BDSM/Fetish Family18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Sturgis

Hi, I’m a 22 year old college student in San Antonio, Texas. I’m 5’4, currently around 175 lbs, and I’ve just started working out because I really want to develop a softer, more feminine figure over time.

I’m a complete virgin and total beginner in all of this. My only experience ever is lightly kissing and fingering a girl once years ago. Nothing else. For a while now I’ve been fantasizing about a kind, patient Mistress slowly turning me into her pretty sissy girl, guiding me gently from a total blank slate.

Because I live with my parents, everything has to start completely online and discreet (messages, tasks, voice notes, maybe video when I can get privacy). I’m naturally very shy and awkward, especially when talking, so I’ll probably be blunt, quiet, or say things weirdly at first. I might stumble over words or not know what to say, but with patience and kindness I open up, and I’m very loyal and consistent once I feel safe.

I’m looking for a real long-term dynamic where you take ownership and help mold me step by step. That could mean workout and diet tips, hypno suggestions, chastity guidance, voice and mannerism practice, and especially help with clothes, makeup, toys, etc. when I’m able to get them again (my parents found and tossed the few things I had, so I’m truly starting from zero). My goal for 2026 is to become at least somewhat passable and finally take my first cock with your guidance.

I have literally no right now for tributes or to buy anything myself (college and living at home), so I can only do this with a Mistress who is okay with that and would be willing to fund parts of my feminization herself because she enjoys the process and wants to see me transform into her girl.

The vibe has to stay gentle and supportive. Light playful teasing is fine if it’s sweet, but please no mean, cruel, or heavy
, no ***, whipping, or anything that feels scary. I want this journey to feel safe, exciting, and caring.

If you love the idea of patiently shaping a nervous, broke, blank-canvas boy into your proud sissy (and helping make it actually happen by funding the clothes/toys/etc.), I’d be so grateful to hear from you. Thank you for reading.

Pro-Dom/me Session18 to 35 years ● 60km around USA San Antonio

Greetings,
I appreciate those patient enough to read my ad fully, as I write this completely sincerely.

I sit here in my room, post Christmas celebration with friends and chosen family. I'm sober, not horny, and have a sense of clarity after a deep conversation with a dear friend.

I'm 5 years into my transition, 5 years of wild experiences and learning to love every aspect of myself, even the hard to love parts. I'm sick of mulling over and debating the ramifications vs rewards of what I truly want, I have a near-complete understanding of who I am and what I want, and I feel good about taking the next steps into what I want and who I want to be.

I crave submission in the aspect of being able to follow someone's instructions and requests to a T.

I was recently told, in a completely vanilla snd non-sexual context, to find something nice to wear and show up at an address. It felt natural to follow orders without thinking about it. Partially because I trust the person completely, partially because I find great purpose in serving.

So let me serve you.

I can cook, clean, create, and run errands. I will learn to please you in all the ways you enjoy, and take notes of what makes you especially happy, whether it be the way you like your coffee or a particular way you like being touched.

I'm searching for a Dominant person (or persons if the vibe is right) with a genuine desire for a long-term, subservient submissive.
I'm asking that you treat me well, are firm, kind, creative, and stable, and enjoy kink as much as I do. A mentor or guardian role is welcome, but not necessary. I'm not looking for equality here.

Kink is something that's becoming more important to me as I consider what I want out of a relationship.
I crave the general D/s vibes, but have specifics that I would like to have be aspects of our relationship. These include:

Bondage (from tied wrists to full binding suits)
Chastity (it simultaneously makes me calmer and hornier)
A ruleset and reward//punishment system
Clear communication
Aftercare for all parties
Free Use (within the agreements of the relationship)
Uniforms or other clothes/gear marking me in a role
Mutual fantasy fulfillment
In 2026, I have goals of self-care, self-love, and modifying my body, wardrobe, and lifestyle to match who I am. Help and cheerleading will be more than welcome in my goals, and I hope to give the same to you!

If you've gotten this far and are interested, feel free to shoot me a message request. :) Please be open, write with intent, and be clear and sure about what you want and who you are.
Thank you for your consideration. 🩷

BDSM Play Partner29 to 54 years ● 95km around USA Santa Rosa

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