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An ideal playdate for us begins well before we ever meet in person.

We value thoughtful pre-date planning with someone who is collaborative, communicative, and respectful. We want to talk through interests, limits, consent frameworks, and logistics together in advance. During planning, we expect mutual input—but once a scene begins, we are looking for someone who is comfortable deferring to me as the dominant partner and final decision-maker.

Structure & Energy

Clear negotiation beforehand; no assumptions

Defined roles, expectations, and boundaries

A shared understanding that power exchange is intentional and consensual

Comfort engaging with both of us as a couple, not separately


During the Scene

I take the lead and direct the scene. The ideal partner is someone who:

-Is eager to participate within a power structure where I am in control

-Is attentive, responsive, and grounded

-Can stay present and adaptive while following direction


My wife enjoys intense, consensual roleplay centered on submission and captivity themes, which are always negotiated ahead of time. These may include:

-Captive or ownership-style dynamics (e.g., caging, collaring, restraint as symbols of control)

-Heavy impact play, within agreed limits

-Verbal and that reins her femininity
(gender-affirming language only; demeaning terms used intentionally and consensually, never dysphoric)

-Clear consequences or punishments for disobedience, as discussed in advance


Some interests—such as bottom play—require very thorough prior discussion and are never assumed.


Care & After

Strong attention to aftercare for everyone involved

Emotional check-ins and accountability

Space to decompress, reconnect, and communicate


What Matters Most

We are looking for someone who understands that:

CNC is a negotiated fantasy, not a license

Consent is ongoing and revocable

is intentional, specific, and affirming—not careless

Trust is built through communication, patience, and respect


Chemistry matters—but compatibility, emotional intelligence, and respect for our dynamic matter more.


Please read our bio before sending me a DM

Show me you can be me good girl and I'll reward you with cuddles. If you're bad then you're getting punished.

I’m m 22 and just want a JOI from a women can be over call or text just wanna try it out also down for some femdom as well

Greetings,
I appreciate those patient enough to read my ad fully, as I write this completely sincerely.

I sit here in my room, post Christmas celebration with friends and chosen family. I'm sober, not horny, and have a sense of clarity after a deep conversation with a dear friend.

I'm 5 years into my transition, 5 years of wild experiences and learning to love every aspect of myself, even the hard to love parts. I'm sick of mulling over and debating the ramifications vs rewards of what I truly want, I have a near-complete understanding of who I am and what I want, and I feel good about taking the next steps into what I want and who I want to be.

I crave submission in the aspect of being able to follow someone's instructions and requests to a T.

I was recently told, in a completely vanilla snd non-sexual context, to find something nice to wear and show up at an address. It felt natural to follow orders without thinking about it. Partially because I trust the person completely, partially because I find great purpose in serving.

So let me serve you.

I can cook, clean, create, and run errands. I will learn to please you in all the ways you enjoy, and take notes of what makes you especially happy, whether it be the way you like your coffee or a particular way you like being touched.

I'm searching for a Dominant person (or persons if the vibe is right) with a genuine desire for a long-term, subservient submissive.
I'm asking that you treat me well, are firm, kind, creative, and stable, and enjoy kink as much as I do. A mentor or guardian role is welcome, but not necessary. I'm not looking for equality here.

Kink is something that's becoming more important to me as I consider what I want out of a relationship.
I crave the general D/s vibes, but have specifics that I would like to have be aspects of our relationship. These include:

Bondage (from tied wrists to full binding suits)
Chastity (it simultaneously makes me calmer and hornier)
A ruleset and reward//punishment system
Clear communication
Aftercare for all parties
Free Use (within the agreements of the relationship)
Uniforms or other clothes/gear marking me in a role
Mutual fantasy fulfillment
In 2026, I have goals of self-care, self-love, and modifying my body, wardrobe, and lifestyle to match who I am. Help and cheerleading will be more than welcome in my goals, and I hope to give the same to you!

If you've gotten this far and are interested, feel free to shoot me a message request. Please be open, write with intent, and be clear and sure about what you want and who you are.
Thank you for your consideration. 🩷

We are couple (( husband dom , wife submissive cuckquean)) seeking a extra play mate for nothing overly committed fun.

Can be pure ff or FM with wife watching (( with only brief oral from my wife as requirement ))

Only Scotland (( prefer highlands area ))

We are into bondage ( collecting ropes ) and plenty of interesting toy.

DM open

A Sub that is bratty. Local. Someone that wants a dom that will worship every inch of your body. Kiss, bite, and smack. I’m moderately rough but if your slim be warned!! I prefer curves and a soft woman that can handle me. Lots of foreplay and aftercare.

Just want a dom who can fulfill my needs and I’ll do wtv

Looking to meet fun and adventurous open minded

Do you want to explore your little side, or relax in your established little space? Cause I do, and it's always more fun with a friend! Reality can wear on you and sometimes an escape is just what the doctor ordered!

I love to play big bro, little bro, babysitter, daddy... or we can just hang out and enjoy our mutual interest. I host and offer a clean, discreet, safe place to hang without any pressure or expectations. Call it a play date! Cartoons, coloring, juice boxes, general silliness... wear your favorite dips... maybe trade for one that you haven't tried before , or slip into a pair of pull-ups (I have a sizable stash of different sizes and styles to avoid sleepover accidents!).


I'm not explicitly seeking anything sexual, but if the vibe is right (and consensual) I'm happy to see where things go.

Are you looking for someone who will tease, spoil, and put you in your place? Someone to dominate you and make you beg?
Me and my Girlfriend are looking for a third to play with. Both open to nsa and permanent roles (only if you beg nicely)
Ive already broken in one, I bet I can break you in too.
Looking for someone I can spoil on a date, take home, and ruin. I want to be your god.

I am looking for a dominant, well kept, and knowledgeable older male who has a desire to teach their wisdom in the world of kink. I can be shy and my new years goals are to fully come into my body and my senses. Complete exploration of the self.

This is not a hook up ad or an offer for a one night stand, I crave a dynamic that gets built through trust and respect.

Real, virtuous messages only.

Must be queer or at least open to play with individuals who don’t line up with a binary gender performance.

I need a slut who I can just make my toy for the night. Just make you submit to me. HMU if that can be you

Hello. I'm a 29 year old female located in Arkadelphia, Arkansas who's looking for a sweet baby boy to love and care for. I've been into ABDL as long as I can remember. I've usually been the baby but I'm really wanting to try my hand at being a Mommy and explore my maternal side. I can be a loving, caring Mommy or a strict Mommy. I'm very much into the ness aspect of ABDL as well as but nothing too extreme. I definitely want a baby who likes nursing though I cannot produce milk. I have my own apartment and other ABDL supplies as well.

I'm also looking for someone to play out my mental regression fantasy. You'll be nothing but a baby. You can't walk, only crawling, being bottle and breastfed, cuddled and cared for like an actual infant. I want a baby who's willing to completely fill his diapers for Mommy like a good boy. I'm not above using enemas/laxatives to help baby go. You will also be fed baby food as well, and don't be afraid to get messy. I expect you to whine, fuss and cry like a baby, babbling, cooing and gurgling are expected too. Bonus if you can make yourself drool everywhere too.


I'm open to roleplay via Snap or Discord on video before we meet. I'm usually free on weekends. I cannot drive unfortunately, so baby will have to come to me. If anyone is interested or has questions, feel free to message me. I ask that you be local...

Looking for a fellow woman for a weekly or fortnightly session where I can practice knots and ties. Nothing sexual, just fun and playful learning. Starting from mid Feb (as my housemate will then have left). We can meet for drinks first to see if there is a click. Leith area.

Merry Christmas hope you’ve been naughty so I can give you this 🍆 to put you in your place 😏

I want to meet an older women who can dominate me, i want a rough fuck

SWM, 75, looking for girls of any legal age for D/s age play. Includes spanking, restraints, and being played with. I can host. Be a good little girl and respond as you are told.

Laid back guy and got my own place so I don’t mind hosting. Looking for someone chill and that I can talk and have a good time with

I'm horny as fuck and in drug recovery so I need sex

For starters, I'm a 19 year old from Twin Falls, and I'm very new to the kink community and am not super experienced with sexual stuff. I'm generally a super open book on trying things, and I want to try just about everything I possibly can. I'm looking for someone (Ideally a woman, but I'm open to couples as well), who would want to talk and maybe get together to see if we click, and if we do then we could explore things together. I'd prefer someone who I could consistently get together with, and I am willing to travel, as I'm unable to host, but it would have to somewhere within an hour or so of twin if it's going to be happening often. I don't really have any preferences on looks, really all that I want is someone who is interested in me and open to exploring things with me. Some of the big things I'm currently looking to explore is D/S Play (both sides of it as I'm a switch who leans a bit more to the dominant side), Brat Play, Bondage, and possibly freeuse or CNC on the more extreme side of things. I'm someone who generally prefers to focus on their partners pleasure over their own, and I'm someone who loves giving oral a lot. As for me as a person, I'm a fairly laid back and easy going guy once I warm up to people. I'm generally a very introverted person so it can take me a second to warm up to you, and I'll definitely be nervous upon first meeting you. I eventually will warm up to you, and I'm generally super open and honest with things upon getting comfortable with somebody. I love watching movies, going on walks, and playing video games. If you want to see what I look like, I've got some pics and vids on my profile, but if you want to see more message me and I'll gladly send you more. Sorry if this is a bit long winded lol, but anyways I'd love meet some new people, make some new friends, and find someone to explore the kinkier side of life with. Please, if you are interested at all please message me and we can see if we might connect.