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light cbt, joi, orgasm control,following instruction sexual or non sexual and sph but I'm not small small but I still enjoy it and I like the Idea of chastity but I've never done it before

I’m a novice switch, but realising more and more that I have more submissive tendencies. For this reason, I am seeking a young Domme who can teach me how to effectively serve them as my mistress. I have discovered the wonders of being pegged, which is a personal favourite reward of mine. I love eating my mistresses ass AND pussy, being smothered, gagged, being in chastity and the idea of being heavily restrained while mistress does as she pleases with me.
If this seems like something you wish to help with, please get in touch.
Please remember that I am relatively new to being a submissive.

Looking for a Femdom for sessions and to see where things go like bondage, mummification, rope, chastity to an extent is willing to try almost anything at least one time. Weekends are normally free time

Herts, UK, self-locked, male submissive looking to serve & suffer from your whims - I am experienced & service orientated and love
amusing and pleasing dominant women who appreciate the benefits of a FLR and to make them laugh out loud - service - tease & denial - *** - serving in chastity - CFNM including nude (but for chastity device) house boy chores - CBT - foot worship - Gorean femdom - mock sympathy - food play

on the non-subby side of things I enjoy great coffee, football, reading, sci fi, cats (though not got one), time with friends, beer, cooking, travelling, exploring, walking, tennis, squash, cards, music, gigs, eating out and hopefully lots of things I haven't tried yet!

I am here to find my dominant. Either a man or a woman that would sissify me, keep me in chastity and plugged, cuckold me if that's what is required. I desperately would like some training to be the best little bitch I can be.

I'm a big submissive that is looking for a dom to own me and be their slave. I liked to be used and ***. I would like a very strict and powerful dom to command me and have control over me. I also want to feel safe around my dom.
I'm into rope play, Sissification, bondage, chastity, toys, whipping and possibly more.

A worthless pathetic sub can dream to be able to serve his Mistress and obey Her always and his primary goal to please Her and the best way to so is to obey Her at all times. My deepest and darkest fantasy is to be in chastity for so long that I realize what it is to have a dicklet which is as useless as myself and how a dicklet is of a worthless slut is of no use just like him. After being caged daily for months and eating food like a dog in a pet plate while being caged and drinking water from a bowl while I'm caged, I dream of a night when I'm blindfolded teased and humiliated by my Mistress then pegged for so long that I can't even try to keep my ass like a dog and then My Mistress opens the cage and uncuffs me and pulls me out with the leash humiliating me and spitting on me and then releases golden fluid on me just like a blessed shower and remove my blindfold and when I look up I find her friends laughing at me kicking spitting and humiliating me while the flog and spank me for being a worthless pathetic slut. And everyone takes a round of pegging me and fucking my pathetic mouth and finally taking me back to the cage.

HI, I'm new to being a sub for a dominatrix but I'm looking for someone to dominate me and have me do whatever they say in an online relationship.

Kinks: Bondage, ***, Anal, Chastity, breath play, Dom/Sub

Hey I'm 41 looking for a local domme to keep me in chastity forever and have real time sessions

Dominant mistress to serve and obey needs training in obedience and servitude and punishment as required by my mistress also take on the daily tasks as demanded also wear my maids outfits and panties also a collar and chastity cage

Hello hello I am Kevin from the Netherlands a real music freak always with his headphones and longboard.
I just got a new chastity and its my favorite thing now I guess.
Looking for a top some what dominant lady that wants some fun or mabey more who knows

I am seeking for a Dominant female who likes to keep a guy locked in chastity, tied up + dress code/uniform

I'm a submissive Asian (more specifically Chinese) guy from Sydney Australia. I've been interested in the whole femdom area/topic for about 3-4 years now and would love to commit to a FLR, preferably in person, or otherwise an online arrangement can work also. A bit about me:

I'm currently 22 years old. In terms of my kinks, I'm interested in chastity, orgasm denial, teasing, edging, strapon-anal (receiving), bondage, cunnilingus being the main ones with some others along the side. My limits include findom, scat, ***.

Within an FLR relationship, I think the ideal theme is to allow the girlfriend/wife feel COMFORTABLE and of course empowered. The last thing I would want is to make my domme feel pressured to maintain a dominant composure without enjoying it. As a couple, during the early stages we can learn about each other's limits, expectations and adjust accordingly to have a consensual exchange of power that allows you to feel like a princess/queen, while I learn more about the main, and even smaller things I can do in our relationship to satisfy your desires and meet the expectations that you have bestowed upon me.

An idea of me outside of the kink/femdom domain:

For work I'm a technical consultant, specialising within the Azure cloud space. I work for a company that is a Microsoft Partner I'm loving my job after understanding the expansive capabilities that can be offered by cloud solutions In the future I aspire to fulfill the role of a principal consultant within the cloud space, or other domains that have massive technological influence (namely big data, AI and Machine Learning).

I would consider myself fairly ambitious, sporty and outgoing. In terms of sports and exercise, my favourite at the moment is long distance running (Ran the Blackmore marathon , swimming and weights. Completing a 100km super marathon and an Ironman Triathlon are two major fitness related bucket list goals that I'm working hard on achieving right now. Outside of sports, I like to read, listen to music (primarily Asian music, chillstep etc.). When hanging out with friends I like eating out, going to karaoke, picnics, hiking and so forth.

I'm not the kind of person who indulges in alcohol drinking much at all, primarily for health reasons and also to the fact that I can't handle my alcohol for shit, so hope that's not an issue to you :p

In terms of what I'm looking for in a domme:

I'm expecting a slow, gentle and easy start into the femdom aspect within the relationship. This will give us time to really understand each other on a deeper level. It will also allow me time to adjust into the sub that fits with your expectations.

Therefore, I'm totally ok with a domme/mistress figure who's inexperienced or simply just curious to test things out. I'd much prefer that than a full on hardcore domination experience right from the start.

Honesty is also highly valued. If there are certain things within the femdom scene that you find uncomfortable, or want to try out, I expect you to speak up, and you should expect me to listen so we can have a proper discussion together on the expectations and limits.

The femdom aspects also needn't only exist within the sex scene. The idea is to make you feel comfortable as the leader within the relationship!

In terms of age preference, 18-30 would be ideal. I'd prefer to be with someone of similar age as me. It would also be good if you have similar interests as me so we have other things to talk and do together outside of purely the femdom aspect alone. Being Asian would also be a plus

If this is something that interests you, or you simply want to discuss together in a bit more detail before considering it (those new to femdom, or don't know what it is exactly), feel free to message me so we can discuss it in more detail

PS. I'd be willing to exchange pictures of Snapchat during the early stages of communication before connecting through other social medium platforms.

I am an attractive female with pictures to share to the right person. I have no issue verifying that I am a true female.I'm looking for a Domme to serve and to learn from but to also become my friend. I have a wide range of interests from chastity to most recently lactation. I am in search of a Domme who can entice and develop my mind, body and soul into a submission of beauty.

I'm a switch, mostly straight but really curious about submitting to or dominating a man.

Fantasies include chastity play, bondage, leather, latex and many more.

I'm very friendly and approachable, so let's chat.

I'm purely submissive in every regard, and I'm addicted to Pegging!!! I want to be the live in slave to a strong Domme Goddess, that is willing to pound my boi pussy, with a massive Strapon, that no man could ever use!!!! I also love CBT, Chastity, Bdsm, and being on camera!!!!!

Looking for a lady to serve that will control what access I have to my cock.
I do not seek an online ‘commercial’ relationship but of course realise that right now online is the only option. When we come out the other side O do want the pleasure of serving the lady in person so realistically they need to be somewhere close ish. CIS, trans, single or attached ladies welcome.

Meeting is on hold until they have a vaccine for Covid-19, although I am willing to msg and chat on the phone until then.

I have 36 years of experience, almost 15 of those (so far) in a 24/7 TPE marriage.

I am not now and never have been a Pro. Those who use pros have the wrong skill set to serve me.

We are now looking for houseboy or maid. I am uninterested in forcing crossdressing, though am fine with and enjoy you crossdressing and feminizing yourself. I am open to once a week to bimonthly. If you fit in well, we could discuss more. There is the possibility of light play- mostly CBT and/or spanking, scratching and flogging. We can discuss other forms of play. What I will NOT do with you is anal penetration strap-on, or bring you to orgasm. I will not watch you bring yourself to orgasm.

I am am realizing I am in the mood for a masochist. If I find one who fits my desires I may be up for dinner (including my sub hub. NOTHING is done behind his back) once Covid-19 is quiet! LOCAL ONLY! NO EXCEPTIONS! Local means within an hour of Long Beach CA. I am uninterested in travelers. Photos will be taken of all play times. You may wear a mask and cover any identifying marks, scars or tattoos.

While I am willing to exchange mails with people and be friends, you won't get me to slide into cyber domination of you. I live with the real thing. What would I get out of online?

Now that I am married, I am sexually monogamous. My husband, Beach's toyboy is my collared sub; providing for all my sexual needs and most of my BDSM needs.

Intelligent, creative and a touch sadistic. I first started showing dominant sexual behavior at 17, when I talked a boyfriend into cross dressing. I only realized that the things I did (bondage, hair pulling, biting, tease and deny, spanking, manipulation, queening, cross dressing and CBT) were part of a "lifestyle." in 2000.

I'm a strong believer in SSC (Safe, Sane and Consensual) play, but also respect RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) if the people are truly aware of the risks involved. We used to be active in the So Cal scene and went to munches, dungeons and events. We haven't been to a munch in five years and we are out of touch with the local scene.

Physically, I'm 5'6", a SSBBW (a large woman), with light brown long straight hair and hazel eyes. I was born in late March- typical Aries, and have a maternal streak, as well as being sadistic. I love whispering sweet nothings in my subs ear while I hurt them, or cuddling and soothing them after a long session. The maternal streak also means I feel very protective of my subs, and protective of subs in general.

My favorite forms of play:
-CBT I am all about enjoying a penis in my own, special way!
-/Sadism/masochism - I'm a bit of a sadist and loooove the screams a sub makes when taking consensual for me.
-clothespins -I seem to have a slight fetish on that front..
-flogging/whipping/caning
-spanking/paddling
-tease and deny
-being pampered by my sub - including washing my hair, waiting on me, opening and holding doors, making me tea, cooking, cleaning, laundry and such.
-photographing my sub at "play"

MY hard limits:
-illegal /alcohol by either party in session - I want all of my and my sub's senses functioning normally. I don't want something masking a problem.
-gags - I have allergies, and am made uncomfortable by the thought of restricted breathing
-bathroom functions - just flat out ewww.
- - small amounts like from a play piercing is ok, but in any larger quantity, it belongs INSIDE the body.
-anything that might cause a medical emergency- such as asphyxiaphilia or edge play. I have no desire to try explaining how something ended up there to a doctor or paramedic.
-illegal acts.

My secondary interests are hair worship (stroke my hair correctly, I'm a happy Woman), having errands run & chores done, having custom toys made, chastity, watching cross dressing, sensation play, sensory deprivation and more. I also have a visual media fetish and enjoy photographing BDSM play and California landscapes

Vanilla likes: reading, collecting signed first edition books, Sims3, Spore, ocean stuff, movies, chatting, theater, museums, good conversations, dining out, crochet, friends, aquariums, cats

Hi I am a sub/switch male from Canada and I am offering free chastity keyholding for anyone who may be interested.

I am offering online /long distance chastity keyholding using the free app Chastikey (more about that below of your unfamiliar with it)

About me:
I am a primarily submissive switch, but for this particular ad I am seeking only to fulfill my dominant side and would not be switching with you, just know that I also submit and answer to my dominant and would not be switching with or submitting with you.

This can be entirely anonymous or you can share photos / videos if you like, but it's not expected. I will not show my face, so I will be somewhat anonymous, so if you want to remain anonymous as well that is fine.

I am also locked in chastity and have a keyholder as well
(she is aware that I am offering keyholding and is fine with it if that concerns you.)

I use an app called Chastikey for iOS and Android that allows for remote keyholding using a programmable combination safe. you can use Realtor key boxes as well as long as the combination can be set and reset. You can get them starting around $20 CAD on Amazon.

To use the app you just need to load the lock I give you, put your key in the safe after locking on your device, then set your safe/lock box to the combination the app tells you. the app will help you forget the combination, then you are locked and I control when you can have the code, essentially holding your keys remotely.

just to clarify
You need:

• your own chastity device with lock and keys
• an iOS or Android device compatible with the Chastikey app
• a lock box or safe with a programmable combination lock
• a Discord, kik messenger, or other means of communication that is not social media or phone/text.