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ENM & kinky, seeking meaningful connections & shared pleasures of all kinds


THE LONGER VERSION:


I AM...

• ENM (solo-poly)

• A soft/gentle pleasure dominant

• Unconventional, creative, colourful, communicative, enthusiastic, thoughtful & caring

• Rather tall - usually 6ft2, or 6ft4+ in my goth boots!


I LOVE...

• To create & photograph, devour, explore, experience and share pleasures & adventures of all kinds with partners & friends

• Immersive experiences, art exhibitions, shows & gigs, festivals, holidays, dinners & drinks

• Partying at Garden, Club Antichrist, Slimelight, German Fetish Ball, etc


I'M INTO...

• Teasing & edging, especially with toys, I have LOTS of toys!

• Dirty talk, giving praise,
, objectification

• Light restraints

• DP, threesomes & moresomes

• Latex & fishnet

• Public play


I'M HERE FOR...

• Someone who's ENM, intelligent, playful, curious and likes to stand out not blend in

• Fun dates, a meaningful connection, shared passions & mutual pleasures

• At least FWB, preferably more

• Ideally nearby but I'm happy to travel to see each other if you are, and I can always host (homeowner)


PHOTOGRAPHY...

• I'm also a photographer of the London & international fetish scene

• I'm seeking a muse / creative collaborator so if you're a model or content creator (or would like to be) then so much the better, but it's not essential.


NO...

• Smokers

• Tories

• Zionists

BDSM Play Partner25 to 40 years ● 10km around UK, London 2 weeks ago

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