorists will have, or look to be in, more than one relationship. These will be more than play and sex, and involve a romantic and/or intimate aspect. Swingers may be married or in a committed relationship with one person but they will indulge in kink or sexual play with other people too. Swingers can be single, it’s not all about wife-swapping. Anyone not in a monogamous relationship can be referred as polyamorous. Non-monogamists can indulge in all kinds of fetishes and kink play. They can be Dominant, submissive or switch if they’re into BDSM. They will rarely be slaves as devotion to one Master or Mistress doesn’t come easy to them. However, they might work well in a relationship with multiple slaves and one or more Dominant partner.